analluv27
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Another one is the Kew Motor Inn right on Union Turnpike near the Grand Central. My Trans fuck buddy used to take me there and fuck me, send me home with ass full of cum…. Good times
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Want to start back up again but Im nervous
analluv27 replied to JezzabellaCD's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
You have to weigh the cost. The cost of what you can potentially get by giving in to your desires both negative and positive and the cost if your spouse would discover of your dalliances. I’m not gonna judge you on whatever you choose just be aware of the possible consequences. Catching a STI, possibly passing one over to your spouse. Divorce or an ugly protracted divorce, guilt and or nothing but orgasms of various intensities Are you a good liar? Because if you choose your desire and do it behind your spouse’s back you best be a damn good liar. Can you deal with lying to your spouse. Honestly I should’ve started by “ask yourself do you love your spouse and how much?” If you answer no or very little go for a divorce and or separation. When you cheat on someone you care about you’re being selfish (I’ve done it and it took awhile for me to realize my own selfishness and how I rationalized my behavior) don’t go do something that can totally upend your life with rosé tinted glasses on -
Hey you do you
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With oral sex chances of catching HIV is extremely low but there’s always a chance , a perfect storm of getting blown by someone who’s positive unbeknownst to them with a high viral load happens to have cut or open sore in the mouth breaks the skin on your dick while sucking you. Could possibly lead to you getting infected
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Honestly I call my ass well ass. If the guy who’s topping me wants to call my ass a pussy, bussy, man-pussy and or cunt go right ahead what ever floats his boat. He wants to get off and if that’s the only way psychologically I’m not gonna bitch about it. In the end he gets to nut and I receive said nut everyone wins
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Hey hi where in Long Island are you I'm in Queens but near the Long Island and Queens border. I can't host though.
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It's because the police know that some of the cruisers have lives that could seriously be impacted by being arrested for "loitering" as opposed to someone who's homeless. Plus majority of cruisers are working and they can fine them for "loitering"
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This is by far the description of some of the dynamics in infidelity. Emotionally we like to think it's rather cut and dry, but in cases of a couple having children it can complicate things. Sometimes even if one isn't happy they may recognize in separating it could do more harm. For example a person does cheat realize they could just call the marriage off (which most would say is the proper thing to do) but their spouse isn't working and has something like cancer. Once a divorce is finalized that former spouse loses medical coverage. Now unless the person hated their spouse there's no real happy ending
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I totally agree with the quoted post, concerning labels. Labels are good and bad I personally don’t accept them, first and foremost I’m me and I will like a lot of different things and some may contradict each other but fuck it right? Now you should know your wife, do you think she’d be interested in you being with another man? Even if she says yes partially prepare yourself for possible fallout. For some there down until it actually happens and insecurities they weren’t aware could bubble to the surface. Not saying it will happen but it could and that could potentially wreck your relationship as surely as if you cheated ( which I don’t advocate). Now there’s the possibility that this could really enrich your live life. Also if she agrees go get on Prep that way your bases are covered. Wish you the best of luck
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He was South Asian. The store used to be on 14th street between 7th and 8th Ave it's been gone for some time
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Why is this poz thing so exciting?
analluv27 replied to bareback-flipflop's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I don't believe you're a hypocrite. I believe you're attracted to the lure of [banned word]. The same thing that draws some you cheat or do something that's considered outside their norm. I'm poz undetectable not that I was chasing more fucked around and wasn't as cautious. But I get turned on by PnP stories though I'd never try it (addiction tends to run strong in my family) A healthy dose of fantasy is ok and healthy. If you can find a partner that's willing to indulge you in poz talk during sex may heighten the fantasy. Most importantly recognize how one's fantasies are effecting one self. Say you can only get off unless you get poz talk would be a problem. Though I don't think that's would be a problem for you. And most importantly enjoy yourself without over indulging -
What garsento said pretty much covered what happened with me. I started sucking dick in my late teens and didn't start getting fucked until my early to mid twenties. Mind you growing up during the height of the Aids epidemic I always fucked covered until one time horned up by poppers and ready to fuck but the guy didn't have a rubber and told him just fuck me. Now even after that I mostly fucked covered. Jump some years later I get my diagnosis that I'm poz. I withdrew from a lot of people thinking my life is over and that I'm unclean and a load of bullshit. Now I rather enjoy fucking and I leave the choice of raw or covered up to the guy though my preference is raw. I find the experience kinda not quite liberating (truth be told I rather wish I could've avoided it but I knew the risk) but more of "that's one less thing to worry about". I wouldn't say I'm a slut but I do enjoy sex and I'm less finicky than before.Now I'm not advocating that one should go get pozzed that is a personal decision but get on PREP which wasn't available at the time for me and you can still have that feeling without the drama that comes with being poz
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I just read an UK article stating that if the mother is undetectable and adheres to it should be encouraged to breast feed here’s a link for those who are interested. of course be wary of opening unknown links [think before following links] https://www.aidsmap.com/news/apr-2019/breastfeeding-undetectable-viral-load-some-insights-current-uk-situation
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Is any of this real? Very good question, The answer in short form is yes and no. There’s no possible way to verify every post made, which leaves the final decision to “us” the reader. you can read each post and decide whether the poster is embellishing the facts or being truthful or you can read it and go “Damn! That was hot” and look for another. Sites like this is for individuals to wave their standard and go this is me! Whether they’re actually living that lifestyle. Some can and it’s great and wonderful and then there are those who can’t be as open and there’s no shame in that. But here they have a voice
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I personally never cared for taking on labels. When asked I respond with “I’m me” now I can’t control how others may do. Push comes to shove clinically I’d fall under bisexual. I’m a firm believer in get to know who you truly are and what you’re about, then if you want to label yourself fine go ahead. Later on if you come to realize that Label don’t fit drop it. It’s your life live it best to your ability
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I know personally in New York City there was a big campaign to promote U=U but along came Covid and that became the major concern. Though I'm a little surprised that U=U wasn't a little more prominent last month during the Pride celebration... Oh forgot Roe Vs Wade never mind
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From what I understand more life insurance companies are extending policies to HIV positive individuals due to medical science extending the lives of said individuals. A lot of policies are high since life insurance companies consider HIV as a high risk but the payout I think differs from company to company. I currently have life insurance through my job the premium is low but the payout is decent
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Justice Thomas makes it clear decisions support our rights are next
analluv27 replied to drscorpio's topic in LGBT Politics
I’m not sure it’s a case of head in their ass or being hopeful for decency to prevail after what just occurred. Though in my opinion their not taking in account how hateful and vindictive some peoples true nature -
Justice Thomas makes it clear decisions support our rights are next
analluv27 replied to drscorpio's topic in LGBT Politics
True but after what happened with Roe vs Wade they’re drunk with power and since they feel that they have the ball they might be willing to go for broke. I don’t think anyone would believe that RvW would be effectively dismantled, but it was and we have to learn from this in order to protect everyone’s civil rights and liberties -
Sadly there are those who look at someone who is undetectable and think that they’re irresponsible because they caught HIV in the first place and immediately want nothing to do with them. Not bothering to take the time to think that perhaps that person trusted someone who believed that they were negative. Not do they think about the time they were not one hundred percent responsible. Now I’m regards to the stories posted who can truly say which are true and which are fantasy, only the person who’s posting knows for sure. Then sometimes a story is mostly true with some embellishments added for flourish. Some live by the saying “Never let the truth get in the way of a good story”. Sometimes it’s better to just enjoy what you read and leave at that
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Who’s been to the East Side Club since reopening?
analluv27 replied to meetme's topic in New York Metro Area
A friend of mine, he goes about twice a month and he has No complaints which says a lot (he has complaints for almost everything. God bless him). Plus he's a top. Like most places in N.Y. There appears to be a top deficiency... So if your a top the chances of a good time is higher -
Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?
analluv27 replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
My first bathhouse was the Northern Spa in Queens N.Y. I was 23 possibly 24 at the time I fucked a couple of guys one was an older Hispanic gentleman who became one of the guys I spent time with if he was there, incidentally he was the first guy I barebacked. Don't think I was fucked at that time I wasn't as inclined to getting fucked. And I sucked so much dick. It was a better first time experience than my first sex party. Which I don't blame the host. I showed up late and by time I arrived most of the people were already done or just wasn't into me. Though the second time was definitely better -
Well how's your lymph nodes? Prior to my diagnosis most of my lymph nodes were swollen, I also had night sweats and some pretty awful headaches. Also why are you waiting a month? Unless you live somewhere remote and are waiting for a chance to see a doctor that is not local
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Ultimately your going to have to ask yourself A) how important is doing this to you? B) If you're caught how will your husband respond? C) Are you ok with lying to your husband It can become a slippery slope. We start by justifying one action then we start justifying going a little further until One is doing things they swore they never do. I've said it on this site before one has to count the cost. If what you're going to do goes sideways can you deal with the outcome?
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Ok some of these scenarios sound like cases of the little head is doing all the thinking. Any situation where one person is not COHERENT is not in a position to give consent. And that falls under rape. Now I know plenty of guys will mumble and say they shouldn't be there, get in that state unless that's what they want. And that argument is weak. If that's what gets your rocks off then role play. There's plenty of people who like it rough and even with that people have limits. It boils down to decorum and respect.
