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My late father's side of the family is Greek Orthodox and I was baptized that way as a baby. I don't worship, but go to the Greek festival every year because the food is fucking amazing. While I'm there I go to the temple and light the obligatory candle for my dad. Then I stuff my face. My mom's side of the family is all over the place. Most of them don't go to church but believe in God and call themselves Christians. I have one crazy aunt who thinks everyone but her is going to hell because, according to her, everyone in our family is "of Sarah Palin." We don't talk to her anymore.
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Outside of sex, my love languages are acts of service and physical affection. I'm a cuddler by nature - to this day, I long for early morning affection on the couch while I clear the cobwebs out of my head. As for acts of service, I enjoy yard work and fixing things. My boyfriend hasn't had to take his car to a mechanic since we started dating. I installed new gutters on his house and am forever raking, mowing and mulching.
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Hey Guys Help please need advice on butt plug
backdoorjimmy replied to tattmattpig's topic in General Discussion
You need one with a bigger base if the one you have feels like it's going to slip inside. One of my first toys was a set of three plugs, one small, one medium and one large. They all had flat, almost oval shaped bases that could nestle against the floor of my crevice. I was able to keep whichever one I was wearing in all day if I wanted without worrying about it slipping inside. Depending on where you bought your plug, you might be able to find a metal one with the size you prefer with a bigger base. -
How much time will you have with him? I ask because sometimes the best way to work yourself up to taking a monster cock is to take your time with it and enjoy it in other ways while your ass waits its turn. Make sure you use a good sized dildo and plug, and keep the plug in while you suck that big dick and appreciate everything about the guy you're so into. When it's time to ride him, still take it slow. Have him lay on his back and straddle him, then put the head up to your asshole and gently grind your hips around so you both enjoy it. Let your ass open up naturally and accept as much of him as you can until the helmet pushes past your ring. Then grind your ass around some more until you have all of him inside you. YMMV, but that's the best approach from my experience.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
backdoorjimmy replied to a topic in General Discussion
If I think back far enough, it's probably the first time I smiled and blushed when I saw a cute boy. But the time I can actually pinpoint was when I was randomly hanging around my mom and her friends when I was maybe 8 or 9, and I overheard one of them talking about taking it in the ass. It was like someone flipped a switch in me. I don't know any other way to explain it. I just knew for sure that I was meant to do that, too. Of course, I didn't act on it for years, but that's when I became obsessed with my ass. -
I used to get hit up by "straight" guys all through high school, but it wasn't a lot of them. It was the same 4-5 guys every year, with a few exceptions. The older I got, the fewer the guys because the older ones would graduate and move on. I'm not convinced any of them were straight, and know for a fact that 2 of them were gay since they married other men.
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Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
Your tat is hot as fuck! That dick looks really good, too. -
Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
A lot of what you say resonates with me, too. I might just be going through a phase where anal has to be part of the hookup, because this is new for me. I used to just love being with a guy and doing anything with him. One time when I was in college, I hooked up with someone in his car and all we did was kiss. No clothes even came off, but just the act of being pinned down and having my tongue dominated by a cute stud was enough to make me sigh with relief when it was time to wrap up. I want to believe that somewhere deep down, I could have that same experience and feel the same way, but I'd be exaggerating if I said it would happen for me right now. -
Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
When I first turned 18 I used to drive around William and Mary in Williamsburg, VA and cruise for cock on grindr. I gave sooooo many blowjobs and handjobs, but didn't get fucked that often. But it was a lot of fun. Now I'm too lazy to leave my place while I'm on the app and just insist on getting fucked. At this point, I'd rather ride my dildo and wait for my partner to get home than hookup with someone who won't fuck me. -
Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
This is just a theory, but I think there are a lot of guys who dream about getting fucked but are too nervous to go through with it. They're still bottoms because they're sub and they love cock, but they aren't ready to take it in the ass. It's like the "tops" on grindr who ask for ass pics, then immediately ghost when they receive said pics. They probably want to fuck bottoms, but are too nervous to actually do it. -
Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
This is kinda where I'm at now. If it's an on the fly hookup, then sure, I'll blow a guy. But I haven't had that happen in a while, and back then I wasn't as stubborn about wanting my ass fucked. -
Bottoms - do you ever insist on anal?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
A lot of the profiles in my area have the same - guys that are looking for a cuddle buddy. I'm not emotionally connected to the people I hook up with, and while I don't mind cuddling for a little bit after we fuck, I'm not interested in only cuddling. I've never been to a bathhouse before - what's it like? I see posts about it all the time, but have no idea where to even find one in my area. -
When you hookup, do you ever insist on anal? I'm always in the mood to fuck, but in the past I've been just as excited to suck a guy off as I was to be bred. Lately I've been passing on grindr tops who only want their dicks sucked, especially when I'm being hit up by multiple tops at the same time who are down to fuck me. I'm just wondering how many bottoms insist on anal. Or is a load a load, and you'll take it anyway you can get it? Is it a deal breaker if the top won't fuck you?
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It kinda makes me think of this moment ...
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It wasn't as painful as I expected. I'd been playing in my hole for about 3 years and was using phallus-like toys (candles, drumsticks, handle to a plastic toilet plunger) so I was more than ready. But most of the discomfort was from me bracing myself for the pain and tensing up. Once I relaxed, everything went from stressful to magical.
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EVEN FOR BOTTOMS - SEX CAN BE A POWER TRIP
backdoorjimmy replied to Ozpig's topic in General Discussion
This is something I think about all the time. As a bottom, I realize that my pleasure depends on the top from the start of our hookup until the moment it ends. The amount of pleasure I'll experience will vary based on his skill, passion and endurance. If he's got 10 thick inches but only takes 45 seconds to cum, I'm going to be left unsatisfied. If he's got 5 hard inches but knows how to use it, he'll have my body tensing up with pleasure in no time flat. If he feeds me his tongue while he's serving up his dick, it might made me dizzy with pleasure. At the same time, his pleasure depends on me, too. Not just because I have a hole that I want fucked, but the things I do to make my hole a welcoming sleeve for men to slide their dicks into. There's so much more to it than my willingness to drop my pants and offer my ass to him. My prep work, my Kegel routine, the squats I do to keep my ass as plump as possible. If I don't do any of that, he's probably not going to enjoy it as much. Then there are the things I do before we fuck. I usually suck his dick and balls for a while. I get turned on by a mouthful of dick or musky balls too, but I understand that it's for his pleasure. And if he doesn't mind, I'll lick his ass, too. Not just because I enjoy it, but because I know he's going to love it. Somewhere in the back of my head, I know that the more I do to make him feel good, the better the chance that he'll be back in my bed. Sorry if this response is messy. I read this post the day it went up and have been trying to collect and organize my thoughts so I can reply in a way that makes sense. I struggle with the concept of my own power in the bedroom because it's been drilled in my head that bottoms are submissive and tops are dominant. But I've often seen myself as someone who uses men's dicks for my own pleasure. And when I'm in that headspace, I don't feel very submissive at all. -
I've had a lot of gangbangs but none of them have been like the pic. Usually, I stay in the bed and guys come through and use me while my boyfriend and/or his room mate direct traffic for me.
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How long do tops usually last in you ?
backdoorjimmy replied to hedonist2018's topic in General Discussion
I've had guys last so long my legs started to cramp and I've had a guy slide his dick in, moan and shoot his load without even thrusting. But on average I'd say tops last about 10-15 minutes inside me, which is nice as long as it's a passionate fuck. My boyfriend can go up to an hour or more, especially if he's eaten a couple Blue Chews. -
How do you get pleasure from little cocks
backdoorjimmy replied to Searchingforit's topic in General Discussion
I think it comes down to the top's skill set. I've been "meh" fucked by someone with 7 inches, and I've been fucked into ecstasy by a cute, confident top with about 3 inches. The common theme was how they used their dicks. The hung top had his face buried in my neck and was panting into my ear so hard it was almost painful for my eardrum. The smaller dicked guy pinned my shoulders down and aimed his dick right at my prostate, then he put in a 5 star effort. The cherry on top was the way he looked into my eyes - it was almost enough to bring me to orgasm alone. But when he leaned in and kissed me, I shivered all over and my taint legit overheated from the inside out. -
Bottoms: what's a top's best compliment?
backdoorjimmy replied to sites5's topic in General Discussion
To me the best compliment is when a top keeps hitting me up for regular booty calls for weeks or months after we first hooked up. -
For me, it all depends on the mood. Sometimes I want an aggressive fuck from a top, especially if I'm taking it from behind. Sometimes I like to straddle a dick and ride it rough, but only if the guy I'm with is into it. But if the vibe isn't there for an aggressive fuck, then I like to go with the flow and take it easy. As a bottom, I'm usually down for whatever the top wants, but with some limits. I don't like violence and if I even catch a whiff of bad intent from a top who equates "rough fucking" with abuse, I'll dip out.
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