ChesterCub

When I'm playing with a guy and we're ready to start fucking, I'll go to lube his dick up. If he's into bb then he doesn't stop me and just get right into it. If not, then he'll complain, can't really put a condom on a lubed cock.

In the UK you need to disclose your status to anyone you have unprotected sex with. This does include oral sex, however the only cases of HIV being transmitted orally are when the blower has had bloody gums, ulcers, etc. Anybody having bareback sex in a sauna, gloryhole, etc should accept the risks of their actions before starting. The anonymous nature is very appealing to barebackers not wishing to go through the hassle of disclosure though. Whenever I've seen a bareback party being set up, the hosts have always mentioned that people coming must be aware and accept the risks of playing with guys that could have HIV. All information on this should have been given to you by your clinic doctor when you were told. Never be afraid to talk to them, the health advisors are very informative and are there to help you understand all of this.

I was diagnosed HIV positive a couple of weeks ago, and my local clinic have been nothing but supportive, despite my oddly chilled and laid back behaviour to the whole scenario. Since I visit them regularly for both STI and HIV checks, we've got an excellent timeline of when it happened (between mid May and mid/end of June), and I'm almost certain that I know who gave it to me, since I was quite busy with work I wasn't playing too much around then, and my initial illness fits in after I played with a couple of friends one nights (as in they are a couple too). The local clinic has HIV sessions every Tuesday and Thursday morning where people getting treated come in to see the doctors, there are counselling sessions, group meetings, and even massages too. When they called me to tell me of the diagnosis they just asked me to come along to the next one and that they would be taking a lot of blood samples. Sure enough I was sat down with a doctor I had met only once before and the health advisor who had been seeing me for STI and HIV checks for the last couple of years. I wasn't overly keen on the health advisor because at every opportunity he was telling me how much danger I was running into by playing raw, despite telling him my reasons, so it was getting a bit annoying at times. Surprisingly when it came to be his turn to talk as the doctor left the room, he was quite friendly about the whole scenario, as I thought he was going to give me an 'I told you so' type of lecture. We talked about what was going to happen next and he put me in touch with some other people to talk to, and even introduced me to one while I was waiting to get my blood samples taken.

If a bottom insists on wanting you to wear a condom then it's a fairly simple but important request, so you could just say you're only interested in bareback sex, and go your separate ways, as opposed to shitting all over the trust he's putting in you to play safe.

I've had mine as Not Sure for about a year now because despite getting regular 2-3 months testings, and always turning up negative, I get given at least another load in my hole between the test and the result, so by the time I know I'm negative for then, it's already pointless.

I took a similar path and kept them with toiletries, but not in my hand luggage as I didn't want to risk customs looking through my bag and wandering what the little bottle of nameless liquid was.

I tend to find that more cocks tend to curve up than down, so getting fucked in the missionary position makes it more likely for them to hit the prostate and get me moaning with ecstasy.

I just checked it out, and I do like the idea, although my pin is about 40 miles off. What about locating by postal code? In most cases they're accurate to the street but not the house. By adding a box on profiles for postcodes to fill in (that isn't visible to other users), a user would have the choice whether to include himself in that increased accuracy, otherwise the pin could be placed in the center of the town/city on their profile.

It's gotta be missionary for me, laying on the bed with my arse on the edge, or in a sling, so I can look into the eyes of the men breeding me, telling them how great their dicks are and begging for more.

Those few seconds when a top touches the head of his lubed dick to my hole, and slides all the way in until base of his cock touches my ring.

Yeah I've got 2 jockstraps (red stiped and blue striped), chaps (blue striped), chest harness, and boots. Taken them out to a few leather nights in nearby cities, good reaction generally, and just found a guy on Recon who's looking to pass on a load of his own gear so I'm going to make him an offer

About a year and a half ago, not long after I first moved to where I'm living now, I had been chatting to a local couple on Gaydar, one late 30s, other early 50s, when we agreed to let me come over and check out the playroom they had built in their attic. I drove over, we had a few drinks and chatted for a bit, before getting our clothes off and heading up into the attic. It was pleasantly warm, and a good sleazy shade of red, hehe. They took some chems and I sucked on them both (the younger guy had a beautiful, fat 8" dick which was straight as an arrow and I loved deepthroating it, but could never possibly get fucked by a dick that big) while it settled in their systems. Now I was on the top side of versatile at this point in my life, about 70% so, and I'm certain the events of this night were what changed me to who I am today. When they were ready they encouraged me to get into their sling, the first time I'd used one, and they moved me around to the best position for me and them. They spread my cheeks and admired my hole, before taking it in turns to snog me and tongue my ring. Then while the younger guy was snogging me, he pressed a bottle of poppers under my nose, and I felt a sloppy substance being spread around my ring, like no lube I'd ever felt before, so I breathed in deeply and eagerly. He gave me the bottle to hold, and I became lost in the high as over the following hour experienced and patient fingers slowly worked me open. The older guy took a short break downstairs while the younger one was working his hand in (reaching the point where it's biggest in circumference). I was lying with my head back, just listening to the sloppy wet sounds, when I felt him pull his hand out, heard the floor creak slightly, and then felt something new slide in, warmer than the hand, but not quite as big, but it was still touching the walls of my hole. I looked up and saw him standing, close to my open legs, and with a mischievous grin he winked at me. He had slid his entire cock in with no resistance whatsoever, and I could feel there was no latex on that dick. All I could do was hold his gaze as he pulled out, and then let out a small gasp as he slid in again. I put the lid on the poppers, clearly I didn't need them anymore, and laid back to return to the submissive side I'd found in myself, while he worked my hole with his big cock. He soon returned to opening me further with his hands, and the older guy came back and joined in too. Over the course of the night we all switched places, and they taught me not only how to take fist, but how to give it too, and we shared the feel of inside each other. By the early hours we were all getting tired, so I sensed my time to leave was soon, but not after one last bit of fun. I asked them both to fuck me. The older guy politely declined for his own reasons, but the younger guy took me over to a mattress they kept there in the attic, and as soon as my back hit it my legs were lifted up and he was balls deep in me again. He was pumping me tirelessly, his cock sliding effortlessly from base to head and back, and all I could do was take it and wank at the sensation. After about 10 minutes I groaned heavily and clamped down hard on his meat as I shot one of the best loads I've ever shot!

I'm almost entirely bottom, we're talking 80-90% here, so whenever I'm arranging a hook-up or getting down to it with a guy it's my intention to be taking his dick. But if they show me a sign of weakness/submission, or we're doing foreplay and my rimming is getting a good reaction (and if they say they've never taken dick before) then I'll play with his hole to see how he reacts, then make him take my dick instead.

I would describe myself as a submissive bottom because to me a total bottom wants to suck a cock and take it up his arse, and then leave it at that. But my attitude is to let go of having to be in control of day to day stuff, and submitting my body, my mouth, my hole, to a top/versatile guy who wants to use them to express his desires.

I find it very common across all profile sites that when you send a guy a message, he'll read it, check out your own profile and then suddenly the message never existed! Not even a polite "Thanks but I'm not interested" or something on those lines. A lot of guys out there think they really are God's gift to man. This is only amplified worse in the barebacking world because in my opinion if a guy wants to unload and someone offers their hole, surely its better to go have some raw sex than sit at home and have a wank? It's also a sure thing here in the UK (Manchester and Birmingham in my experience) that when a party is set up on BBRT, then perhaps 1/4 of the guys who signed up to attend, don't show up.

I think I draw the line at 6" minimum, anything bigger is just better and better. But if its so big that it struggles to stay hard then its pretty useless in the end.

Got no problems switching between arse and mouth here, I'm usually very confident that I'm clean so it's no issue, and I always suck dicks clean after they've just loaded me. If the top had just been in another bottom, and then offered me his cock then I probably wouldn't after a bad experience left me unwilling to trust other holes: I was in a sauna at the glory holes once, deepthroating a nice big dick, when it suddenly pulled back. I had a look through to see where he'd gone, then follow, but he'd turned to side and was just sliding it into the arse of a guy in there with him. I kept watching, of course, while he pumped this guy's hole for a few minutes. Then he quickly pulled out, turned back to the glory hole and pushed his dick forward. I went to greet him, and as his fat head pushed through my lips I felt a lump stick to my upper one, and then I smelt his cock too. I almost gagged and ran to wash my face and mouth.

I always make sure to thank a top for letting me take his seed, it's only polite after all

I took 6 loads from 5 guys while I was in Dublin last weekend. 2 from BBRT came round to my hotel room on the Saturday and left the first 3 in me. Then went to a sauna on the Sunday, rode an older guy with a nice thick 7", got taken to a cubicle and slow-fucked by another 7", then another BBRT guy brought me his meaty 8" and mercilessly pounded me while everyone watched.

On my back, legs up, arse spread and hole open. They always get balls deep that way.

When I'm using lube though, I always carry silicone-based ones, only takes a few drops to spread around your hole, and it won't dry up anywhere near as quickly as water-based lubes. Will take a few washes to get it completely off though, but I find that a good thing if you need a quick shower in the sauna and your lubed hole still stays a bit slick.

So I use slings in saunas often, I find them very horny, and love being approached, played with and fucked. But on the other hand, not everybody is as into them as me, or 90% of guys who come to look at who is in the sling will immediately turn away. Now I'm willing to accept that I'm not the most attractive guy to find in that position, but personally I believe that the guy in the sling is just a hole to be filled, and so looks shouldn't be that much of an issue. I want to know if there is more I can do from my suspended position to attract as many guys to use my hole as possible, to maximize it's usage. What do you guys do, or find pulls you to hole that's waiting?

Since my last post, I visited a sauna in Nottingham 3 weeks ago, most guys used condoms (I leave the choice to the top), but one guy approached me in the sling and just slid right in. While he was pounding away on my hole a group formed so I started sucking all the dicks that came near my face. A few came in my mouth before the guy in my hole stiffened and shot his load deep into me. 2 weeks ago I was in London and arranged to stay in a hotel with a guy on Grindr, he had a nice big thick dick and happily fucked me for hours before dumping a huge load just inside me. I kept my arse high so I could feel it running deeper inside. And a couple of days ago I tried another sauna near Manchester at the request of a guy on BBRT. He led me to the dark maze, showed me the fuck bench which I knelt on and spread my arse ready for me. His cock felt pretty good as he spent about half an hour pounding me in front of the other guys in there until he gave me his load too.