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I’m hoping to get some input from other guys who like to go to the bathhouse. I always get a room, and they give you your room keys on an elastic loop. Most guys cruise wearing the loop around their upper arm above the bicep. My problem is that no matter how many times I try to tuck the keys into the elastic band, they always fall out and start jingling. I haven’t noticed other guys getting annoyed about it, but it sometimes takes me out of the moment. It’s annoying for me to hear/feel when I’m trying to get spitroasted on the floor of the maze, or jacking off with a cock in my mouth at the slurp ramp, or on my back trying to pinch a guy’s nipples while he’s pounding me. I’ve never taken a close look at what other guys do with their keys—I don’t bring my glasses with me and it’s usually too dark/steamy to focus on details like that anyways. What do you guys do with your keys? Wear them on your arm? Fold em into the band somehow? Secure them in another way? Shove em up your ass? Inquiring minds want to know….

I don’t leak much without stimulation. I will leak a lot of precum when I’m edging for a long time, or when I’m getting a blowjob from someone who doesn’t seem like they want it (which causes kind of a mental block that keeps me from going over the edge), but at that point I’m basically past the point of no return, so it’s really just a long opening cumshot. I’ve found uncircumcised guys tend to leak a lot more precum than circumcised guys. I’m cut, so that tracks.

Trying to pick the right day to go to Steamworks during IML 2025 weekend to get as many cocks as possible. Saturday 5/24 is off the table for me unfortunately, but I’m considering Thursday 5/22, Friday 5/23, Sunday 5/25, and Monday 5/26. Would love any insight from the pigs who have been to SW during IML in the past.

“Dick” generally just doesn’t sound sexual to me, especially on its own. When used to describe a penis, it sounds kinda boring and limp. And not like “heavy and weighty” limp, like “deflated and shriveling” limp. Occasionally when I’m getting stretched out, gasping and breathless, I will use “huge dick.” I prefer using “cock,” but I also like “meat,” “tool,” and “pipe.” As far as ejaculate is concerned, I prefer “cum,” “load,” “nut,” or “semen.”

Instinctively this sounds right to me.

I love evolutionary theory, especially evolutionary theory that gets my dick hard 🍆💦

My biggest dildo is a Blush Neo-Elite dual density silicone dildo, 10 inches long, 2.25 inches in diameter. My most recent purchase is another dual density dildo, shorter but thicker (2.38” wide). I wanted to be able to stretch and pound my hole without needing to open up my second ring.

Exactly the same here as far as my own cock is concerned. When it comes to my preference, my eyes and hole are size queens, but my mouth and throat prefer 4”-7” inches in length and thicker than average. 5.5”-6” in length is perfect. Thick enough to fill up my mouth, but not so thick that I can’t get it in my throat, and not so long that it stimulates the gag reflex when I do deepthroat. I can get into a really good rhythm taking cocks like that in my throat.

I enjoy filming myself on my phone, or handing my phone to another guy to film me with it, but I don’t like being filmed on anyone else’s phone. I want to have control of my image. When I go out to hook up, I set my phone up so that it can only use the camera app and locks everything else. I don’t want a guy to take a video of me sucking his cock or taking his load in my hole, then sending it to himself.

If given the option I will always choose to take a guy’s load in my throat or deep in my hole, but I like that about 1-5% of the time guys will cum on my face. The immediate warmth and the weight of the semen congealing on my skin are nice reminders of how much of a slut I am.

It depends. My default is no loads refused, but if a guy is taking forever to cum AND he’s preventing me from getting more loads AND he’s gross in some way (think unhygienic, smells awful, bad kisser, lacking any semblance of social tact)? Then I’ll try to end the encounter. Some guys—a rare few—are just not worth it.

The first cock I sucked was about 6.5-7 inches and girthy. Cut. Really filled up my mouth and throat, but I was hooked. He was another married guy (like me at the time) and he said I was his first as well. We both had something to lose. He freaked out after busting down my throat because he thought I’d lied to him about it being my first time. The first cock in my ass was large, uncut, at least 8 inches long, meaty and thick. At least 2 inches wide (≈6.5 inches circ). It took a minute to get him inside me. But I’d been sucking cock for awhile and was yearning to have a real penis in my hole. Eventually he worked up to pounding me hard before dumping his load. I knew that, among other things, I was meant to take big cocks and warm semen in my cunt.

Fuuuuck that was a hot tale. Sounds like my ideal bathhouse visit.

5 loads so far in 2025. Pretty good considering I was on vacation with my girlfriend until last Friday. Saturday I was able to go to the local gloryhole and take cock and cum. First time I’ve ever been fucked through a gloryhole 🤤

I was married to a woman for 10 years, and the marriage ended partly because I needed to experience sex with another man. I didn’t know I was bi before we got together, and I told her shortly after I discovered/accepted that about myself. Told her that I wouldn’t need to act on it, but that changed. Didn’t know how much I would need it, just knew I was bi and I would need to satisfy that urge eventually. Moving forward from my divorce, I put my cards on the table with all future potential partners. I told them that I’m bi within the first few dates. When it started to get more serious with one girl (my current girlfriend) I told her I wasn’t sure whether I would need to fuck guys again in the future. She accepted that. A few strong bi-cycles later, I realized I would need to have sex with men at least occasionally moving forward. Took a lot of courage to bring it up—we were almost a year into our relationship and had fallen in love. But I knew I needed to tell her or I would eventually act on those urges again in the future and it would crash and burn like my marriage. Plus I’m tired of hiding and feeling guilty. I told her that I would need cock and cum occasionally in the future, and was pleasantly surprised that she agreed to a limited open relationship. Now I get a hall pass to fuck guys once every few months, and we’ve been together for almost 6 years.

If I ever get to take sex vacations, ATL is my first destination.

Thanks. No, she doesn’t join in unfortunately. I’ve asked her to join me going out to the bookstore gloryholes, suggested a threesome, even offered her the same opportunity to go out and get fucked by other guys (she’s 100% straight). She’s declined them all, said she’s not interested. She said she might be willing to join me at the bookstore or adult theater and have other people watch us fuck, but she’s shied away from watching me with another guy.

Fluid dynamics. Poppers go bad when they’re exposed to air (I think the chemical process is called oxidation). Storing them upright will leave a little pocket of air/fumes at the top, and no matter how hard you screw the cap on, there will be some air/fumes that get out and new air that gets in. Storing them upside down means the little pocket of air/fumes will now be at the bottom of the bottle, away from the cap and seal, with no chance for new air to get in.

My girl gives me a hall pass to fuck guys once every 3-6 months. I’ve got a bunch of guys lined up already, but this guy takes the cake. He says he’s going to pound my hole. I can’t wait. My cunt is quivering.

Going a couple weeks without using generally resets my tolerance. I switch it up within a single session between butyl nitrite (tends to open my external sphincter more, more of an immediate head rush) and amyl nitrite (tends to open me up deeper, slower full body rush). Also, getting really good brands helps. I use Real Gold for butyl and Everest Premium (blue bottle) for amyl. I keep them fresh by storing them upside down and keeping any unopened backup bottles in the freezer.

First, you’re generalizing. Second, your generalization is based on zero data. I’ve never heard of a single instance of a trans man—someone born female who has transitioned to become a man—wanting access to women’s facilities. And while I can’t say for certain that has never happened, I would estimate that the vast majority of trans men only want access to facilities for men. Even if there were an instance of a trans man seeking access to women’s facilities, go back and read #1 above. Your opinion is illogical and uneducated.

Second-level tolerance is not at issue when it comes to questions of justice and fairness. It’s like a neo-Nazi demanding someone be tolerant of their intolerance. Fairness is a key concept in determining whether someone is a bigot. If I dislike you because you’re being a bigot to other people based on characteristics they cannot control, my dislike is not unfair dislike, and therefore I am not a bigot. Your subjective opinion—in this case, about how you want to exclude individuals within a group defined by immutable characteristics—is not itself an immutable characteristic. From both descriptive and normative perspectives, you can and should learn to be more tolerant of the immutable characteristics of others that don’t affect you in the slightest. Trans men are men, but you get to choose what you want to do with your body, and nobody is forcing you to have sex with them. Their scary vaginas aren’t going to leap at you in a dark corner of a bathhouse.

Still being the cumdump at the center of a gangbang, including getting double penetrated (which I’ve yet to experience on its own), pissfucked (yet to experience), and spitroasted (my favorite activity so far). Would also love to be at the center of a swallowing bukkake session. Would love all of it to be filmed in all of those activities as well.

Strange but hot story. I’m curious to know how your next meeting goes. And I wonder what being bi has to do with bottoming in his head? Hope you’re able to fuck another couple loads in him. So that I’m not hijacking this important thread with just questions: My last load(s) came a few months my last loads came a few months ago. I hit up this guy I’ve hooked up with before, a smaller attractive cub dude. He kept telling me how much he wanted to fuck me and eat my hole. He sent me a pic of his rimming chair and described how he would tongue fuck me. I couldn’t bottom unfortunately but he wanted to swap head anyways. Went over there, we jacked off to porn for a bit, hit some poppers, and I got on my knees to suck his cock. Sucked him for awhile and he pulled me up to suck me. I don’t usually get hard with guys but I had taken a Cialis beforehand—I needed to feel a mouth on my cock. I’m a little bigger than he is, an average 6” long but greater than average girth at about 6.5.” He tried taking me in his throat and couldn’t fit much. I went back to sucking him. He’s about 4.5” long and maybe slightly bigger than average in girth. I enjoy sucking smaller cocks because I can really give a lot of pleasure to the guy’s whole shaft, and usually get to taste his cum a little more before it goes down my throat. He was loving what I was doing and getting close, but he didn’t want to cum yet. He wanted to eat my ass, so he told me to turn around on my knees in front of his couch, facing his TV and watching porn, with my ass in the air. We were hitting poppers as he rimmed me, then pulled back and jacked off, shooting his load on my hole. I collected his cum in my hand when it dropped down past my hole and ate it before turning around to clean the last pearls of his semen from his cock. It was hot. Then I went over to Banana Video, where I played with 8 guys, sucked six of their cocks, jacked off with one guy who said he was married and didn’t want me to suck him, got blown for awhile by another guy, and swallowed 4 loads of warm, delicious cum. This was also hot, but I just got so worked up from writing about that earlier story so I’m gonna go pound my hole and jack off now 😂

Maybe I spoke too soon. If you place it on a part of the body that’s generally an acceptable “hetero male tattoo” area—e.g., arm, leg, chest; in other words, not something on your ass or a tramp stamp on your lower back—you could do something like “Loading.” To everyone at the bathhouse with enough blood flow getting to their brains, it’ll be a subtle tell about what you’re into. To everyone else (maybe including your wife?) you can explain it as “a reminder that I’m a work in progress,” or something along those lines.