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analluv27

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  1. Almost 33.3 miles from NYC to Elizabeth NJ to Jamaica NY. There was this Trans woman that loved to fuck me she originally lived in Queens NY but moved out to Jersey. We stayed in touch, one day at work she texts me that she wants some ass and after work I caught a NJ transit train to the stop closest to her she picked me. Fucked me silly but unlike most where she just nuts in my ass this time she pulls out and nuts all over my face. Washed up she dropped me off at the train station and I made my way back to Queens NY
  2. Perhaps it's not so much as sex but intimacy. People often confuse the two, I've seen relationships built upon sex fall apart somewhat fast whereas intimacy seem to last longer even if sex is not involved ie one partner is physically or emotionally unable to perform sexual acts
  3. Now right before the pandemic on two separate occasions I showed up at a random fuck in a basement. Both times really messy. As I’m lubing my ass and or sucking theirs dick both times the guys pulled out crack pipes and smoked cracked. so I did the only reasonable thing stayed and let them fuck me. I now associate dirty basement hook ups with crack users.
  4. Personally I’m cool with quickies and long drawn out fucking. Ultimately it depends on how much free time I have available (married spouse unaware) and most importantly how comfortable I am. If I’m at a guy’s place and we’re fucking on a bed or a couch he can go as long as time will allow at the video store or theaters it’s sometimes harder to find a position or spot for long term fucking. Most times they’ll fuck me for 10 to maybe 20 minutes then we’ll take a break then meet up for another 10 to 20 minutes and continue this till he cums. Of course while we “resting” I’m out looking for more dick
  5. Rarely does a guy a guy ask me my status, at most get the "Are you clean?” And I always answer yeah. Admittedly on A4A and BBRT I post my status just to avoid possible awkward situations.
  6. Hey before you do anything you have to count the cost, of the best case scenario and the worst case scenario. Say you take the plunge and you really enjoy it, do you think you can live and keep up a double life? Worst case scenario you take the plunge you hate but to top it off your spouse finds out. Speaking as married man that's not only DL but also HIV positive ( I assure you explaining that to the spouse was no fun) is not easy but it is doable. How important is your marriage to you? Trust, you'll be violating that. Can yoh lie straight to her face? If your unsure my advice is keep it a fantasy and enjoy that.
  7. It depends if he's hitting it right my brain will shut down and leave me as meat to be pounded. If I'm not into it or him then my mind starts to wander "Is he done yet? Mmm if he cums soon I could possibly go to the video store and try again. "
  8. I generally get to know the clerks especially if I'm visiting a spot a lot. Now in two separate occasions and locations I've blown an ABS clerk once in Manhattan and a couple of times with one guy that worked a ABS off of the Van Wyck expressway in Queens. The Queens guy I'd stop by early Saturday mornings when doing laundry I stop by to cruise and if we were the only ones there he'd lock up and have me blown him in the back. The Manhattan guy noticed me cruising a lot and asked me what I do. I said I give head, which he asked if I was good. I said I haven't heard any complaints. He stepped off to the side whipped his dick and told me to suck which I did
  9. I remember going to the video booths in the mid nineties in NYC right before they started cleaning up the city Being all nervous going in because I so desperately wanted to suck dick (this was before I understood the joys of getting fucked) but was more afraid someone who I knew would catch me now about twenty years later I’d be in a video store in Queens being spit roasted by two guys I don’t know. Being passed around by random guys booth to booth taking loads in my mouth and or ass. A year or so later finding out that I was diagnosed HIV positive. Staying away from video booths and adult theaters for almost a year because I was beating myself up later returning to the video booths and theaters still taking loads in my mouth and or ass. But now more comfortable in my skin. Video booths and theaters was and is great I handled so much dick in the time from the nineties til now 14 year old me would’ve been shocked. But I also forged cool friendships and bonds tied together through the act of getting off. It’s kinda sad a lot of them or going the way of the drive in movie theater. But as long as there’s one wherever I’m at that’s where you’ll occasionally find me on my knees sucking dick, getting fucked and or both
  10. I'd have to agree with some of what was said earlier, since it does seem to be more bottoms than tops age shouldn't effect how much action you get since most of the focus is on your dick eg. Can you get hard how big and looking is your dick. Now as bottom if older there's other factors come to play such as looks but even then how good can you take dick, is your ass tight enough or lose enough. As a bottom you learn to play your strengths Personally speaking as a chubby 49 year old bottom there hasn't been a vast change in how much dick I get. But I personally believe it's word of mouth that benefits me. I'm accommodating, easy going, don't mind being roughed up a little and not overly picky about about who pokes me. I think that helps with me
  11. I remember two decades back there was a movement to make the last car of the number 1 train the fuck car.
  12. For me the difference is whether you fucked first or was friends first
  13. Sometimes I do feel it and other times I don't. The biggest factor whether I'll feel it or not is the strength of his nut. If a guy been edging and not cum in awhile chances are you'll either feel his nut or his dick quivering when he cums. But say if he shot a load recently chances I won't notice it till it seeps out my ass
  14. To me a fuck buddy is that person you can see and if sex doesn't happen it's ok because the time spent with them is enjoyable. We're not rushing to get back to whatever we were doing after we both nut. I've have one that's about 15 years though now we're more buddies now but that's ok. My other long term fuck buddy is trans but they moved so we try to hook up when they're back visiting family. A good fuck buddy had the potential to become either a boyfriend or a really good friend in my book
  15. Perhaps she meant Vicks instead of Vaseline? That really opens up the nasal passages
  16. Yeah that's a real pain sometimes the missus notices that marks getting hard to think of excuses. Regardless I find using carmex which is a medicated lip balm kinda speeds up the healing process
  17. I kinda understand, that's been my experience with some tops. I show up kinda expect me to get the job done and leave. The worst are the ones that don't say anything. No indication that they're enjoying it, not enjoying it. Then I get bored and start wishing they'd cum so it can be over. Then weeks later I hear from them saying "how come I haven't heard from you?" Which I explain I figured they wasn't into me, which is cool. "No no. You was great etc." At that point I can't be bothered
  18. I just came across this while perusing through the topics while at work. In regards to the OP there's no definitive answer but from what I've seen is a many layered nuanced answers. For some yes it's a preference but developed from what? Actual experience from dating or actually fucking someone who's Black? For some yes or it's based off the stereotypical hung thick thug that wants to turn bitches out yes. Problems arise when we stop seeing people as people but as jerk off fantasies. And it's not just the hung black thug Mandingo, but there's effeminate or sexless Asian with men or the submissive Asian women. Most if not almost all gay White men want to be dominated by a person of color and so on. True some folks do play into said stereotypes and some don't. My friend who happens to be black goes on how he likes to turn out "then poor little white boys". Or guys who approached me thinking that I'm hung (i'm not) will fuck them stupid (i'm more bottom) and that I'll gift them with HIV (can't because I'm undetectable) when I corrected them most were vocally disappointed others ran to the next fantasy guy. A few stuck around and got to know me In summary there's no simple answer why but when pursuing even a fantasy try to remember that there's more to a person than a hard dick or tight/loose ass try to get the feel of a person again some do play into the stereotype but others don't. We all want to get pigged but we don't have to be a dick while obtaining it
  19. Admittedly I'm late to cruising, started in 93. But the whole I'm waiting for that perfect guy to stroll into the ABS and grace them with dick or ass was prevalent during that time. And watched as these dudes sit down one guy after another and then bitch about how horrible the cruising is there, while their blowing guys off I'm actually blowing those same guys getting dick and enjoying myself.
  20. Cum kissing is one of my favorite things to do since it combines two of my favorite things kissing and cum in my mouth
  21. Simple, money. The religious right generate a vast amount of income which they use to influence laws and legislation. I do believe in God but churches shouldn't be tax exempt if they go funding politicians
  22. I like Double Scorpio Black Label and Silver Label foremost then Amber, Emerald and Sapphire. Honey and Gold I don’t particularly care for. But I like DS especially Black because it has that nice hit like the English label poppers. Also DS was the first brand that never gave me headaches. Amber, Emerald, Gold, Honey and Sapphire are scented. If that’s not your thing definitely go with the Black or Silver Label
  23. I always found taking a bit of poppers helped me to relax my gag reflex
  24. Technically one does not need to take a load if they engage in raw sex. Said load could be shot on the ass, the face, in the mouth and sadly yes even the ground. But a there's a good chance said top could get so in to pounding said ass they might forget to pull out in time. And most importantly it should be discussed between you and said top, if you do not want to be breed absolutely you shouldn't agree to raw sex, but if the allure is to strong it should be agreed upon before said act. Never go with a gentleman's agreement which is unspoken because you may have totally different ideas on how it will end
  25. I've done it a few times, once I snuck away to a nearby video store to suck whoever's was offering and another I brought a guy over to my job and sucked him in the employee bathroom
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