theplayerking
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Like many people on this site, I have hooked up with thousands of men in almost every conceivable scenario. I’ve found the only guys that care even a little bit about sexual hierarchy are ultra-submissive bottoms, because the are sexually aroused by being dominated. Most men are situational and adapt to the moment or a given partner.
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My most frequent wank fantasies are with guys I knew in high school or college but never hooked up with.
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I did once, years ago, when I was a long term temp at a publishing house. He was an editor in another department and started chatting me up while we were standing at the printer. He was drop dead gorgeous. By far and away the most beautiful man to express an interest in me ever. He was definitely a take-home-to-mom and marry kinda guy. I definitely wanted to be with him more than I wanted the temp job. We fooled around for a bit and became close friends for a while, but the dating relationship didn’t work out.
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Knowing everything you know now...
theplayerking replied to profwhtforhung's topic in General Discussion
I wish the culture had been different when I was growing up in the 80s and early 90s. Younger guys are much more open to experimentation now. I didn’t hookup with anyone in high school and only one person in college because I was not attracted to the gay guys my age that I knew. With apps, PrEP, access to porn and the general change in culture, Gen Z is having much more fun. -
Best City to get loads for birthday
theplayerking replied to bbwpbcouple's topic in General Discussion
South Florida is a good option for a cumdump. Unless you’re crazy hot, it’s difficult to arrange 20 loads on a particular day, regardless of the city. Personally I would pick a city you want to go to and would enjoy regardless of your load count. If you pick a city primarily with the expectation of receiving 20 loads, you are likely to be disappointed. -
For me, sex is more about validation (being desired by an attractive guy) and male bonding (being accepted as a peer by another guy) than the physical sensation of the sex itself. As such, I’d be perfectly happy never to repeat sex with a partner. Fuck buddies are best when they help organize three ways and groups with fresh meat.
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I’m 100 percent versatile. Love flip fucking and especially enjoy having a dick up my ass while I’m fucking a guy.
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Suppositories: are they any good for cleaning the cunt?
theplayerking replied to a topic in General Discussion
Years ago I had a fuck buddy that was into fisting and used CO2 suppositories that he could only get in Germany. They were supposedly safer for frequent use as you are essentially just blowing air up your ass and farting it out. I tried it once and it worked well, but I’ve never seen them available for purchase, even in Europe. -
Tell him you want him to breed you. I find the dirtier the talk, the faster the inhibitions come down in the moment.
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Now you’re versatile. Congratulations! No need to overthink it. It’s just opens more options for playtime.
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I’ve had good luck on Sniffies except for the groups, which never seem to happen.
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Flip fucking is my favorite kind of sex. Glad you enjoyed it!
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Did the group actually happen? I’ve signed up for a couple a groups on Sniffies, but the hosts disappeared and, as far as I know, the groups never happened.
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There’s a lot going on here. Personally, I would clarify your situation with your girlfriend before you worry about what you do with your man crush.
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I’ve wanted to be vers as long as I can remember and am really attracted to flip fucking. Something about the comradeship and reciprocity of taking care of each other’s holes really turns me on. However, if only one of us is getting fucked, I’m usually the top. I do get fucked without flipping on occasion, but the guy has to be super hot.
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If you enjoy fucking and breeding holes...
theplayerking replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I can fuck for a long time but find a get bored after a while, which is why I prefer sex parties. -
I admit I’m shallow and sex is mostly about personal validation. As such, my favorite moment is the initial penetration of a stranger. By accepting my cock in his ass I feel that he’s accepting me. My second favorite moment is flipping over and letting him penetrate me, for the same reason.
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I prefer sex parties to bathhouses or hookups. Much more consistent crowd … and I love groups.
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Tell your partner it’s your first time so he can be extra gentle and make sure you’re opened up properly. Especially if you’re at a bathhouse, you don’t want someone who’s just going to slam it in.
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PrEP is the only part of my sex life that has changed appreciably. I’ve always been interested is anonymous hookups and group sex. Now I can do it raw.
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Get him on PrEP. If you met him on Scruff, his issue might be more about safety than casual sex per se.
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I’m definitely a metrosexual, which many people outside of New York or LA assume is potentially gay.
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How do you get attention at Bathhouses?
theplayerking replied to valleyvers's topic in General Discussion
I think in Japan you can signal your preferred roll by where you put your key, e.g., left arm or right arm, etc. -
I’ve found in wealthier countries they tend to be expensive and legit (if sensual) massages. In poorer countries, they immediately start trying to upcharge you for “additional” services. In those places, they have no intention of providing a real massage at all and, if that’s what you’re looking for, not worth the money.
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I would play with a friend or coworker that I was attracted to if we happened to bump into each other at a bathhouse or sex party. However, if I recognize someone I know on an app, I would not contact him. More out of fear of rejection than embarrassment.
