blktone67

I thought someone would pick up on that line. Third person speaking makes it truer than first person, in my humble opinion.

After reading the thread on the double secret life, and posting on it. I thought about the price that bi married men have to risk for engaging in risky sexual behavior. Also,I was just thinking that any of us, me included, could have a daughter who is either married to a man or has a boyfriend who engages in this type of risky behavior. It also made me think about my sister, my mom, or any woman I deeply care about who could be in a relationship with a man who is basically a serial cheater or whore. Even though I am sounding preachy by now, I do think that anyone who's in a relationship, and basically wants his cake and eat it too, should either wear a condom when he's out there playing. It's just the moral and common sense thing to do so that your partner is protected from getting an STD. Before I read the thread on double secret life, I really didn't care if the bottom I bred was married or not. Now I do because I am thinking what if I had a STD or worse had HIV, and didn't know it yet. I could be potentially responsible for infecting an innocent person's wife or partner. I said all of this because I know someone who has been married for almost 20 years. He's smart, educated, has the big house with the white picket fence, and two kids. He's very active at his local church, even teaches Sunday School. But he told me how he couldn't any longer suppress his sexual urges to be with a man. Even though the sex with his wife was regular, he told me that he wasn't being fully sexually satisfied. So, after 8 years into his marriage, he began to act on those urges that got uncontrollably hard for him to suppress. He told me that he has slept with over 1000 men during the last 10 years, gotten chlamydia, gonnarehea, and exposure to syphilis after a guy he barebacked with told him that he was tested positive for Syphilis. He gave his wife chlamydia once, and she forgave him for it. But that didn't stop him from messing around. He just found out that he's been having sex regularly with a circle of about 7 poz men in his community who happen to sleep with each other and do drugs together too. Also, he says that he no longer has sex with his wife strictly because he's afraid of giving her another STD---and not sure about his HIV status until he tested again. The sad part about his situation is that his wife doesn't even suspect or thinks that he's still messing around because he told me that she still seeks sex from him, and that he has gotten really good at not getting caught. But because he is basically out of control with his multiple sex partners, that he averages about 14 different guys a month, some he has been regularly seeing for about 8 years. He has no energy or libido left for sex with wife anymore. Talking about a bad situation for this poor guy. I typed all of this for married guys or guys who have a partner. Really think about the risk you are not only putting yourself in, but the risk you are putting an innocent person in, when all you could have said to the person is I need to break up, and do my thing. Also, no court is going to rule on your side when the evidence proves the you selfishly and deliberately engaged in risky behavior that destroyed your family, your life, and caused shame for you and your family once you are outed. The price to pay is great for a bi married man who is living a double secret life for a quickie hook up to get his jollies off. Is it worth it? Only you can answer that question. I just did for you, and the answer is unequivocally HELL NO!

After reading this thread, I was just thinking that any of us, me included, could have a daughter who is either married to a man or has a boyfriend who engages in this type of risky behavior. It also made me think about my sister, my mom, or any woman I deeply care about who could be in a relationship with a man who is basically a serial cheater or whore. Even though I hope that I am not sounding preachy, but I do think that anyone who's in a relationship, and basically wants his cake and eat it too, should either wear a condom when he's out there playing. It's the moral thing to do so that your partner is protected from getting an STD. I said all of this because I know someone who has been married for almost 20 years. He smart, educated, has the house,the white picket fence, and two kids. He's very active at his local church, even teaches Sunday School. But he couldn't suppress his sexual urges to be with a man. After being 8 years into his marriage, he began to act on those urges that got uncontrollably hard to suppress. He told me that he has slept with over 1000 men during the last 10 years, gotten chlaymidia, gonnarehea, and exposure to syphlis after a guy he bb with told him that he was tested positive for Syphlis. He gave his wife chylamidia once, and she forgave him for it. But that didn't stop him from messing around. He just found out that he's been having sex with a circle of about 7 poz men in his community who happen to sleep with each other and do drugs together, and he says that he no longer has sex with his wife strictly because he's afraid of giving her another STD---and not sure if he is HIV poz. The sad part about his situation is that his wife doesn't even suspect or think that he's still messing around because he told me that she still seeks sex from him. But because he is so caught up with his multiple sex partners, and he averages about 14 different guys a month, some regulars, some new guys, that he has no energy or libido left for sex with his wife anymore. He said to me that part of him doesn't want to risk giving her a std again. Talking about a bad situation for this poor guy. I typed all of this for married guys or guys who have a partner. Really think about the risk you are not only putting yourself in, but the risk you are putting an innocent person in, when all you could have said to the person is I need to break up, and do my thing.

I have to agree with you on this one. For me, if the bottom nutts before me, he has to endure it a little longer for me to bust mine. In fact, just yesterday this young Latino bottom hits me up from an old Craigslist ad that I posted, to let me know that he was coming to my area to house sit for a friend. I went over there to hookup with him, and the entire time I was in his ass, he was stroking his cock. He kept telling me that he was about to cum. I tell him go right ahead, which he does instantly. Then as I am still sliding in his ass, he tells me to stop. I didn't, and I kept going until I busted deep in his ass. To me if the bottom wants to cum, and not time it when the tops cums, then he has to endure, the pain and or discomfort until his tops fills him up with some jizz. It's the fair thing to do or don't stroke and cum before the top then. All that does is pisses me off on the deep end.

Yesterday, I dumped it in this cute Latino bottom who wasn't expecting me to nutt deep in him. I gave him a nice one, right after he busted while I was drilling his hole.

Are you still as horny as you were in your 20s? I turned 44 in January, and I swear up until yesterday, I nutted in 6 different bottoms asses for seven days in a row, one guy took my load on two separate days within those seven days. I am not taking Viagra to help me keep it up either. I am finding myself as horny as ever. Don't let a guy with a big beefy ass send me his ass pix for breeding. I still get rock hard, even if I busted in a guy's ass that same day.

My step dad starting screwing me when I was 12. He was 6'2'' 220 solid muscular pounds, and had a big 9 inch thick cock. He would sit down and talk to me about having sex with girls, and on this one day, he asked me was I getting horny to have sex. I told him that I was having dreams too and would wake up in the mornings with a hard on. He told me that it was normal to wake up that way. In his warp way of getting me to give up my ass to him, he showed me how to jerk off while fingering my ass. At the time, I didn't know that what he was doing was prepping my hole to take his big bone. He would stroke with me, telling me that it was normal for boys to do that, and it was their dad or big brother's job to show boys entering puberty how to do it. In a sense I was embarrassed by it, but loved how he would stroke me sometimes, while fingering me, making me shoot very huge and explosive loads. Making a long story short, one day he told me that he wanted to slide his bone in my hole, and since he had worked up 4 fingers in my hole, he said that he wouldn't hurt. Since my mom was suffering from kidney disease he said that he needed a hole to use, and that mine was ready for him. He also said to me that I didn't have a choice in the matter, and that I would learn to like taking his bone as I would be getting off feeling him inside of me. Well he was right. I got the sense that if I rejected his offer, that meant he would rape me, and I wouldn't be able to do anything about it. I still remember his musk body odor, and how he would stroke me hard, then slide in my ass. It always hurt initially, but felt good when he would stroke my hard cock to make me cum. He would bone me about 5 times a week, sometimes two and three times a day. He didn't care if my ass was clean, and that would freak me out, cause he just wiped off his bone, and kept screwing me until he shot his load.

Thanks for adding the poll. I had thought of adding one to this thread too, but didn't know how touchy this topic would be for guys who are truly victims of rape. For me, I would say that I was technically raped when I was very young about 5 years old. I instigated it with my then 15 year old God brother, who took me into his bedroom, laid me down, laid on top of me and started to grind. I still remember his teen musk/body odor to this day. I remember crying cause he felt so heavy on top of me. Thank God he didn't want to penetrate me or forced me to take it. After that incident, I remember his best friend was staring at me, and was making subtle remarks at me. I don't remember what he said, but I know that he wasn't remarking how much of a good boy I was.

Wow talking about messed up. Were you able to talk to anyone about it, or did u just keep that to yourself?

I think you have answered your own question.

This month is the 4th anniversary of the rescued boy (Shawn Hornbeck) who was abducted by Micheal Devlin in Missouri and forced him to live with him for four years, until he was rescued by the police after Devlin kidnapped another younger boy and took him to his apartment to inflict the same sexual torture on a new boy. What disturbs me about this case is that Hornbeck was 11 years old (a baby) when Devlin kidnapped him. It has been confessed by Devlin that he sexually tortured and raped this boy during the first 30 days of holding the boy, literally fucking up this boy mentally, and right when Devlin decided to take the boy to some remote location to murder him, the boy's will to survive made Devlin change his mind when the boy said that he would do anything if he would spare his life. I am sure this young man, who is now 19 years old, is nine times out of ten screwed up and embarrassed now that the world knows that this pervert was raping him repeatedly for 4 years. Now I know no one can be turned gay if they aren't gay. But I do think that if you are very young, and some pervert has been poking your ass repeatedly against your will, that would definitely affect the person and probably make him develop some attraction to a man if just to continue to be used by a man or being totally submissive to a man. So my question is for guys who have been raped or molested as a child, have your become sexually attracted to men who look similar to the man who molested or raped you?

Being a Bi guy, many bottoms have told me that I pound them deeper and harder than some of their gay tops buds. I was just wondering do any bottoms notice a difference or not?