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Piss topper! I couldn't have said it better or more concisely myself. "I'm not fucking Domino's." YO! YES!

Great reply, Cherry Hole. As a sometimes bottom, and often top, I REALLY get tired of bottoms hitting me up and being so fucking thirsty. Don't get me wrong, I love -hungry- bottoms, that is to say, ones that know what they want. What they want is my cock and cum in their hole. That's OK. I feel like some amount of compromise should be acceptable, particularly from a bottom to a top. When I'm bottoming, if a top loses focus or just starts to flag a little in the hard on department, I have no problem at all switching positions or sucking his cock fully hard again as long as this doesn't go on forever. Of course even patient queers have their limits and I am no exception. But I certainly wouldn't toss someone out, especially if they are hot/hung just because they didn't get hard in x number of seconds/minutes. Once in a while, I get the feeling described above where I feel like the bottom is rushing me and just wishes my load could magically appear in his asshole. It can be really nervewracking. Like having to pee really bad with a bunch of people not only watching but audibly "cheering" you on (piss shy guys will get it). When I see this happen, not only is it a huge turn off (tops can feel objectified too, and it isn't always desirable) but it certainly doesn't help or motivate me in any way to fuck them, let alone breed them. I had a 18 or maybe 20yo kid come over in the past couple months. Wanted me to breed him. It was late as fuck, but I was cruising BBRT so I figured why not? He came over and I said 'so what's up?.' He replied "fuck me." I told him to suck my dick. He declined, saying "I don't suck dick." Me: 'at all??' Him: "No, not at all." I knew this was going to be a long night. I took one for the team. I put on a silicone cockring and put on some leather porn and jacked myself off (from a semi hard state no less) close to cumming while rubbing my cock on and in his asshole. When I was about to cum, I shoved my cock in deep with my hand and made sure to get it all in there. Yeah, he got his load. Yes, I shot mine. Was it worth it? To me, no. But I have a repuatation to uphold and a screen name to live up to, so I did it. STILL, I only like to throw fucks that I myself would appreciate taking. That means if I'm not feeling 110% or if I'm feeling tired or lazy, I will have to turn a guy down even if he is really hot. I guess as I get older, it's not so much quantity as quality. I'd much rather spend some time over a night etc. with a guy who actually at least pretends to give a shit about me and then work into some hot sex more organically. Meeting for strictly sex and going from the door to naked and "FUCK ME" is soooo off of my to do list for a long time.

Fuck yeah, Versgeek. By the way, you can top me anytime. Leave your load if you like Honestly though, people have been using the same tired tactics to dissuade other people from making their own decisions. The best plan is to gather as much (logical, sensible) information as possible regarding current medical information and accepted risk reduction methods and then do whatever it is that you are going to do. I think that most guys that bareback accept that there is a certain amount of risk. I know I do. After 16 years+ (started at 14, just turned 30) of barebacking (and taking POZ loads as well, mostly undetectable though) I just tested neg last week. It's quite possible to do if you want to. Have I had to go to the clinic more than my fair share of times and get something bacterial treated? Yes. Outside of that, however, using my own risk reduction methods and serosorting (not necessarily neg/poz but neg/undetectable) has gone really far for me.

Very astute point, hollywoodslut. You just gave my brain the biggest hardon right now.

With another guy's cock cumming deep in your hole.

Nah it's not that serious. And the AIDS fetish stuff is kept in it's own (mostly) tidy compartment here on the site. Stay awhile, and listen.

yunghungtop <3 Not to mention: my bbrt profile is younghungbreeder. So, I feel like we are sisters. Another good point: a lot of haters don't care if you are the safest sex, most hair cutting, interior decoratingest wonderful gay. They still hate you, and maybe even more than they hate the "stereotype cumpig".

Interesting convo...the best parts of this site for me is when everybody stops being all chaser/gifter or balls deep sexual all the time and start actually having relatively informed debates on actual issues that affect every one of us.

Hey guys...30 y.o. white guy here, neg hole, 95% top. Tight, but eager hole ready for as much POZ cock and loads as you could dump in it. I need this bad so if anybody is going or knows anybody who would be interested in breeding the neg right out of me and their hot toxic DNA into me I would love to know about it!! I already set up a "party" ad on BBRT all about it, YoungHungBreeder there so hit me up and let me know?

I'm going...

It's my first time and I'm neg. Do you guys think I will have trouble finding high VL breeders? Should I be worried about Hep C etc? I'm chasing hard so I need to know.

Are there any tips for increasing your odd of conversion? I know this isn't that thread maybe so I won't go too far off base. Just asking in case anyone knows. Toothbrush...ok but anything better than make sure your hole is damaged?

Also: @BadBoy Pig interesting...I didn't know that gay males were born with certain neurological characteristics such as increased opportunity for depression, mental illness etc. That kind of opens my eyes a little bit. So you see guys it's not all poz my neg hole and take my AIDS babies after all.

This brings up a lot of interesting issues, but RawTop has a few very good answers as well. Ultimately, it doesn't matter what someone else (not a chaser, a 3rd party watching on in horror/disgust?) thinks about a chaser or a giver's behaviours. In the end we all die, yes it isn't that black and white but the point is that we are all mortal. Most of us more than we realize or care to believe. I think that some guys aren't necessarily suicidal, etc. It is not as if they are asking tops to literally point a six shooter in which 4 of the chambers have no bullets in them or whatever statistical value you want to place on a specific poz top. However I can see where some people might get that idea. Rather, I think that it actually can bring a sense of community. In a population where many men are isolated, even from each other, by media, stereotypes, pressure to conform or fit in with the latest trends including how much body hair is hot that particular year or how massive your muscles are or are not, the poz community is unified in the sense that even if each member doesn't get along, they have something larger as a common bond. Is all that a good thing? Not necessarily and some would argue not at all. However, as I was originally suggesting, it is not up to the people standing on the side lines to dictate or judge the behavior of chasers. Stealth gifters is a little more touch of a subject though.

+1 for this ^^^^^^

+1..........