11bi11guy

First, you’re generalizing. Second, your generalization is based on zero data. I’ve never heard of a single instance of a trans man—someone born female who has transitioned to become a man—wanting access to women’s facilities. And while I can’t say for certain that has never happened, I would estimate that the vast majority of trans men only want access to facilities for men. Even if there were an instance of a trans man seeking access to women’s facilities, go back and read #1 above. Your opinion is illogical and uneducated.

Second-level tolerance is not at issue when it comes to questions of justice and fairness. It’s like a neo-Nazi demanding someone be tolerant of their intolerance. Fairness is a key concept in determining whether someone is a bigot. If I dislike you because you’re being a bigot to other people based on characteristics they cannot control, my dislike is not unfair dislike, and therefore I am not a bigot. Your subjective opinion—in this case, about how you want to exclude individuals within a group defined by immutable characteristics—is not itself an immutable characteristic. From both descriptive and normative perspectives, you can and should learn to be more tolerant of the immutable characteristics of others that don’t affect you in the slightest. Trans men are men, but you get to choose what you want to do with your body, and nobody is forcing you to have sex with them. Their scary vaginas aren’t going to leap at you in a dark corner of a bathhouse.

Still being the cumdump at the center of a gangbang, including getting double penetrated (which I’ve yet to experience on its own), pissfucked (yet to experience), and spitroasted (my favorite activity so far). Would also love to be at the center of a swallowing bukkake session. Would love all of it to be filmed in all of those activities as well.

Strange but hot story. I’m curious to know how your next meeting goes. And I wonder what being bi has to do with bottoming in his head? Hope you’re able to fuck another couple loads in him. So that I’m not hijacking this important thread with just questions: My last load(s) came a few months my last loads came a few months ago. I hit up this guy I’ve hooked up with before, a smaller attractive cub dude. He kept telling me how much he wanted to fuck me and eat my hole. He sent me a pic of his rimming chair and described how he would tongue fuck me. I couldn’t bottom unfortunately but he wanted to swap head anyways. Went over there, we jacked off to porn for a bit, hit some poppers, and I got on my knees to suck his cock. Sucked him for awhile and he pulled me up to suck me. I don’t usually get hard with guys but I had taken a Cialis beforehand—I needed to feel a mouth on my cock. I’m a little bigger than he is, an average 6” long but greater than average girth at about 6.5.” He tried taking me in his throat and couldn’t fit much. I went back to sucking him. He’s about 4.5” long and maybe slightly bigger than average in girth. I enjoy sucking smaller cocks because I can really give a lot of pleasure to the guy’s whole shaft, and usually get to taste his cum a little more before it goes down my throat. He was loving what I was doing and getting close, but he didn’t want to cum yet. He wanted to eat my ass, so he told me to turn around on my knees in front of his couch, facing his TV and watching porn, with my ass in the air. We were hitting poppers as he rimmed me, then pulled back and jacked off, shooting his load on my hole. I collected his cum in my hand when it dropped down past my hole and ate it before turning around to clean the last pearls of his semen from his cock. It was hot. Then I went over to Banana Video, where I played with 8 guys, sucked six of their cocks, jacked off with one guy who said he was married and didn’t want me to suck him, got blown for awhile by another guy, and swallowed 4 loads of warm, delicious cum. This was also hot, but I just got so worked up from writing about that earlier story so I’m gonna go pound my hole and jack off now 😂

Maybe I spoke too soon. If you place it on a part of the body that’s generally an acceptable “hetero male tattoo” area—e.g., arm, leg, chest; in other words, not something on your ass or a tramp stamp on your lower back—you could do something like “Loading.” To everyone at the bathhouse with enough blood flow getting to their brains, it’ll be a subtle tell about what you’re into. To everyone else (maybe including your wife?) you can explain it as “a reminder that I’m a work in progress,” or something along those lines.

A piece of sushi and a chicken? 🍣🐓 A male symbol? ⭕️♐️ A pig snout and a down arrow? 🐽⬇️ A glass of milk? 🥛 Three drops emoji? 💦 A sperm cell, maybe disguised as something else? 🏊🏼‍♂️ Is this tattoo going to be in a place your wife will see? Assuming no, all of the answers above might work to send the signal you’re looking for to other men. If she will see it, I doubt there’s anything that would be innocuous to her and still be understood by men when you’re on the hunt for cock.

I had another hall pass last weekend. Traveled around in the morning taking cock and cum, and then late afternoon I posted up at the bathhouse. In the morning, I sucked and got fucked by the first five guys, including three repeat customers that I’ve hooked up with in the past. Took a few videos, including one pretty hot ass up anon scene—that guy will definitely become a regular in the future. All five of these guys shot their loads in my hole. Same thing with the sixth guy, but him cumming in my ass seemed to be the turning point for my day. After he came inside me, I gently took his cock back in my mouth (I always do that with guys who cum in my cunt; I love licking the last pearls of cum from their head). I was able to keep him hard and in no time he dumped his second load on my tongue. I hope to make that guy a regular as well. Three of the next four guys fucked me, but they all came in my mouth too. Must be something about Sunday afternoons and wanting to blow a load down someone’s throat…. Bathhouse in the afternoon was kinda weird. A lot of guys, but mostly much older bottoms doing just doing laps. And I had one guy I wasn’t attracted to who followed me around the club a bit. But at least I got to suck and fuck a few cocks and take a couple loads, and got to relax in the hot tub. Final tallies: - 12 different cocks in my throat - 9 different guys fucked me - Took 11 loads total, from 10 different guys - 6 loads of semen in my ass - 5 loads of semen down my throat

I can’t attend IML this year unfortunately. Looking to schedule one of the weekends before or after IML to post up at Steamworks/Banana or travel around and take loads. Would either of those weekends be busier than the other? Or are both gonna be pretty quiet with guys saving up/recovering?

Those are some very full balls... looks delicious

I'd suck this cock hourly.

Thanks for your advice. The thing I worry about with a plug with a skinnier neck is not having a good enough seal and the cum leaking out. I guess it’s a trade-off with a thicker neck and being more comfortable though. Time for some experiments!

As the question in the title asks, what are the best butt plugs to keep cum inside? Obviously everyone’s bodies and holes are different, so I guess I’m looking for general principles for accomplishing my goal: sizes, styles, materials, brands, etc. For example, I think it’s reasonable to assume that the larger the plug, the more it will act like an actual stopper, with no leakage. But I’m also looking for something I can comfortably wear, walk around with it inside me, and get an erection. For the largest plugs I can fit (around 3 inches in diameter) there is little room for blood flow to my dick, let alone enough room to comfortably walk around. Shaped like a teardrop/spade, or those plugs that are more like an upside down comma? Would harder silicone be better than softer silicone? Metal? An attached cock ring, so it has more stability in case there’s a lot of cum lubricating it? Any advice is much appreciated!

The only thing that would make me say no is if the guy has an open sore on his cock or around it. I’ve been able to stop a couple guys who had raised open sores on their dicks. I discovered each one just from seeing it before he fucked me—there would’ve been no way to feel it with only my hole if I was blindfolded. Each guy tried to deny it and said it was nothing. Seriously dude?! You’ve got a full blown syphilis chancre, there’s no way you’re fucking me. I would absolutely love to be blindfolded and restrained to take anonymous loads though. I don’t need to see a guy’s face, and I can easily imagine my other senses being heightened. Steamworks Chicago has a padded fuckbench with wrist and ankle restraints on either side, set in the center of a circular slurp ramp. Like a cumdump arena. I’ve fantasized about getting fucked there many times—my hole is twitching just thinking about it now—but I’m not sure I could do the blindfold and restraints unless I had a buddy checking for obvious signs of STIs.

Not to take away from the political discussion, which I always appreciate, but I have a practical question: I live in Illinois, which as far as I’m aware is not one of the problematic states. But I just tried to access the site and was blocked. The replacement page indicated it thought my IP address was located in Texas. I restarted my phone and was able to access the site again. But in the event I’m erroneously blocked again in the future more permanently, or (simulation forbid) my state actually joins the ranks of the banned, is there another way to contact the moderators/administrators of the site? Googling doesn’t come up with much (which, all things considered, is probably a good thing for operational security). I’d like to have a contact in case of technical errors like the one I experienced (in the event I can’t figure it out), have a contact for helping to fight the political fight, and at least get news and updates on the possibility of future access. This is an excellent community, and I would hate to think the site might drop altogether without me knowing.

Part II: So I went back up the stairs to his room, and he was already hard again. I got on my knees on the floor and put his cock back in my mouth. He fucked me again, this time on all fours on the floor. He pounded me there for awhile. We moved back to the couch at the foot of the bed after my knees started to hurt. I could feel him start to get closer. I remembered that I wanted to take more videos of me being slutty, so before he blew his load I asked him to slow down and take a video. I definitely have an exhibitionist streak, but so many times in the heat of the moment I completely forget about wanting to film it. Luckily I remembered this time, so now I have a nice new clip of me getting fucked. He stopped filming once he reached the point of no return, and blew his second load deep in my ass. He pulled his dripping cock out of my hole and again I gently took him in my mouth. We made more small talk as I got dressed and he went to take a shower. This time when I left I went all the way down the stairs, walked back to my car, and drove the 20 minutes to the bathhouse. On my way walking into the bathhouse, the hotel guy messaged me saying he wished I had stayed and that he could give me a third load. I paid for a large room, got my towel, key, and remote for the TV, and walked to go find my accommodations. I have a tank top that says "Cum In My Ass" that I like to wear whenever I get to the bathhouse, because it makes me feel slutty and advertises the goods. My room was directly next to an area with a padded couch and TVs showing porn, a wooden sex bench, gloryholes, and a "slurp ramp," where there is a raised platform guys can walk on while other guys below can give them a blowjob while standing. After I got everything situated in my room, I opened the door to go do a lap around the club. There were a few guys in the play area outside my door, but they weren't playing themselves, mostly just browsing. One of the guys looked like he was waiting for me. I made eye contact and nodded back to my room, and he followed me inside. I left the door open, but he shut it. He was a stocky Hispanic guy, probably in his 20s, with an above-average thick uncut cock. I gave him a blowjob for awhile. I asked if he wanted to fuck me, but he declined. He wanted to fuck me with one of my dildos that I had brought, so I let him do that while I sucked him. I don't want to brag too much about my blowjob skills, but I've made three guys cum twice with my mouth within the span of about 10-15 minutes each, and made another guy cum three times within the same timeframe. After about 15 minutes of sucking this guy's cock, and he still didn't seem to be any closer to cumming, I told him thanks and indicated that I was going to do a lap. This guy followed me around the club throughout the day, never said a word, and at one point kind of elbowed his way past another guy so he could get at my mouth, but he never seemed to get any closer to cumming, never took me up on my offer to fuck me, and in fact never said a word. Any time I asked him a question he kind of shrugged or rolled his eyes. He had a nice cock, and I would've gladly taken his load, but anybody who makes me work for it that much isn't worth my time. I took a lap and went to a different slurp ramp/gloryhole area. This area is filmed on the internal CCTV system, and broadcast to all the TVs in each room, providing a cool real-time voyeur/exhibitionist element and information about how busy things are. I walked on the lower level, indicating that I'm looking to suck cock. An older Asian guy walked up and stuck his hand between the slats to guide my head to his slightly smaller-than-average cock. I sucked him for a minute before asking if he wanted to go back to my room. He agreed and followed me back there. I was hoping he would fuck me, but he wanted me to keep sucking him. He was leaking a ton of precum, and it tasted delicious. Within a few minutes he was cumming down my throat. Next, I went to one of the video areas, where an older Hispanic guy was watching porn. I asked if I could suck him and he said sure, so I got down on my hands and knees, ass in the air, and started sucking his smaller uncut cock. I couldn't make him hard after sucking him for a few minutes, and he looked very apologetic when he told me that he was a bottom and doesn't usually get his cock sucked. I told him I'm the same way, so we wished each other happy hunting and went our separate ways. I walked up to an area of the club I had never been to before--it was always closed for construction. You needed to walk through a dark room maze, and on the other side there was another slurp ramp, kind of a slurp ring, with a raised walkway that went around in a circle around a central area, kind of like an arena. In the middle of the arena was another fuckbench, kind of a picnic table covered in padding with a much thinner "table" area, where a bottom puts his chest down on the table part, and then his hands and knees go on the benches on either side. Unlike others I'd seen, this one had restraints for the bottom's wrists and ankles. There was no one in the entire larger room, but I was so turned on thinking about getting fucked while guys getting blowjobs watched me in a circle that I strapped myself into the restraints and hit my poppers. I went back to my room and started watching porn and playing with my dildos. I got so worked up fantasizing about all the anonymous cock I was going to take that I opened my door, put my ass in the air at the edge of the bed, and kept using my toys, advertising my hole. Pretty soon I had my first customer. While my head was in the mattress and I had turned off all the lights except the red one, my room had mirrors all around and I could see that it was the bathhouse employee who had checked me in, a guy of mixed ethnicity in his mid-30s. He came in, unzipped his pants (another telltale sign, no one but employees is wearing anything other than a towel or jockstrap), and started stroking his cock while gently fingering my ass. I grabbed his nice large cut cock, lubed it up, and guided it inside me. He was pounding me hard from the start and it took him maybe a minute to shoot his load in my hole. He zipped up, smacked my ass, and left. Within 30 seconds, another bathhouse employee came in and unzipped, but this guy didn't fuck me. He got down on his knees and started eating and fingering my cummy hole while stroking himself. His soft wet tongue felt amazing around and inside my hole, and I enjoyed the contrast with his rough stubble between my cheeks. He was enjoying himself, and within about 5 minutes he came, shooting his load on the floor before zipping up and leaving. I vaguely remember another guy fucking me and cumming inside me after that, a white guy with a big belly and a short thick cock, and he came very quickly. I then closed the door and relaxed for a bit before going out into the slurp ramp area outside my door. A younger Asian guy walked onto the ramp area as I was walking below, went up to the rail and pulled his towel aside to free his cock in front of my face. He had an average length cut cock, but it was pretty thin--all things being equal, thin cocks are my least favorite, but I wasn't going to turn down a load of cum. Shortly after I started sucking him, the Silent Hispanic Guy came up next to him and also put his cock in my face. I started sucking both of them, and then the Asian guy pulled away. I thought he was leaving, so I started focusing solely on the Hispanic guy's cock, but the Asian guy came around behind me and started feeling up my ass. At this, the Hispanic guy pulled away and left. I grabbed the Asian guy and brought him into my room, where he fucked me on all fours for a good 10 minutes, then had me turn over to fuck me in missionary. I don't generally enjoy missionary sex with guys, but I wanted this guy to cum, and I figured he needed more friction considering how thin his cock was compared to my stretched out hole. He finally came, and left very quickly. I went to the spa area to go take a shower and jump in the jacuzzi. Despite there being a rule that you're not allowed to play in the jacuzzi area, it's designed to have a lot of corners out of sight. Another Hispanic guy, this time a younger guy, started jacking me off under the water. So I returned the favor. I told him I had trouble getting hard with guys, so he stopped jacking my cock and hopped up on the edge of the jacuzzi, presenting his cock to my mouth. I sucked him for a minute and then left. I then went into one of the saunas, where I found the Silent Guy all by himself. Since I thought maybe he left the slurp ramp the last time because all of my attention wasn't focused on him, I decided to try to get him to cum one more time. I got on my knees on the lower bench as he put one of his legs up to allow me easier access. I slobbered and throated his cock for what felt like 30 minutes, but was probably more like 10. I asked him if he wanted to fuck me, but again he indicated no. A crowd had formed around us to watch me work, but I was getting very hot and had to throw in the towel. As I pulled back and started wiping the sweat off my body, one of the guys who had been watching said, "Damn, nice work dude. You were really going for it." Small consolation. This bathhouse has two saunas, so I walked around and felt the cool air for awhile before going into the second sauna on the next level. On the top bench, there was a middle-aged white guy in good shape with a goatee and a bald head. I sat a little ways away and we both stretched and relaxed while fondling our packages underneath our towels. I pulled mine away and he did the same, revealing a heavy cock. I reached over and started stroking him, then got down on the lower bench beneath him to put him in my mouth. Once he was at full mast, I saw that he had a very large cock, not as thick as my Hotel Guy but definitely thicker than average and about 8 inches long. I was sucking him for a few minutes when I heard the door open and another guy walked in. I didn't really see him, because the door was directly behind me, but he came up to my ass, pulled his towel to the side, and started rubbing his bare cock against my hole. I grabbed my lube and lubed my hole and his cock before guiding him in, all without taking the cock out of my mouth. I was getting spitroasted again, one of my favorite activities! Another minute or two and he was shooting his semen in my hole. At some point during that time another guy had walked into the sauna, a fat white guy. He sat down next to the guy on the bench in front of me to watch and stroke under his towel. After the guy who was fucking me left, the Fat Guy pulled his cock out and offered it to me to suck, an average cut cock. The Bald Guy didn't appear to be close to cumming, so I started alternating between the two of them. As I focused back on the Bald Guy, the fat guy stood up and got behind me. He was shorter than me, so in order to get his cock in my hole, I had to do a half squat. I had been alternating between kneeling on the bench and standing on the floor since I got to the sauna, so my legs were pretty tired. The Fat Guy fucked me for about a minute before I couldn't hold out any longer and told him I needed to stand up. He kept trying but couldn't make it work, and finally gave up. He said I was too tall and laughed. I laughed and apologized, then went back to sucking the guy in front of me. He asked if I had a room, and I told him yes--I couldn't wait to get back to getting fucked in a comfortable position. I brought the Bald Guy back to my room, where I proceeded to take his cock in my holes for the next 30 minutes in all different kinds of positions. He made me cum from anal, the first time that's ever happened. After I came, I started thinking about how I needed to get home, and the guy still didn't seem like he was getting close to cumming. I think he was on something. Aside from having the stamina of a racehorse, whenever we chatted in between position changes, he kept intense eye contact and his pupils were very wide. Other than that he was a very nice guy. I think he was really enjoying himself, getting very verbally into fucking my cunt. When I told him about why I needed to leave, that I was in a relationship with a woman and she let me fuck guys every once in awhile, he seemed kind of sad. I got the feeling he was trying to make it more than a sexual connection. During one of our breaks to grab a drink of water, I reiterated that I needed to leave soon to get home. I told him I wanted his cum, and he said he'd give it to me. He put me back down on all fours on the bed and went to town. Really roughly fucking my hole. I felt him slam home deep and hold his hips against my ass and the back of my thighs, and then give me two more powerful thrusts, holding himself there as he dumped his seed in my hole. I turned around and took him gently in my mouth and coaxed the last drops of his semen out of his shaft. We said our thanks and he left. Then I relaxed on the bed for a few minutes, went to go take a shower, packed up my items and tidied up the room, and left to go pick up a pizza on my way home. Altogether a very successful hall pass.

2, 3, 1, 4, same while bottoming for guys and fucking my girlfriend. I like the visual of 4 when watching porn and stroking. While I like the visual of fucking my girlfriend's pussy, pulling out to shoot and then putting it back in, it's at the bottom of my list of 4. Not sure how I'd feel about it as a bottom, but not needing to try it right away.

The Ram?

I’ve never turned down a dick that doesn’t meet the additional criteria you mentioned. Unfortunately there have been a couple abusive assholes—pro tip: don’t forcefully throatfuck anyone who you haven’t spoken about it with ahead of time—and a couple dudes with bumps/sores, or just had really bad hygiene. But I’ve never turned a guy down because his cock was too big. I seek out cocks that are too big so they can stretch and pound my cunt. I did have a guy with a huge dick at the bathhouse recently that I had to give up on. Ran into him out in the club and started drooling when I saw what he was swinging. Don’t want to pat myself on the back too much, but I can give a great blowjob (the number of guys who give me 2 loads back to back has outnumbered the guys who can only give me one load, and it’s been like that for awhile now). Asked if he wanted to go back to my room, he declined but leaned back for me to suck his cock, and I proceeded to give him a great blowjob. For about 15 minutes. Guy seemed to be really enjoying it but I couldn’t get him to cum or agree to go back to my room to fuck me. Another guy started playing with me so I started them both back and forth. Big Dick got up and left. After taking a few more loads around the club and in my room, I ran into him again. Same thing happened. After giving him another good blowjob out in public, really inhaling his cock, he again declined to come back to my room and again had me give him a long blowjob in the sauna. Not super comfortable on the knees. After another 15 mins, I had to get up and leave. Didn’t want to waste my last hour before going home without getting more cum. Maybe he had already cum a couple times (he had no problem staying hard). Maybe he was a bottom (I didn’t get that impression when other guys came around). Maybe he wanted me to take the lead and hop on his cock out in public. If that was the case, I guess I’d say guys with big cocks should assume that a bottom who can take them might need to have access to his lube shooter 🤷🏼‍♂️

And Steamworks of course.

There are a couple in Chicago, Te-Jay’s and Banana Video.

Three months is about two bi-cycles for me, when I start craving cock and cum badly. I can usually get through the first bi-cycle okay, and sometimes the second, but by the third one is when I really need it. Luckily my girlfriend gives me a hall pass 3-4 times per year (every 3-6 months) where I get to take as much cock and cum as I want in a day.

I figured it might be difficult and likely unsafe without a tested and regulated product. I see a lot of women on Chaturbate (and some guys) with those Lovense Bluetooth vibrators. Many of them are still able to use dildos or get fucked with those inside them. There’s gotta be a way to make a clear silicone toy with a camera inside…

I have numerous fantasies and fetishes, and sometimes they combine with one another to create something new. Recently, my desire to watch cumshot compilations lined up with my usual need for cock and cum in my ass. Add in my exhibitionism kink, and I couldn’t stop thinking about the possibility of watching an internal video compilation of all of the loads that have been dumped in my hole over the years. You know those internal cumshot videos? I would love to start filming my ass getting filled with semen. How do they film that?

Jizz stains on my car’s seats are kind of a fun little reminder, but there are definitely better ways to be reminded.