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I think for a lot of people trump is “perceived” as a Dom - when at best he is just a “don” but perhaps only to those of us in the fetish communities- we see him for what he really is, not as a “Dom” not even a “dom” if we were going to be nice we would call him a charlatan…. But that is letting him off easy- He is rather, a pathetic bully - and I think most bullies are in fact extremely insecure he lashes out verbally because of course , while he certainly has the weight, he does not have the actual physical strength to lash out physically and, unless he is using pre scripted lines he lashes out without thinking - which I think is his main defense - with hysterical verbal tossed salad to distract from the fact that he does not have a clue what he is doing I think that a true Dom - are those with extreme self confidence- those who know what and who they are and are extremely confident in themselves a true Dom can be kind, understanding, and forgiving - Trump is mean, humorless (has anyone ever seen him genuinely smile - or laugh … like through his head back and gafaw… and with someone- not a snarky laugh at someone) and totally incapable of empathy and he truly is Putin’s bitch …. I would love to see that video from the Moscow hotel room as for musk …. Don’t know enough about him to tell … somehow saying he’s autistic seems too easy and not fair to all the other people on the spectrum …
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Hi guys - I am writing a story and trying to remember when did PrEP become widely available? and when did U=U start ? - and when did it become widely accepted? (U=U being undetectable = Untransmittable) on a side note - I think I participated in some of the U=U research - wondering if anyone else did i was in two different studies - but I forget when (I think the first one was maybe late 90s … is that possible- so soon after tge cocktail had been discovered?) the first one was at one of the big hospitals here in Boston- it was a female post grad researcher (which was a bit weird) - the first visit I went to tge hospital- she gave be this container and some porn mags and sent me into the men’s room to jerk off. And then bring her back tge container.. (weird handing tgis woman a plastic container with my cum in it) - weirder was the men’s room she sent me to was not a private one - but a regular one and I just went into one of tge stalls and jerked off so I asked if I could maybe do it at home … I could but I had to get the cum to her within 30 min of jerking off … fortunately I could get from my house to the hospital in enough time the next study was at the gay health center… so the person I interact with was kind of a bit younger gay guy - so that made it easier to hand over my container of cum and for that study they would just take me to an exam room and they had a lap top set up and it had a selection of porn on it and I could choose what movie I wanted to jerk off to with both I was not allowed to jerk off for three days before I was to provide my samples
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But remember…. Very few places have wonderful weather all year round … yes it gets cold and snowy in the north during the winter…. But it gets beastly hot and humid in the south east in the summer (and just Really hot in the southwest in the summer) I think Phoenix had - what over 140 days over 100 degrees in 2024??? so think about what you prefer… or which you find worse best to visit places … at different times of year- before you move
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Hi Im going to be in London area in early April-haven’t been there in 12 maybe 15 years… any tips ?( both X rated and otherwise….) Any interesting Gay plays in production? - good - mostly male modern dance companies? This trip will be part of my celebration of turning 70 so any recommendations where older gentleman are welcome? (Better yet … appreciated?) any Daddy bars? (as in not to hook up with other daddies … but where to meet younger men who appreciate daddies?) and what are the disclosure laws in England? I know there are some states over here where (even if like me you are poz but undetectable) you can be arrested if you have raw sex without disclosure of status before Before arriving in London I will be taking the crossing In the Queen Mary 2 …. Just in case anyone else is ( there is a LGBTQ cocktail hour every evening… so I will be curious to see what kind of crowd will be at that???) thanks for any advice
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Minimum number of people to make it an orgy?
onlyraw replied to cintarius's topic in General Discussion
I would say you need more than one bottom and more than 8 guys to make an orgy If there is only one bottom it is just a group … at best a gang bang (not to cast aspersions at a gang bang - but it is not an orgy) my feeling is that for a orgy you need multiple people getting fucked and or sucking… and so enough tops / vers guys doing the fucking and getting sucked that everyone is actively participating- or recovering and waiting to use another hole Like in one of the public playrooms at the baths -(and preferably everyone is naked) - so it would be hard to have an orgy at a book store -
There were not any guys on tv when I was growing up (the early/mid 60s) that made me tingle “that way” …. But it was the opening scene in the TV show Branded that I realized planted the seeds for Domination and submission the way Chuck Connor was stripped of his rank - slapped across the face, his sword broken in half over the Captain’s knee and then him being sent away “branded” …. (Well now that I type that out … total analogy for being discovered to be gay back then) …. But that scene really stirred something inside me i can remember trying to play out that opening scene with another boy (only I wanted to pull down his pants and slap his cock instead of his face ….he wasn’t into that so I buried my exploration of my dominant side for about 25 years but damn …. Need to google around and see if I can find a clip of that opening scene…. Probably not as half as hot as my memory of it
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I had a bf years (ok decades) ago who was a bottom and insisted on butter as the lube when I fucked him (this was around 1980 when my normal lube of choice was Vaseline) While I was by then living in Boston, fortunately having been raised in Wisconsin I always had butter available And I could kind of see how growing up in America’s dairy land that guys could have started off with butter as there always would have been lots around, but I had never used it, and in all my years Carl was the only one who had this habit (fetish?) … and Interestingly he had grown up in New Orleans … thank you @Fistedmike for this trip down memory lane …. Carl was a really fun fuck
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Major Oops to embracing risky sex.
onlyraw replied to Tanbbottom's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Damn this is really hot ….. I would love to be that silver daddy….But before we got in the shower I would have buried my face in those sweaty hairy pits of his (and some thing tells me I could spend hours nursing on those nips i hope there is a second chapter with what goes on at the dorm- 30 replies
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I actually was a bit surprised to hear that she was still alive. While I never got the chance to join an in person protest- I was part of tge boycott OJ crowd back then and it was hard as, while I have never been a coffee drinker…my morning glass of Orange Juice was got me up and going in the morning…. that was my senior year of college and I was not out yet so had a hard time when I was home for Christmas break explaining to my mother why I was skipping my morning OJ (and I had to give up OJ and Meyers’s dark rum - very tasty - but worth it for the community) I recently restarted my Florida OJ boycott when the current gov started really going after our community. (Now at least you can find oranges and other citrus fruits from places other than FL - thank you globalization) Interesting how times change…. The Christian right dumped her after her divorce…. And yet they think that two time divorced and serial adulterer Trump is somehow anointed by god and voted for him in droves
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Great story… really hot sex - and yet also beautifully captures the moral dilemma of our hero (“hero”?) looking forward to seeing where you take us
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That was hot - glad to see it is only end of Part 1 …. Looking forward to parts 2…3….? cant wait to see what kind of piss and cum pig our young man turns into…. And does Eric have more than just that pair of handcuffs???
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I think “flake” is good for the guy who gets cold feet at the last moment- also fo the guy who may be just online getting off reading profiles and checking out photos and gets sucked into chatting- and tge chatting gets a bit too serious and they freak out a block you- instead of saying- sorry- im just window shopping but I agree with you that for some “flake” is not a strong enough word….”jerk” might be better in some cases and “mean” might not even be strong enough to describe the guy who thought it was funny to “play games” with you and send you to a random building. Which is why I really miss the old days of going to the bars - where you never had to worry about how old a photo might be…. You knew if you had the right chemistry… etc. but - we don’t live there anymore.. we live in the online world… and we just have to learn to live with it. but at least the online world has brought us communities like this one … so that is at least one upside
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The Twelve Days of Christmas
onlyraw replied to STLFFChaser's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Fuck - if this is only day two …. I can’t wait for day 3!!!! Keep up the good work -
The Twelve Days of Christmas
onlyraw replied to STLFFChaser's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Great first chapter…. Looming forward to hearing another next 11 nights……. -
I always thought pussy was a major turn off until like @partying.hard I saw a ftm porn the ftms were sexy furry cubs (some with more body hair than me) …. Fucking hot! so I guess it is not the pussy it is the tits that are a turn off for me I almost had a chance at the baths once … saw this hot fuzzy cub in the sauna… and then noticed the top surgery scars- but he got picked up by another guy before I could move in …. Would love to do one sometime i would love to experience the difference between fucking an ass and fucking a pussy
