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What do you do when tops want to fuck with condoms?
backdoorjimmy replied to Bttml00king's topic in General Discussion
I just shrug and get myself laid anyway. My preference is to get fucked bareback, but my ultimate goal is to get fucked. -
Great point, and I agree with you. I worded my post poorly - what I should have said was, if your must haves aren't available, the best thing to do is end the hookup.
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When I unpack your post, it seems like you're saying you want passionate sex, not just a pump and dump. Is that right? I enjoy men for everything they bring to the bedroom and beyond. I love running my fingers through the fur on his chest and belly. I love feeling his hot breath in my ear or on my neck. I love the skin to skin contact with a man while we're kissing or while he's inside me. But I think the coin has two sides here - as someone else mentioned, there are a lot of tops who are there to bust a nut, then dip out. In fact, there are a lot of tops who won't even let a bottom kiss them. And even though I put it in my grindr and scruff profiles that I want to kiss, a lot of guys will hit me up anyway, knowing they'll never let me get close to their mouth with mine. So honestly, the best thing to do is to end the hookup if they aren't meeting all your needs. I've done it before - I recently had a guy tell me he would withdraw consent after I tried to move in for a kiss. So I got dressed and left. It's awkward, but your preferences are yours, and you have the right to have them respected.
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Within the rules of the site, I'll say the raunchiest thing I've done was eat the hot, sweaty ass of a guy who just got off work after a long day in a metal shop. He showed up in his jumpsuit, covered in metal shavings and smelling like ass with a hint of underarm stink. I was so hot for him that I ate his ass right away, then he fucked me. Then I ate his ass some more until he had to get going. Then I went to bed with his ass stink still rolling off of my face.
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Interesting take. I watch a progressive commentary channel on YouTube called Young Turks, and the host broke down a lot of the same stats but had a different theory on the disparity. He pointed to candidates who were endorsed by Trump, especially Hershel Walker, and noted that Kemp got way more votes than Walker did. He also pointed to other Trump backed candidates, and pointed out that even when they won their races, they were much tighter than up or down-ballot races where other republicans won easily. His hypothesis was that Trump-backed candidates were too toxic for people who would have otherwise voted republican. I wonder what impact the Trump endorsements had compared to the gerrymandering that went on in these areas. Does it make sense that states get to draw their own districts? I know we're a democratic republic, but at some point it feels like their should be some federal guidelines for how this is done, and it should be tied to the census. I might be wrong, but letting the states control the congressional districts opens the door to complete and total assfuckery - and not the good kind! I think I know the answer to this question, but I'll ask since you're way more engaged and articulate than me on these issues. Would the democrats have held the house, or even increased their majority and held the senate, if they had sent a medicare for all bill to President Biden's desk? Or if they'd codified abortion rights as soon as the decision was leaked? The same question applies to codifying same sex marriage and contraception rights. How do you think that would have changed the outcome of the 2022 midterms?
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Thank you for the thoughtful answer @hntnhole - I agree, it's been wild watching people my mom's age and older lose their collective minds. I have an aunt who believes all kinds of weird stuff, from vaccines having 5G microchips in them to covid masks having mind control devices to Tom Hanks drinking the blood of scared children **sigh** This feels like such a stupid pattern - I mean, if the party was any good in the first place, wouldn't they already be in the majority? On the other hand, where there are only two parties that get the vast majority of the votes, it's probably only natural that they trade wins back and forth.
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I normally stay out of politics because I don't have anything interesting to contribute to these discussions. But I've been utterly confused for a while about one thing - how did the Republicans manage to retake the house? They're the party that staged what a lot of people call a coup. The violence at the capitol on 1/6/2021 is documented. So knowing this, how did the democrats manage to lose? People are celebrating the fact that there wasn't a red wave, but my question is, how wasn't there a blue wave? I hope this isn't offensive to either side, but I can't wrap my head around it.
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How Do We form Our Taste Sexually?
backdoorjimmy replied to BBBxCumDumpster's topic in General Discussion
Mmmm.... nothing better than a sweaty set of balls, a sweaty ass crack and a musky cock to lick, suck on and enjoy. -
How Do We form Our Taste Sexually?
backdoorjimmy replied to BBBxCumDumpster's topic in General Discussion
I've thought about the same thing and have come to believe that it has to be a combination of nature and nurture. I'm convinced I was born gay. It's how I'm wired. I remember being 5 or 6 and blurting out how handsome a guy in a commercial was. My cousin at the time said, "Eww, he's ugly" but I argued that he was wasn't ugly, and that he looked really nice. My mom still tells that story. But I think my sexual flavors and my kinks are probably related to my upbringing. My mom has a pretty foul mouth and almost no filter. When I was growing up, her and her friends would talk openly about hookups. In graphic detail. One time I heard them talking about getting ass fucked and how good it felt and I think I internalized it. Years later when one of my uncles was giving me "the talk" he mentioned that some guys shove things up their asses and enjoy it (I was already out as gay). The next thing I knew, the conversation my mom and her friends had about butt sex came flooding back and it was all I could think about. Some of my other preferences like being submissive to men are probably a product of growing up with no dad and longing for male affection. My WS fetish stems from (I think) catching a whiff of dried up piss on the sidewalk one day. At least, that's what I think. So yeah, I think it's a combination of factors. We're born with sexual wiring that makes us prefer men, but our "accessories" are something that we add on along the way. -
You're a gay man, so you belong here as long as you want to be here and don't break the site rules.
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How do you react when you see someone crying?
backdoorjimmy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
All of those things - you gave him a tight hug, which was probably what he needed. You also gave him someone to talk to and he definitely needed that. And you had concern for him - he might have needed to know that someone cared about him and whatever it is he's going through. Based on what you shared, it seems like you did the right thing. -
Yesterday I scored with a cubby 20 year old with the cutest smile and a huge ass. He’s a bottom like me so we decided to meet so I could eat his ass. It. Was. So. Fucking. Delicious.
We have plans to get together later and I’m hoping he’s as sweaty and warm as he was yesterday because I’m in the mood for a long, indulgent feast.
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Using a scheduling tool for anon cumdumping
backdoorjimmy replied to rock-cock-jock's topic in General Discussion
This is pretty smart from my POV. I manage my work calendar with a program called Calendly which allows people to book 15, 30 or 60 minute blocks of my time. Using this for cockdates never occurred to me. If you decide to try this out, be sure to let us all know how it works for you. I’d love to have an automated “cock manager” to organize my sessions. -
Real talk? You probably shouldn't do it that way unless you know for sure that you can handle the dick size. You only get one first time, and if it's ruined, it's ruined. It's a hot fantasy, but if your first time is painful or goes bad in some other way, you'll never forget it and might look back on it with a lot of regret. Is there someone you trust to break you in? That way you can start sampling other dicks until you're sure you're ready for that anon cock to slide up your ass, even if it's 9 thick inches.
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My preference is bareback but at the end of the day, a fuck is a fuck and as long as I can get the dick up my ass, I'm good.
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Something else. If it's a family business that employs him, he can file suit against the company if they fire him or subject him to a toxic workplace. He should go straight to the EEOC if they pull anything with his job. I know it's not ideal since they're family, but if they go there, he should too.
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I'm sure it means the world to him that you care. Maybe his best move is to let the truck go and focus on building a life where he can make his own way. I know that's easy to say from the sidelines, but his dad sounds like a dumpsterfire. Sorry for crap talking your brother, but his actions make me sick to my stomach. As for getting him an iPad, can you get him a phone instead? That way he can make calls and tests without his dad knowing who he's communicating with? At 19, it's really no one's business but his.
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He lives/lived nearby but if I remember correctly, he's Filipino. He had a nice, pudgy tummy and was packing about 3 inches and had more pubic hair than anyone I've ever met in my life. I loved it because I was able to get his cock and his sack in my mouth all at once.
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It doesn't sound like this has anything to do with being gay or straight, at least not to me. It sounds like you're curious and need to experiment to find out what you've been missing. You said your wife introduced you to anal play - maybe have a talk with her and let her know what you've been craving. Do you think she'd be down to watch you get railed by a big dicked service top? Maybe the two of you can chase cock together.
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One of my best lays ever was with an Asian guy who knew how to use his dick. He was so confident and so skilled that his dick size wasn't a factor at all. He satisfied me quite easily and made me wish I'd gotten his number.
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I've never had my tongue in a hole while it was being fucked, but I've licked the pooched out lips of a hole while it was stuffed with cock. The heat it was giving off was intense and the guy being fucked sounded like he was loosing his mind from all the sensations.
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My top five are: Back my ass up to a busy glory hole and stay there until the last cock pumps its load inside me. Be the sole feaster in an all day rimming session where anonymous guys come and sit on my face so I can eat them out Ride a real all day train where men come through non-stop to fuck me from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed. Pay someone to fuck me in the ass (I've already paid a guy to let me suck his dick) Spend a day/weekend/week being a cumdump and urinal without showering, letting guys fuck my ass and mouth, piss in my hair, piss down my throat, piss all over my clothes and piss up my ass. When the weekend is over, I'll put my pissy clothes on and drive home.
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I love the scent of man musk, especially when it rolls out of his crotch or from between the buttcheeks. When it comes to sweaty taints, balls, crevices or cocks, I get piggy in a hurry. To me, there's almost nothing equal to the sinful pleasure I get from burying my nose in a musky patch of pubes while I'm sucking cock, or from feasting on a hot, spicy asshole while the smell pours into my mouth and nose. It's heavenly.
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I can't believe I never thought of this. It makes so much sense. **(sigh)** well, better late than never 🙂 And I agree, I prefer to have a guy cum in my ass but if he cums in my mouth, I won't complain. I'm always grateful for a hot mouthful of cum.
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If a top wants to use a condom I'll pour the cum out into my stomach or in my mouth. I've tried fingering it into my hole before but I'm clumsy and usually lose half of it or more to spillage. Once it's in the carpet, there's no saving it.
