renovers82
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Ok, So I was thinking of you and even quoting you in conversation last night to a favorite straight woman colleague when she was asking what makes marriages between gay men more successful. I'm hoping that I reflected your ideas correctly:
1) Regularly appreciate , enjoy and even sometimes admire your partner ( You've often reflected that in your posts)
2) Open your partner to new ideas after years of trust buildup ( which you describe gently coaxing him and yourself to start PREP).
3) Validate both your enjoyment of sex in (and out of the marriage if you choose,) but be clear that sex with other men " is about the feel , not the feeling" ( i love that expression of yours) and no romance with outside men, and certainly no overnight cuddling with randos in hotel rooms.
I wish for more examples of joyous marriages between men and thoughts on what makes them such. You have provided us with glimpses of that. We would be thrilled to hear more of your general experiences.
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P.S. Your stories of the experiences with porn stars in Vegas ( and in home depot)was hot.
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