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You seem to have no idea that there is a line between what the patrons want and what any tin pot law enforcement officer will find when he walks in. And location is going to be all about community standards. You can’t be anywhere near a church or school or anywhere the general public would pass because they will go out if their way to close you down calling it “community standards” The only ABS I see anymore are in the most isolated of places way outside of community. A viable building will cost too much to operate. And it won’t be easy to hire workers to clean up after the clients “fun”

There is only one bathhouse in NYC. The others were all closed by Rudolph Guilliani ‘s board of health. AIDS and then Covid closed the next to last existing West Side Club. All gay bathhouses were once run by the Mafia to fleece homosexuals. After pride in the late sixties, a few of them had gay owners. Like Man’s Country in Chicago, but gays don’t have children and the clubs standing are often demolished when the owner gets too old or dies. In England they are advertised openly, in the States they will soon be extinct. Most usamajor cities are down to only one bathhouse option

Closed, maybe 1995, building has been demolished

In Seattle I’ve heard that Club Z is a lot of fun, maybe not as nice as Steamworks tries to be, but coming from a tiny backwater town like New York City we aren’t able to chose one of two clubs anymore. Does Steamworks adher to a set standard or have they just taken random venues under their umbrella, much like the Club Bath chain did decades ago

Steamworks in Chicago is not ashamed of what it is, it’s a beautiful place and you could spend a whole weekend there easily. There’s food and a fireplace, they have even made convenient personal douching options available. I’d love to have a chance to visit the other Steamworks but haven’t had a chance yet. If there is any future for these institutions of gayness, Steamworks leads the way.

Four pages of replies that show a vast range of theory and understanding. Some investigate the question with toys, others fantasize about the power they imagine their large penises give them. I’m happy to say what I “know” about the subject came as a total surprise. I had read of”second rings” but it wasn’t until a very large black man came into my room at the baths, said he liked long sessions, and said he had Meth. I wasn’t a partier until that time but I chose out of curiosity to run with the offer and he went to his room to get it. I wasn’t a partier until my 60s, I had never smoked, but I had been given a shard in the ass without my consent before, so that’s what I asked for this time. It was all trust, I have no idea how much he put in me, but from there he chose the positions and was in full control of the evening. After a while I asked for another bump. Neither of us smoked at all. If he had some himself, I don’t know how he took it, and I have no idea how much he gave me the first or second time. I’m not encouraging you to do this at home. There was no stated intention of getting spun or losing control. I did lose track of time, I may have fallen asleep. He knew exactly what position to put me in, with my legs folded under me and my shins on the mattress. He reached a depth where I felt him go through an obstruction, maybe a fold or a valve, but I could clearly feel the head of his cock was in new untouched territory inside me and I could feel him regularly leaking small amounts of semen into me. We kept it up long past when my legs cramped and started hurting. We each had our focus, mine being that I could feel something happening to me that I had never felt before. Eventually he had enough and went back to his room, when I sought the time it was nine in the morning of the next day. Our commitment to this sex act had gone on for about eleven hours. After I paid for my room for the next block of time, I put on a red jock, got in position, and opened my room door again, eager to seek the same degree of penetration with whoever was attracted to my ass in a red jock. It was another four hours before I went gently home to bed. I can’t brag what my final total was because I had lost count. I know there was a very large wet spot covering the back of my pants. a few times since, when I have connected with someone very large I have gotten in the position that created this and been able to feel the same deep penetration. Some tops have complained I’m wiggling too much, so I don’t know how much, they feel what I feel but I know, clearly, when a top has reached that depth, and it’s a great feeling to know you are exposing the most tender inner flesh of your core to saturation with the sperm of a stranger. You do not become neutered but you do have that position on your wish list whenever you meet a stranger whose cock is long enough to try for it.

I have gone to the Fair theatre once. Hard to know how long it has catered to the audience that keeps it open. I will say I’m glad the building survives for its historical connection to the Worlds Fair but I think it’s inaccurate to call it the Granddaddy of New York porn theaters. Manhattan was full of them when Gay porn in cinemas began. I’d say the granddaddies were the Adonis and the 55th Street Playhouse. Adonis has been torn down and the 55th St has had the top of the building cut off and the ground floor is now a loading dock for a hotel on 54th. The Fair survives only because of its extreme remoteness and decades of under the table bribes to the authorities. It is sad and filthy with no future while the clock ticks toward its demolition. It’s a matter of hours to get there from Manhattan, one trip to satisfy the historian in me, was enough.

As long as they don’t prevent men walking in off the street from entering my room, they are being very helpful, if they’d like to shoot a load in my ass and call some of their friends too, I would really appreciate it. Everyone knows each load makes a bare ass, a better fuck

A friend or stranger who puts a pipe in my mouth and torches the bowl while telling me when and how to breathe in, or a man with a large hard cock who puts his fingers in my ass, let’s me feel his fingernails, and when it starts to burn he whispers in my ear, you’re gonna be fine in a few minutes and then plunges his cock in me up to the balls. Don’t ask me or persuade me, just do what you know is best for me so you can breed me and then call your friends. That’s sexy

More and more I’m thinking, I should have some first hand knowledge of this place. You say they’re not the cutest, but I can’t think of anything more attractive about a man than seeing him drop his pants as he approaches because his cock is hard and his nuts full of cum seeking release. That’s much more important than cute tome, any hour of the day.

A friend of mine from the ESC said two guys took him to the Senton and while one was fucking him the other invited a hotel security guard and some other men he met there randomly to go to the room and fuck my friend. I’m glad to hear you can smoke in the rooms because if I got as lucky as my friend was, smoking would help open me up to being friendly with any guy who came into the room (or my ass)

I don’t know what’s to love about. Sometimes spell correct works but it can be very aggressively wrong too. So much AI is just about creating lies, seeing things that didn’t happen and that’s a very bad thing. Our government is broken and ineffective at regulating the modern world. Most lawmakers can’t manage the supermarket and the can’t be gatekeepers if a web of lies and misinformation. Neither can the creators be trusted to police their Frankenstein. it’s just fake and lazy, a tool of the uninformed promoting ignorance.

I find AI obviously fake. Whether it’s written passages or photography, it’s fake. Reading about sex, I can tell, because I have had sex, and computers have not had sex. They talk about successful anal activity with no understanding of the prep required or the limitations that present themselves. AI is something that manifests itself in many ways we can’t understand and there may be some benefit from it, but when it is used in place of a human activity it is lacking and should ALWAYS be discredited. In this world, there is truth and reality. I question the benefit of false writing and deception. I will avoid it as long as I can tell the difference and I think that’s a reasonable choice of action.

Great cartoon, I’d be glad to be a white boy like the two of you providing service. We should get a hotel room and put three hot holes on Sniffies

It not only sounds good, it’s good for you, like vitamins. The more cum I get in my gay pussy, the prouder I am. I like to think being full of cum gets more tops to notice me too. I like to think horny men can smell the semen in me and instinctively add more to my lucky wet cunt.

I think the whole older man top and younger man trained to be submissive and used by a superior stereotype is just so tired and unhealthy. I have no more control over my age than my fb does. If that’s the way the play works out, we’ll fine, but I’m not anyone’s father and being called “Daddy” just smacks of taking advantage of another person, and I’m out the door. More I requested opinion, any story on this site that begins by describing “my 18 year old body” or mentions 18 years old, gets scrolled right by. If gay people are to be taken seriously in this world we have to be better than thinking 18 years old is just like candy.

This is an appropriate topic to quote Martin Crowleys Boys in the Band, gays in the 1960s. “ I always thought I’d lose interest before I lost count.”

Don’t ask me if we’ve had sex before and I won’t say no to anything you want to do to me now. One at a time and 14 or so on a good day. I’m just trying to be friendly

Can I just say, not all of them, yet.

What a nice surprise, lucky you.

Cumdumps appreciate returning users. If you can find a steady time to be visit, they will know what to expect and so will you. The steadier he gets loads the better lubed and happier everyone is.

It’s hard to believe that with a shard in your ass and a man in the room, you could even pronounce the word “condom” I’m glad you’ve made the wiser choice to meet his friend and then get what you know you’ve gotta have

A great read. Refreshing to read something that rings true instead of the essay exercises that leaves feeling the author is only imagining real sex. So convenient to have a steady resource in the family who knows he’s welcome even when you have plans with other men. Good sex is good sex

When I’m ass up at the baths, I always have a little Vaseline on my anus and just inside. If a top enters me with a rubber it should guarantee condom failure if I don’t feel the rubber and end the contact. If a top enters with or without spit, I agree with the poster above, what’s wrong with a little abrasion or rectal tearing before we get to the gold standard, the cum left behind by the man before him. Since the man entering is who gets to choose lubrication or none, I use just that little Vaseline to assure that the biggest black cock will still slide in and that there will be no second thoughts preventing him from going all the way to ejaculation. Six or seven loads later everyones having a great time and I can slosh home proud and happy to be a well used gay man.

I’m in New York, will meet you in any midtown men’s room to receive your fluids from the tap