ChesterCub
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When I'm playing with a guy and we're ready to start fucking, I'll go to lube his dick up. If he's into bb then he doesn't stop me and just get right into it. If not, then he'll complain, can't really put a condom on a lubed cock.
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In the UK you need to disclose your status to anyone you have unprotected sex with. This does include oral sex, however the only cases of HIV being transmitted orally are when the blower has had bloody gums, ulcers, etc. Anybody having bareback sex in a sauna, gloryhole, etc should accept the risks of their actions before starting. The anonymous nature is very appealing to barebackers not wishing to go through the hassle of disclosure though. Whenever I've seen a bareback party being set up, the hosts have always mentioned that people coming must be aware and accept the risks of playing with guys that could have HIV. All information on this should have been given to you by your clinic doctor when you were told. Never be afraid to talk to them, the health advisors are very informative and are there to help you understand all of this.
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I was diagnosed HIV positive a couple of weeks ago, and my local clinic have been nothing but supportive, despite my oddly chilled and laid back behaviour to the whole scenario. Since I visit them regularly for both STI and HIV checks, we've got an excellent timeline of when it happened (between mid May and mid/end of June), and I'm almost certain that I know who gave it to me, since I was quite busy with work I wasn't playing too much around then, and my initial illness fits in after I played with a couple of friends one nights (as in they are a couple too). The local clinic has HIV sessions every Tuesday and Thursday morning where people getting treated come in to see the doctors, there are counselling sessions, group meetings, and even massages too. When they called me to tell me of the diagnosis they just asked me to come along to the next one and that they would be taking a lot of blood samples. Sure enough I was sat down with a doctor I had met only once before and the health advisor who had been seeing me for STI and HIV checks for the last couple of years. I wasn't overly keen on the health advisor because at every opportunity he was telling me how much danger I was running into by playing raw, despite telling him my reasons, so it was getting a bit annoying at times. Surprisingly when it came to be his turn to talk as the doctor left the room, he was quite friendly about the whole scenario, as I thought he was going to give me an 'I told you so' type of lecture. We talked about what was going to happen next and he put me in touch with some other people to talk to, and even introduced me to one while I was waiting to get my blood samples taken.
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If a bottom insists on wanting you to wear a condom then it's a fairly simple but important request, so you could just say you're only interested in bareback sex, and go your separate ways, as opposed to shitting all over the trust he's putting in you to play safe.
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BarebackRT.com profiles: Your Status and My Status
ChesterCub replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I've had mine as Not Sure for about a year now because despite getting regular 2-3 months testings, and always turning up negative, I get given at least another load in my hole between the test and the result, so by the time I know I'm negative for then, it's already pointless. -
I took a similar path and kept them with toiletries, but not in my hand luggage as I didn't want to risk customs looking through my bag and wandering what the little bottle of nameless liquid was.
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Bottom: What is your favorite position to get fucked?
ChesterCub replied to Footnotes's topic in General Discussion
I tend to find that more cocks tend to curve up than down, so getting fucked in the missionary position makes it more likely for them to hit the prostate and get me moaning with ecstasy. -
I just checked it out, and I do like the idea, although my pin is about 40 miles off. What about locating by postal code? In most cases they're accurate to the street but not the house. By adding a box on profiles for postcodes to fill in (that isn't visible to other users), a user would have the choice whether to include himself in that increased accuracy, otherwise the pin could be placed in the center of the town/city on their profile.
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Bottom: What is your favorite position to get fucked?
ChesterCub replied to Footnotes's topic in General Discussion
It's gotta be missionary for me, laying on the bed with my arse on the edge, or in a sling, so I can look into the eyes of the men breeding me, telling them how great their dicks are and begging for more. -
Those few seconds when a top touches the head of his lubed dick to my hole, and slides all the way in until base of his cock touches my ring.
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Yeah I've got 2 jockstraps (red stiped and blue striped), chaps (blue striped), chest harness, and boots. Taken them out to a few leather nights in nearby cities, good reaction generally, and just found a guy on Recon who's looking to pass on a load of his own gear so I'm going to make him an offer
