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horndoggy

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  1. Wow reading everyone’s routines and it sounds like so much work! I have a very handy bidet attachment on my toilet (<$50 on Amazon) and the high pressure setting is perfect for douching out your rear. You kind of have to wiggle and turn a bit to line up the spray so it goes deep inside, but you can think of it as a game, like the water gun/clown face/balloon pop booth at a carnival.
  2. The OP raised some very good points, and as others have said, you will find many of the same issues dating any age group, not just older men. One issue, though, that can be very real is the difference in sex drive and frequency between an older and younger guy. While I’m sure this website is packed with the highly sexed and virile daddies, lots of us over 50 dudes can’t go all night, or even every other night. The spirit may be willing, but the flesh is weak, so to speak. I dated older men when I was young, and some younger men now that I’m older (truth be told, my tastes have stayed the same throughout - cute boyish men in their 30s or 40s - it’s just my age that’s changed) and there is always little age related differences that need to be sorted out. If you can navigate the baggage, games, and other cr*p every age group indulges in, you can usually work out the age difference challenges once you’ve cleared the decks of the rest of the junk.
  3. On his back, legs up and spread or crossed, with direct eye contacts is the sexiest and most intimate way to pop his cherry. But, from what I recall from several sex manuals, the experts say bottom on top, resting on the dick, and waiting for the sphincter to eventually relax is supposed to be the least painful way. Not that any top I ever knew had the patience to wait! 😜
  4. I was 21, he was 29 or 30. We met at a gay and lesbian conference - he was only the second man I had been with and he had a big, challenging dick. Fortunately I had been playing with vegetables and other cylindrical objects for a few years, so it wasn’t a total shock.
  5. Yes, it is. It’s either I’ve got a good ass, or every man I’ve fucked has a severe case of premature ejaculation. And since it happens mostly when they’re fucking me, as opposed to getting a blow job or hand job, it could point to the former rather than the latter. It’s frustrating because I would like to enjoy a long, hot fuck every so often.
  6. I cruise a lot - mostly on Princess Cruises, but also Cunard, Holland America, and Celebrity. If you’re looking for lots of hot action, I’d recommend looking into RSVP and Atlantis as mentioned above. They charter ships from the major lines and arrange gay cruises. The cost is significantly higher but your quest for action has a much better chance of being fulfilled. My experience with Princess and Cunard have been very hit or miss. The LGBT get togethers can be fun, but I’m usually the only single guy since most of the other gay guys travel as a couple. Some ships have some cruising in the sauna or steam room, but it seems the stag sauna is disappearing with some ships having instead a co-ed sauna out by the spa pool, and the newest ships not having a public sauna at all in favour of a co-ed “Thermal Suite.” Sometimes you’ll run across a hot crew member, or more likely, a hot entertainer, but there are very strict rules around their conduct and they’re often risking their job if they play around with you. As one cruise director friend of mine explained to a new medic who had just joined the ship: “You can give a passenger a blowjob in the sauna, but if you go into their room, you’ll be fired the same day by the powers that be.” ¯\ (ツ) /¯
  7. Sad to say but I don’t think I’ve ever had an anal orgasm. My bf/hubby/ex of many years, while sexy and cute, could have served for the illustration of premature ejaculation. I’m talking “this won’t take long, did it?” I’ve tried a number of prostate massagers, dildos and an Aneros, and while they feel pleasant at first, after a few minutes it gets kind of Ho-hum. I’m jealous of all those guys in porn stories who “suddenly felt an electric shock when his prostate was hit, followed by wave of pleasure radiating out of his ass. ‘Oh Rolf,’ he cried. ‘You’re gonna make me cum!’” You guys that have anal orgasms, does it typically include ejectulation? An erection? Both? Or is it just an intense prostate-centred climax?
  8. The only airplane bathroom I’ve found large enough for some serious in-flight fun (and I’m a big guy) was the upper, flight deck washroom on the 747-200. Room for three or four in fact!
  9. I find the idea of gay incest to be kinda hot, but as far as my reality, I never had even a twinge of desire for my father or my three older brothers. [Shudder] We all mostly lucked out with handsome faces, but pasty, flabby, Pillsbury Dough Boy bodies do not run in my family, they gallop!
  10. This is all very interesting and helpful. I’ve been considering PrEP for a few years and now there is a program here in B.C. that makes it available at no charge for at risk persons (like men who have sex with men and are barebacking bottoms like me). My only concern is if my existing medical conditions (diabetes type 2, hypertension, depression, adhd and gout) might raise some contrindications with the Truvada. To qualify for the program you have to have a number of tests, including kidney function. Mine was fine as of my last batch, but the diabetes and gout always makes that something to watch. Here’s hoping I qualify.
  11. Very happy to finally be able to the dates on the replies by switching to landscape. Is there any way to exit mobile mode in portrait on the iPad?
  12. Mine is pretty mainstream, though I naturally favour bareback over condom, ameteur over pro, and "plunge it deep and holler as you unload inside" over "pull it out and dribble on his ass." It's also geared towards mobile browsers for handy, one-handed use. Http://gaymobile.tumblr.com
  13. The main thing is how you feel about it. You can't really let anyone else shame you about your "youthful indiscretions" unless you're ashamed of them. If you're ok with it, then move on. Can't change it anyway, after all. Personally, I'm quite iffy on under aged sex just because, in general, many kids aren't able to fully understand the issues and consequences at that stage. Not to say that adults magically do understand, but at least they have more capacity to if they make the effort. I used to think that sexualizing young teens cost them the last of their innocence years, a thing they may pine for and miss, but I finally realized the whole concept was BS. Regardless of whatever teen years you end up having, you'll probably pine for some imagined thing that you think you missed out on anyway, so best to just do what you want.
  14. By any chance is there a way to sort postings by Creation Date rather than last post date when using the ForumRunner app? In most of the forums post date is fine, but i prefer to use creation date when going through the fiction sections so i can see the latest stories, rather than the stories with the most recent post saying "hot Story!!!"
  15. As raw top says, taking a load in the 80s was challenging. I had my first gay experience and took my first oral load in 85 when i was 21. It was a one night stand with this horny little 19 year old who finally gave up on waiting for me to make the first move, and pounced on me on his couch. At this point, condoms were still recommended for oral sex, but we didn't bother. Thank god - I've always hated the taste of condoms. It was a couple of years later that I took my first butt load, in the midst of the paranoid safe sex 80s. I met a cutie out clubbing and while walking home we decided to stop in my office. While i was standing in the hallway making sure i was the only one in the office, he walked up behind me, pulled down my shorts and slid in. He pumped up a few times, while bear hugging me, immobilizing my arms in the process, and then pushed in deeply, and froze while growling and groaning. It took me a second to realize what was happening, and to notice things seemed a lot warmer and wetter than usual. When he slowly pulled out I turned around to see no condom, and realized that cum was dripping down my legs. I was in shock, me, little mister safe sex with a safety pin on my shirt and a checkered hanky, but somehow i didn't stop him from planting two more loads that night.
  16. Truth be told, when travelling internationally, a lot of us Canadians get at least a little annoyed or irritated when we're presumed to be from the USA.
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