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  1. backdoorjimmy
    I wish I had them all the time. I have them frequently enough that I feel blessed, but to be honest, my guy plumbing doesn't work. I've been seeing a doctor for ED since I was 16 because I don't get hard anymore, so anal orgasms are all I can have. Having said that, a good lay can leave me satisfied even if I don't have an anal orgasm. 🙂
  2. backdoorjimmy
    I guess I should confess that the first time I saw the title of the thread in 2018-2019, I thought it was someone lamenting about tops who insist on wearing condoms. Then I opened the thread discovered what a cruel condom was.
  3. backdoorjimmy
    As a bottom who only has anal orgasms (no ejaculation), I don't want to speak for others on the site. But to me, the anal orgasm should be the goal of the top if he's trying to get his partner off. As other have said, there's a difference between an anal orgasm and a hands free orgasm. The first time I had an anal orgasm, I didn't have the words to describe it. It was like being put in a trance that was induced by the sweet burn I felt in my asshole and groin. In my opinion, if the top wants to get his partner off anally, that should be the goal.
  4. backdoorjimmy
    Practice, patience and lube. I’ll be blunt here and tell you that 8.5 inches is ambitious for a first time. Use your dildo and a good sized plug then make sure you take your time with that nice cock.
  5. backdoorjimmy
    I put everything in a spreadsheet and removed the parenthesis (using the text to column function) so I could get an accurate score.Then I deleted the rows with the acts I've never done before summing the remaining rows. My total score was 218 and I've done 62 of the things on the list. Better than I thought 🙂
  6. backdoorjimmy
    Honestly, if it feels right and brings you happiness, it's the sexy thing to do. There's something about a man who's secure and confident in his own body that turns me on as a gay man. So if you want to do it, go for it. It's not like you can't just take the ring out and let it close up if you decide it's not for you.
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    Did it take you long to get the Mr. Hankey up your ass? I have one that I've been using for a while and it's insanely big. I've been having a hard time getting it all the way in, but I admit that some of that might be due to a mental block. When it arrived, I was stunned by the actual size of it and I'm still convinced they made a mistake when they were pulling it in the warehouse.
  8. backdoorjimmy
    That sounds incredible. I tried with a carrot one time but the tip broke off while I was pushing it against my pucker so I got nervous and stopped. I bet the outside of a peeled cucumber feels amazing against the lining of an ass.
  9. backdoorjimmy
    Like... a small fire extinguisher? How was it? How far in did it go?
  10. backdoorjimmy
    Austin 3:16 says I just fucked your ass!
  11. backdoorjimmy
    I have to say, you sound like a genuinely kind person with empathy. I grew up with no siblings and no close friends, so even though I was out I had no one to talk to until I developed relationships as an adult. I would have been grateful to have someone I could talk to about dating/life/etc. and ask questions, get opinions and advice. I hope you two can form a bond of some sort.
  12. backdoorjimmy
    I had something similar going on with my ex-boyfriend's dad. I was 18 and it was my very first real relationship. I was deeply in love with my ex, but when I watched him interact with his dad it gave me heat flashes. His dad was overly affectionate, as is constant kisses on the cheek, shoulder rubbing, cuddling, etc. One time I showed up at his house and he was in the kitchen "helping" his dad make dinner; i.e. he was sitting on the counter with a glass of chocolate milk, swinging his legs back and forth while his dad did all the work. It made me crave his father more than anything. My ass would constantly shiver because I was insanely horny for him. But I never acted on it - Because I knew it would ruin my relationship with my then bf and leave him devastated. Because even if his dad was gay or bi and went for it, it would ruin their relationship, too, and leave them both devastated. Having said that, maybe you can be a brother figure to him and help him sort his wiring out. If your boyfriend isn't willing or in a position to do that, I'm sure he'd be open to a dynamic like that with you.
  13. backdoorjimmy
    I'd say it's a tie between a serving spoon with a bulbous handle (sorry mom!) or a miniature baseball bat that I found in the attic when I was looking for autumn yard decorations. Between the two, the bat felt the best but only because it had a textured grip similar to a mag light. When I felt it against the lining of my ass, it was like nothing I'd ever felt in my life. I've tried to find a dildo with the same textured exterior but haven't had any luck.
  14. backdoorjimmy
    I guess it depends on how attached you are to your shoes and wallet. Because I'm guessing you won't have either in your possession if you decide to go through with it.
  15. backdoorjimmy
    I went through a phase where I was depressed and unfulfilled, and wanted to quit my job to be a full time slut. But it was all fantasy and would have been an awful idea for so many reasons. I hope the OP is doing well and was able to figure out what makes him happy. Leaving everything behind to open my legs 24/7 sounds great when the fantasy plays out in my head, but the reality of that decision would be a very dark outcome for 99% of us.
  16. backdoorjimmy
    I usually say "hey" back and then see what they're looking for. If it's another bottom, I just let them know I'm looking for cock and that I don't top. If it's a top that I'm not feeling, I'll usually tell them I've already got something lined up and move along. If they're rude, I block them. The only time I had to block a rude bottom was when he hit me up and I told him I was cruising for cock. He asked me to send him pics so I sent him my ass pics. When he asked for a dick pic I told "sorry, I'm a bottom." Then he called me a faggot so I blocked him. Some people. 🙄
  17. backdoorjimmy
    As a bottom, I don't think I can decide what makes a top a top. I know what attracts me to tops, though, so maybe that would be helpful. Of course, all the things that attract me to a top are what make me a bottom. A top who's assertive and takes control is someone I will instantly feel attracted to. If we go somewhere, I want him to drive. Even if we take my car, I want him to drive while I hold his hand. If we go out to eat, I want him to order for me. When we go to the movies, I want him to decide what we're seeing and I want him to put his arm around me in the theater. At home, I want him to relax while I clean up and cook. If we're chilling on the couch, I want to relax against his body while he decides what we're watching. In bed, I want him to take me like a top should take a bottom. I want his thrusts to mean something when he's fucking me. I want him to kiss me and make me want it longer and harder. When its over and his load is in my ass or I've swallowed it, I want him to hold me while we bask in the afterglow. At night, I want to sleep with my head on his chest and his arm around me. If he let's me hold his dick in my hand while we sleep, I'll be grateful. If he holds onto my ass while I hold his dick, I'll be dreaming about the next time he fucks me.
  18. backdoorjimmy
    I voted for all because piss is piss, and at the end of the day I'm a toilet so my pleasure is taking any and all loads from a man. As long as its hot and it fires from the end of his dick, I'm a satisfied toilet. Having said that, it's way easier for me to swallow when it's not the first piss of his day. If he's been sleeping all night and gives me his morning bladderful, it's going to have a way stronger flavor than the one he takes after his morning coffee or in the afternoon. Even so, the pleasure is always mine.
  19. backdoorjimmy
    I usually wash mine with Dawn and really hot water, then wash them a second time with Dial foaming soap the way I would if I were washing my hands. Then I let them air dry on a towel.
  20. backdoorjimmy
    This is a great topic. I don't know if I was born to be a cumdump, but I know I'm naturally submissive and couldn't picture myself topping anyone else. I crave cock over anything else and am obviously gay. I don't advertise it and consider myself someone who presents as masculine thanks to my love of working somewhat dirty jobs. Need your engine rebuilt? I can help with that. Need a tree cut down in your yard? I'll bring my chainsaw over and take care of it. Need a trench dug in your backyard? I'll put my work boots on, grab a shovel and get it done by myself. But pretty much everyone I know says they didn't even have to wonder if I was a top or bottom, much less if I was gay or straight. Even my mom just assumed I was a bottom before I confirmed it because I'm so passive.
  21. backdoorjimmy
    I always leave it up to the top, but I crave deep kissing and makeout sessions. One of my hottest hookups was in my first semester at college. I found a guy on grindr and we madeout in my car until I had to get to my next class. I would have loved to get laid, but just being able to have him dominate me by pinning me against the door and shoving his tongue in my mouth was insanely satisfying.
  22. backdoorjimmy
    This might be an unpopular opinion, but be prepared to pull out at the last minute if he gets cold feet. He hasn't taken this step before, and while it's no big deal to those of us who have, it's going to be huge for him. You two might have a great connection in bed and he might be 100% into it, but the moment of truth is going to come if/when he senses you're about to finish. If he gets cold feet and changes his mind, try not to get upset and by all means, pull out. Otherwise it spills into non-consensual territory and that can be a legal mess for you.
  23. backdoorjimmy
    To expand on this, I remember finding this site and feeling like I could finally talk about the things that sexually fulfill me without being judged by assholes on the internet. As someone who had no real friends growing up and none as an adult, being able to talk openly about my urge to have anal sex all the time was like being set free. After being forced into counseling as a teenager because my fetishes were considered damaging (nothing illegal at all), I found a mostly judgement free place to talk about grindr hookups and explore my watersports fetish. It was like having the friend I always longed for but never had the ability to find.
  24. backdoorjimmy
    I consider myself loose, but I've never been fisted. I love to get fucked with monster cocks and I have some unrealistically sized dildos that I regularly ride. So I might be coming from a skewed perspective on this. However, this is the part of your post that sticks out to me - The pushing out isn't doing him any favors at all. Is he able to get into the fuck so that his rectal muscles do all the work for him? When I'm in my happy place, my ass squeezes and grips any dick I have inside me, no matter the size. He probably needs to lay back and enjoy having you inside him without pushing out. Because like you said, it's easy for his body to take that as him trying to move things along.
  25. backdoorjimmy
    I’m so sorry that it ended this way. Everyone deserves someone special in their lives, and it sounds like he was and still is very special to you. Sadly, he’s right about most of this because he made a decision to stay with his wife. It’s sad because he’s probably very unhappy with her, but values his relationship with his sons too much to hurt her. Take solace in the fact that you filled his heart with joy and brought happiness to his life. About the other part - you don’t have to find someone your age, but you should find someone who will love you to the fullest. You seem like an amazing guy and whoever you fall in love with next will be lucky to have you. I hope your heart heals quickly. 🫂

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