As for motels in the U.S., consider Motel 6, Travelodge, and Super 8. Anywhere frequented by prostitutes, hustlers, dealers, or homeless is a safe bet. Look for $40-$80/night ideally with doors that face the parking lot. You can claim that you’re a sensitive sleeper and request a room in the back of the property away from families.
Consider taking a play buddy with you. He can act as lookout, doorman, fluffier, pimp, and Internet secretary. He can also keep you company during lulls, kick out troublemakers, and lick your hole clean between tops. He can hide out discretely in the closet or bathroom, watch from the other bed, or head out and conveniently return after your next trick arrives to “accidentally” walk in on you and your trick.
Pre-lube using a lube squirter, oral syringe/doser, or lube bottle with twist top. Periodically add more if need be. Have supplies on hand to clean out again in case of emergencies.
Learn to recognize the warning signs of curious but too scared to participate; flakes; guys too far gone with their drug of choice; and aggressive/pushy guys. Politely shut them down online and don’t give them your address or room number.
Try your best to determine your ground rules & limits beforehand. Are you taking all cummers or filtering ones you find attractive? Are guys allowed to bring buddies? Will you allow recording with cell phones or cameras? What sex acts and scenes are out of bounds? Are guys allowed to linger afterwards, or is it strictly cum & go? Are guys allowed to bring party favors, vapes, edibles, etc.? Does HIV/COVID status matter? (WARNING: You can’t safely control this factor as people lie and/or don’t get tested.)
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