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drscorpio

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  1. First, getting established in a new city is always hard even without all of this bothering you. It may take several months to two years for you to have the support network you need, so you need to prepare for a long haul. If there are some LGBTQ organizations you could join, that would be a good start on making connections. I'm glad you reached out to us here though. We aren't going anywhere, so keep sharing with us. Second, consider getting some counseling. It sounds like this guy has done a lot of damage to your self-confidence and self-esteem. A professional can help you work through all of that more quickly.
  2. Good deal! Glad you got some cum inside you. Don't be surprised if it makes you want more cum inside you.
  3. And if you find out you have been exposed to Hep A and/or B, there are preventative treatments that can keep you from developing a full-blown infection if you get them in the first 72 hours or so.
  4. If the top doesn't care about me cumming after he loads my ass, I like to use a toy up my sloppy hole while I beat off. Often I will pull it out several times and clean it off with my mouth. Sometimes the top wants to see me shoot. If he doesn't stay inside me while I stroke, I like to have a toy to offer him, so he can keep fucking my hole. It's hard for me to cum without my ass being full.
  5. Frat boys have been branding their frat letters into their skin for years now especially since tattoos have become so much more mainstream. I haven't seen a biobrand though. Part of the issue is that the branding instrument has to be manufactured. I guess the demand isn't there yet.
  6. Hey, I wish you all the best, but you need to get tested. I was a big slut at Texas Bear Round Up taking anonymous loads. Three weeks later I suddenly came down with a weird flu kind of crap. I was afraid I might be pozzed, but I got a negative test result last week. Don't tie yourself up in knots wondering - find out.
  7. I just like for the top to be honest about his intentions. If you want o blow a load in me and run, that's cool. I will either hunt for the next top to load my cummy hole or use a toy while I beat off. I love pulling my toy out covered with your load and licking it clean before sticking it back in. But don't feed me a line about how the first load will come quick but then you want to take a long time pumping that second one in and make sure I get off. I have had several guys tell me that during what tured out to be a pump and dump.
  8. This story is super hot! I have not one gripe with your content. But there are some things you could do to make it easier to read. (I hope you were asking for constructive criticism; feel free to ignore me if you aren't). Check your spelling. It's pulls you out of the hot action when you have to think "what? Did he mean that word? Oh wait, he meant this other word. Now it makes sense." There were a couple of places that I just couldn't figure out what you meant. Not using texting abbreviations like "ur" will help, too. Upper case letters at the beginning of sentences and periods at the end help your writing make sense to the reader, too. Also names should always be capitalized. Hit the RETURN key every few sentences when your action shifts to a new time or place or activity. That makes it much easier to keep your place when you are reading a large block of text. It's best to put these breaks where a real paragraph ends and begins. The first place I would have put one is between "I didn't know what to do." and "As soon as practice was over, ..."
  9. For years, I always wanted it on my back with my legs in the air for the reasons people have posted. I met my husband 8 years ago. He likes fucking me on my belly with my legs together. I have grown to love this position as well. I will take it how the top wants to give it to me though.
  10. I got fucked with condoms only for several years in my 20s. Once I started taking bare cock though I lost the ability to get fucked with a rubber. Every time I have tried since then it has hurt too bad to continue. Fortunately, the top has always been ready to keep going bare. This is only twice in the last 20 years that I even tried it.
  11. It may just be the fact that swishy boys come out first. They can't really hide who they are. The butch young guys may still be passing for straight; they don't have to be part of the scene because Grindr and A4A and the like give them a way to hook up anonymously.
  12. I don't know if you know the story of the Fire at the Upstairs Lounge. It is one of the deadliest attacks against the LGBT community in the USA. The 40th anniversary of the attack is next month. Not a lot of people know about it though. Feeling that everyone needs to know the fire, a good friend of mine, Wayne Self, has written a musical about the incident. It will open in New Orleans the same weekend as Pride, June 21 -24. You can buy tickets for the play here. More information can be found here. I don't have any financial interest in this endeavor. I just wanted to help get the word out about the play.
  13. I kept one in my 20s. I found it a couple of years ago. For whatever reason, it was all done in code except for name, basic stats, and cock size. I can't recall what all the Xs and *s mean.
  14. Yeah, it happens all the time. Although most of the time, they want my ass bare from the start. The "safe only" is just pretense. Sometimes though they just haven't read my profile at all which is really annoying. I try o put enough detail there for a person to tell whether or not I will be a good match for m sexually. That's the point, isn't it?
  15. I watched the video last night on an iPad, so Flash shouldn't be an issue. It's a scene from the movie "Mysterious Skin" which was one of the movies Joseph Gordon Levitt did to make the transition from child actor to actor. Yeah, I have had a few tops not take slow down, it hurts or no for an answer.
  16. I think there are two things getting confused in this discussion. First, there is the issue of whether it is acceptable to thwart another person's desire to play safe in a situation where bareback is the norm. Second, there is the issue of whether or not said person can reasonably expect to succeed at their aim. I think it is perfectly reasonable to believe that the actions described by the original poster are wrong (that is this is not an acceptable case of stealthing) and to also believe that the bottom in question was delusional for thinking his risk management strategy would work. Here's an analogy. Suppose some young guys are sharing an apartment. One of them comes home drunk and leaves his wallet on the table. The next morning, he finds $20 missing from his wallet. Was his strategy for protecting his money stupid? Absolutely. Did the guy who lifted a 20 from his wallet steal? Absolutely. Should we put more blame on the guy who left his cash for the taking or for the guy who saw his chance to get away with something and went for it? I think that's essentially what we are discussing in this thread.
  17. I still had some condom porn on VHS until we moved 3 years ago. My husband correctly pointed out that I hadn't actually used our VCR in years, so there was no need to move the tapes. I threw out all my VHS tapes when we were packing. So even though I owned it, I haven't watched condom porn in at least 10 years. I have the same issue you do; once I see the rubber, the hard on is over.
  18. Yeah, if you want to make things work with your guy, it's time to have the opening your relationship conversation. With any luck, you will both still be taking loads from others, but now you'll be able to tell each other the slutty details. Won't that be hot?
  19. Glad you are getting thorough treatment. I hope you are better soon. Once you get everything under control your ass should heal quickly, but don't rush it. You'll be taking cock again soon enough.
  20. I had a threesome with my husband and one of my young fuckbuddies, a 19-year-old with a thick 7.5. We got naked and made out and sucked cock and pinched nipples for a while. Then the kid slid into me and quickly dropped a load. That got daddy going; he took turns fucking the kid and me on the side of the bed with our legs in the air. He likes the leverage in that position, but he seldom cums standing up. After a while, the kid wanted another go; he gave me a good hard fuck for a respectable amount of time for round 2. Daddy was going to give me his load after, but he got too hot watching me take it and shot all over us while we were fucking. After they both came, they flipped me over and daddy worked my hole while the kid worked my nipples. I shot a huge load in no time.
  21. It's attitudes like this that make rape such a problem. No No, No, No, No, No, No Consent requires active participation from both parties. That said, I know there are guys who WANT to be taken advantage of when they are helpless/pretending to be helpless. They want to give up their participation in the act so in their minds they aren't really saying they want your raw load. They want you to take their decision away. These guys need to man the fuck up and say "give me your load." You don't need to help them continue to be wusses about the whole situation.
  22. I am glad this happened to me for the first time when I was young (23 or so). The fact that it was followed by the best head I had ever imagined got me past it. Once you've felt that, it never bothers you again. I would have hated to have missed out on all those great toothless BJs.
  23. In my 20s and 30s, I had sex with several of my straight friends who "just wanted to try it once." By which they meant getting fucked. Almost all of these guys have gone on to be straight to the best of my knowledge. A couple thought were just testing the waters before starting to come out. Everyone of these guys pursued me; this was totally their idea. Here are my observations about this phenomenon. If the straight guy just want his cock sucked or to fuck you, then that's as far as it will probably go; he may do this again, but he's probably going to stay trade. You meet a lot of guys like this on CL, too. They are flexible enough to realize a queer on the side is less bother than a mistress. If a straight guy wants your cock up his ass but doesn't want to kiss or even do oral either way, then he meant what he said; he's dying to know what being fucked feels like, and once his curiosity is satisfied, he's probably done. If he wants to suck you, kiss you, or be snugly in any way, then it's only a matter of time before he's one of us, potentially on the DL long term, but one of us nonetheless.
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