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analluv27

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  1. Is any of this real? Very good question, The answer in short form is yes and no. There’s no possible way to verify every post made, which leaves the final decision to “us” the reader. you can read each post and decide whether the poster is embellishing the facts or being truthful or you can read it and go “Damn! That was hot” and look for another. Sites like this is for individuals to wave their standard and go this is me! Whether they’re actually living that lifestyle. Some can and it’s great and wonderful and then there are those who can’t be as open and there’s no shame in that. But here they have a voice
  2. I personally never cared for taking on labels. When asked I respond with “I’m me” now I can’t control how others may do. Push comes to shove clinically I’d fall under bisexual. I’m a firm believer in get to know who you truly are and what you’re about, then if you want to label yourself fine go ahead. Later on if you come to realize that Label don’t fit drop it. It’s your life live it best to your ability
  3. I know personally in New York City there was a big campaign to promote U=U but along came Covid and that became the major concern. Though I'm a little surprised that U=U wasn't a little more prominent last month during the Pride celebration... Oh forgot Roe Vs Wade never mind
  4. From what I understand more life insurance companies are extending policies to HIV positive individuals due to medical science extending the lives of said individuals. A lot of policies are high since life insurance companies consider HIV as a high risk but the payout I think differs from company to company. I currently have life insurance through my job the premium is low but the payout is decent
  5. I’m not sure it’s a case of head in their ass or being hopeful for decency to prevail after what just occurred. Though in my opinion their not taking in account how hateful and vindictive some peoples true nature
  6. True but after what happened with Roe vs Wade they’re drunk with power and since they feel that they have the ball they might be willing to go for broke. I don’t think anyone would believe that RvW would be effectively dismantled, but it was and we have to learn from this in order to protect everyone’s civil rights and liberties
  7. Sadly there are those who look at someone who is undetectable and think that they’re irresponsible because they caught HIV in the first place and immediately want nothing to do with them. Not bothering to take the time to think that perhaps that person trusted someone who believed that they were negative. Not do they think about the time they were not one hundred percent responsible. Now I’m regards to the stories posted who can truly say which are true and which are fantasy, only the person who’s posting knows for sure. Then sometimes a story is mostly true with some embellishments added for flourish. Some live by the saying “Never let the truth get in the way of a good story”. Sometimes it’s better to just enjoy what you read and leave at that
  8. A friend of mine, he goes about twice a month and he has No complaints which says a lot (he has complaints for almost everything. God bless him). Plus he's a top. Like most places in N.Y. There appears to be a top deficiency... So if your a top the chances of a good time is higher
  9. My first bathhouse was the Northern Spa in Queens N.Y. I was 23 possibly 24 at the time I fucked a couple of guys one was an older Hispanic gentleman who became one of the guys I spent time with if he was there, incidentally he was the first guy I barebacked. Don't think I was fucked at that time I wasn't as inclined to getting fucked. And I sucked so much dick. It was a better first time experience than my first sex party. Which I don't blame the host. I showed up late and by time I arrived most of the people were already done or just wasn't into me. Though the second time was definitely better
  10. Well how's your lymph nodes? Prior to my diagnosis most of my lymph nodes were swollen, I also had night sweats and some pretty awful headaches. Also why are you waiting a month? Unless you live somewhere remote and are waiting for a chance to see a doctor that is not local
  11. Ultimately your going to have to ask yourself A) how important is doing this to you? B) If you're caught how will your husband respond? C) Are you ok with lying to your husband It can become a slippery slope. We start by justifying one action then we start justifying going a little further until One is doing things they swore they never do. I've said it on this site before one has to count the cost. If what you're going to do goes sideways can you deal with the outcome?
  12. Ok some of these scenarios sound like cases of the little head is doing all the thinking. Any situation where one person is not COHERENT is not in a position to give consent. And that falls under rape. Now I know plenty of guys will mumble and say they shouldn't be there, get in that state unless that's what they want. And that argument is weak. If that's what gets your rocks off then role play. There's plenty of people who like it rough and even with that people have limits. It boils down to decorum and respect.
  13. I'm partially inclined to rubber cock rings. Tried the leather ones that snap close and they were alright. Will not use metal ones, they look nice but I refuse to use something that I potentially might have to go an ER to remove. I did find with the rubber cock rings one needs to pay attention to the quality or they'll likely snap
  14. Because people want to pay for absolution without the need to put in the work. Someone goes home slaps up their spouse abuse their children all week go to church on Sunday make a generous tithes and offerings and they feel all is forgiven and that their right with God. The church isn't going to correct those people because their filling the coffers
  15. Alright it’s probably better for you to take some time off to think about what you want. Clearly you realize that cheating on him will hurt your partner. Yeah I understand the allure of sex outside of a relationship, but what if you catch an STI and pass it along to him? You say that Prep is hard to come by, what about HIV medication? There's a possibility of you getting HIV, and trust me that may be a hard thing to explain (not impossible.) to your partner. What you have to do is weigh the cost. Do you care about him really? If not better to break up and do as you please. Cheating leads down a long road of lies and deceit and it gets tiring. You know you and you choose what you think is best for you.
  16. Truthfully she’d would say “I’m gonna pray for your soul and I forgive you” then she’d go for a divorce
  17. I personally prefer the first two options. The head out full cock down my throat. There were a few occasions when a guy would wank their load into my open mouth but that sometimes broke the momentum and it took awhile for them to cum
  18. With that I do agree the amount times that I received a great blow job I can count on one hand. Being on the receiving end never really appealed to me. Giving them I recognize that it's part technique, part reading a man's body language and part willing to take instruction
  19. I also don’t enjoy oral sex at least receiving it. Giving it is a horse of a different color. Too often if a guy is blowing it's like they suck to hard and or they nick me with their teeth
  20. Ethically speaking sadly I broke a lot of my don’ts in the pass such as cheating, having sex with a coworker. But I do draw the line on if your crouch smells like it hasn’t been washed in a month. If he’s pushy and don’t understand what “no” or “stop” means . I enjoy being dominated but there are boundaries. Piss and shit are not that big of an issue for me and neither is drug use. If the top wants to use be my guest. Nor is age, weight , race or dick size a big issue for me either
  21. Last night after work drive out to Little Neck Video after hearing it's back to being open 24 hours. Got there it was open but only the attendant and I was there so I went to use the bathroom and another guy walked in. Used the bathroom and headed to the booths and he was still there. Older guy kinda scruffy looking noticed me checking him out he said hi I said hi back and he grabbed his crouch. I walked over to him stated feeling him up his sweatpants was damp like he might have either spilled something on him or possibly pissed on himself. Still Dick is Dick in my book and lead him into the booth. He pulled out eight inches not too thick but definitely hard. Took some hits from my poppers and swallowed his dick to the nuts. He wanted a hit of my poppers and I let him while I slowly worked his dick. When he handed them back I took another good couple of hits with his dick deep down my throat He started moaning how good my mouth was and then he started shoving my head down his Dick until he came in my mouth. He thanked me and I noticed he had drool coming out of his mouth so I think he might have been high on something prior to showing up. But Damn addict or homeless that was some good a dick. Only disappointing part I was hoping he wanted some ass, I was willing to let him take it and beat my shit up
  22. Check out CumUnion since that’s the biggest one that I know of they hold events in Queens and Manhattan
  23. Bootman isn’t wrong, I’ve been poz undetectable for about a decade give or take. Fortunately for me my job has pretty decent health insurance and prescription plan. perhaps things on the medical side is better outside of the United States? But if you’re in the US of A it can get costly medical and life insurance can be a hardship especially if one is not covered before infection. I’m not saying life sucks but it ain’t hard dick and cumshots either and depending where you live it might potentially get worse. Do your research and I mean like go to The Body ( website for information regarding HIV) look into your state laws. If your still gunho to convert get your house in order before doing so (health , life insurance and so on)
  24. For me small is not an issue a guy could have a nub for a dick and I’ll suck till either he cums or he says stop. It’s unwashed dick and crouch is where I tend to draw the line
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