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backdoorjimmy

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  1. Just out of curiosity, have you talked to your brother about what you're going through? If you're twins and you're close enough that you both felt sad about you moving away, there's a chance he knows and that it's just an unspoken truth that he sees. Do you think your relationship as brothers can survive a discussion about this issue? Your attraction's not going to disappear until you address it, and the best thing to do might be to acknowledge it with him. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't act on your feelings, but it sounds like he's the person you're closest to in life. If that's the case, he might be aware and also worried about you and unsure how to approach the topic. I would be sad if the person I cared about the most couldn't approach me with anything they needed me for, regardless of how uncomfortable it was. Also, you say you have a bf of 4 years and you thought it would help with this issue. I'm not attacking you, but it feels really unfair for your bf if one of the reasons you're with him was to help ease your romantic feelings for your brother. Again, if I'm mistaken I apologize. But it seems like your bf might end up hurting when this is all said and done.
  2. Ooh, I'll have to check it out. I don't live very far from there. Maybe like 10 or 15 minutes depending on Mercury Blvd traffic.
  3. Which park? I live in Hampton but if I cross the street I'm in East End Newport News. My bf lives in Newport News too. Just curious because I'm always looking for good cruising spots. Deer Park is the place everyone talks about but I've never hooked up there, and it's not on the James River.
  4. I got fucked by a dude with 3 inches but he knew how to use it and it was one of my best lays ever. He was so confident in himself and he took charge right away by kissing me and easing me down to the bed, then he picked my legs up and treated me to a great fuck. I was very satisfied when it was over, which was the opposite of what I was expecting. To be fair, he was up front about his size and I was in a super slutty mood so I decided to invite him over. Best decision ever.
  5. lol... he drove all the way after telling you to expect someone completely different. WTF was he expecting to happen?
  6. Honestly, I don't have a lot of turn offs when it comes to bodily functions. But puke it where I draw the line. I just can't.
  7. Ugh, that sounds so frustrating. I hooked up with a guy that told me he wasn't a virgin, but the fact that he humped the air and came in under 30 seconds once he was inside me said otherwise. But he was so passionate with his kissing and I loved how I could feel his breath against my neck when he came inside me, so I didn't count it as one of my worst.
  8. I just watched a porn clip that made me remember the worst lay I've ever had. It was a guy who didn't really know what he was doing but wanted to fuck me from behind. I could tell right away that he hadn't done it before because his thrusts were agonizingly short and slow. I could feel his dick inside me but it was barely moving at all. It was like watching someone run as fast as they could, but being able to pass them by walking at a leisurely pace. When I looked over my shoulder at him he looked stressed out over his performance. I offered to change positions so he could lay down and let me ride him, but this only frustrated him. Finally, he gave in and laid flat so I could lick his balls and asshole to get him hard again, then I rode his dick and he came in under a minute. I always try to be a good bottom. I want to make sure the man I'm sleeping with is taken care of, but I also like being taken care of too. I've had guys last less than 30 seconds before they cum and I still count them as better in bed than the guy who didn't know what he was doing. I'm just wondering if any other guys here have a story about "that time" when a partner was so bad that you still remember it.
  9. I probably should have mentioned that we're really close in age. She's 4 years older than me, so we're more like friends than auntie and nephew but that's still what we call each other. She's super chill and promised to take me clubbing when I come to visit her in San Francisco. I was planning to go in 2020 but a certain global even changed those plans. Sorry to hear about your aunt. It sounds like she earned her name from her kids and everyone else. I have a crazy Christian aunt (mom's sister) who tells everyone they're going to hell for literally no reason at all, but pretty much everyone in our family cut her off a long time ago. My mom said she'd beat her ass if she ever talked crap about me after I came out so she doesn't come around to bother us.
  10. I had this conversation with my aunt on my dad's side family recently. I don't really see her as often because she lives on the west coast and I live on the east coast, but the topic came up because one of my 2nd cousin's came out as a lesbian and everyone was shocked. My aunt made a passing comment about me that I don't come across as gay but there's a vibe I give off that she can't explain. I asked if it was gaydar and she said, "No, and I don't want this to be creepy, but the vibe is anal. I know you're a bottom." Since I'm not hung up on it, I said she was right and asked her to explain. She said she didn't have the words to explain, just that it's obvious. I'm pretty plain with how I dress and act. I'm the handyman in the family so I get called when someone needs their oil changed or their toilet flange replaced, but somehow I still have strong bottom energy. I actually felt a little proud when we ended the call.
  11. I don't consider it hardcore anymore, but there was a time when I did. Now I'm pretty much a full service toilet when I'm able to be. My bf and most of the guys we hang with aren't into it and my last bf wasn't into it either. But most guys will give me a golden shower or straight up let me drink their pee if I ask for it. When I'm having a dry spell, I usually resort to soaking my briefs with it and wringing them out into my mouth, then wearing my pissy briefs while they dry out so I can enjoy the stink.
  12. I know this is unpopular, especially since I consider myself a no loads refused bottom, but there are certain criteria that have to be met for me to take a load from a top. If they don't have an erect penis, or that will somehow slide up my ass soft, then it's a deal breaker. Well, unless they let me nurse on their cock, hard or soft. Or they eat my ass. Or let me eat their ass. But aside from that, it's a total deal breaker. No if ands or butts - well, except for my butt.
  13. Your circumstance doesn't just apply to a certain race, but really to any big dick. The top should have taken his time and rested inside you to give you time to get used to his size, unless you didn't want that. But the key is to listen to your body. Preferably, climb on so you can control the tempo until you're ready to completely submit. There's going to be some pain at first, but that's normal and you have to let it wash over you. But it shouldn't be a lingering pain, just a temporary pain. When you feel ready, start riding it up and down and make sure you're enjoying it. Then when you're ready, give over control and let him stroke your pussy out until he nuts inside you.
  14. While I don't totally agree with the original poster in general, I think this is a healthy discussion for us to have and I'm glad that @rawTOP and @drscorpio haven't locked the thread. People have their own experiences and their own traumas, and if talking about it helps them process it, then why not? We're capable of discussing uncomfortable topics without fetishizing them. If something is over the top, it's okay to report the post or comment inside the post. Hell, I've even reported one of my own comments because it discussed a fetish that the admins have made it clear shouldn't be talked about (not rape or underage).
  15. I want it all day every day. Is that realistic? No. But I need it every day. At least once a day but preferably three or more times per day. Luckily I'm in a relationship with someone who understands what I need. That's not to say he doesn't have days when he's not in the mood. Those are usually the days we cuddle in bed and he fucks me with the dildo while I cling to his chest, or he lets me climb on and ride his dick while he lays down. Those also tend to be the days when he'll pass me around to a few of his boys or have his room mates use my ass while he watches.
  16. That's so cute! I'm really happy for both of you 🏳️‍🌈
  17. It sounds like he's enjoying the sex you two are having. Unless he says no, or gives you some kind of a cue that he's feeling pressured or feels uncomfortable having sex, there's nothing wrong with it. If anything, he might feel empowered by it and as powerless as he seemed, he might have felt like his agency as a human being was respected and honored.
  18. I don't know if it's my place to say what my best feature is, since it should be something a top decides for me. But if I had to choose one thing it would be my libido. I'm always horny for anal sex. No matter the time or day, if I can get fucked in the ass I'm going to say yes. I crave it non stop so I'm always lubed up, plugged and ready to fuck.
  19. Like a lot of other commenters I prefer both, but if I have to choose one I'd go with length. I used to be more in the girth camp, but I've been spoiled for the last two years by my current bf and his room mates so now I'm more of a length leaning size queen. But to be frank, the dick in the length picture is thick enough to satisfy me.
  20. No nut November- the darkest timeline of a cumdump’s year. 😡

  21. I spent the night at my boyfriend's place and he woke me up this morning by eating my ass, then he let me go down on him. I sucked his dick for about 45 seconds before he said he was about to shoot, and I wanted it on my face. So I pulled off and laid my head on his stomach while I jerked it and he busted a load all over my face. Some of it went up my nose and a lot of it was in my hair and I was in heaven. I thought that would be all because we both had to go to work but after our shower, he said he was in the mood to shoot another one. I fingered some vaseline in my ass and he took me in the bathroom while I watched him in the mirror. Now I'm on my first break at work and my ass is still gaping and throbbing. It feels like there's a hot fart trapped in my pants. 💖
  22. For my birthday this year, my boyfriend took me on a roadtrip to Florida where I was used on the way down and the way back. We made a grindr profile just for this trip and I pretty much stayed on grindr the whole time. It was my first time doing something like that so I was a little nervous, but since my bf was with me I felt safe and enjoyed every hookup.
  23. I voted 100-499 because I didn’t want to exaggerate. Part of me is sure it’s well over 500 but there came a point where I went on a long ho stroll and didn’t keep count. My plan for 2020 and 2021 was to ride as many anonymous cocks as possible but COVID stopped me in my tracks.
  24. It depends on my mood. I like being a dirty boy so when the mood hits me, I'll stay in the same pair of undies for up to a week. But when I start to get raw between my thighs it's time to change. Since I only wear tighty whities, it doesn't take long for them to turn dingy and start smelling.
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