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  1. theplayerking
    Be upfront with your top that it’s your first time and find a guy that’s willing to go slow and open you up properly.
  2. theplayerking
    You have to acknowledge why (in your heart of hearts) you’re hooking up. Is it pure physical sensation and physical release? Is it to get as much cum in your body as possible? Is it to find a boyfriend? Is it for male bonding? Is it out of boredom and loneliness? Is it to validated from being desired by guys you or society finds attractive? I realized a long time ago that I hookup solely for the validation of attracting hot guys. They don’t have to be Abercrombie models, and I don’t have a particular “type,” but they have to be considered attractive by the general public. As such, glory holes, dark rooms, masks and other anonymous sex does nothing for me. I would rather jack off remembering a hookup with a cute guy.
  3. theplayerking
    I started hooking up in college, decades before I had a serious relationship. I remember keeping a Little Black Book for a while, but it was mainly to keep track of people to invite to future sex parties than a comprehensive record of every guy I had sex with. Once you start going to sex parties and bathhouses, establishing a true and accurate account is almost impossible.
  4. theplayerking
    Amsterdam.
  5. theplayerking
    I love the psychological thrill of being penetrated by a man much more than the physical sensations. I’ve talked a lot of hookups with small dicks into flip fucking and breeding each other when I explained the psychological dynamic.
  6. theplayerking
    People hook up for many different reasons, some of which have nothing to do with getting off. For me, it’s all about the validation I feel from being desired by a guy that I find attractive. As such, I don’t like truly anonymous situations (like masked bottoms or completely dark rooms) or bottoms I’m not attracted to. Of course, the guy doesn’t have to be an Abercrombie model, but if I don’t feel flattered and validated by him wanting my dick, attached to my body and face, inside his ass, I can’t really get into it.
  7. theplayerking
    Did you tell him you’re on PrEP? Most guys that have casual sex with men in major North American cities know about PrEP so there’s nothing much you can do apart from withholding access to your hole unless he’s raw. If he becomes a regular I find that most guys become open to bareback after the third or fourth hookup.
  8. theplayerking
    I was in boarding school in the late 80s and early 90s and never had the opportunity to do anything sexual with other guys. I’m sure everyone knew I was gay, but was never propositioned and too scared to make the first move. That was long before the internet and the ubiquity of porn started showing guys that fooling around with buddy is no big deal. I suspect it’s a lot easier nowadays.
  9. theplayerking
    I’m versatile and if a partner asked me to stop fucking him, I would stop. Period.
  10. theplayerking
    I live in Manhattan and am in the same demographic as the main characters (40-something, affluent, gay professional that enjoys sex parties and experiences the tensions of having a partner who doesn’t). It’s obviously heightened for comedic effect, but it seemed realistic for that very limited demographic, noted above. Obviously the majority of gay men in New York don’t live like that, but some of us do. I didn’t buy the actual sex scenes. The physical geometry of fucking somebody in missionary doesn’t work that way. As two gay men the actors would have known that, but they were probably toning it down for a mainstream audience. However it was nice to hear such frank and explicit dialogue, i.e., a hot masculine guy saying, “I want you to fuck me.”
  11. theplayerking
    While not stereotypically effeminate, I definitely come across as metrosexual (e.g., like Will from Will & Grace) and most people outside of a major city would probably assume I’m gay.
  12. theplayerking
    Personally, a guy can have a totally ripped body, a huge cock and a sweet hole, but I don’t get turned on unless I can see his face. Not into dark rooms for the same reason.
  13. theplayerking
    I’m very thick and do it to get bottoms relaxed and warmed up for the main event.
  14. theplayerking
    Now that so many are on PrEP, every party is effectively a Cumunion party.
  15. theplayerking
    I think smaller dicks get harder so sometimes they can be more painful than a fatter dick that has a little bit of give to it.
  16. theplayerking
    Because of PrEP, I would say the majority of gay sex in major metropolitan areas in the U.S. is bareback nowadays. And that sex comes in all shapes, sizes and flavors. As viking noted, the posts on this site are not representative of most gay sex. Breeding and humiliation are not the same and you can easily have one without the other. Personally I find breeding and being bred liberating and empowering and those are the encounters that I seek out.
  17. theplayerking
    The actual bathhouses in New York are lame, but the city has good semi-private parties. If you want a proper bathhouse experience with steam rooms, etc., I think Philly is better.
  18. theplayerking
    Sounds like he was too nervous to play and probably went home to jack off. He was probably just checking out the scene. I know several guys that have been to bathhouses but have never done anything, mainly out of fear of catching an STI or being seen by someone they know. Not everyone is open to casual sex as we are (unfortunately).
  19. theplayerking
    Good luck!
  20. theplayerking
    I’ve known a number of single gay men that bought beautiful small homes in rural areas (Upstate New York, Connecticut, and Western Virginia, respectively) for retirement. Unfortunately they didn’t know anyone in the area and became so bored and miserable that they each ended up moving back to the city within a year.
  21. theplayerking
    Anonymous groups are always hit-or-miss. I find an 80 percent no-show rate is pretty average. Not sure the venue affects it, but obviously the more convenient the better.
  22. theplayerking
    It would be an ideal situation, but hard to find.
  23. theplayerking
    Bathhouses are hit-or-miss, especially at non-peak times.
  24. theplayerking
    I agree that geography is a huge factor. I’m a late 40-something gay guy living in Manhattan and Uncoupled is reasonably representative, if heightened, portrait of social life and interactions in certain affluent social circles.
  25. theplayerking
    I prefer it when he tells me how many loads he has. Huge turn on.

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