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My enthusiasm. Guys love that I’m so eager for as much cock and cum as I can get in my holes. I’ve had many guys—first time I’m hooking up with them, usually anonymously at the bathhouse and bookstore—comment in sort of a shocked manner about how much I love cock, how much I love sucking cock, how hungry I am, how much of a cumdump I must be.

I’m a mid-30s bi guy moving to Chicago soon with my girlfriend. We’ve got an open relationship where she gives me a hall pass to fuck guys once every few months (I’m on PrEP, get tested after each hall pass, we have a few other rules, etc.). I don’t have much trouble getting cock when I have the opportunity. But I need to make new friends. We have some existing friends in Chicago, but they’re pretty conservative with their sexual behavior—a lot of jokes about 69, jizz, and anal that mask discomfort with sexual fluidity or genuine expressions of sexuality. I would like to be part of a kinkier social circle. Ideally one that is open to LGBT/queer identities, but also even just an open minded swinger’s group—we had friends like that in the past, and I feel over time those groups are getting more comfortable with MSM, especially younger people. I don’t want to find friends during my hook-ups. One of the rules of our open relationship is to avoid interactions that involve emotional attachments, which is why my girlfriend prefers me hooking up anonymously at bathhouses and bookstores. I’m not opposed to hooking up with my friends at some point in the future. We just had our first STI from my last hall pass a couple months ago (treated, all negative now), and we may need to discuss new rules that make things a little safer, including the possibility of ongoing FWBs to have more trust around testing. My relationship with my girlfriend is the most important thing to me, and it may take her some time to get to the FWBs point, so I don’t want to introduce her to “my new friends” who I first met on a hookup site. So where are the “respectable” places I can I meet cool, sexually open, LGBT-friendly people in Chicago? I do want to get involved with LGBT rights/health organizations. Anybody have recommendations for those groups?

I’m a mid-30s bi guy moving to Chicago soon with my girlfriend. We’ve got an open relationship where she gives me a hall pass to fuck guys once every few months (I’m on PrEP, get tested after each hall pass, we have a few other rules, etc.). I don’t have much trouble getting cock when I have the opportunity. But I need to make new friends. We have some existing friends in Chicago, but they’re pretty conservative with their sexual behavior—a lot of jokes about 69, jizz, and anal that mask discomfort with sexual fluidity or genuine expressions of sexuality. I would like to be part of a kinkier social circle. Ideally one that is open to LGBT/queer identities, but also even just an open minded swinger’s group—we had friends like that in the past, and I feel over time those groups are getting more comfortable with MSM, especially younger people. I don’t want to find friends during my hook-ups. One of the rules of our open relationship is to avoid interactions that involve emotional attachments, which is why my girlfriend prefers me hooking up anonymously at bathhouses and bookstores. I’m not opposed to hooking up with my friends at some point in the future. We just had our first STI from my last hall pass a couple months ago (treated, all negative now), and we may need to discuss new rules that make things a little safer, including the possibility of ongoing FWBs to have more trust around testing. My relationship with my girlfriend is the most important thing to me, and it may take her some time to get to the FWBs point, so I don’t want to introduce her to “my new friends” who I first met on a hookup site. So where are the “respectable” places I can I meet cool, sexually open, LGBT-friendly people in Chicago? I do want to get involved with LGBT rights/health organizations. Anybody have recommendations for those groups?

I’m the same way. I know it feels the best when I’m balls deep down someone’s throat. When I suck cock, I’m trying to give them the best head they’ve ever received. I also want to show them how much I love cock, and how much I love feeling a cock fill up my throat. But I also love cum. Unfortunately I can’t really answer the original question because I’ve only really had experience with (A) cock all the way down my throat shooting ropes of semen straight into my stomach (which happens the vast majority of the time), (B) the guy pulling his cock out and jacking while I lick the tip (a distant second), or (C) a full-on facial (only a handful of times). I’ve never really had option (D), the cockhead alone in my mouth while he spurts, so I can’t say whether I would like that option more. I am curious about it. I love the taste and consistency of cum, and tasting it and smelling it on my breath is one of my biggest turn-ons. If I can find a regular, I’d like to try option (D). Who knows, it might turn out to be my favorite way to receive semen.

With women I’m almost always the “top” in every respect, even when I’m getting pegged or eating pussy: I’m always the dominant, active partner, asserting myself and directing the action. I would love to be more passive and submissive with women, but in my experience, the so-called “fairer sex” tends to be kind of lazy in bed. With guys, I’ve never topped. I love bottoming because I love taking cock and cum. I also have difficulty getting hard with guys. I have generally only advertised myself as a total bottom. However, I have been more interested in topping recently. But really the only situations I’m interested in topping involve either a smaller feminine guy or a passable trans woman. That’s kind of new for me, as I’ve never before been attracted to “twink-ish” guys.

Update since this post, when my girlfriend agreed to an open relationship: Level 6. I don’t ask and I’m not concerned about HIV status. On the apps, I prefer to hook up with guys who test regularly, mostly just to avoid exposure to STIs. But that’s not a dealbreaker. In person, I’ve only turned down guys who have bad-smelling BO, are physically dirty, or have sores or bumps anywhere.

Totally. I had a couple good hookups through Scruff when I was getting divorced a few years ago, but I had to wade through a million long conversations to get there. Once I was fully divorced and more free to let my slut flag fly, I started using Sniffies and Grindr and completely gave up on Scruff. Had a couple meet ups through Squirt. Squirt is kind of a hybrid hookup site/community board/social media. Not a great hookup site and not great design, but good for checking out cruising traffic, good options for posting videos and stories, and the best adult gay video chat room I’ve been able to find (which isn’t saying much). Never been on Recom. A4A sucks and is full of bots and flakes. BarebackRT/BBRT is intriguing, but it doesn’t seem like there are that many guys on there. Grindr has been alright. Better hookup percentage than Squirt, but definitely lower than the last…. Sniffies is my favorite. I’ve found a lot of good quality dick there, and I had a semi-successful gangbang organized through Sniffies. A lot of guys in major cities all along the West Coast and Chicago. You can see where other guys are on the map, check out cruising traffic, and post an event like BBRT.

I never thought I'd be into piss play. I still haven't done it with anyone else, but I've started very occasionally drinking my own while I'm watching porn, hitting poppers, and pounding my hole. I don't know if I'll get into it with guys--I mostly hook up anonymously at the bathhouse or bookstores, and I'm kind of afraid of the effects of drinking another guy's unknown waste products from medication, drugs, etc. Especially since I take a good amount of medication myself and I'm not sure of the contraindications. I'll probably start with my girlfriend.

1. My natural curiosity 2. This site 3. Poppers training porn 4. PrEP I was a late bloomer so I’ve always been curious about semen, from the first time I saw a friend produce pre-cum while we jacked off in front of the big Gateway computer to grainy porn on 56k dial up. I found this site after another site called “Shy Bi Guys” closed down. I was looking for another community of guys horny for cock and cum, and boy did I find it. Around the same time I discovered poppers and poppers training porn. I was married at the time, so there were a lot of late nights and early mornings in the bathroom scrolling this site, hitting poppers, toying my hole, and finding good porn that showed me the ropes of being a slut. Then after I separated from my ex, I got on PrEP. Doing the research, I found that it’s extremely effective for any exposure to HIV (and the chances of exposure are slim these days, with TasP and U=U). The wonders of medical science gave me the final push to take my first ever cock bare at the bathhouse. (Unfortunately he wanted to use a condom despite my request, and I wanted it bad so I wasn’t gonna say no🥵 but I took the second guy bare and felt his load drip out of my hole, and I haven’t looked back.) In between finding a new girlfriend and negotiating an open relationship over the last three years, I’ve taken 22 cocks in my hole, and only three of them have wrapped up.

This 100%. I love milking the last drops of his cum. They always moan as I milk them slowly, so I can tell they feel it.

For general advertising, I wear a jock, throw my towel over my shoulder, wear my Jack of Spades temporary tattoo, put messages on the whiteboard/chalkboard if there is one. I also usually do a final clean out at the bathhouse, which often involves walking from my room to the bathroom carrying my enema hose. That’s been a pretty good sign to guys that I’m a bottom, I’m there to get fucked, and I’m clean and conscientious. I’ll also leave my door open and be face-down/ass-up on the bed playing with my hole. For specific guys that catch my eye, I’ll make eye contact, look them up and down, stare at their bulge (or cock if it’s out). And then talk to them. “Hey, how’s it going?” “Mind if I sit here?” “Hot cock man.” “Fucking sexy.” “Can I suck it?”

This is a video of him fucking my cum-filled hole.

This for sure. My most recent excursion to the bathhouse, I was in one of the video rooms bending over in front of the bench, with a cock in my ass and two cocks in front of me fighting for my throat. My towel was nowhere to be seen. Two of the guys rotated between my holes until they both unloaded inside me. The one guy who remained planted on the bench had a nice thick cock, and he only wanted to be sucked and worshipped. Then I get a flashback to the first time I went to the bathhouse, in that same video room. I was a shy married guy feeling guilty about cheating on his wife, no experience with guys, towel wrapped tightly around my waist as I nervously jacked off still covered up. Multiple guys were sucking each other and they wanted me to join them, but I declined, pointing to my wedding ring. One of them, a guy in a harness and jock strap, looked at me with pity as he led the other guys to a different room to play. Years later, back in the present, I’m in the same bathhouse in the same video room. I’m now divorced, but in an open relationship with a beautiful woman who gives me good pussy and lets me fuck guys. I’m down on my knees crawling across a floor covered in translucent cum, ass in the air and semen from two men dripping out of my hole, about to shove a beautiful girthy cock as far down my throat as it’ll go. What a life-affirming contrast. I love being a slut.

He’s @ BareBackBlack on Twitter.

Personally, I hate being fingered. Finger and tongue around the outside? Great. Tongue-fuck my hole? Love it. But please no fingers inside my hole.

I was due for a hall pass, so I planned one out for yesterday 2/17. My girlfriend and I are moving soon. While I will come back to Arizona periodically, I doubt I’ll have another hall pass on those trips. Since this is likely to be my last time hooking up in Arizona, I tried to plan out a big day. It was a good day, but it didn’t start out that way at first. After prepping at home and making plans with a guy nearby on Grindr, I drove over to his place. As I pulled up he told me AAA was there to fix his car. Then didn’t respond when I asked him if I should wait. 0-for-1. So I went over to Zorba’s. There were police in the parking lot, which freaked me out a bit. I’m thinking 0-for-2. Then I realize the police are there for a call next door—a shitty little motel—and I see them arresting a guy in his hotel room. I’m thinking that it might be possible they would stop in at Zorba’s afterward, but I say fuck it. Jacking off in a private room at a porn shop isn’t illegal. And I feel very strongly about my rights to privacy and sexual self-determination, so I say fuck it and walk in. The first guy I run into is a shorter, good looking middle-aged guy with a HUGE cock. Like the perfect penis. I suck him for awhile, and he fingers my hole. He can tell I’m already lubed up. He says he wants to fuck me, but first wants to see if we can find someone to fuck me while I suck him. We pull up our pants and walk around a bit, but we don’t find anyone unfortunately. As we’re waiting, he winks at me, and I smile and gulp. My throat is lonely. We go back into a booth and I immediately go to town on his cock. He cums soon after that, deep in my throat. I stay in the booth and keep watching porn for a minute while hitting poppers and glancing at the hallway. I can still taste the first guy’s cum in my mouth. Another middle-aged guy walks in, also good looking, and we exchange blowjobs for a bit. He gets me hard (usually difficult for me to do with guys) and then turns around, wanting me to fuck him. I start getting softer and I tell him I’ve never fucked a guy before. He gets the message, says he understands, and then leaves. We’re both looking to get some cum in our holes. It’s been about 45 minutes at this point, and I have other plans the rest of the day, so I leave. Next I go to Modern World in Tempe. I haven’t been here in years. The last time I went the place was crawling with drug users loitering outside and inside in the hallways, so I dipped out quickly. I checked online and guys said it had gotten better since they instituted a $5 cover charge. And I’d never seen the gloryholes there, so I decided to check it out again. It was a very small crowd, and while the drug users were gone, it wasn’t a great showing. A smaller Hispanic guy who speaks only Spanish follows me into my room. He can’t get hard and wants to play with my dick, so I move on. I find the gloryholes, and I suck an older guy through one for a bit. But his cock—while thick—is short and he can’t get much of it through the hole. The walls between the gloryholes are surprisingly thick. This trip seems to be a bust, so I move on. Still not impressed with Modern World. Next, I go to Chute. Get there about 1 pm. I had made plans to meet up with a guy there, and I give him my room number when I get there, all of which turns out to be a mistake. He’s a tall older guy with a nice cock, his cum tastes great, and I’ve hooked up with him before. Today, I suck his cock, he sucks me, he rims me, he fucks me with a condom in several different positions, and then eventually cums in my mouth. All pretty good right? Not exactly. Older Guy monopolized my time there, basically wanting to hang out in my room and periodically fuck for three hours, occasionally stopping to check the stock market, his texts, and call his wife after their burglar alarm went off (false alarm). At one point, he’s fucking me doggy style and gets a text. He has me go forward onto my stomach while he’s still inside me so that he can reach up and grab his phone. We lay there like that for a good minute so he can check his text. Older Guy keeps pressing me to get hard and cum despite me telling him I have difficulty getting hard with guys. He’s very judgmental about my activities (despite many of those being the same activities he engages in, and despite telling me that he tests much less frequently than I do). At one point, we take a walk around the place, where we see a few guys who look attractive to me. He taps me after each one and gives me a frown and a head shake. So judgmental! Maybe the worst thing about Older Guy is that he clearly doesn’t respect my relationship. I’ve explained to him how my open relationship works and what the rules are, and that my girlfriend and I are moving out of state soon, and I won’t have another hall pass before we leave. He keeps saying that I’ll change my mind about hooking up with him again, and saying that some of our rules are not negotiable. I have to keep getting firmer with him, until I eventually tell him that nothing is negotiable and our relationship is my priority (something I shouldn’t have needed to say explicitly). I should’ve thrown in the towel earlier, but at that point he’s been in my room for 2.5 hours and has been talking about cumming for the past 45 minutes. So I keep leading him in that direction, and he eventually cums in my mouth. Afterward, Older Guy asks more questions about my relationship, and I tell him that while my girlfriend is a little embarrassed to have her family find out, I’m usually open to talking about our relationship with friends and family. He asks why I wasn’t embarrassed, with a tone that implied that I should be embarrassed. I should’ve told off Older Guy and kicked him out long before that, but I was a little worried about his reaction. After our last hookup, I had told him my real name and what I do for a living—I’ll need to be more careful about that in the future. Thankfully, he eventually leaves and allows me to move on with my day. But I’ve definitely learned a lesson—if a guy acts clingy, judgmental, and possessive, tell him to go fuck himself! I actually feel good about one thing involving our interaction however. Around 1.5 hours in at Chute, when Older Guy leaves to call his wife about the burglar alarm, there’s another guy with a hat on who knocks on my door. Hat Guy had been hanging around my room frequently and had previously knocked to see if I was interested—I had told him no, and that I was there with my “friend.” At this point I’m so annoyed with Older Guy that I pull Hat Guy into my room. He’s a younger Hispanic guy with glasses in addition to the hat, and a huge, thick, perfectly trimmed cock. I suck him for a bit, and then we move to the edge of the bed, where he starts fucking me doggy style. I ask him to take a picture—I love taking pictures of myself being slutty. While Hat Guy is fucking me, I can hear all the lube in my ass squelching. He’s opening me up wide and pounding me. He cums in my hole and I do kegels around his cock to milk every last drop of his semen. He pulls out and I can feel his cum drip out of my hole. I suck him a bit again, we thank each other, and then he leaves. About a minute later, Older Guy comes back knocking on the door. After Older Guy leaves, I relax in my room for a minute to watch porn and get back in the mood (Older Guy had actually asked me to give him free professional advice for the last half hour 🤦🏼‍♂️). I relube my hole, grab my towel, poppers, and lube, and go for a walk around Chute. In one of the video rooms, I find three guys in the middle of a hot scene. One of them is sitting on the bench, one guy is standing up, and there’s one guy on his knees servicing both of them. I recognize the guy on the bench, an older stocky daddy with a thick cock and delicious cum. Stocky Daddy recognizes me as well. He motions me over and I sit next to him, lean over, and start to suck his cock. As I’m sucking him, he starts telling the other guys how good of a cocksucker I am, how much I love to suck cock, and how I’ve got a girlfriend who lets me hook up with guys. They react approvingly, and they have me get on my knees. The guy who had been on his knees stands up, and now I have two new cocks in my face. After my initial rough start, striking out at Modern World, and a rough early afternoon with Older Guy, my day is now definitely getting better. I start sucking both of the guys who are standing up, and they sort of fight each other for access to my mouth for a bit. One of them starts fingering my hole, and when I stick my ass out they know I want to take cock as well as give head. One of them, the original standing guy, stands me up and has me bend over. Standing Guy is a middle-aged, toned, muscular black guy with a good sized uncut cock. While he enters my hole from behind, the original kneeling guy stands on the bench in front of me and puts his cock in my open mouth. Kneeling Guy is a middle-aged Hispanic guy, kind of quiet with a smaller but tasty cut cock. After awhile they switch places. Throughout this whole experience, Stocky Daddy on the bench is stroking and hitting poppers while telling them to give me their cocks. I’m also hitting poppers occasionally. Its been about six months since my last spitroast, and I’m in heaven with two cocks inside me, one at each end. Eventually, my legs get sore and I need a breather. Standing Guy and Kneeling Guy laugh appreciatively and pat me on the ass, leaving the room. They’re only speaking Spanish but I think from their tone they’re impressed. As soon as I catch my breath I go back to sucking Stocky Daddy on the bench. He had the best cock and blew the best load during my last hall pass, so I really enjoy sucking him. As I’m sucking him on my knees with my ass in the air, Standing Guy comes back in. He motions to Stocky Daddy, who tells me that Standing Guy wants to fuck my ass again. I stand up and bend over, and Standing Guy lines me up with Stocky Daddy’s cock again. As I take him in my mouth, Standing Guy is behind me pressing into my hole. He presses me forward into the cock in front of me, and we get into a really good rhythm. It feels amazing. Eventually Standing Guy starts smacking my ass and jerking as he fucks me. Between that and his string of Spanish, I can tell he’s unloading deep in my hole. As he pulls out, I can feel a huge load fall out of my ass, and I hear it land on the floor with a loud *splat*. There was already a lot of other cum on the floor, but most of the rest of it was translucent after having settled for a bit. His load is thick and white. And there was a lot of it. I get back down on my knees and grab his cock, putting it in my mouth and licking off the last drops of cum. He says thanks and laughs, and I laugh and pat him on the ass as he walks out. I turn back to Stocky Daddy on the bench, sucking his cock yet again. He and I each keep hitting poppers, and he keeps talking dirty to me, telling me how much I love cock. I’ve got his cock sliding in and out of my throat, taking him to the base repeatedly and occasionally suckling on his thick spongy head. At the same time, I’m jacking my own cock with my asshole in the air, slick and cool as it leaks cum and lube down my balls and onto the floor. I’m so turned on that I cum on the floor with Stocky Daddy’s cock deep in my throat. I keep sucking him for a bit afterward, as well as another guy who had come in to watch the show, but eventually I get up and leave. At this point it’s about 4:30-4:45, and I had made one last set of plans for 5:30. I take a shower, sit in the steamroom for a minute, take another shower, and then pack up my stuff. My 5:30 plans are with a guy that I’ve hooked up with in the past through Sniffies. He’s a younger black guy, and he has a huge cock, about 8.5 inches long by 2.5 inches wide. He runs a Twitter account where he shares video of some of his exploits. I last hooked up with him in March 2021: I sucked his cock, he came in my ass, I sucked him hard again, and he came in my ass again, all within the span of about 30 minutes. I was looking to get something similar this time. He was looking to get me at the end of the day after I’d taken as many loads as possible. After some back and forth, I show up at his place about 5:45, and I’m out by 6:00. Much like last time, we get right down to business. I get to his room, undress, and get down on my knees. His cock looks and feels even bigger and thicker than I remember. I suck him for awhile and I can tell he’s enjoying it. He’s moaning and cursing, he’s rock hard, and he doesn’t seem to be in any rush. Eventually, I tell him I want him to fuck me. He says “fuck yes” and helps me up. I get on his bed on all fours. I ask if he’s going to take a video of him fucking my ass, and he says yes. I want documentary evidence of me taking his cock. I lube up my hole some more, and took a hit of poppers as he presses against my cunt. He’s bigger than any of the other guys who’ve been inside my hole today, and it hurts for a second as I adjust to his size. Then it just feels good. Feeling him stretching me out and filling me up 🤤 He takes out his phone and begins recording. He starts talking dirty, asking if I like being a cumdump slut. I told him I do, begging him to add his load. He puts the phone down and starts fucking me HARD. The way this guy fucks is just 🤌🏼 I’m taller than him by a few inches, and with my knees just outside his knees, he’s able to plant his weight so that every time he thrusts and bottoms out deep in my hole, his legs hit the back of mine. It just fits. That sensation all at once—his cock filling me up at the same time his balls hit mine and the same time his legs hit mine—is almost indescribably pleasurable. Then there’s the psychological pleasure of knowing that he’s getting close to cumming. Feeling him start to pause because he’s trying to hold off. Me begging him for his cum. Him asking if I want it. Feeling him transition into an urgent rhythm, grunting, and then holding my hips so that he can deposit his warm cum in my hole. Eventually he pulls out and I feel the familiar sensation of cum trickling from my hole, now exposed to the air. I turn around and suck him into my mouth. I can’t risk trying to get another load—I need to get home by 6:30. But he’s very appreciative. I get dressed, pack up my stuff, he walks me to the door, and we say our goodbyes. Then I go to my car, take a video of his cum dripping from my hole, and send it to him. It’s been a good day, one last lap around Arizona taking cock and cum. I started out the day with a huge cock in my throat, and ended the day with a huge cock in my ass. I’ve had 11 different cocks in my mouth and throat, swallowed two loads, been fucked by five guys, and taken three big loads of hot semen in my hole. Still in my car, I jack off and blow one last load of cum thinking about it. I change into clean clothes and go home.

I like having access to my cock when I’m bottoming, so I like this jock that I found on Amazon. ONEFIT Men's Sexy Crotchless Underwear Low Raise Front Hole Bikini Underpants [think before following links] https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01FUD4P6Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_JZS5TT9XKMG222YYKA95?psc=1

As a bottom, I like the fuck. Feeling his raw cockhead press against my hole, feeling him stretch me open and fill me up, pounding me with long strokes. That’s my favorite part. I love the psychological effect of him giving me his hot semen, but I can’t really feel it with my ass. Now when I’m sucking cock, getting the load is probably the best part.

Same here. I’m always cleaned out when I take cock, so I know I can be my slutty pig self in the heat of the moment. All I feel at the time is that I want him in my mouth, in my throat, filling me up at both ends.

I hadn’t heard of that finding, so thanks for sharing. I think the important distinction is getting rid of COVID (as we know it) “as a threat.” To me that means the human population (within borders that are easily and regularly controlled) reaches herd immunity (whether through infection or inoculation). We have essentially gotten rid of certain diseases as a threat to humans in first-world countries, such as polio, measles, diphtheria, bacterial influenza, mumps, rubella, and tetanus, even if we haven’t gotten rid of those diseases entirely. I know that some of those diseases have higher infection rates than COVID (e.g., measles has a much higher R0), but I don’t know enough about them to know if they are transmissible across species, or if they have existing animal reservoirs. That would certainly be something to compare when evaluating the threat COVID poses. If COVID is entirely unique compared to those diseases—in that it is zoonotic and reverse-zoonotic, that there are existing animal reservoirs, and that it has a high transmission rate—then that might mean herd immunity (and thus eliminating COVID as a threat to humans) is impossible, even with full compliance of preventative measures. I’d be very interested in seeing that sort of comparison. Still, I don’t think we’ve tried full compliance with preventative measures. Until complex comparative models with extensive data show that herd immunity for COVID is impossible, I think it might be worth it to try before throwing in the towel. (At risk of starting a tangential discussion, that’s pretty much my position on gun control in the United States: what we’re all doing isn’t working for the metrics we all care about, so why don’t we all try something different?)

9.5 out of 10 Phoenix, AZ The only part I disagree with is from #7 (“All of the above can be helpful and together they can ‘flatten the curve’ but they may never completely get rid of COVID as a threat”). All of the recommended measures listed above #7 would be helpful and together they would flatten the curve and would completely get rid of COVID as a threat if everyone complied with them. The way #7 is written implies that the recommended measures themselves would never innately be effective at eliminating COVID in and of themselves, even assuming perfect compliance. The problem, of course, is not the ineffectiveness of the measures themselves but rather our society’s ineffectiveness, i.e., our failure to build a world with enough education and social cohesion to maximize compliance.

Speaking from experience: (1) Have another guy help you organize the event and attend. Make sure he’s someone you’ve met before, you’re attracted to, and you trust. You’re going to be spending a lot of time with him. (2) Make sure the location has good access for your guests and good WiFi. (3) Expect well under your “confirmed” number. (4) Make sure you have enough lube and water for everybody.

I’m gonna be going to Steamworks Chicago during the week of 12/20. Not sure which day to go. Has anyone been there recently during the daytime on a weekday? I’m trying to go on the busiest day (obviously), so any recommendations would be much appreciated.

I keep thinking about more things I tell myself during sex. ”I’m such a dirty fucking slut.” ”I’m a cumdump cocksleeve.”