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It was somewhat tongue-in-cheek. I grew up Catholic—hence my subversive use of the term “confess,” because fuck organized religion and fuck the idea of a creator who gives a damn what or who I do with my genitals as long as consenting adults are involved. But there are also many versions of what it means to confess. I had to get over a lot of that Catholic guilt to accept and love myself for who I am. As a bi man with a religious conservative family married to a woman from a judgmental conservative family, living in a conservative state with conservative friends, I didn’t feel like I had anyone in my life I could tell. That eventually changed, partly because of this site. I was able to slowly tell my family and friends, even to the point where I lost family and friends to different degrees. I’m not looking for forgiveness from anyone else. But telling my story to someone, anyone, was freeing.
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All of my posts are true. I didn’t join this site because I wanted to write fiction or be an author; I joined this site because I wanted to confess.
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Chicago is mostly doing the same thing. No online appointment system, either be an existing patient of one of the few providers that have had the vaccine distributed to them, or take days off of work to wait in line outside for hours. I think this is a result of the COVID vax rollout. Public health officials found that online sign-up systems wound up excluding certain populations, i.e., older people not familiar with computers. Now MPX is teaching them a different lesson: forcing people to wait in line for hours excludes a different population, i.e., the younger working poor who can’t afford to take entire days off work. GIVE US A FUCKING ONLINE APPOINTMENT SYSTEM ALREADY!
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After researching more about Monkeypox, I’m going to wait until after I’ve had the vaccine. Still interested in weekday traffic at Steamworks though.
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Anybody have any experience at Steamworks in the week before Market Days? I’m planning on posting up at Steamworks all day on one of the weekdays before Market Days, trying to get as much cock and cum as possible. But I’m not sure which day I should go: Weds 8/3, Thurs 8/4, or Fri 8/5. Any idea which day will be the busiest?
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How many of you are in relationships?
11bi11guy replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in General Discussion
I’ve been with my girlfriend for a little over three years. She knew I was bi when we started dating—that was one of the primary reasons for my divorce—and I told her I wasn’t sure whether I would need to have sex with men again. About eight months in, I told her I would need to fuck guys again. She agreed to open the relationship, and we started setting boundaries with the help of a couples counselor. So now I get to take cock and cum in my holes once every few months. 😈 -
Hot idea. Glad to hear I helped release some of your semen. I’d love to take those hot loads in my hole some time… you’ve got a great looking cock 🥵
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My cumdump hole.
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Pick your favorite dick and explain why you like it...
11bi11guy replied to camelblue's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
18 and 20 because they both have the right shape for me to deepthroat with ease but they’re big enough to fill me up and get me wild. 10 and 22 because they’re thick and pretty. All of them turn me on though. Gonna need to go find one (or more) of each. -
My enthusiasm. Guys love that I’m so eager for as much cock and cum as I can get in my holes. I’ve had many guys—first time I’m hooking up with them, usually anonymously at the bathhouse and bookstore—comment in sort of a shocked manner about how much I love cock, how much I love sucking cock, how hungry I am, how much of a cumdump I must be.
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I’m a mid-30s bi guy moving to Chicago soon with my girlfriend. We’ve got an open relationship where she gives me a hall pass to fuck guys once every few months (I’m on PrEP, get tested after each hall pass, we have a few other rules, etc.). I don’t have much trouble getting cock when I have the opportunity. But I need to make new friends. We have some existing friends in Chicago, but they’re pretty conservative with their sexual behavior—a lot of jokes about 69, jizz, and anal that mask discomfort with sexual fluidity or genuine expressions of sexuality. I would like to be part of a kinkier social circle. Ideally one that is open to LGBT/queer identities, but also even just an open minded swinger’s group—we had friends like that in the past, and I feel over time those groups are getting more comfortable with MSM, especially younger people. I don’t want to find friends during my hook-ups. One of the rules of our open relationship is to avoid interactions that involve emotional attachments, which is why my girlfriend prefers me hooking up anonymously at bathhouses and bookstores. I’m not opposed to hooking up with my friends at some point in the future. We just had our first STI from my last hall pass a couple months ago (treated, all negative now), and we may need to discuss new rules that make things a little safer, including the possibility of ongoing FWBs to have more trust around testing. My relationship with my girlfriend is the most important thing to me, and it may take her some time to get to the FWBs point, so I don’t want to introduce her to “my new friends” who I first met on a hookup site. So where are the “respectable” places I can I meet cool, sexually open, LGBT-friendly people in Chicago? I do want to get involved with LGBT rights/health organizations. Anybody have recommendations for those groups?
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I’m a mid-30s bi guy moving to Chicago soon with my girlfriend. We’ve got an open relationship where she gives me a hall pass to fuck guys once every few months (I’m on PrEP, get tested after each hall pass, we have a few other rules, etc.). I don’t have much trouble getting cock when I have the opportunity. But I need to make new friends. We have some existing friends in Chicago, but they’re pretty conservative with their sexual behavior—a lot of jokes about 69, jizz, and anal that mask discomfort with sexual fluidity or genuine expressions of sexuality. I would like to be part of a kinkier social circle. Ideally one that is open to LGBT/queer identities, but also even just an open minded swinger’s group—we had friends like that in the past, and I feel over time those groups are getting more comfortable with MSM, especially younger people. I don’t want to find friends during my hook-ups. One of the rules of our open relationship is to avoid interactions that involve emotional attachments, which is why my girlfriend prefers me hooking up anonymously at bathhouses and bookstores. I’m not opposed to hooking up with my friends at some point in the future. We just had our first STI from my last hall pass a couple months ago (treated, all negative now), and we may need to discuss new rules that make things a little safer, including the possibility of ongoing FWBs to have more trust around testing. My relationship with my girlfriend is the most important thing to me, and it may take her some time to get to the FWBs point, so I don’t want to introduce her to “my new friends” who I first met on a hookup site. So where are the “respectable” places I can I meet cool, sexually open, LGBT-friendly people in Chicago? I do want to get involved with LGBT rights/health organizations. Anybody have recommendations for those groups?
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I’m the same way. I know it feels the best when I’m balls deep down someone’s throat. When I suck cock, I’m trying to give them the best head they’ve ever received. I also want to show them how much I love cock, and how much I love feeling a cock fill up my throat. But I also love cum. Unfortunately I can’t really answer the original question because I’ve only really had experience with (A) cock all the way down my throat shooting ropes of semen straight into my stomach (which happens the vast majority of the time), (B) the guy pulling his cock out and jacking while I lick the tip (a distant second), or (C) a full-on facial (only a handful of times). I’ve never really had option (D), the cockhead alone in my mouth while he spurts, so I can’t say whether I would like that option more. I am curious about it. I love the taste and consistency of cum, and tasting it and smelling it on my breath is one of my biggest turn-ons. If I can find a regular, I’d like to try option (D). Who knows, it might turn out to be my favorite way to receive semen.
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With women I’m almost always the “top” in every respect, even when I’m getting pegged or eating pussy: I’m always the dominant, active partner, asserting myself and directing the action. I would love to be more passive and submissive with women, but in my experience, the so-called “fairer sex” tends to be kind of lazy in bed. With guys, I’ve never topped. I love bottoming because I love taking cock and cum. I also have difficulty getting hard with guys. I have generally only advertised myself as a total bottom. However, I have been more interested in topping recently. But really the only situations I’m interested in topping involve either a smaller feminine guy or a passable trans woman. That’s kind of new for me, as I’ve never before been attracted to “twink-ish” guys.
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Update since this post, when my girlfriend agreed to an open relationship: Level 6. I don’t ask and I’m not concerned about HIV status. On the apps, I prefer to hook up with guys who test regularly, mostly just to avoid exposure to STIs. But that’s not a dealbreaker. In person, I’ve only turned down guys who have bad-smelling BO, are physically dirty, or have sores or bumps anywhere.
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Hook up sites like Recon and Adam4 Adam
11bi11guy replied to BearPleaser's topic in General Discussion
Totally. I had a couple good hookups through Scruff when I was getting divorced a few years ago, but I had to wade through a million long conversations to get there. Once I was fully divorced and more free to let my slut flag fly, I started using Sniffies and Grindr and completely gave up on Scruff. Had a couple meet ups through Squirt. Squirt is kind of a hybrid hookup site/community board/social media. Not a great hookup site and not great design, but good for checking out cruising traffic, good options for posting videos and stories, and the best adult gay video chat room I’ve been able to find (which isn’t saying much). Never been on Recom. A4A sucks and is full of bots and flakes. BarebackRT/BBRT is intriguing, but it doesn’t seem like there are that many guys on there. Grindr has been alright. Better hookup percentage than Squirt, but definitely lower than the last…. Sniffies is my favorite. I’ve found a lot of good quality dick there, and I had a semi-successful gangbang organized through Sniffies. A lot of guys in major cities all along the West Coast and Chicago. You can see where other guys are on the map, check out cruising traffic, and post an event like BBRT. -
I never thought I'd be into piss play. I still haven't done it with anyone else, but I've started very occasionally drinking my own while I'm watching porn, hitting poppers, and pounding my hole. I don't know if I'll get into it with guys--I mostly hook up anonymously at the bathhouse or bookstores, and I'm kind of afraid of the effects of drinking another guy's unknown waste products from medication, drugs, etc. Especially since I take a good amount of medication myself and I'm not sure of the contraindications. I'll probably start with my girlfriend.
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what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?
11bi11guy replied to Barehorny's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
1. My natural curiosity 2. This site 3. Poppers training porn 4. PrEP I was a late bloomer so I’ve always been curious about semen, from the first time I saw a friend produce pre-cum while we jacked off in front of the big Gateway computer to grainy porn on 56k dial up. I found this site after another site called “Shy Bi Guys” closed down. I was looking for another community of guys horny for cock and cum, and boy did I find it. Around the same time I discovered poppers and poppers training porn. I was married at the time, so there were a lot of late nights and early mornings in the bathroom scrolling this site, hitting poppers, toying my hole, and finding good porn that showed me the ropes of being a slut. Then after I separated from my ex, I got on PrEP. Doing the research, I found that it’s extremely effective for any exposure to HIV (and the chances of exposure are slim these days, with TasP and U=U). The wonders of medical science gave me the final push to take my first ever cock bare at the bathhouse. (Unfortunately he wanted to use a condom despite my request, and I wanted it bad so I wasn’t gonna say no🥵 but I took the second guy bare and felt his load drip out of my hole, and I haven’t looked back.) In between finding a new girlfriend and negotiating an open relationship over the last three years, I’ve taken 22 cocks in my hole, and only three of them have wrapped up. -
This 100%. I love milking the last drops of his cum. They always moan as I milk them slowly, so I can tell they feel it.
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How do you get attention at Bathhouses?
11bi11guy replied to valleyvers's topic in General Discussion
For general advertising, I wear a jock, throw my towel over my shoulder, wear my Jack of Spades temporary tattoo, put messages on the whiteboard/chalkboard if there is one. I also usually do a final clean out at the bathhouse, which often involves walking from my room to the bathroom carrying my enema hose. That’s been a pretty good sign to guys that I’m a bottom, I’m there to get fucked, and I’m clean and conscientious. I’ll also leave my door open and be face-down/ass-up on the bed playing with my hole. For specific guys that catch my eye, I’ll make eye contact, look them up and down, stare at their bulge (or cock if it’s out). And then talk to them. “Hey, how’s it going?” “Mind if I sit here?” “Hot cock man.” “Fucking sexy.” “Can I suck it?” -
This is a video of him fucking my cum-filled hole.
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This for sure. My most recent excursion to the bathhouse, I was in one of the video rooms bending over in front of the bench, with a cock in my ass and two cocks in front of me fighting for my throat. My towel was nowhere to be seen. Two of the guys rotated between my holes until they both unloaded inside me. The one guy who remained planted on the bench had a nice thick cock, and he only wanted to be sucked and worshipped. Then I get a flashback to the first time I went to the bathhouse, in that same video room. I was a shy married guy feeling guilty about cheating on his wife, no experience with guys, towel wrapped tightly around my waist as I nervously jacked off still covered up. Multiple guys were sucking each other and they wanted me to join them, but I declined, pointing to my wedding ring. One of them, a guy in a harness and jock strap, looked at me with pity as he led the other guys to a different room to play. Years later, back in the present, I’m in the same bathhouse in the same video room. I’m now divorced, but in an open relationship with a beautiful woman who gives me good pussy and lets me fuck guys. I’m down on my knees crawling across a floor covered in translucent cum, ass in the air and semen from two men dripping out of my hole, about to shove a beautiful girthy cock as far down my throat as it’ll go. What a life-affirming contrast. I love being a slut.
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He’s @ BareBackBlack on Twitter.
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Some thoughts I need to share about sex
11bi11guy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
Personally, I hate being fingered. Finger and tongue around the outside? Great. Tongue-fuck my hole? Love it. But please no fingers inside my hole.
