lower_bucks_bottom

Total for Feb is; 15 anal 5 oral 2 anal given making yearly totals of 30 anal 16 oral 2 anal given

Monthly total for Jan is 15 in my ass, 11 in my mouth and none given

Club Philly has their orgy rooms in the basement and top floor, good places to start.

Hi, Can you change my screen name to lower_bucks_bottom, which is what I use everywhere else. Thanks

I would consider a CD4 count of 350 to meet your criteria and go on meds.

Do you not want those drugs on priciple, or because of the side effects? If it is because of the side effects you should know that the modern drugs have very mild to no side effects. I take Isentress and Truvada and have 0 side effects. My Dr refers to Isentress as a drug in search of a side effect.

If exBF2 is already getting tested and should test poz, he'll figure it out on his own. I would only say something if asked directly.

My first breeding experience was before HIV when everyone always barebacked, so maybe it doesn't count, but... I was 30 and had never been fucked. I had been to a few baths and had sucked some guys off, but only made one attempt at being fucked and that was unsuccessful. I rented a house for a week in Branegat Light on the Jersey shore. I was hoping to meet someone and I brought a couple of dildos to practice with . I was at the beach in my Speedo body surfing and I noticed a couple of guys, also in Speedos, body surfing near me and being more successful at it then I was, so I went closer to them and started jumping into waves at the same time they did. After a while one of them started talking to me and I mentioned where I was staying. Later we went our separate ways. That evening one of the local TV stations was showing Boys in the Band. I had never seen it and my father had actually worked on the set (he did the tile floor in the bathroom), so I sat down to watch it when there was a knock on the door. It was my friend from the beach. I invited him in and told what I was watching and told him "I had a connection to it" meaning my father, but I think he interpreted it a different way . After a little while he started rubbing my leg and the next thing we were in the bedroom. I told him I wanted to be fucked and I even showed him the dildos. Then I got on my back with my legs in the air and he slowly penetrated my ass. He was ~7" not too thick and he was very gentle,but after a while I started to get a little sore, it was my first time, and I told him I was ready to cum. He asked if I wanted him to cum inside and I said yes, so he started to pump harder and faster and then he started to moan and bred my ass. After that he stayed over and in the middle of the night he woke up and sucked me off. We didn't exchange numbers and I never saw him again, but maybe if he reads this he'll ping me That trip was also the first time I topped also, but that is a much less interesting story

First I was NOT chasing. I am a bit, well more then a bit, of a hypochondriac so I was always deathly afraid of getting HIV and I NEVER barebacked. But I loved to suck and swallow and probably got it that way. Now, I admit, I do bareback and love it, but I am still a hypochondriac and so I still live in fear of getting a resistant strain, or something else.

Every so often I will get mild heart burn. More common is some guys cum gives me the runs. But for the most part it has no side effects.

I have a guy that regularly fucks me. 5 loads in 10 minutes is the record. I usually get 3-4. He never gets soft or takes it out until the end.

Ass or hole. I don't like cunt or pussy. If he wants those, I am the wrong place to look.

Turned 60 in June

Just as I was reading this thread I got a message from a guy on A4A asking if I wanted to fuck him raw (I list my self as poz and anything goes). I checked his listing and it said "safer only" and HIV negative. So I pointed out the disconnect between his listing and his request. His response was that all he saw was the picture of my cock and didn't notice the poz part. So right there; safer only, but looking for raw cock.

I would be weary of him because he was dating you while in a "monogamous" relationship

I regularly see a guy that will cum 3-4 time in my ass in 30 minutes

Never get bored sucking a guys cock. I will suck until he feeds me and then, if he lets, I'll just keep it in my mouth until he gets bored. I have one guy who I will suck off and then I will just keep sucking for 10-15 minutes. Other guys I can get another load out of. Never get bored.

same thing always happens with me. I just gave up. I'll join a group if someone else is setting it up, and no I don't say I'll come if only if other guys will

Was 185k in Feb when I was first tested after diagnosis. Started on Atripla, but couldn't take the depression and other side effects, so switched to Truvada and Isentress. Last test was in mid march and was 232. Following that trajectory I am hoping I am undetectable now, but won't know until late April when I get tested again.

Just because I am a bottom it doesn't make me less of a person to the top. To me it is a partnership and we as bringing pleasure to each other, each playing our role. To me a top that thinks he is better then I am because he is the top is just someone that is uncomfortable with his sexuality and wants to prove that he is the "real" man and it is the bottom that is the pussy boy.

AlwaysOpen: I don't know what meds you are on, but I was on Atripla and am now on Truvada and Isentress and in all cases I was able to go to their web sites and get a "copay assistance" card that paid my co pay up to $200 a month or $2300 a year. So between my insurance and these cards I pay nothing. This might be a way for you to save that $200 every 3 months.

Practice, practice, practice

Regret is not the right word. I did not want to be poz and I tried to only do things I thought were safe, but I got pozzed anyway. I wish I wan't, but as they say, it is what it is, and I have to deal with it. It is liberating in a way, I feel more open to guys barebacking me, although I still ask their status and whether they are on med. On the other hand my partner of 17 years is now afraid to have sex with me. He does, but I can see how afraid he is and it effects his performance. It used to be that he was the only one that barebacked me and everyone else used a rubber, now it is the opposite. I am on my second set of meds, the first didn't work out for me, and they are side effect free. They are very expensive and while I have insurance that pays for it I was looking to retire in a few years and now I have to reassess that. So I don't regret it since it was thrust upon me rather then my seeking it out, but I wish it wasn't so.

Not so much not slutting as ever since I was young I found I needed to take one day a week off from cuming.