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He did say it was going to be four parts and it is. He also said when each part would appear and he kept to his timetable. Finally, he said he’d do another story if people liked this one, but it seems like he has been much more active in conversations in the community since writing this. I don’t know that many of us write this well or we’d have more to read. There are times I get lost in the articles and then there are times I have to go out and play, but I love the guys who can channel their energy or remember enough of their dates to get their thoughts out onto the page. As for the author, you can follow him to read what’s happened since writing this as he’s made a lot of comments with what happened when someone asked a question and it sounds like he’s done A LOT that he didn’t plan to do - but all fun. Maybe he’ll reply here.

He did say it was going to be four parts and it is. He also said when each part would appear and he kept to his timetable. Finally, he said he’d do another story if people liked this one, so I assume we have to look for that and bring it forward. I don’t know that many of us write this well or we’d have more to read. There are times I get lost in the articles and then there are times I have to go out and play, but I love the guys who can channel their energy or remember enough of their dates to get their thoughts out onto the page.

Isn’t it the location for NYCSexcapades’s filming?

Don’t laugh as I’m taking this from a NY perspective where we used to have a lot of gay gyms. I thought everybody had fucked a guy in the whirlpool and steam room at their gym. I couldn’t cope with the sauna and worse, I also had one at home that I never used in 20 years (it was there when I moved in).

I could be wrong, but this seems to be the Chem Sex version of Sold Health from 2017 in the Bug Chasing section, but I know there’s at least one other “Sold My Status” where a guy flushes his meds. All three seemed very different from each other. The 2017 version never gets as far as getting to the house.

It’s like when you and your date buy a lot more than normal and you find he’s used almost all of it on you to dial you up to Ultrafun, and/or you think you’re done and his train arrives. If you had any wits or willpower, you could leave, but you don’t and you don’t really want to anyway. And you brought your own wrist and ankle cuffs (as usual), so you’re not going anywhere, anyhow.

I’m pretty much of the same mind on being a pretty good hole, but not being a woman. I’m also of the same mind on the F word, though I might have to admit to slut or kinky (on dates). I find I can’t call guys the N word, whether it is time I grew up, where I grew up, or mixed marriages in the family and I’ve apologized to guys who wanted me to use it to describe them or their dick. I have called quite a few guys of both races, Sir…

I’m hoping for another chapter.

I’m not sure what the issue really is, but I agree with a lot of of the sentiment because it feels like Springsteen’s 500 channels and there is nothing on. I subscribe to Tim, but agree it has gotten less exciting; I subscribe to RFC, but rarely watch; I subscribe to AEBN, and I’m just accumulating millions of minutes; and I subscribe to Faphouse, just to get longer Xhamster vids. I’ve done JFF and Onlyfans, but finding people you want to follow is a pain, especially on Onlyfans and you have to do hours of X in hopes of finding someone to follow. I end to search for Amateur video that makes you imagine you are watching a real date and some of it is on Bareback Bastards, ManyVids and ThisVid, but those companies seem to be running on autopilot (nobody replies on signup problems). I’m finding I’m watching way too much, but not getting turned on by it (though I would love to be the guy that looks like Daniel Radcliffe in the XVideo After Party video wow looks completely spun and completely in bliss in that video. Now that I’ve gotten that out of the way, the problem with porn is hat it feel like TV and it has a lot of guardrails in place so no one gets arrested and frankly most dates are more exciting than what’s in porn now. Pornhub basically put a lot of studios out of business, but found it had to clean up its act to get paid by the credit card companies and even now states are banning porn. Onlyfans and JFF are less regulated and we’re producing leading edge content, but content creators aren’t getting paid and Onlyfans keeps going back and forth onthe type of company it wants to be. X has been showing a lot of X content as content creators seek new fans, but they are mostly wavering under Musk’s lack of oversight. The head of (non-porn) content production got laughed out of CES as Mark Cuban described X as Pornhub to a room of potential advertisers. We’ve got four more years of this as the rightwingers try to eliminate porn completely and the left tries to ensure illicit activity does not go on (Pornhub wiped out a lot of videos that were illegal sex tapes, hidden cams, drug use on cam, and probably some blackmail tapes) after lawsuits and efforts to make nice with the credit card companies. We’re left with Brett Tyler mugging for the camera, a lot of twinks and some fun video that gets banned as soon as someone complains that it has content that isn’t permitted. I don’t want to watch myself in videos, but it is bad when your own dates are hotter than porn. I just find it takes forever to get off on porn (an 8-12 hour date will get you off more times in a night than most porn) and I’m ever thankful for BreedingZone and the Chemsex fiction on here. I spend more Time on my iPad with BZ than with the 8 TVs I hung in every room. My apologies for the rant, but I work in advertising and I’ve been complaining about content production since there were three networks and hoping the proliferation of vendors would lead to anything worth watching.

I’m not sure I’ll have the same POV as everyone else since I tend to hate toys, but always start off tight. That said, I have several sets of these and they’ve been put to several sets of uses by several tops. 1. You can use them progressively to stretch and loosen up. Usually, you buy a set in multiple sizes for this. It makes for a stepwise progression and alternative to a speculum or other stretcher. 2. You can also use them if you want to stay open for pouring in liquids (yeah, the entire list of things you can pour in). They also sell them with plugs. 3. If your lips tend to get inflamed or your partner needs you to be a lot looser, you can use them to eliminate the friction. 4. You can also use them to practice getting looser if you need it. 5. These will stay in place and continue to stretch you while they are in. Just be aware that a size much larger than you are ready for will hurt like hell. You need to use lube to put it in and and you won’t feel your partner entering your hole (imagine a really, really, really thick condom). if you prefer butt plugs to dildos, these are probably going to be an obsession.

He probably needs to explore whether his gut is having problems like Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth, Digestive Enzyme production, Crohn's, Regular Colitis or Microscopic Colitis or just sensitivity to a Protozoa. Also, over-cleaning can push bacteria up as well as wear down the lining. I tend to think a gay gastrointestinal guy is the best bet since your partner is young and this isn’t expected at his age. Some of us have inherited stomach problems and some will be affected by partying, drinking or really, really prepping hard for dates. You can also suggest he keep logs of food, prep he’s doing and how he feels until he gets into the doctor. Meanwhile, he may want to read on the SIBO/Low Fodmap diet and if the first doctor says it is all in his head, switch doctors.

I’d really love an explanation of how this did and didn’t happen. I never imagined there was an opt out option for jail house sex.

Thank you. That is worth searching for. Thank you also for the reminder on those stories. That series was great and worth rereading even if it doesn’t have the end of this story.

I’ve advised my employer, my family and my neighbors of blackmail attempts. I figured why not after one guy posted me to the Citizen app after cloning my phone and posting videos. if you are blackmailed with threats of exposure for sex, you need to go to the police (depending on the state) or the FBI. if you are blackmailed for doing drugs, you are probably in more trouble, especially if you compensate OR provide drugs to anyone. You are in worse trouble if anyone gets sick or dies from doing drugs, so you can forget about just getting caught using, each state has its own criteria for drug sales. The issue at the moment is that so many guys are trying to be content creators and they are looking at each date as an opportunity to boost followers. There are also a lot of guys in New York doing blackmail. I would say try to find guys you trust and build on that before doing anything that you will regret permanently. In my case, I don’t want to see my body on video any way, but if I have to go to rehab or jail, I want to get the guys responsible in there too, rather than having them hurt more people.

I haven’t had the problem here, but I’ve had it on NKP and A4A and I reported it and I posted about it here, filed a police complaint and spoke to the NYAG (in all the gooey details). Mostly, the problem comes down to blackmail attempts (secretly taping the whole date and threatening to post it or posting it after agreeing not to put it on OnlyFans or elsewhere), cloned phones (which I find increasingly common), efforts to clean out bank accounts, and stalking following and threats of violence. One guy told me he cloned the phone on the date and proved it by cancelling three Ubers. He also posted a warning on Citizen (freaking out my neighbors…and me too), and told me I would have problems with the police when I went outside. He changed my password on LastPass and I got a text saying “Fuck You” after I was able to change it again. I’ve talked to people who’ve had problems with the same people (as well as the same people using multiple profiles). I’ve come to appreciate the people who post who steals or is crazy or has attacked them. I’ve changed what I bring on dates and use a different phone with limited info and access, but the problem is that I haven’t seen NKP or A4A respond to my complaints in the past. The question is how to filter these guys out before meeting them.