hungry_hole

For me the beauty of sex with men is that you can choose the role. As with women you can't. I can easily jerk-off and cum 3-4 times in a few hours period. And I could be a top and fuck a few times at a bathhouse. As slong as the sex is bareback I can get in the mood very easily, whether is with porn or real-time action. But I don't enjoy fucking. Maybe I'm turned-off by the possibility of a dirty hole. I know the couple of times I've fucked the bottom has squeezed his hole which I've found very uncomfortable. I'm not into topping but when it comes to sex with men I can choose to bottom then.

I'm always curious about the "role labels" that men you use when they have sex with other men. Although some guys don't have any use for either the role or the labels, many others do subscribe to these roles and labels. I'm curious about what determines the fact that some men are tops, others are bottoms, and others versatiles. A) If you are a "top", (1) You have you tried bottoming and you didn't like being fucked (2) Used to be bottom, maybe until you pozed (3) Trying to stay HIV-neg by being a top. If you are a "bottom" (1) You tried toping and didn't like it (why?) (2) You were a top but then switched to bottom C) If you are "versatile" (1) You like flip-fucking or are you a serial-versatile (2) What determines whether you top or bottom? ---------------------------------------------------------------- I'll start by saying that I'm 100% bottom. I tried fucking a couple of times and I don't like it. I don't even enjoy getting my cock sucked or even touched. I allow guys to suck me just to reciprocate. I see myself switching to a more versatile role if I pozed, but otherwise I'll stay a bottom and keep enjoying it.

I enjoy reading about stories of men wanting to just be a hole and/or look for holes, to be an object and/or objectify, to humillate and/or to be humillated, be used and fucked and taking anon loads and/or creame holes in darkrooms and gloryholes, etc, etc. And I realize how much men like objectification when it comes to sex and contrast that to women's plea not to be objectified. Wow, men and women are definitely not a match when it comes to sex.

I like the bottom to be vocal and talk dirty to his top but I don't like it when the bottom screams like a woman while being fucked. I hate screaming bottoms in porn too because what I like is hearing the top moan and groan.

I defintely thanks my top when he thanks me. I know that there seem to be many more bottoms thatn tops. But the math doesn't add up because every time I go out to a sauna I end up getting at least 3 loads in my hole. It may partly because bottoms advertize more, as tops just go out and fuck when they are horny and n o onbe notices them as much. I've had several long-term fuck budies (8+ years) and if bottoms were really abundant why would they come back to me and fuck my raw hole?

I took a nice load from my guy. He came into my bed before going to sleep and found me wearing my shorts with a hole. It drives him crazy to find my hole all lubed up. He fucked me for a very long time and he pumped a nice big load in my hole. I pushed it out this morning. I like the noise cum makes in the toilet water when it drips out of my hole.

I'm like you and have this thing for having a clean hole. I only get turned on when I feel clean. A couple of times I've had accidents, when I started bottoming, I didn't like thg feeling

Nice...as a bottom that's when I open up my hole wide and let my top choose more friction by pumping deeper or just staying with no movement as thick explains what he does when he shoots his load.

I have to bring the "age" variable because I have observed in myself and in others, and in books (The Tearoom Trade, by Humphreys) that the roles (top, bottom, vers) vary with age. According to Humphreys many men start as tops and slowly move on to bottoming. For many fucking remains a pleasant activity, in case of versatiule guys. Age also changes the attitudes towards barebacking and pozing. I remember that as a young guy thye idea of pozing was too scary as to bareback. I would see other guys bareback and couldn't understand how they did it. But now, I started barebacking heavy in my late 40's and have for many years now. I guess when young one, in your mind, can postpone the experience for "later". But as we age, "later" is "now" and the need to live fantasies becomes more urgent. I've said this before. Once a guy seroconverts he sometimes changes role. A top may turn into a bottom and vice-versa. I know that if I pozed toping hot holes and then creaming them with my dirty seed would be a turn on.

Thanks for posting this!

Yeah, really...And the guy who fucks me doesn't even have to be a "top". He can be a bottom who wants to get off before he leaves the sauna. As long as the cock is hard and juicy.

According to a fuck-buddy of mine who fucked me raw few times a month for about 8 years, he a top. probably pozed from fucking already seeded holes with poz cum. After he pozed we stopped having sex. In a way I think I introduced him into bareback sex. We met in gay.com and he fucked me raw from the very first time. At first he was always asking me if I was really HIV-neg and onced he freaked when he saw some pills in my nitght table; I had to reasure him that these were not HIV pills. A few times, after he was gone I would video my load leaking his cum out of my hole. I think that hooked him on seeded holes and he then aksed me to organize group action with other tops. And one day he told me that he had tested poz. I introduced him to bareback sex and he as a top pozed and I haven't yet.

Cleanliness is essential in raw sex.

I think that both experiences are fun, but intimate sex is more complicated because there another person involved. On the other hand, anon sex is all about yourself and your fantasies and very free. I've been lucky that as a bottom I've been able to experience intimate sex with a total top. But what to do if he wants to try to bottom? In anon sex when a guy wants me to fuck him I tell him that I'm a bottom and move on to the next. Easy and free. The ideal would be to have both but in that case the health issue needs to be negotiated.

For me a hot cock for getting fucked is one that is (1) hard, the harder the better and hate semi-hard cocks, the ones not hard enough to go in (2) able to shoot inside, and (3) able to shoot big loads. I don't care about the size unless it's too big or thick to go in. I find small cocks nice because they usually get really hard. I have a fuck buddy now with a relatively small uncut cock but I love when he fucks me and then creams my hole with his small but extremely hard tool. Love it because he sometimes even hurts me because it feels like a steel rod. He usually likes fucking me in several positions and for a long time until he's ready to shoot. When he's ready he asks me to get on my stomach and he basically uses my hole for his pleasure, to dump his load and get off. When he moans and tells me that he's going to shoot, as I always do, I open up and let his small tool go as deep as possible and unload every drop. All of this with a relatively small tool.

I previously wrote: I imagine that for tops, apart from the actual fucking feeling much better, most of the difference is when they go over the edge. When the cock is most sensitive there's nothing around it other than a warm moist hole totally willing to be filled. I also think that for tops when they get up to leave, there's a sense of gratification to know that their load is not inside a condom and gone to waste, but instead, deep in a guy's hole. Any tops feeling this?

I recommend Spa Excess in Toronto because it's a bath house in the gay area close to downtown and the rooms are comfortable enough to use the place as a hotel. I take a 24-hour room with in-out priviledges. Spa Excess has a nice play area in the 3rd floor and the place fairly popular. But just around the block is Steamworks (Toronto) for something different.

I'm looking for really slutty young holes who enioy gang-bangs and taking videos of the action. I would like to meet at a sauna in Ottawa (or Montreal) and have the bottom on the sling, blindfolded, and having guys walk into the room and cream the young hole. I will video the action and get the horny top guys. If you are interested let me know.

I agree that once you bareback, especially as a bottom, HIV is a high risk. And it's not that tops are dishonest about their status. I'm sure that many "tops" have been in situations where their either too drunk or too stoned to remember the time someone fucked them. Or the top dosn't want to remember that he gets fucked once in a while. What I'm saying is that is not a matter of honesty, but rather the whole HIV issue is very difficult to control because of the "window period" (3 months now).

I sometimes work together with another bottom to find guys to fuck or to suck. At the sauna a few days ago I rented the sling room. I would bring a bottom to sit on the sling to get fucked. Guys would come in and if they ask about the number of loads I would say that I had just cream his hole (not true because I'm also a bottom) but it turns guys on to imagine a cum-filled hole. I would also help to get the top to start fucking the bottom on the sling and once the top began to shoot I would hold him in by pushing him towards the sling. It kept the top's cock dripping everything into the bottom's hole. The bottom told me later how amazing it was when I pushed the top and kept him in. Then, in the gloryhole area I also like to help the bottom sucking by pressing the guy getting sucked against the gloryhole. The hottest is when I get a guy to cum who deosn't want to cum yet. I press against the gloryhole and don't let him pull out and let the bottom do a good job swucking the cum out of the guy's cock. It's nice to work with other bottoms.

I was at the sauna a couple of nights ago and was in a room watching a hot BB bottom getting fucked by an unattractive guy but with a very hot cock. When he started shooting his load he pulled out right away and I know it was because the bottom squeezed his hole too much. This top has fucked me BB before and I know he usually keeps his cock inside when I open up my hole.

Young holes usually get a lot of attention and this seems to have been the case here. Most versatile/bottoms become tops at the sight of a young hole. Montreal is not bad either, lots of saunas.

In general young and masculine guys turn me on the most, 18-35. I like the way the dress, walk and behave in geneal. In other words, I enjoy looking at them and admire what I see as the beauty of youth. But this is outside sex. When it comes to sex and I'm in a slutty mood I really don't care who fucks me and who creams my hole. As long as they have a hard juice tool.

In my initial comments I'm talking exclusively about the moment when I as a bottom first notice my top is "getting close" (sometimes the top whispers it into my ear). I'm not saying anything about the fucking that takes place before, which can vary extensively between guys and as the fucking progresses. I squeeze a little bit, then relax and let the top go deep. Unless is one of my long-term fuckbuddies whom I knopw exctly how to please, I always tune into my top's needs and try to please him as much as possible. Apart from the top wanting me to clamp on to their cock they like to talk dirty or me to ask for their cock and cum. Once their breathing or the pace of the stroke is telling me that the end is close and that the reward is about to arrive I get ready. I will definitely continue to squeeze a bit to make it more pleasurable for the top. and instead of moaning and screaming like a girl, I prefer to talk dirty to my top ("Go deep when you shoot!", or “My hole is yours.”). Either it is the extra friction or the dirty talk (which reminds the top of the power to use that hole for his pleasure), maybe both, that are enough to send the top over the edge. It is only then when I completely relax my manhole muscles and continue to talk dirty to my top: “You're breeding me" or "Go deep." Once they stop the tops don't feel the need to pull out because my hole is still completely relaxed (I may do a little tease squeezing) I always say "Keep pumping" and incredibly almost all tops continue pumping their last drops before they pull out. I repeat this a couple of times. This way I make sure I get it all. I have proof that my approach works extremely well. We all know that it’s easier to find a bottom than to find a top. In other words, there are more bottoms than tops. If I were to ever top I know it will be easy to find holes to cream, even as an older top. But as a bottom the competition is fierce. A couple of years ago at Steamworks in Toronto while in my room with my shots and black T-Shirt (See pic in profile) I was surprised to see a black teen walk into my room. I guess my T-shirt turned him on. Steamworks is packed with hot men, many of them bottoms waiting to get fucked. He fucked me and I of course applied my technique. While he was shooting I knew he was enjoying it. As he was leaving the room he said “I’ll be back in an hour.” Oh, yeah right. He’ll never be back. To my surprise an hour later, he comes back. While he was fucking me for the 2nd time he told me how hot my hole was. And again of course he creamed my hole nice. The next two times I went to Toronto we would meet at Steamworks. I knew that as a bottom I’m doing it right. I had a top that once he started shooting I couldn’t even touch him. He would actually yell “Don’t touch me.” The first time he fucked me he pulled out while he was still shooting. He left a stream of cum on my ass. So I learned and the next times I would noty touch him and completely relax my ass muscles. It worked. Once a guy begins to shoot there’s no need for extra friction. Any more comments from Tops? A top once asked me to relax once he started shooting and it made sense to me. It would be interesting if some bottoms who like to squeeze the load out of the tops tried this technique and reported back.

When I go to the baths I alternate between being in the gloryhole area sucking cock and swallowing every load that is released, and being in my room or in the darkroom trying to get my hole creamed. My best: 15 loads in the gloryhole area and 12 loads up my hole. For some reason I like to suck and swallow with the guy standing and not lying on a bed. I'm not sure why. So a gloryhole is best with the guy standing.