backdoorjimmy

Cock in the throat is heavenly, but when my ass is hungry my ass is hungry. Sucking cock isn't going to scratch that itch.

This is a great observation. I don't like to point fingers and accuse people of making stuff up, but I think it's obvious when someone is writing fiction and when something is real. I had sex at a young age (13), but it was with someone I went to school with (14) and not with an adult or an adult family member. I have a hard time processing posts where someone says they were brought out at ridiculously young ages and enjoyed it. On the other hand, it would be foolish of me to think that those things don't happen in homes all over the world. I was a pretty sexualized kid when I was growing up, but I kept it to myself until I was ready to come out. Some of the stuff I did alone in my room didn't feel sexual at the time, but now as an adult I can look back and see it for what it was. But I would have been frozen with fear if an adult made sexual advances toward me. When I was sexually active as a teenager, I hooked up with a 16 year old and was way out of my comfort zone. I won't say I hated it, but I didn't want to sleep with him again. On the other hand, I'm sure there are 13 year olds who are perfectly comfortable hooking up with older guys. And I'm 100% positive that members of this site were just as comfortable doing that when they were young. Saying so out loud now doesn't make them pedos, or wrong. It was their experience. Also, some people might be working through trauma by posting positively about what happened because it makes it easier to cope. Again, that doesn't make them pedos. It means they were powerless to stop something awful that happened to them, and now they're reclaiming some of that power the only way they can. I always try to separate a pedo from an offender, which is what you seem to be doing in this paragraph. I feel sad when people say they want all pedos to die - I want all pedos to get help before they offend. I'm not violent (I can't even throw a punch) but I have loathing for people who hurt others. Men, women and kids alike can be sexual assault victims. I think the best thing we can do as a society is get them help without the life-destroying stigma that comes with the label of pedo or rape-apologist.

I think it depends on the mood, and who I'm with. If I'm kissing my boyfriend, then the connection is deep. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night to pee. If I'm spending the night at his place, I'll slip him some tongue when I get back in bed. Not because I think he's going to wake up and have sex with me, but because I'm craving a mouthful of his tongue because I love him. When I'm having casual sex, I feel disappointed if there's no kissing. It's such a primal way for men to enjoy each other - I feel like I can taste the manhood on a guy's breath, and it turns me on so much. When a guy's stiff tongue is dominating me and his saliva is mixing with mine, it makes my ass burn with desire for him to be inside me. On the other hand, sometimes just kissing with a random stranger is enough for me. When I was in my first year of community college, I had enough time for a hookup between my Tuesday morning classes. One day I met a guy on grindr but he didn't have time to go back to my place, so we just sat in his car in the parking lot and madeout for 10 minutes. It was one of the most erotic things I'd ever done up to that point. He was so cute and I hated that we couldn't have full on sex, but being able to taste his tongue and feel his hands all over my face and back and ass made me so happy. I wish I could have gotten his number because he was cute as fuck but I never saw him on grindr again.

I too eat ass passionately. I also passionately grind my ass around if someone’s eating it. The fastest way to a man’s heart is with a delicious feast. The fastest way to my heart is to feast greedily at my back door.

In 2019, I found my cousin on Grindr. For about 2 or 3 months, I went back and forth on whether or not to hit him up. We had an awkward car ride to the store on Thanksgiving where we were both cruising profiles. We were looking at each other’s profile but I was too scared to do anything. Later on he asked if I wanted to hang out and I said yes. I ended up at my aunt and uncle’s house and we sat in his car in the garage where I went down on him. After that we started having full on sex and it was intense. Then the pandemic started and things fizzled out, but we’re still close. He’s one of the most talented tops I’ve ever slept with and I’m pretty sure I’d hookup with him again if he offered.

Is there a point where a hole is too gaped or too used for you? Or is that more appealing?

Hot. What makes an ass good eating? Is it temperature or flavor or pheromones? Or is it something else?

As a bottom, I feel like there are changes in the smell and temperature of my ass when I'm super horny. I'm always horny for anal no matter what, but if I haven't been fucked then I get unbearably horny and I can feel it in my hole. It trembles and feels sweaty, and the smell is saltier and more metallic IMO. I love that as a top, you can tell the difference in a bottom's pheromones too. I can tear down an engine and I love doing projects around the house. My boyfriend says it's a total turnon for him when I grab a socket set and get under the hood of a car. But I'm also really feminine in other ways, and want people to know that I have a passive nature. I can't throw a punch and would be terrified if I had to fight. I worry about that being a turnoff for guys, but there's a side of me that embraces it as part of my sexuality.

Do you prefer big, round and firm or big, round and jiggly? I'll ask you the same question I asked @bareback-flipflop - do you think you can taste the desire in a bottom's ass? And what would you think about a bottom who isn't tough enough to fight, but does his own work around the house and works on cars? Like, he's scared to fight and loves to be pampered, but will install a new fascia board and gutters on the front and back of the house? Or one who isn't very strong, but can tear an engine down to the block and rebuild it so it runs like a brand new car?

When you taste the hole, does it seem like you can taste the bottom's desire? My boyfriend eats me out and swears he can taste how horny I am - I asked him to tell me more but he said he couldn't explain it but he just knew. BTW, thanks for your great answer.

To the men who service us bottoms and keep us satisfied, what makes an ass fuckable? Is it the shape? Is it the amount of cushion or the firmness? Is it something in the hips? Is it pheromones? Or is there something about it that as a bottom, I'll never be able to understand? What makes you see an bottom's ass and decide that it's an ass you want to fuck?

My boundaries are mostly moral and ethical. At least 18 (of course) and not a total shitbag of a person. If I know someone's a racist or has a history or victimizing others, there's no way I'll put out for them. If I meet another bottom, it's not a deal breaker as long as they understand that I won't be a top. Putting pressure on me to do something sexually that I don't want to do is an automatic turnoff.

I actually started writing this like three hours ago and stopped because I was too horny to focus. So I copied and pasted it so I didn't have to rewrite it all again. I don't know if that messed the formatting up or not but if so, that's why. For the last few days I’ve been hornier than normal. I slept at my place on Monday night and I woke up before 5 in the morning on Tuesday feeling like I needed a cock in me right then and there. I sent my bf a 911 text and told him I was coming over. He was grumpy when he let me in but said he could tell I was feeling the urge so he took me to his room and let me play power bottom while he laid down. After that I nursed on his dick until he pushed me off and went back to sleep. When his alarm went off he hammered a fast load up my ass before I had to go to work. Yesterday was my day off so I spent the day with him and a couple of his boys. My hole was shivering hard the whole time. I wanted him to pass me around but I never ask him to unless he offers it to me. Plus neither of his boys were hinting at wanting to fuck me, which was driving me crazy. Finally one of them told me my ass looked hot and I admitted that my ass was horny. My bf asked if he wanted to hit it and he said sure, so I ended up being dicked down by both of them while his other friend watched and played with his dick. I tried to let him know he could go too but he was acting weird about it so I didn’t push it. I called in sick today and tried to slut it up on grindr but it was all bottoms and a few flaky "tops" who are always on but never respond after they get pics. I was frustrated and horny until my bf told me he was getting off early for a doctors appointment. After his appointment he came over and treated me to a major rear end service that kinda took the edge off. He had to run an errand so I typed this out but I had to stop to play in my ass because it started shivering again. So yeah, I'm still not satisfied but I'm working it out. I'll probably just put my rimming plug in until I can get laid again.

I mentioned this in a similar thread, but I was filmed while sucking cock in my car. It was someone I met in English 111 when I first started community college, and he had the biggest dick I'd ever seen up to that point. I wanted to suck it right away and he said he'd let me but only if he could record it on his phone. He promised not to share with anyone so I agreed. About a year later I found the clip on Pornhub but there was no account associated with it and it didn't have a lot of views, so I just left it alone. I checked after PH purged the non verified content and it was gone.

This made me think about Fingernails for Cash from Family Guy. Maybe he was building a fort?

Yeah that's pretty weird. I mean, it could be worse but it just feels random. There are a lot of people who cruise apps just for dick pics and ass pics so I guess it makes sense that some people would ask for pics of your load.

Odd can mean a lot of things - can you provide more context?

I can't remember who said it, but I read a post on BZ where someone said that the more loads a bottom takes, the more sensual their hole feels. Once I read it, I felt like a lightbulb switched on over my head and I said outloud, "Exactly!" I never really knew how to explain it, but that quote summed it up for me. Except for me, it's the cocks that make my hole hot for more. If I have a one on one session with my bf, it's almost a spiritual experience for me. But when I'm holding onto the back of the couch and multiple guys are taking turns in my ass, I feel horny for more and never really get to a place of, "I feel so satisfied now." I know part of that is because I don't cum or even care about my dick, but when I'm enjoying an intense session with my boyfriend I can anally orgasm a few times and be asleep within moments of when he pulls out and wraps his arm around me so I can lay on his chest.

The first time I met my bf it was just a cock date with him and his room mates. He was sitting in a chair eating blue chews while his room mates dicked me down. Then he took his turn and lasted a long, long time. When he was finished I was wiped out and sweaty, but I still wanted more. So a few hours later I hit him up and within minutes I was back at their place, getting fucked again and wondering if I'd made a mistake. During the pandemic is was just me and them in the house all the time. I got to a place where I started wearing my bf down. Now, even when he's taken 4 or 5 blue chews I still end up wanting more, so he passes me around to his room mates and has his boys come through to stroke my ass out. I feel like I can't get enough cock in my ass anymore, which makes me proud but also makes me wonder what it'll take to finally be satisfied before I fall asleep.

Same here - I leave mine in all the time because I hate not having my ass filled. I finger myself with Vaseline and put the plug in so it doesn’t burn, and only take it out if I’m pooping or getting laid. The only other time I might take it out is if I’m riding my dildo or if I decide to switch to my rimming plug.

I can't imagine sitting on the edge of your seat, wondering if war is about to breakout in your homeland and if your family will make it out alive. The concept of war is just beyond me - how can political power be so intoxicating to world leaders that they would send men and women into battle with the stroke of a pen, knowing that the price is human lives and utter devastation? Not just during the war, but the thick emotional and mental scarring that carries on for generations after it ends? The families that deal with the heartache of death, and the families that cope with the trauma of PTSD when a soldier who saw unthinkable things comes home and is expected to just carry on like nothing's wrong?

Yep. One time I hooked up with a daddy who only packs three inches and he was amazing in bed. One of the best parts was swallowing his cock and hairy balls in one delicious mouthful. I was in heaven the whole time, especially when he came and it felt like a firehouse going off in my mouth.

Any size is fine with me as long as it’s attached to a man. I love sucking Dick so there’s no rule about size.

I wasn't judged at a clinic for testing positive for an std but I was judged by my PCP for being a bottom. This happened when I was 18 and switched from a pediatrician to a regular doctor at the family practice I've been going to my whole life. The new doctor was female and it was our first appointment so she was sitting on a stool asking me questions and going through my chart on the computer in the room. She saw a note from my pediatrician about me not being able to get an erection and then saw I was on PrEP. She put two and two together and gave me a long, disapproving look that made me feel ashamed for the first time in a long time. Then she got cold and her tone went from friendly to harsh and she hurried through the rest of the appointment. My mom found out what happened and lost her mind, called the practice manager and went off while I begged her not to. Since I was an adult the practice manager said I had to call in the complaint or she couldn't even discuss it. I was too timid to go any further so nothing ever came of it that I know of.

If it's making you uncomfortable then you need to tell him to back off. It's one thing to shoot your shot - I don't think there's anything wrong with it. But when someone isn't responding, that means they aren't interested. At that point, it's rude and pointless to keep pestering them. Since he PM'd you, message him back and let him know you aren't into him and don't want to keep receiving those messages. Also, the cousin who tried to hold your sexuality over your head sounds like a major asshat. Good for you for reclaiming your power and coming out on your own. People who do that have deep issues. In my case it was different - I'd been on grindr for a while and found my cousin's profile. We had a lot of sexual tension for months and I kept daring myself to talk to him about it, then backing out at the last second. Finally I asked him if he wanted to chill and he invited me over, and we ended up making out in his garage. Then we took things further but it was all just for fun. I'm a total bottom and he's a vers bottom, so there's a limit to what we could do together. He topped me a few times, then we kinda stopped hooking up and now we're just really close friends.