drscorpio
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I still had some condom porn on VHS until we moved 3 years ago. My husband correctly pointed out that I hadn't actually used our VCR in years, so there was no need to move the tapes. I threw out all my VHS tapes when we were packing. So even though I owned it, I haven't watched condom porn in at least 10 years. I have the same issue you do; once I see the rubber, the hard on is over.
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Cheating on the already cheating boyfriend
drscorpio replied to preppyboyalex's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, if you want to make things work with your guy, it's time to have the opening your relationship conversation. With any luck, you will both still be taking loads from others, but now you'll be able to tell each other the slutty details. Won't that be hot? -
Glad you are getting thorough treatment. I hope you are better soon. Once you get everything under control your ass should heal quickly, but don't rush it. You'll be taking cock again soon enough.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
drscorpio replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I had a threesome with my husband and one of my young fuckbuddies, a 19-year-old with a thick 7.5. We got naked and made out and sucked cock and pinched nipples for a while. Then the kid slid into me and quickly dropped a load. That got daddy going; he took turns fucking the kid and me on the side of the bed with our legs in the air. He likes the leverage in that position, but he seldom cums standing up. After a while, the kid wanted another go; he gave me a good hard fuck for a respectable amount of time for round 2. Daddy was going to give me his load after, but he got too hot watching me take it and shot all over us while we were fucking. After they both came, they flipped me over and daddy worked my hole while the kid worked my nipples. I shot a huge load in no time. -
It's attitudes like this that make rape such a problem. No No, No, No, No, No, No Consent requires active participation from both parties. That said, I know there are guys who WANT to be taken advantage of when they are helpless/pretending to be helpless. They want to give up their participation in the act so in their minds they aren't really saying they want your raw load. They want you to take their decision away. These guys need to man the fuck up and say "give me your load." You don't need to help them continue to be wusses about the whole situation.
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I am glad this happened to me for the first time when I was young (23 or so). The fact that it was followed by the best head I had ever imagined got me past it. Once you've felt that, it never bothers you again. I would have hated to have missed out on all those great toothless BJs.
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In my 20s and 30s, I had sex with several of my straight friends who "just wanted to try it once." By which they meant getting fucked. Almost all of these guys have gone on to be straight to the best of my knowledge. A couple thought were just testing the waters before starting to come out. Everyone of these guys pursued me; this was totally their idea. Here are my observations about this phenomenon. If the straight guy just want his cock sucked or to fuck you, then that's as far as it will probably go; he may do this again, but he's probably going to stay trade. You meet a lot of guys like this on CL, too. They are flexible enough to realize a queer on the side is less bother than a mistress. If a straight guy wants your cock up his ass but doesn't want to kiss or even do oral either way, then he meant what he said; he's dying to know what being fucked feels like, and once his curiosity is satisfied, he's probably done. If he wants to suck you, kiss you, or be snugly in any way, then it's only a matter of time before he's one of us, potentially on the DL long term, but one of us nonetheless.
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For years, I always wanted it on my back with my legs in the air because I love to watch the tops face when he cums.(I also loved watching a first timers face when he learned that no, I wasn't going to ask him to wear a rubber and yes, he could totally shoot inside. It's great that people just expect to bareback nowadays, but I kind of miss being that sluttty bottom that made a top's night by giving it all up for him) Eight years ago, I met my husband who prefers fucking me flat on my belly or sometimes doggy-style. I have gotten very used to that position and I really like it now. It makes me feel like the top has all the power and control which is hot. All that said, I think in a sling is the best. We've talked about getting one for the house.
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Sweetie, your story set the bar pretty high. Anything I have thought to add seems kinda lame.
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FYI - The New "Chaser" Film Is NOT Bug Chaser Sympathetic
drscorpio replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't think there is much percentage it trying to figure out why Paul Morris does things. He's fairly inscrutable. I suppose he may think getting this film out will start more conversations about barebacking, and that should lead to more people coming out either as barebackers or as supporting our right to bareback. -
THIS! You aren't ready to be friends with an ex until you are over pining for him. Nostalgia for the good times is one thing; wanting him back is another.
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Happy Birthday Fuckers! Breeding Zone Is 3 Years Old Today
drscorpio replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Happy Birthday, BZ! Congratulations, rawTOP! -
Pick A Number .. Any Number?
drscorpio replied to orlandoneg's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Another great story, orlandoneg! -
I had a large, painful hemorrhoid removed surgically about 20 years ago (I was in my late 20s/early 30s). It took about 3-4 months before it was healed enough to take a cock. Even then I had to be really careful not to let myself get constipated because a hard, dry movement would re-irritate the scar and make it tender for a week or so. It was hard to take really big cocks for about a year because again they would irritate the scar. It probably took a few years before my hole was back to normal completely. I am still pretty vigilant about not letting myself get constipated though.
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There is also the issue that most of us get piggier as we age. I am completely comfortable doing things today that I wouldn't have thought of doing at 25 when I was "scared safe." A lot of younger guys haven't worked through their hang ups about kinky and/or raunchy behavior yet.
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You can go to an ER and get PEP treatment. I don't think it is necessary, but it might give you some peace of mind.
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He told the story on here. Link below
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At some point I acquired a mid-70s porn novel. I'm not sure where I got it. I just found it in my porn stash after one of my many moves in my 20s. I'm sure some former roommate is missing it still. It was written at least 15 years before anyone was talking about HIV. The guys in it are just as load obsessed as guys today. They talk about how wonderful it feels to have a man shoot inside them. They participate in orgies taking multiple loads. I think today's attitudes represent a return to the way things were before not some new obsession that never existed before.
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Afraid of letting a undetectable guy load me up.
drscorpio replied to erreth's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
If he's really undetectable, the risk of taking his load is very small. If taking any risk at all of being pozzed is too much then rethink your decision to take raw cock and cum. Every bare fuck has some risk. Don't do something you will regret. -
I started barebacking in Austin when I was in grad school in early 90s. There were just starting to be some guys who were open about fucking raw. I was an active barebacker for about a year. When I got my first job in a small town in Louisiana, I found that there were two groups of guys here. The country, closeted gays had never started using condoms. The more educated guys associated with the university were still frightened condom nazis. So for 3-4 years, I mostly played safe with the guys I met here although I found that most guys would bareback after a few dates. I still would bareback with my old fuckbuddies and any tricks when I visited my friends back in Texas. But as soon as hooking up online became an easy thing to do, I was back to full-time bareback. Being able to sort through the safers before you met helped a lot with that. So if you are in a situation where barebackers are hard to find, you can give it up. But I am not sure places like that exist anymore.
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I just got to experience taking a load in a dark room for the first time last weekend. In the back of the maze at Midtowne Spa in Dallas, I took a load from a well-built guy with a huge cock. It was so dark all I know about him was from my sense of touch. It was suck a hot experience.
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You can't choose who you fall in love with, but you CAN choose who you stay in love with. It sounds to me like you are in love with the idea of the relationship you want to have with this man. That idea includes his being reasonable enough to allow some accommodations during this time before you can physically be in the same place. He doesn't seem willing to allow that. Unless living in this desert city appeals to you in and of itself, I think it would be a mistake for you to move. If you can't enjoy the place for itself, then every time things get a little strained between you two you will resent him for your being there. Also he has said it's over. Don't force yourself on him unless he is willing to entertain the idea of your reconciling.
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This is a really enlightening book about human sexuality in ancient times, Sex At Dawn. It's worth a look if you are interested in what anthropology and our own biology can tell us about sexual behavior. It is mostly about heterosexual matters, but you can extrapolate a lot about gay sexuality from what is there.
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Seeing Your BF Have Sex With Someone Else - Turn On Or Threatening?
drscorpio replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I love to watch my husband topping other dudes. He likes to watch me take cock even more. We were at the baths this weekend. He had my ass in a sling and was lining up guys to fuck and breed me. -
I might be a little thrown off if it was our first hookup. But if I were already comfortable with you, you could invite a whole pack of tops to join, and I would be happy to take them all on.
