sandiegodumm
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Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
sandiegodumm replied to sandiegodumm's topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
@DFWbbPIG Good item. Something I'll have to try sometime once open. Seems the color adds to the attraction, right? -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
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So, I had an excellent session last night using two of the items I mentioned before. Let me explain. I used a unique set of Air Jordans called stash . The reason these made the scene is they have pockets where I put poppers, lube, etc into. Anyway, I walked in with my partner looking like a skater wearing the AJ stash and baggy jeans. My partner immediately bent me over and after pulling the jeans down saw my Harness was holding a plug inside. After he was surprised with that, he saw the AJs and asked what's this? I showed him the pockets of poppers and lube and said I was ready to be whored out. Made for a nice scene of non-sexual stuff being used sexually and led to some great play. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
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@Njn0mc The scene on the floor and with rubber sounds interesting. I've never tried enemas but that would be different, especially a coffee one. Coffee as a scene enhancer is different too. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
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@badjujuboy Several of my fetishes came about in a similar way to yours, it seems. The feel of certain objects enveloped me and spurred me to try more and more. Some stuck, and some evolved into new things. @TommiVirgin Catheter and milking machine are ones I could see sexually... Even though most outside this site probably wouldn't. Since being a teenager, I've had an image of those same objects used along with electrostim to create a scene. I'd love to read a sci-fi slant on this, because it would probably go into some interesting places...and make for good headspace during playtime. -
Inanimate Objects of your ideal fetish scene
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@badjujuboy You bring an interesting object I never would have thought of. You mentioned the weight and good memories. Is the weight like power or being virile in your mind? -
Most people have "type(s) of play" they identify with or a "type" of partner they want. Instead of thinking of those things, I'm curious if there are particular inanimate objects you envision in an ideal scene (real or fantasy scene)? I'm especially referring to inanimate objects that are not usually sexual ordinarily... but are for you. How/why do these particular inanimate items help to get you off or complete the ideal scene for you? I'll list a some to start the discussion and add more as I can. * Baggy/saggy Jeans - I use them to hide when plugged these days. In my adolescence I used to think it was useful to hide big hard ons. * Boxing gloves - I used before for jerk off. Now fantasize about using for fisting. Example [think before following links] https://xhamster.com/videos/max-wide-com-takes-whole-boxing-glove-in-hus-megahole-xhQ2Y8t " Shoes - There is something about certain shoes that gets me going. Usually it's red or black Air Jordans for some reason. Something about it setting the ideal scene is there, but is hard to put in words. * Bean bag chairs - There is something about it for me because it's where I was first sucked off. Also there's something fun about position there.
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I was curious if anyone who has piercings (like guiche or scrotal ones) find they interfere with fisting? I've considered both kind and been concerned they would not allow me to bottom while healing (and maybe beyond). Want to see if the piercings and fisting are somehow compatible from someone more experienced.
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Got some new pictures
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Nice topic. Mine after some decent play earlier this year.
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To my fellow fisters... I have a few questions for you and your ffun. I am curious if any of you have a fisting location that you still enjoy reliving...(was the best to date and why) , and how many places you've tried being fisted. I'll go first. I've bottomed in 9 different US states to date. So far, nothing outside the US. My funnest/hottest to date were both in Colorado. One was In a ski cabin and another was in a 30 foot RV in a RV park. The exhibition aspect, especially of the RV and having people potentially hear me moan and ask for it was the wildest thought that I still come back to. The cabin experience was close because I had the best combo of wine and 420 for a great time ever.
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Am I the only one or is this kind of stretching with chopsticks hot? Have any of you done something similar?
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@ronnie4u I recently bought a pump for the purpose of pumping my Rosebud. Once I get it, I'll add here about the enlarging. I hope to enlarge the Rosebud slightly, but not looking to fully prolapse. Want to have a little more Rosebud for looks and a licking top. Do wonder how daily life would be if I prolapsed. As the topic name implies, I got into the Rosebud interest by way of fisting. Did anyone get interested in rosebuds just from vacuum pumping?
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Good discussion all. Thanks for the many replies. My main reason for the post was to provide some confidence to others similarly situated, that things will work out. Just be wise about what you insert (a strong cord to remove would be smart), be wise if problems happen, and avoid panic (as that is natural, no matter your experience level, it seems). A bit more about my situation. In a covid environment, I decided to wait at home rather than take the exposure risk at a hospital. The friend I called has medical background and he told me they usually give a laxative, take x-rays and wait to see if it moves on its own before being more invasive...unless someone is in pain or has other complications (I.E. a sharp object likely to cause damage)...but there are many factors to consider. In my case it was about 14 hours of being nervous, but felt much longer. Being an avid FF bottom who has taken more, I could have probably let my top try to help get it out...especially since I could still find it with a fingertip (it was not completely lost). Unfortunately, my FF top was not available when this happened.
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I recently had a nerve-racking experience where an anal toy broke and became stuck in my arse. I wanted to share just in case someone experiences something similar. This is not intended as medical advice, but something to consider if the same happens to you. I recently used an electro anal plug that I had used for many years. During this session, the plug somehow went in past the flared base (which happened once before without consequence). I didn't think anything was wrong and figured I would push out the plug. I went to push it out and it wouldn't come out. A slight tug on the electro cord and the cord came off in my hand. I inserted a finger and realized the plug was in the second ring at a weird angle. I then started to panic! After talking with a friend, I realized a hospital trip might be necessary. I decided I would take the risk and postpone as hospital trip as long as possible. I guessed I had 2 days before a bowel blockage would force me to the hospital, since there was no blood and no complications except just a cramping muscle. Since I took bigger toys/fists before, I figured it might come out, and took a laxative. I kept checking and noticed no change with the situation, which made me nervous. I managed to relax after several hours and went to sleep. Around 12 hours after the problems started, I was awoke by strong cramps and figured either the plug was headed out or I was wrong about complications setting in. At 2AM I was in the bathroom starting to panic again. After several trips to the toilet, the laxatives worked and plug finally come out! Other than being sore for another day, I got lucky. Man was I scared and horny after! I'd be interested to know if my experience is similar or not to others.
