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Sounds like the top finds it hard to focus and build rhythm? Maybe concern about reading the bottom being OK or not? Probably depends on the capability of the bottom and being pre-open for a session? I would have thought it would be a great power trip, especially for a Dom top? Bottoms seem to like the chariot action though. As primarily a bottom, I think I'll have to bucket list this...but make sure the top knows my comfort zone first.
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For the unfamiliar, here is a video to spur conversation - [think before following links] https://x.com/Tyson0213/status/1712395903913578558?t=eMdvWUBELG2sZD5E4p07Wg&s=19
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Who here has done a chariot race? Any pointers? I'm finding it increasingly hot to think about and maybe it may be a bucket list item.
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An update after several months work.
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Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
@DFWbbPIG Good item. Something I'll have to try sometime once open. Seems the color adds to the attraction, right? -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
So, I had an excellent session last night using two of the items I mentioned before. Let me explain. I used a unique set of Air Jordans called stash . The reason these made the scene is they have pockets where I put poppers, lube, etc into. Anyway, I walked in with my partner looking like a skater wearing the AJ stash and baggy jeans. My partner immediately bent me over and after pulling the jeans down saw my Harness was holding a plug inside. After he was surprised with that, he saw the AJs and asked what's this? I showed him the pockets of poppers and lube and said I was ready to be whored out. Made for a nice scene of non-sexual stuff being used sexually and led to some great play. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
@Njn0mc The scene on the floor and with rubber sounds interesting. I've never tried enemas but that would be different, especially a coffee one. Coffee as a scene enhancer is different too. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
@badjujuboy Several of my fetishes came about in a similar way to yours, it seems. The feel of certain objects enveloped me and spurred me to try more and more. Some stuck, and some evolved into new things. @TommiVirgin Catheter and milking machine are ones I could see sexually... Even though most outside this site probably wouldn't. Since being a teenager, I've had an image of those same objects used along with electrostim to create a scene. I'd love to read a sci-fi slant on this, because it would probably go into some interesting places...and make for good headspace during playtime. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
@badjujuboy You bring an interesting object I never would have thought of. You mentioned the weight and good memories. Is the weight like power or being virile in your mind? -
Most people have "type(s) of play" they identify with or a "type" of partner they want. Instead of thinking of those things, I'm curious if there are particular inanimate objects you envision in an ideal scene (real or fantasy scene)? I'm especially referring to inanimate objects that are not usually sexual ordinarily... but are for you. How/why do these particular inanimate items help to get you off or complete the ideal scene for you? I'll list a some to start the discussion and add more as I can. * Baggy/saggy Jeans - I use them to hide when plugged these days. In my adolescence I used to think it was useful to hide big hard ons. * Boxing gloves - I used before for jerk off. Now fantasize about using for fisting. Example [think before following links] https://xhamster.com/videos/max-wide-com-takes-whole-boxing-glove-in-hus-megahole-xhQ2Y8t " Shoes - There is something about certain shoes that gets me going. Usually it's red or black Air Jordans for some reason. Something about it setting the ideal scene is there, but is hard to put in words. * Bean bag chairs - There is something about it for me because it's where I was first sucked off. Also there's something fun about position there.
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I was curious if anyone who has piercings (like guiche or scrotal ones) find they interfere with fisting? I've considered both kind and been concerned they would not allow me to bottom while healing (and maybe beyond). Want to see if the piercings and fisting are somehow compatible from someone more experienced.
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Got some new pictures
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Nice topic. Mine after some decent play earlier this year.
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To my fellow fisters... I have a few questions for you and your ffun. I am curious if any of you have a fisting location that you still enjoy reliving...(was the best to date and why) , and how many places you've tried being fisted. I'll go first. I've bottomed in 9 different US states to date. So far, nothing outside the US. My funnest/hottest to date were both in Colorado. One was In a ski cabin and another was in a 30 foot RV in a RV park. The exhibition aspect, especially of the RV and having people potentially hear me moan and ask for it was the wildest thought that I still come back to. The cabin experience was close because I had the best combo of wine and 420 for a great time ever.
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Am I the only one or is this kind of stretching with chopsticks hot? Have any of you done something similar?
