So I didn't read the entire thread on this topic, but regarding the original Post. Yeah, that was just wrong, what if you had an allergy to Latex, he could have killed you.
I was in a dark room once a long time ago in Atlanta. Was my first time and last honestly, there aren't any of those kinds of places where I live, wish there was. But anyway, no condoms were involved but I was fingering this nice ass or it felt nice until I realized dude hadn't cleaned out prior to going. It was totally nasty. If you are going to a sex club for the love all the Gods clean out your DAMN HOLE. Sorry for my rant and totally unrelated topic.