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theplayerking

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  1. Put Neg on PrEP in your profile.
  2. In a big, affluent city like New York, almost everyone that hooks up regularly is either undetectable or on PrEP. I’ve not had anyone ask for a condom in years. I suspect it’s the same in most major cities.
  3. I went to a few parties years ago where the host filmed and the action but not people’s faces. He edited the footage and sent links to the participants and it was extremely boring porn. Porn is 90 percent about seeing the guys’ faces. Watching closeups of cocks fucking is dull if you don’t have the context of who is attached to the cock.
  4. As many times as I’ve had sex with hundreds of different guys, it’s still an outrageous, bizarre and even surreal thrill that a guy would actually want my dick up his ass. It never gets old.
  5. I tried it a couple of times years ago with a fuck bud that was into it, but I didn’t know what I was doing and didn’t really enjoy it. Looking to try again. Any tips or best practices? Any advice is appreciated. I’ve found little online from a top’s perspective.
  6. Haven’t been to the island this season but am spending a week there around Labor Day. In a normal year there’s decent action on weekends, but because of Covid, there are far fewer day trippers. I don’t recommend a special trip if you’re just looking for action.
  7. Society assume gay men love casual hookups, but in my experience, many (most?) are serial monogamists at best. I really wish my BF were into three ways and random hookups with strangers, but he’s just not. I have to content myself with reading about other guy’s adventures.
  8. Unless you’re inviting friends, I’ve found the no-show rate to be around 80 percent. Start small and build up a roster of likeminded regulars. Hiring a venue larger than a hotel suite is probably not a good option.
  9. I love it. Makes me extra horny.
  10. For me, hooking up is about penetrating and being penetrated by as many attractive guys as possible. I often don’t want to cum as then I’m less likely to hook up again later. It’s much more about bonding than cumming.
  11. Change your email accounts hookups on occasion and don’t use Gmail. Google links and tracks everything.
  12. Buttplugs are better than dildos for training purposes. Practice for and hour a day eventually working up in size. If you’re really tight, it’s also useful to warm up with a buttplug right before you get fucked.
  13. 1. Because PrEP is available 2. Because it’s easier to stay hard without a condom 3. Because it often provides access to hotter guys, especially in groups 4. Because of the psychological thrill of swapping fluids with a bud
  14. Years ago I used to keep notes on Manhunt profiles on guys I played with, what we did, etc.
  15. I always have more luck hooking up in Latin America. Have fun!
  16. I think I started getting called a fag in kindergarten, probably for multiple reasons, i.e., being nerdy, musician, and from an affluent family, which made me an outsider in my town. I was assumed to be gay in boarding school, and out to some people, but never propositioned. I would have gladly sucked off almost any schoolmate who asked, but no one ever did. I don’t think the thought would have crossed their minds.
  17. I’ve met so few truly total tops that I assume that every sexually active gay man gets fucked occasionally, or at least has at some point.
  18. It ultimately depends upon each party’s interest and experience in casual sex before the relationship. To me, casual sex is a male bonding activity with no emotional significance. I love sex parties and groups. However, to my boyfriend, it’s very emotional. He’s never had sex outside of a relationship and would never consider a three way. I love him and am monogamous to keep him happy, although a surf the boards and jack a lot.
  19. I did it a few times years ago. Long before Grindr or smartphones. There was an established protocol having to do with flashing lights, if I recall. It was fun, but mainly as a cliche porn scenario as the guys were not especially hot.
  20. I always say I’m on PrEP and discuss status beforehand. After that they’re usually begging for a load.
  21. It was during my first raw hookup after the requisite waiting period after starting PrEP. Found a hot couple in Chelsea that were looking for a threeway. We flip fucked each other and the older guy came in my ass. Wasn’t really expecting it as I was just horny to fuck bare for the first time without being paranoid. Pretty much a non-event. After he came, I grabbed his boyfriend and bred him.
  22. Live in New York and have fucked on more than a few rooftops.
  23. Take the Long Island Railroad to Sayville. There are shuttles waiting to take you to the ferry. The Pines is a very private place with most people renting rooms in private houses. There are a couple of restaurants and bars. You can hangout on the beach or explore the Meatrack for some cruising action. However, it’s very much a weekend getaway for affluent New Yorkers. Some people stay during the week, but the numbers are much lower. I recommend going on a Saturday. Cell service can be spotty, especially on the beach, but you can usually find guys on Grindr and BBRT looking to play. Keep in mind that it’s really an extension of Manhattan, i.e., Chelsea with sand, and the guys tend to be super picky. In any case, the landscape is beautiful and worth a visit. Have fun.
  24. I see few true parties (i.e, orgies) on BBRT. Most are just cumdumps looking for a gang bang. I haven’t hosted one in a long time, but 30 percent attendance rate from total strangers was a good group.
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