Loveitraw
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Am I too vanilla? How are you vanilla, or not vanilla?
Loveitraw replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Extending the metaphor, probably to breaking point but hey 🤷♂️, I like to think of most things as a selection. Whether its neuroses, quirks or kinks. Sometimes I like a scoop of vanilla, others mint choc chip, and then there are the days when I'll go crazy with sprinkles and balsamic vinegar just to see what happens. When faced with a selection you have to wait a while to find someone who'll pick exactly the same as you. I find that leads to aiming for the common bits and take it from there. Lets be honest, even if you consider yourself kinky there are moments when something that comes up makes you think, "thats a little far/weird," and I believe that is true for everyone at some time. I prefer the many flavours approach because we all get to try somethings else. If everything is a spectrum that means that at one end there is someone who has to be considered the gayest/kinkiest and at the other is some poor bastard living in the most boring way and we're all somewhere in the middle. I much prefer thinking that whatever we're doing we're all the fetish of someone, somewhere. -
White Boys Riding Black Rods..... Taboo Or Not Taboo?
Loveitraw replied to a topic in General Discussion
I know this is an old thread and this question raises its head from time to time, but I have to land on the "not really" side. Maybe its because I grew up surrounded by people from so many different backgrounds, or maybe I'm just happy with anyone who wants to load me up. The way I see it is, when I'm with someone it is none of anyone's business but the people directly involved. Besides that, these days people are usually more surprised to discover that I'm gay at all. Apparently, if you're gen x or older, no-one likes to think of you having a sex life 🤣 -
I love tit play and usually start a session with the suction cups. Once they are extra puffy then I go for the clamps. I can certainly say my nips are larger than when I started my journey.
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It's hard to articulate because I don't really think of it in terms of risk at all. I can break it down however. I don't like being around people for long periods and then all of a sudden I need connection. So short term hook ups suit me. Anon or regular is fine but once the sex is done I am happy to be by myself again. Bareback is just better. I have survived a few things/situations where, statistically, I shouldn't and although I don't believe I am indestructible, that has given me a "carefree" attitude to things because this trip can be all over too easily. I just aim to try what I can while I'm here.
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I have nothing more to add that hasn't already been said, not just hot as hell but supremely well written. I know the subject pushes this into the niche side of things, but damn this deserves an audience! Thanks for putting this out.
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What everyone else has said here and this, one of the most common bacterial infections from this type of play is shigella. Can be mild to really unpleasant depending on the strain and your own resistances. Certainly here, (UK), its a notifiable infection which involves informing the dept of health. Mostly because drug resistant strains have started showing up. If you are concerned seek professional advice, always.
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1649 was a good year 😉
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Well damn! This site has meant a lot over the last few years. Yes it is clearly adult oriented, but that has also meant a lot of grown up conversation alongside the naughty bits. It will be a major blow to lose access.
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I have played with quite a few other bottoms in various scenarios to know that we can definitely have fun together. So I know the sex can, and would, be great as long as our imaginations don't dry up and we are both happy with the other getting as much extra cock as possible. I'm just rubbish at pretty much every other aspect when it comes to relationships. When I'm on my own I'm fine and can be terrible company. I know I've been told more than once. When not in a sexual scene I tend towards introverted and really like my space. Otherwise I like the idea of two 'big game hunter' bottoms prowling for cock.
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Reconnecting with my gay uncle
Loveitraw replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Where to begin? First off I love your stories. I have jerked off and fucked myself to them more than a few times now. I am in equal measure turned on, disturbed and shocked at how horny I find them, and this one is no exception. This internal struggle is why I love what you put out, porn and stories like this to take us where we wouldn't otherwise go. We might find out a few things about ourselves on the way. I love the breaking down and shifting limits aspect you put on your hapless characters, and giving in to those sleazy types is as hot as it is inevitable. So many thanks! -
Major Oops to embracing risky sex.
Loveitraw replied to Tanbbottom's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
From the perspective of an older bottom this speaks directly to my willingness to open up for any appreciative cock!- 30 replies
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How long is too long? Ultimately it all comes down to how you feel at the time, both of you that is. As has been said above as long as the session is kept interesting it could be amazing. Have you ever kept a plug in for an extended period? Not the same as a long fuck but it will give you an idea of what your hole can take. Also lube is your friend, especially over a long time. How ever much you think you need add a bit more. A primed hole is a very happy hole 😉
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I'm an undetectable bottom. I have no issues with letting guys fuck me and absolutely no fear of passing anything on. I am up-front about status before anything happens and if a guy wants to have second thoughts thats their prerogative. The fact is you are much safer with someone who knows for certain their status and controls it than someone who has never been tested.
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That's just hookup sites. Seems to be about 90% timewasters and 10% genuine guys. Have to wade through it to find something decent. I'm pretty good at filtering out the flakes but you can never avoid them all.
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Anything sex acts your don’t particularly enjoy?
Loveitraw replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
Feet! I don't like anything to do with feet. I know this is a specific one but I just don't like it. I don't like mine touched to the point I try to wear socks as part of my gear at all times. I don't like touching another guys feet, can't explain it, I just don't. Was at a meet recently and one guy kept on about my feet and how he wanted to play with them etc. I politely declined but he wouldn't stop to the point I made my excuses and left. A limit is a limit.
