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@buddyboy.bsky.social And I some invites if people are interested.
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UT,LA,VA,MS,MT,AR,TX,NC are now ALL blocked! (IN & ID 7/1)
horndoggy replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
When Canada was fighting Trump’s ridiculous steel tariffs (in violation of the NAFTA agreement) we placed retaliatory tariffs on products produced in states with key Republican senators, and for Mitch McConnell personally we threw a huge tariff on bourbon. 🤓 -
Yup, heard variations on most of those throughout the years in the mainstream gay world. Even the occasional, well-meaning, back handed compliment like the guy who sat down beside me on the patio of an SF club and broke the ice by saying “You know, good looks have never been that important to me.” Gee, thanks! But I will say the Internet did bring new life to the chub and chaser community, making us realize how many of us were out there and bringing us together.
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The second ring. What does it feel like to the top?
horndoggy replied to neg4charge's topic in General Discussion
As a “fat bottom guy” tops benefit from “the bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin’” but the downside is there’s also a lot of padding in the way, so none have ever made it to the bend as far as I know. In my younger dieting to starvation days, (6”1’ and 165 lbs) I still had a big ass, and it was also the late ‘80s, which was condom crazed. I always experience pain getting fucked with condoms, so I didn’t last long enough back then for anyone long enough to reach the bend. -
New censorship-resistant social media solution now available!
horndoggy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Sounds interesting. I’m a programmer and I’ve been trying to come up with a usable algorithm to turn “anti-social” media into a more civil experience without becoming a bland, homogeneous bubble - a way to engage ideas in good faith and not deal with trolling for kicks. Needless to say, I haven’t got very far pushing my boulder uphill. 🙄 So I’m really looking forward to seeing more about this new solution. -
It wasn’t too painful for me because I had been practicing for a few years on my own with various objects starting with just the thin handle of a hair brush (which was so painful I had to take it out immediately) until I finally graduated to a zucchini. My man who took my cherry (I was 21, he was in his 30s) had a large dick, and a huge mushroom head that was a hell of a lot wider than a zucchini. The experience was only marred by my need, mid way through, to jump up and go to the bathroom. The only discomfort I felt during the act, and I really continued to feel for the subsequent 15 years, actually turned out to be an irritation caused by condoms. It wasn’t until I started getting barebacked that I started to enjoy getting fucked.
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Can a str8 guy ask for love from a gay guy?
horndoggy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
From some of your later comments, especially how he gets hard and wet snuggling up to you, I’m mentally adjusting my “maybe he’s straight” to “maybe he’s bi” as his behaviour tap dances up the Kinsey scale. My own confusing personal experience with this sort of thing goes back 25 to 30 years ago when to company I was working with as a consultant suddenly decided I spoke sufficient Spanish, (a laugh given that I’m a French Canadian who barely speaks French) and started posting me to long term development jobs in Latin America. Back then, younger, cosmopolitan straight Latin American guys in the cities I worked in were quite affectionate with each other, and I kept dealing with these attractive young men who kept sitting on the arms of my chair, putting their arm around me, and touching their head to mine. When I finally finagled things where it wasn’t out of place to invite one of them out for dinner, he cheerfully spent half the meal inquiring if I had “accepted Jesus Christ into my heart” and was rather nonplussed by my gentle agnosticism. 🙄 -
Can a str8 guy ask for love from a gay guy?
horndoggy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
He might have some unacknowledged sexual identity issues, but he could also be what he says he is: a straight guy who is starved for touch or affection. I suspect many nowadays are. Go very slow, and let him make any moves to progress things. If the hugging and affection starts to work you up and sexually frustrate you, ease back and let him know why. If he is secretly gay or bi, it might encourage him to address it then, rather than give you up. -
Yeah, everyone knows to “cure” autism you need Elvis and a Nun - specifically Mary Tyler Moore. 😁 I kid, I kid. I’m somewhere on the spectrum myself and have been getting treatment for my ADHD-i for about 13 years now. Some days the meds work, some days they don’t. 🤷♂️ Regarding Twitter I don’t like the changes Musk has been making, and the message he’s been amplifying, but as I said before he offered to buy it, Twitter is a private company and can make its own decisions on content moderation. If Musk wants to ban first, then make up TOS policy to justify it afterwards, he can. But without someone to step in and put the brakes on, as happens at Tesla and SpaceX when Musk goes off on a tangent, Twitter could downgrade itself into another Parler-type space. It will take longer than most people think because there is institutional inertia, and media as well as brands may not want to give up the platform quickly, but toxic as Twitter has often been, the last two months has really ratcheted it up. And a tip for Musk: you don’t magically reduce hate speech on Twitter by redefine hate speech. 🤣
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Have you ever had your prostate checked?
horndoggy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
Every time I have a physical, though it’s been a few years thanks to the pandemic. My original GP was gay - I started seeing him in ‘86 - then he joined a large gay health practice, and retired 10 years ago with a young, twinky-sporty-otter guy taking over his patients. Whenever my original GP would ask me to turn on my side and curl up my legs, I used to joke that I usually got dinner and some dancing first. -
anyone else love when he keeps his dick inside after he cums?
horndoggy replied to josh567's topic in General Discussion
I love it but I very rarely get it. My most frequent FB is not only super quick on the trigger (“This won’t take long, did it?”) but super sensitive after cumming, so he needs to pull out fairly quickly. Funny thing, I can tease him into shivers with my mouth for half an hour or more, but when it comes to my butt, he can barely last 2 minutes before exploding. -
When I was a young 20-something fagling, my GP referred me to a plastic surgeon (not at my request!) to address some post significant weight loss issues with sagging skin and breast tissue. After assessing my skin type and its generally unsuitability for plastic surgery he actually turned to me and gently said “You know, beauty is only skin deep”. Without a pause I snapped back “But ugly go right to the bone!” a la Flip Wilson. Thirty plus years later, 200 lbs heavier, and delighted that the internet brought the chub and chaser community together, I’m pretty content. When and if a man expresses an interest but seems sheepish about it (not uncommon with the young) I tease them with joke “How is a fat guy like a moped? They’re both fun to ride, until your friends see you.”
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I preferred my tounge in cheek line “pardon me, but haven’t I mentally undressed you somewhere before?”
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I’ll get it when it’s available for me, which, given our provincial government’s distribution plan, probably won’t be until late spring/early summer 2021. Despite having a number of high-risk comorbidities, the government wants to inoculate people living in group situations (after health workers and long term care patients) before jabbing those of us that live mostly alone. It makes sense, and gives me six or more months to see what kind of adverse reactions and effects (if any) turn up. Plus, I don’t have to go into the office yet for my new job, which would be very awkward after working from home in my last job for 13 years!
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I was initiated into the world of masturbation by that great ‘70s innovation “The Shower Massage by Water Pik.” I grew up in Quebec, and my elementary school years were shaped the the secular “Quiet Revolution.” Despite being a catholic school we had introductory sex education in 4th grade, and comprehensive sex education in 5th grade. I can recall stuffing Kleenex in my underwear at night so I could verify if I was having nocturnal emissions (I wasn’t and to this day I have still never had a wet dream 😕) One day I was lying in the bathtub, with the shower massager giving me a pounding (ah, ‘70s full flower water pressure, how I miss you), when I happened to move into a position where it was hitting my dick. Things got hard pretty quickly and I was amazed by the feeling and building tension. I remember lifting my legs up to let it hit the underside of my dick head, and that almost painful building pressure released itself in the form of my dick jerking up and down like a metronome. It was hard to tell with all that water spraying over everything but I don’t think I shot much or any cum the first months I was doing this - I must have been 11 or 12 - but it was great fun. I called that moment of pre-orgasm and the explosive release as “itchy tip” because as the overpowering sensation built, if felt like an itch that needed its scratch. 😈 I ended up masturbating exclusively in the shower for years, finding it hard to believe people could cum from just manual masturbation itself. That lasted until I was 16, when I started jerking off with spit, sitting on the toilet. I had a few friend that talked a bit about jerking off, but no one expressed interest in doing it together. I should have taken the bull by the horns with a least one of them, but I always was the shy but deep kind,
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I’ve been talking to my doctor about it. My testosterone levels, which were off the high end of the chart when I was 20, are now waaaay below the lowest expected value for my age group. I was on oral test (andriol? Or some such) 20 or so years ago, but I stopped taking it after a few months because I was concerned it could cause cancer. 🙄 Of course part of the issue is I’m a big, super chubby bear and testosterone can bind with the fat and become ineffective. My doctor wants me to have another test and we will proceed from there. I have a lot of symptoms that mesh with test deficiency - low energy, low sex drive (it’s been dropping like a rock since about December. My dedicated PornPad is getting lonely), low everything drive. And for a guy that take stimulants for ADHD, my lack of get up and go is pretty amazing!
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For years Doxycycline was the only malarial prophylaxis I could take because my existing meds were contraindicated for the other anti-malarials. Trouble was doxy made me sick as a dog over time, getting progressively worse every day. I could only take it for a max of two or three weeks at a time. Luckily, my work stopped sending me to malarial zones 20 years ago.
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Chub here, more into nerdy, glasses-wearing chasers, though. I should change my name to GeekHunter. 🤓
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B.C. health officials are recommending Gloryholes
horndoggy replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Get your notebook and swabs and lead the way! (As a BCer, who cringes imperceptibly every time this story gets brought up by non-local media, I would suggest the goal is “safer” sex through glory holes as opposed to “safe” sex. Unfortunately my own innate fussiness has brought me to the ripe old age of 55 without ever having used a glory hole, so my take is strictly academic. Lol.) -
Great, thanks for your insight. I guess the only thing I’ll have to keep an eye on is my NSAIDS use. I have sciatica and am prone to migraines, and go through a large bottle of Costco Kirkland extra strength 400mg ibuprofen pretty quickly.
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There are places where you can order it from overseas at a significant discount to North American prices, but I think you would still need to get a prescription and a legitimate doctor would want to check your kidney functionality and hiv status first. If you are HIV positive, taking Truvada alone can interfere with your ability to fight the HIV later with more comprehensive antivirals. If your kidneys can’t hack it, you could have some serious kidney issues - though I think most of them begin to return to normal after you stop taking it.
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Type 2. Definitely going to have to do some NSAIDS research. I’m prone to migraines (the beta blockers are meant to reduce them) and when one hits I immediately pop 600-800mg of ibuprofen. Can’t take imitrix, or Tylenol so that could be something I’ll need to watch.
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I was supposed to START PrEP on March 16th, an initial 30 day trial with a blood test at 3 weeks, and an appointment to review my kidney function to make sure there are no issues. Of course now my doctor is doing only virtual appointment, is urging all patients to avoid the labs for now, and I can only pick up my pills in the hospital’s outpatient pharmacy. And if I don’t pick them up by the 7th of April, I’m bounced out of the PrEP program and have to reapply and go through a fresh set of bloodwork. I think I’ll risk popping in to pick up my pills, but may hold off starting them until it looks like we’ll get an all clear for the lab again. Hope that doesn’t get me bounced out of the program.
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I was supposed to start PrEP yesterday, but I have a killer cold, and there is no way I’m going to risk passing it on to immunosuppressed people, since I have to pick up my pills at the HIV outpatient pharmacy in our local hospital. Of course I picked up the cold (or whatever it is) getting a blood test at the hospital lab 10 days ago.
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So I’ve been jumping through the hoops our Provincial government makes us go through to get subsidized PrEP, and everything looks good except the last lab took so long with my HIV test that I have to go get another one. The program requires a negative test no older than 14 days before approval, so a delay of a few days during the application process can reset the clock and require another test. I’ve talked to my doctor about intermittent use since my episodes of celebrating my slutty cumdu.... er... “global seed vault” nature don’t happen too often, and he’s supportive of it, though he wants me to take it daily for the first 30 to make sure my kidneys can handle it. For a diabetic my kidney function looks good, with good elimination and clearance, and just a slightly elevated ACR. I’m looking forward to trying it out, just a bit nervous about side effects and interactions with my other medical conditions and medications. As I mention I’m diabetic - Type 2 - on various meds but no insulin. I have ADHD and am on enough stimulants to light up Caracas. Depression and SSRIs. High blood pressure and beta-blockers and ace-inhibitors. Etc, etc. So I’m wondering if anyone else with a Mr Burns-level health challenges is or has been on PrEP, and how it impacted or didn’t impact their chronic health conditions.
