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Young Bottom Looking for Advice
theplayerking replied to mascbottom4bb's topic in General Discussion
I’m neg and on PrEP. If you want to stay neg you need to be careful whom you play with or go on PrEP. Being a cumdump at a sex party is not a good idea if you want to stay neg. I would also be concerned about sensory deprivation in a location you don’t control. I think that’s best kept to your home or hotel room. -
I hired twin escorts once because I have a [banned word] fetish always wanted to two with two brothers. The sex wasn’t great. They refused to kiss and wouldn’t touch each other. One of them fucked me for a bit and the other would just get sucked off.
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Pig Week: [think before following links] https://pigweek.com Mid-Atlantic Leather: [think before following links] https://www.leatherweekend.com Easter in Berlin
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I have found this the case as well. I don’t hookup with black men very often, but they are usually the most fun at a sex party or bathhouse.
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We each have mental fictions and arbitrary lines in the sand to help us get through life. Many are silly and don’t hold up to logical scrutiny. Just ignore and move on.
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Getting fucked is 90 percent psychological. You have to be turned on either by the person or the scenario to make it pleasurable. I’ve found that being verbal can help me relax. Articulating my desires to a partner out loud makes it easier to take a dick and heightens my pleasure.
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Top Who Fuck Anon at Hotels vs. Tops Who Don't
theplayerking replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I love group sex, especially in hotels, but I admit that I am also shallow and use casual sex as a form of validation. I need the guys to accept me and want me inside their bodies. You don’t get that if the guy is blindfolded and just collecting as many loads as possible. I understand that some bottoms do it as their form of validation, but it leaves me cold so I don’t participate in such scenes unless there are other aspects of sex (making out, rimming, sucking, dirty talk) involved. However, I will make an exception if the guy is way outside my league and unlikely to hookup with me in a one-on-one situation. Like I said, I’m shallow. -
It very difficult to learn to bottom with only quick, casual hookups. Your hole needs to be trained to relax. You can do this yourself with buttplugs or find a fuckbud to help you practice.
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I love fucking a preloaded hole, but not if it’s so loose that I can’t feel it.
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I fooled around with a roommate in college who was straight but bored and horny. He fucked me for a bit and then I rimmed him and started fingering his hole. I eventually got my dick halfway in his ass but I’m very thick and he said he couldn’t take it so I stopped. That was the only time anything ever happened between us. He was definitely straight and not expecting to have sex with a guy. He was just a little curious and open to the opportunity when it presented itself.
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It seems very kind and generous of him. I agree with the others that you should set clear ground rules, but it’s great that he’s willing to be flexible to meet your sexual needs. Not everyone is so lucky.
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Doggy at the edge of the bed so I can stand for better leverage. My BF likes to be fucked on his back at the edge of the bed so I can stand but he can still see my face.
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are there other guys who enjoy sexting?
theplayerking replied to heyzeus's topic in General Discussion
I like sexting when it involves sharing past experiences. Not into it if we’re pretending to be having sex with each other. -
hotels without keycard elevator access
theplayerking replied to LoadHunter612's topic in New York Metro Area
Had a hookup at the Gotham Hotel a couple of weeks ago. [think before following links] https://www.thegothamhotelny.com/ I’d never head of it before. The building is very discreet with almost no lobby, but the rooms are nice and no key card needed for the elevator. It’s a convenient hookup hotel as it’s close to a lot of Subway lines. -
The one in New York is not materially different from other gay sex events at the same venue, although it occasionally has a larger crowd. It seems that everyone in New York that attends sex parties is either on PrEP or Poz. It’s rare to see a condom here, even if it’s not a specifically bareback party. There’s obviously a lot of fucking, but not particularly crazy. I think it’s because New Yorkers tend to be very picky and Cumunion has an open door policy that attracts a mixed crowd.
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Geo-based apps are best in this situation. It all depends on: how hot you are how picky you are how versatile you are how flexible you are with hosting and traveling
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What time of day did you go?
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cumdump for encouraging partner
theplayerking replied to NastyRawBottom's topic in General Discussion
I agree with FunCheerSlut. I’ve found that people’s views on monogamy versus promiscuity rarely change. It’s important to be open and honest about what you like at the beginning. -
It’s difficult if you have to cram all of your playtime into one big day. It builds a lot of expectation into something you ultimately can’t control, i.e., who happens to be online or at the bathhouse on any given day. Under normal circumstances it’s always good to trust your gut. If a hookup seems sketchy, move on.
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I’m versatile because I love flip fucking and especially fucking with a dick in my ass. I’ve always wanted to flip fuck. Even as a kid and long before I started actually doing it.
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I had a very cute gay nurse practitioner that prescribed my PrEP and conducted my quarterly STD testing. I used to enjoy bending over the exam table for my anal swab. I would arch my back and push out my hole like I was ready to be fucked.
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Almost Visited a Bathhouse at 19. What would have happened?
theplayerking replied to a topic in General Discussion
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Tops asking if you want their load
theplayerking replied to EnglishBottom's topic in General Discussion
So much of sex is psychological and I really get off on dirty talk. Even if taking my load is a foregone conclusion, it’s hot to announce it so he knows exactly when it’s going in. -
Are bathhouses economically viable with Grindr, et al? We have two crappy ones in New York and I haven’t been in at least a decade.
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Wish my boyfriend were into groups. Loved going to sex parties before I met him. He’s very sexually conservative and has never had a three way. I’m jealous. Especially love having a dick in a hole while I’m fucking a guy.
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