backdoorjimmy
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He sounds like a lazy asshole.
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As a bottom, I feel like it's my responsibility to be clean when I show up for a fuck. But I think it's really sweet of you to have something for your bottoms to use when you host. For like $20, I bought a shower tool on Amazon and mounted it in less than 5 minutes. I never have to uninstall it because with the turn of a lever, it shuts off and on - [think before following links] https://imgur.com/a/0ijp7AW Gross - not because I'm averse to poop, but because it's rude to impose that on people who are there to have a good time. I hope the selfish bottom had to do a walk of shame back to his car. There's no excuse to show up dirty to a gangbang unless it's agreed upon up front.
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I usually do a major cleanout once a week, then a midweek cleanout if I think it's necessary. I take other steps like watching what I eat and keeping a regular bathroom schedule, but sometimes that's not enough. When it's not, I'll do another major cleanout. It's not good to douche too much, but I'd rather overdo it on the cleanout than skip a lay.
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It's always up to the guy who's letting me suck his dick, but I prefer to have my lips wrapped around the glans. It lets me feel it when his load erupts and I get to enjoy his orgasm with him. I love not knowing how it's going to happen - if his load will squirt hard against the roof of my mouth or if it'll just flood my whole mouth at once. I'm always grateful for the chance to suck dick and swallow a hot load. -
When you can’t pick an option because the smallest length is way more than you have 😐
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As someone who leans into the forbidden fetish, I fully agree with you. As the bottom, it's on me to make sure I'm clean back there because it's rude not to. I don't have the right to impose my kinks on other people, and even if I didn't have that fetish, it would be gross of me to assume it was no big deal. I douche once a week, but will do it more often if I need to. My poop schedule is regular and I stay away from foods that make things messy back there. If I didn't, I'd clean out way more often. Maybe. I think the polite thing to do is tell the top what's going on. I know a lot of people are poop shy and won't discuss it - to me, that's silly. We all do it, and when a guy has his dick in my ass, he's literally getting us both off in the place where it comes out. What is there to be shy about? But if a bottom doesn't want to tell his hookup or boyfriend or fwb that he's having an off day, he ought to cancel and make up something else. Wow, talk about being totally oblivious to the wants and needs of others. If he couldn't understand what was wrong here, he's either completely oblivious or literally thinks his shit doesn't stink. I used to hook up with a guy who hated to smell anything. Even the aroma of an opened up asshole was too much for him to handle, so I usually limited it to oral with him. I can't imagine what his reaction would be if someone met him with a full ass. Just rude. Nope, not at all. You're allowed to have preferences and boundaries, and it's up to the people who ask to hook up with you to respect them. It would be different if you wandered into a bar where everyone had brown handkerchiefs hanging out of their back pockets, but on a normal hookup it's perfectly reasonable for you to expect some bottom etiquette.
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Advice on hooking up with a much younger guy (legal)
backdoorjimmy replied to polyglutton's topic in General Discussion
I don't know how popular this take is, but if I were in your shoes I'd pass. When I was 16 I felt like I was ready for sex with guys your age, but looking back I realize I wasn't. There's a power dynamic at play that has nothing to do with Age of Consent laws, and everything to do with his comfort level. Let's say you hook up and get his consent at every point along the way before proceeding with each and every act - two days later, he might feel guilt or regret and decide he was taken advantage of. Whether its legal or not, it can ruin your life if an underage teen says he was intimidated into having sex. Words like "grooming" and "withdraw consent" can get thrown around and you're screwed. You might not go to jail, but you might lose your job or have your personal life shattered. Hell, I was on a Reddit thread a couple weeks ago where someone who was 18 hooked up with a 40 year old neighbor and people in the thread were throwing around the word "pedo" and saying the 40 year old should be arrested. -
How many loads can you hold in before it runs out?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
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How many loads can you hold in before it runs out?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
When I'm riding a train I start losing cum once the second top starts fucking me. Depending on how long it goes, I usually end up with a raw taint and irritated skin on the inside of my thighs. I just want to try to keep loads inside me without my hole pushing it out on its own. -
A lot of times I'll read posts on Breeding Zone from guys who get their asses filled with multiple loads and somehow hold them all in. I've been trying to understand how it's done for a while and finally just decided to ask. When I take more than one load, my hole gets sloppy and cum runs out of it. Especially if someone's fucking my already bred hole. I can plug my ass after it's all over and hold most of it in, but even then I lose some sperm because my hole opens and closes around the plug after a fuck. So to the guys who can keep loads in their ass, how do you do it? Is it like holding in a dump? Just curious if anyone can give me pointers.
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So Whats Your Day Job, When You Are Not Being A Raw Slut?
backdoorjimmy replied to wood's topic in General Discussion
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What's your favourite position to take a guys load?
backdoorjimmy replied to a topic in General Discussion
I’m a little torn because my favorite position to be fucked is on my back with my legs resting on my man’s shoulders. It’s the position where I can take a man’s cock as deep as he can go, and I can look into his eyes while I feel him inside me. When he cums, we can kiss and I can feel completely dominated. On the other hand, there’s something powerful about being on my hands and knees with my ass in the air, feeling him grip my hips tight while his dick pulses and throbs inside me through his orgasm. It’s like the perfect ending to a fuck when his dick is unloading and I can feel it beating like a heart against my taint. It makes my whole groin feel like there’s warm pleasure swirling around it. It’s tough, but I’m picking my hands and knees for taking a load. Missionary is my favorite position when I need my ass serviced and satisfied, but doggy is my favorite when I need to be used and bred. -
So hot! I bet that anonymous dick felt amazing in your ass.
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My ass feels hungry 24/7 but sometimes it feels like I have to get it fucked right away. I love sucking dick or having my ass eaten, but nothing compares to a deep buttfucking.
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The darkest timeline in a bottom’s quest to get laid 😔 Hot! I’m planning to get fucked when my bf gets home from work. But until then my ass is so horny that it feels like it’s quivering.
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This morning I was about 50 miles from home in a town called Deltaville to install come recessed lighting for my mom's bf's daughter. She has a kickass place on the Rhappahannock River with a gorgeous view. Since I was in the area, I hit up a guy I've hooked up with a few times to see if he had time to see me for a lay. He lives in a town not too far away called Saluda and works second shift. Since has to drive to Richmond for work, I knew we didn't have much time even if he could see me. But luckily he didn't have to go in until 4 today. I got to his place a little after 1 and he was in his detached garage. As soon as he let me in, he closed the garage door and kissed me. We both unbuttoned our pants and I went down on him to get his dick wet. I don't know what came over me but I felt this strong desire to eat his ass, so I got behind him and spread his ass cheeks open. His crack smelled like manly pheromones and sweat and it just made me even hungrier to give a rim job. I ate him out for about 5 minutes and sucked on his asshole so hard and for so long my tooth dug into the inside of my cheek. When I stopped, he turned around and jacked off in my face. I opened my mouth and he came inside for me, then he helped me up and kissed me. I pulled my pants up and left without getting fucked but I feel so grateful for the load I swallowed and the rimjob I got to give him that I don't mind at all.
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@ErosWired From the POV of a bottom who craves pleasure from anal sex and can even be a little selfish about it, I can say that you're not wrong to feel the way you do. Your sexual wiring is what it is, just like mine is what it is. It's not right or wrong, it just is. If you feel satisfaction and fulfillment from being used rough and feeling some pain, then that's what you should look for in a hookup. Different strokes for different folks.
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When I was a sophomore in high school there was this cute senior I’d been wanting to put out for. I was sure he was into guys but was too scared to hit him up. He gave me his number and we even talked at school a few times. One Saturday I bumped into him three times while I was out and about. Once at Ace Hardware, once at Macys and once at Food Lion. I ended up going home with a horny ass wondering if he liked me or not. After he graduated I found out he liked me too, but was leaving for college and I’d blown my chance. Now he’s living in Michigan with his husband. Ugh. I’m sure he was hung like a horse but I didn’t see the signals he was giving me.
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It all boils down to my mood. If I’m ultra aroused, then I’m totally into having two dicks in my mouth at once. If I’m not in the mood to suck a lot of cock, it’s kind of a hassle. It always ends up with my cheeks and lips being stretched out and slobber running everywhere. If I’m hot for it, the mess of spit adds to my pleasure. If not, it triggers my OCD and I get frustrated. No matter what, though, I do what I can to make sure it’s special for them and that they shoot their loads quickly.
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The first thing I want to say is that only you can decide if you're making a mistake by getting used and taking hundreds of loads. Are they going to be anonymous loads? Or are you planning to make sure they're STI free before they're allowed to breed you? Even then, there's no guarantee that you won't be knocked up with something like gonorrhea or anal chlamydia. Just like @viking8x6 said, you'll likely pickup other bugs if you become a no loads refused cumdump. It's great that you're getting on PrEP - to answer your question, it works as well as it's meant to work as long as you take it regularly. Also, just because you take PrEP, it doesn't mean you shouldn't get tested regularly. It's going to be required when you go back to your PCP for a refill but it's also a good idea to get tested between visits.
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Thanks. My childhood was a little rough because I didn't have friends for the most part, and I grew up in a single parent home. But my mom is amazing and did her best. So I don't think I'd change too many things about the way I was raised. 🙂 Have a great week too, Karl
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The simplest things that I still enjoy from my childhood are kinda silly. I love drinking chocolate milk from the same sippy cup I had when I was little. I stopped putting the lid on it when I was in middle school but from time to time I still like to put it on and feel like a little kid. The other thing is my baby blanket and Winnie the Pooh bear. I still sleep with them when I’m home and sometimes I bring them to the family room when I’m home alone. The last thing is I still like to snuggle with my mom in the morning. I’m not a morning person at all and need a little while to wake up. If she’s on the couch when I get up I curl up with her and she rubs my back and legs while I finish waking up.
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I’m usually in the 2-5 range because my bf passes me around to his roommates. From time to time it can be in the 5-10 when he passes me around to his boys, or even more than 10 in a good week, but that’s not the norm for me. I wish it was though.
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I've hooked up with guys just to give head. Sometimes that's what I'm in the mood for, and if the dick is really big, I'll probably ask to suck it. But I've also hooked up with someone just so I could makeout with him (he was super cute). I guess it depends on how submissive I'm feeling at the moment. But yeah, nothing compares to having my ass fucked.
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One of the results of being so sexualized as a kid was being placed into therapy by my mom - I wasn't exactly out, but I had a habit of blurting out "he's so cute" whenever I saw a cute boy I was attracted to. Add a nasty fetish that I can't mention on this site, and my mom took me to a therapist that I had to see for years. One of the things we talked about was my yearning to be at the service of other guys. Not because I was gay, but because I wanted to be controlled and used. I can't explain how it came out, but the therapist got it out of me and it was something we talked about every week. I can only speak for myself, but my yearning to be a cumslut probably came from two things: Me being a natural bottom who also happens to have a high sex drive. Growing up without a man in my life - my dad passed away when I was 4 and I have really vague memories of him. I spent my entire childhood yearning to be picked up and cuddled by a man. Not necessarily in a sexual way, but just in a loving, nurturing way. Since my mom runs through partners like I do, I was never able to have a meaningful connection with any of her boyfriends. The men in my extended family seem to be allergic to touch and especially hugging, so it was never an option for me to get that kind of affection from my grandpa or any of my uncles. Looking back, it's probably a good thing I explored my sexuality with another boy. I would have been putty in a man's hands if I'd have been subjected to an adult who wanted to seduce me. I would have been petrified and might have even looked for a way out of it, but I was susceptible to emotional manipulation and always aroused. So I probably would have given in at some point, especially if cuddling and male affection was on the table.