SFCumdog

Every 19 year old needs guys like you and your partner to bring out the best in them and to teach them how to be the best pig top they can be. Everyone here after will benefit from the expertise you shared with him.

You take care of yourself, first and foremost. We want you healthy and happy so that you can keep writing your great stories for years to come.

I could care less about their dick and whether it stays hard, so long as their ass works and gets me off.

Otter types with facial hair, younger for sure, smaller than me in stature, with a hope that is just open enough to let me in easily, but tight enough to provide the friction I need to get off.

Conner Habib, and he was a lot of fun.

I know this may be stretching the limits a bit, but does anyone else watch 90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life, and have you noticed the young guy with the BioHazard tatt that keeps popping up in the current season of the show? He is the cute son of the kind of eccentric blonde lady from Georgia who in the most recent episode went to see the Cuban guy in Miami. An episode ago she and her son were at the drugstore and they filmed him from behind and the tatt is on the back of his right bicep. You can also see it when they drive home. Then in the last episode when they got to Miami is was also visible at one point.

Vaseline... that was all we used when I was a teen

Total night owl. Hands down

Its a fun time for sure. I never thought I'd be into it, but man was it fun. And the guy was super cute on top of it, which made it all the hotter.

From the time I first put shorts on in the spring, till the last day that I take them off almost as winter approaches, it commando, all day, every day. The rest of the year its Boxers. I don't like anything else because they all cling too tightly and it drives me crazy. I do love jockstraps too.

I went to a doctor in San Francisco some years back who was an HIV specialist... one of the people that you read about in books on the subject... I was telling him that I was diagnosed in 1997 and at the time had 125 T-cells and a huge viral load. His response to me was that based on that number, I would have contracted it 9 to 10 years before I was diagnosed, which meant around 1987.

He's a lot of fun. And was also a really nice guy. But the roles were reversed 😉 when I met him.

I'm so glad you are back!!! I love reading about your encounters.

What a great story!!! Can't wait to read the rest of it

It's one more way for people to hide what they really want, and only reveal that to those that pass muster for them, for fear of being judged by those who might see their profile. There are a ton of tops here because they think that that's the macho thing to appear to be (not that I agree), until they see your big dick and then they become total bottoms. There's also lots who say "condoms/safe only" so that their friends don't know that they Bareback. But they will hit you up when your profile says raw only and want you to breed them. I've known plenty of hot boys who only put out there that they want guys their own age and below, but who do they come to for a real fucking when they leave their age appropriate BF's place? The older guy with the big dick who will plow them into the mattress and leave them begging for more... that's who. I'm convinced this is just the latest dimension to the "hide your true intentions" drama. They are Sides because they don't want their friends to know that they engage in anal, but then they hit you up because they want to top or bottom. I have only ever known one singular person in all my years who did not like anal at all, and he's still like that. And still has never had a real long term boyfriend either, if that tells you anything.

I'm probably not going to make a lot of friends by posting what I am going to, but here goes. In High School my sister started dating a guy a year younger than her. I just inherently felt that he was gay, but I had no actual proof, so I let it go. In the interim I got more comfortable with who I was, and started going to bars and things. I had never tried to date girls, though some had come after me. I just knew that it was not for me, I much preferred the cock I had been getting all through high school. At the bars I went to there were always these older gays that you would meet who had at one time been married, (some still were) and then all they did was talk shit about their ex wives and how horrid they had been, and continued to be, post divorce. I just fell into the trap of believing them as they blathered on about what bitches they had been married to, feeling sorry for what they had endured. Time passes, and my sister announces she is getting married to this guy. Against all my better judgement I tried to suggest to her that perhaps he was gay and did she really know what she was doing. She assured me that he was not, and that he loved sex too much to be gay. And she kind of got pissed at me and it affected our relationship for a long time. Eventually they married and life moved on. About 5 years into the marriage I started seeing warning signs. All these couples that they would become tight friends with, would eventually mysteriously fall away couple by couple for some arcane reason or another. Then he started getting campier than usual. My BF at the time said to me "There's something going on there." We all got our haircut by the same very obviously gay hairdresser. One day my BF popped in for a cut and there was my brother in law on the chair getting a cut and my BF said the two of them were acting like they were in love with one another. Suddenly they'd be going into NYC on their days off while my sister was working, etc... And then the shit hit the fan. He told my sister that he was having "gay thoughts." Of course, just when he does this, and things start falling apart, didn't she find out she was pregnant. They stayed together, had the kid, and spent the next 5 tumultuous years with him trying to keep a lid on it (which I told her he'd never be able to do), while things continued to spiral downward. He became increasingly more flamboyant... the clothes, the hair, the jewelry, etc... which caused everyone to speculate behind about them behind their backs. He got more distant and bitchy, paid little to no attention to the child, etc... They owned a business together which he ran into the ground by spending like he was a Vanderbilt. And he became increasingly nastier to my sister. It finally got to the breaking point, and when did he decide to finally own up to his being gay? Well that happened the week before Christmas, in true self centered fashion, when he walked out on them and never looked back. I guess the point that I am trying to make here is that a lot of nice women really get badly hurt by men who don't have the balls to just be their authentic selves from the get go, and instead use them as covers for their being gay until it no longer serves them. Then they do shit behind their backs thinking their wives are stupid, when what they are really doing is ruining their wive's self esteem, their self worth, and betraying their trust. It's great if somehow you have a wife who is in on it with you, but most aren't, and never signed up for this. I get that some guys don't really come to know who they are till they are older too and that's a whole other discussion. But I at last saw the other side of the equation from what all those bitter gay divorcees were always dishing about. Is it any wonder your wives turn into bitches after doing this to them? My sister's life has never been the same. They divorced and she remarried, only to be widowed in her 40s. Her husband has turned into a bitter, miserable shell of a drunken human, who stills continues to disappoint her and their now grown child. So to everyone that thinks this stuff is so great, and wonders should they divorce... I'd suggest for once doing the right thing if this is who you are and this is what you want in life. You've used your wife long enough. Let her try to get on with her life while she still can and still has some self respect left. Those bitter ex wives are bitter for a reason. And until you've seen the mess you created from the other side of this, you can never understand what you are doing to them.

Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. But he kinda gives off a vibe like that, so I'm not surprised.

I'm glad to hear that! I was in my 20s and would grab copies at the Chancellor Street Baths in Philadelphia whenever they had them.

There used to be a great website that covered the history of the ones in San Francisco. Not sure if it is still available though.

I would read Steam any time I could get my hands on a copy. It was a fantastic read and I loved hi way of looking at life, sex, being poz, etc... I wish I could have met him in person and told him that.

Vander is such a sexy fuck. I'd love to meet him!

I find that gays can get easily offended when they think they are being judged. And to many, saying "I'm not into that" regardless of how you yourself meant it, feels like being judged, especially the further away from vanilla that kink they divulged to you tends to be. Additionally many still feel a certain amount of shame about themselves and about their sexual tastes that can stem from a very young age. The "I'm not into that" statement triggers those old feelings of shame and rejection. And they block you so that they don't ever start that same conversation over with you again and have the same thing happen.

Well bring it on! I think we'll all be anxiously awaiting those stories.

For a first timer, I'd say you hit it out of the ballpark. It sure boned me up in a hurry. Here's to many more installments!!!

I can't believe that I never finished this story when it was first published. I started re-reading and found now that there was so much more. I was totally hooked. What a great storyteller you are. Thank you for sharing your talents with all of us.