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Close2MyBro

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  1. I'm guessing a lot of people are not familiar with the Paradox of Tolerance. We keep speaking about inclusivity and tolerance and labeling those people who don't meet a certain "standard" of tolerance as ignorant bigots. The truth is, as I mentioned earlier, that by the same standard, those people are also ignorant bigots. The only way to have true tolerance is to accept those people to whom you have "no tolerance" for. If you don't then you yourself are intolerant. [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance
  2. I think we're all trying to block the same person.
  3. It makes a HUGE difference. This is the difference between subjective an objective. This entire discussion is subjective, not objective, meaning that it is solely driven by opinion, not fact. To call someone a bigot because their opinion differs from yours is ridiculous, because you then would have to be a bigot yourself by the same measurement.
  4. His original post made no mention of any use of PREP, which can affect the NAT test, there's a 10% margin of error on false negatives when testing for NAT while on PREP. [think before following links] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32965051/
  5. No amount of hormone replacement therapy is going to change an XX chromosome set to an XY or vice versa. We're all entitled to our own opinions. I would consider it absurd to expect everyone else to adopt a false science simply because you and others may choose to. You can "identify" with whatever you choose to, but that choice will never change the truth. If I wanted to identify as a tree, that's my right, correct? But that will never make me a tree.
  6. You should probably ask your doctor to test for a viral load. If you're not on prep, or have stopped prep for at least a week, they should find a viral load present if you're positive. If they can't detect a viral load, you're likely negative.
  7. If you really want to get degraded or humiliated, you're going to have to take on some form of public activity, otherwise you're not really going to be able to fully appreciate the degradation or humiliation.
  8. I had a blindfolded fuck buddy who occasionally would send someone else in his place. It was hot as fuck.
  9. For me talking dirty online was never to get off, but to add excitement of what would happen when we eventually met up. I don't know why, but I never got off on just talking, and I was never into phone sex either. It just didn't do anything for me, but talking dirt to set the mood for an eventual hookup does turn me on.
  10. Love it, it's one of my favorite things to do.
  11. I would recommend that you see a proctologist or a colorectal specialist. It could be something as simple as internal hemorrhoids or possibly a fissure or tear. They're likely to give you a better diagnosis than a primary care physician.
  12. Yeah, I am! He actually prefers to fuck throat over ass so most of the time he's dumping load after load down my throat. 🙂
  13. One of my regulars now is a multi-cummer who can easily stay hard and cum at least 4 times in a row. He's also got incredible stamina and can fuck and cum when he wants. He's rare, I've only met a handful of guys who can stay hard and cum more than once.
  14. The most important thing to ask yourself is "why do I care what others think?". If you can start to live your life on your terms you'll be a lot happier. Some people will be there for you and support you, some will not. Those who can't accept you as you are don't have a place in your life. I don't care what "the community" thinks about me, nor do I care to advance their "agenda". I live my life on my terms. Living your life to please others is no way to live your life.
  15. I have a younger latin regular that I suck off and he fucks me. He's only about 5"uc, not thick either. Aside from having a small dick, he's got a great top attitude toward sex, likes to be aggressive and he's constantly horny and he shoots a regular load. He tells me he doesn't get a lot of action and that I'm his regular sexual outlet. What he lacks in penis size he makes up with enthusiasm and aggression. We've been having sex on and off for almost 5 years now.
  16. You're going to have to figure out what your hang-ups are and let them go. For years you've probably been telling yourself that 'I only fuck guys who ....". You have to start telling yourself "I fuck all guys no matter what they look like or how old they are". When your subconscious psychology gets taught differently, your behavior will follow and the hangup will start to disappear.
  17. A close friend of mine spent a good chunk of his teens and early twenties (14-25) getting fucked in mall bathrooms. He swears its one of the easiest places to cruise and find hookups. He says hes probably been fucked by or sucked at least a thousand guys in mall bathrooms. He said the trick is finding the right ones that are busy enough to bring in some traffic with intervals of privacy but not so busy that everyone can see or hear what's going on.
  18. Unplanned. Was a high school friend I had just started sucking off a week before at a sleepover . Was sleeping over again and was sucking him off and he told me to lay down on my stomach. I turned around and laid down face down and he started rubbing his dickhead against my hole and trying to push it it. I had already been playing with my ass on my own for a while by then so I told him to get some lube and he came back with some lotion. He lotioned up his dick, squirt some lotion on my hole and then worked his way in. The lotion stung but I enjoyed feeling his dick in my ass. Once he was in he didn't waste any time and went to work pounding my ass till he shot. I felt his dick throbbing like crazy and his cum spurting into my ass. When he was done, he left his dick in my ass for a bit until he caught his breath and then pulled out and cleaned his dick off with his boxers. I put my underwear back on and we went to sleep. That was one of the best summers of my life.
  19. When I lived there the Brookside reservation and then Rocky River reservations used to be the crusiest areas. Rocky River is closest to Lakewood, which is a heavily gay area of Cleveland.
  20. That's always a good thing in my book!
  21. Gay romance just seems muddled with complications, and I think the curiosity and desire to experience many different men doesn't help the situation at all. I have a close group of friends who have tried the romance/dating thing all to find that one of the parties slips up. Sometimes it's a boozy night of poor choices. Sometimes its finally having that opportunity to get with someone you've been craving for a while. It also seems that the second you're in a relationship, everyone who wasn't interested in you suddenly becomes interested in you. Then there's trying to find the "right" person. A lot of gay men are superficial and shallow, and only looking for big dicks, big bank accounts, someone to take care of them or buy them things. Or they're life is a mess in other ways like drugs, alcohol, a mountain of debt, legal issues, etc. mental health issues like self acceptance, etc. Honestly, who wants to take on al that baggage? Not me, I'd rather be single and happy than in a relationship and miserable.
  22. You could consider cruising the metroparks, some areas are know for high sexual activity.
  23. I have an RX as well, also because of concerns related to syphilis drug shortages.
  24. I guess you should be glad that's all they've tried to sell you. I've had a lot of guys on both sniffies and grindr trying to sell me weed, prescription drugs, illegal drugs, tv's, cameras, cell phones, laptops, etc.. i think a lot of them are trying to make money to get a fix of their drug of choice.
  25. I'd tell my younger self to follow my instincts more and act impulsively on sexual urges. I missed guys giving me signs a lot earlier in life, overthinking it as if it were just in my head, but looking back now I realize I should have just acted on it and see where it went.
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