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I disagree that it's methy. While i could see them tolerating it the clientele isn't there strictly to do drugs. I stayed for a week in march 2 years ago and had a nice time. I came to relax before a work event the following week and had a pleasant stay. It's not in the best area but many things are walking distance including a whole foods and dunkin which were nice to have close so I could afford the rides to other parts of town for fun. Beach isnt far and wilton isnt far but you will need a car/uber to get there. The other guests were generally 50 and older but that just meant I got plenty of friendly attention. The pool parties/day pass crowds we're more mixed and I met a few ppl there just for the day. The outdoor play spots are nice the pool and deck was nice and my room was good. An older property thats fairly well maintained. Agree it's not practical for anon hookups because you have to let your own guests through the gate.

the same either way- the fuck flu is from seroconversion which you should search on here and google if you want to learn more

This is hot as fuck! Both your progression in anonymous fucks and where you're at currently. Keeping a stable of reliable repeatable tops who like to take control seems relatively safe to me. I've posted before with my reservations about door unlocked cumdumping at public motels. I do this a few times a year but I dont just broadcast out my location and wait for tops with the door unlocked for safety reasons. I say keep going and if you're worried about your safety, keep your circle close.

Yes, to @ffabbian's point, by letting the top write the post you might find that tops don't even have a chance to consider how bold or subtle you are. I agree you should let the top do the work here and see what happens. Good luck regardless.

Link was broken in my original post here's what i was referencing:

Wrote about stealing all my roommates used condoms here:

ufff, this is so hot. i love how accomplished and satisfied you look 🤤

Definitely bring your own! The stuff that's provided is cheap and not long lasting

I went and had a great time. I got fucked by easily a dozen dudes and took a few loads along the way over about 3 hours. The darkroom at the back was where most of the action was, but as i was leaving things were spreading out a bit with guys fucking upstairs and down.

How did dad find out?

IDK, I'm not so sure about this. Having heard only a limited set of facts, a few important points jumped out to me: he works for a hospital "in the office" he was asked to affirm his Status AND his VL and CD4 counts this was not the only question on the form, there were others not about HIV status presumably I think this is more routine than it appears at first glance. If i had to guess, this is about the hospital shielding itself from legal liability more than anything else. I would almost certainly bet that Ottawa law has an exception for health employers. These are settings where the accidental transmission of bodily fluids is highly regulated and managed. So much so that hospitals keep a playbook for what to do when it happens and log every single occurrence. Now I couldn't care less if the person administering my healthcare is poz or neg. But if they are poz, then there is a REAL risk of that person infecting a neg patient if they aren't managing their health and remaining undetectable. The form isn't targeting you for being POZ, it's making sure that if you are poz you are also undetectable so that you aren't putting patients in undue risk. The last thing I would say is that while you may think your wife is the only one who knows your status, there are likely many MANY parties in your Health provider chain and the Government, thanks to your single payer health system, who do know your status. You shouldn't be surprised that they all talk to each other as well. While I deeply believe in your right to reveal your status when and to whom on your terms, if you've been fired over this already I'm SURE your employer and your union can deduce what your hesitation to fill it out was tied to. The ship has largely sailed on your original privacy concerns if what you say about your employer and union are true. I wouldn't feel good about signing it either, but I also can appreciate that a hospital NEEDS to ask these questions to protect patients and staff. That's what this is really about.

Sniffies really upped the amount of anon straight dudes on their site i think on account of the pandemic. I've found a couple high quality fucks that came together without much back and forth recently. The anon login they have is perfect for getting straight dudes to browse cock without actually creating an account. Something craigslist was especially good at.

@BlackDude nailed it. I really had to check myself in almost the exact same way a couple of weeks ago. And since then I've had a couple of great fucks and had almost forgotten how unfuckable I was feeling.

I usually tape over the door latch but let the door sit completely closed when I host a cum and go scene. I'd be too worried about someone unsuspecting seeing me and starting trouble. My blinds stay closed for that reason too. This clip from Live PD haunts me, so I stick to the safer side of this fantasy:

If it's gotten worse over time I would consider seeing a doctor. A gay doctor. They're frankly the best at this kind of thing.