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backdoorjimmy

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  1. I run into this a lot, too. One guy I was trying to hook up with admitted that he jacked off while we were chatting and was no longer horny 🫤
  2. I've joked in the past that No Nut November is a cum slut's darkest timeline. But honestly, whatever floats people's boat. As long as anal masturbation isn't part of the deal, I won't fuss.
  3. I'd say that I was born a bottom. I've been obsessed with my ass since I was about 7 or 8, letting my hips sash from side to side and wearing shorts that I'd grown out of because I loved feeling them ride into my crack and rub against my asshole. When I wasn't wearing those, I'd hide in my room or in the backyard so I could rub my asslips with my fingers. Back then, it always felt like there was energy back there that I couldn't put my finger on. It was vibration and warmth and goodness - I could feel it in the deepest parts of my butthole and in my hips. It was the energy that made me want to swing my hips when I walked and made me want to grind my ass against the corner of my nightstand before I even knew why I was doing it. There was an urge that I couldn't contain, long before I knew what being gay was and how my ass would play a part in it. When I realized that I could take it in the ass, I didn't waste time figuring out how to do it. Rubbing my asslips evolved into slipping my middle finger up my ass and twisting it back and forth while I stood on my tippy toes and ground my hips around. Then I discovered my drumstick and an old, light-up baton I had in my toy box. Then I discovered other things I could use, bigger and better things that felt so good to me. I finally got laid for the first time in middle school. And that sealed the deal for me. I realized what that energy was all about and why I wanted to sash my ass when I walked. So yeah, I'm pretty sure I was born a bottom.
  4. A few months ago I bought a fuck machine and it's incredible, but a little bit of a pain in the ass to setup (hehe) - But this morning I ordered a new booty thruster that looks like less of a hassle to use. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a quick dildo buttfuck where I can just drop my pants and take it without having to do all the work. I'm planning to mount this on my nightstand so I can spread my feet and get my ass worked out on my lunch break, then pull them up and go back to work. Or maybe just something to satisfy me when I wake up in the middle of the night and I need some service in my ass to get back to sleep. I also bought this rimming dildo today. I love the ones I have but I'm always in the mood to try something new.
  5. Congrats on losing your virginity and for enjoying it 🙂 I can definitely feel a difference, but for me it's not enough of a difference to refuse sex with a condom. I feel a more intimate connection with a top when he doesn't have a condom on because I think I can feel the heat of his dick inside me. I don't know if that's a mental perception or reality, but its my experience. That added warmth makes the sex even better for me and I feel a lot more passion from and for a man when the sex is really good. Having said that, the ass wants what the ass wants. And my ass wants cock, bare or not.
  6. I used to go a few times a week so I could use the treadmill to jog. Where I am it gets super humid in the summertime and I have a hard time running when the heat and humidity are high. A couple years ago I bought a treadmill for my house and it was one of the best investments I've ever made.
  7. I fit in this box - I'm negative and on PrEP and 100% drug free. I don't even do poppers or drink. Drug addiction runs on both sides of my family and I'm super paranoid about falling into that cycle.
  8. My late father's side of the family is Greek Orthodox and I was baptized that way as a baby. I don't worship, but go to the Greek festival every year because the food is fucking amazing. While I'm there I go to the temple and light the obligatory candle for my dad. Then I stuff my face. My mom's side of the family is all over the place. Most of them don't go to church but believe in God and call themselves Christians. I have one crazy aunt who thinks everyone but her is going to hell because, according to her, everyone in our family is "of Sarah Palin." We don't talk to her anymore.
  9. Outside of sex, my love languages are acts of service and physical affection. I'm a cuddler by nature - to this day, I long for early morning affection on the couch while I clear the cobwebs out of my head. As for acts of service, I enjoy yard work and fixing things. My boyfriend hasn't had to take his car to a mechanic since we started dating. I installed new gutters on his house and am forever raking, mowing and mulching.
  10. You need one with a bigger base if the one you have feels like it's going to slip inside. One of my first toys was a set of three plugs, one small, one medium and one large. They all had flat, almost oval shaped bases that could nestle against the floor of my crevice. I was able to keep whichever one I was wearing in all day if I wanted without worrying about it slipping inside. Depending on where you bought your plug, you might be able to find a metal one with the size you prefer with a bigger base.
  11. How much time will you have with him? I ask because sometimes the best way to work yourself up to taking a monster cock is to take your time with it and enjoy it in other ways while your ass waits its turn. Make sure you use a good sized dildo and plug, and keep the plug in while you suck that big dick and appreciate everything about the guy you're so into. When it's time to ride him, still take it slow. Have him lay on his back and straddle him, then put the head up to your asshole and gently grind your hips around so you both enjoy it. Let your ass open up naturally and accept as much of him as you can until the helmet pushes past your ring. Then grind your ass around some more until you have all of him inside you. YMMV, but that's the best approach from my experience.
  12. If I think back far enough, it's probably the first time I smiled and blushed when I saw a cute boy. But the time I can actually pinpoint was when I was randomly hanging around my mom and her friends when I was maybe 8 or 9, and I overheard one of them talking about taking it in the ass. It was like someone flipped a switch in me. I don't know any other way to explain it. I just knew for sure that I was meant to do that, too. Of course, I didn't act on it for years, but that's when I became obsessed with my ass.
  13. I used to get hit up by "straight" guys all through high school, but it wasn't a lot of them. It was the same 4-5 guys every year, with a few exceptions. The older I got, the fewer the guys because the older ones would graduate and move on. I'm not convinced any of them were straight, and know for a fact that 2 of them were gay since they married other men.
  14. Your tat is hot as fuck! That dick looks really good, too.
  15. A lot of what you say resonates with me, too. I might just be going through a phase where anal has to be part of the hookup, because this is new for me. I used to just love being with a guy and doing anything with him. One time when I was in college, I hooked up with someone in his car and all we did was kiss. No clothes even came off, but just the act of being pinned down and having my tongue dominated by a cute stud was enough to make me sigh with relief when it was time to wrap up. I want to believe that somewhere deep down, I could have that same experience and feel the same way, but I'd be exaggerating if I said it would happen for me right now.
  16. When I first turned 18 I used to drive around William and Mary in Williamsburg, VA and cruise for cock on grindr. I gave sooooo many blowjobs and handjobs, but didn't get fucked that often. But it was a lot of fun. Now I'm too lazy to leave my place while I'm on the app and just insist on getting fucked. At this point, I'd rather ride my dildo and wait for my partner to get home than hookup with someone who won't fuck me.
  17. This is just a theory, but I think there are a lot of guys who dream about getting fucked but are too nervous to go through with it. They're still bottoms because they're sub and they love cock, but they aren't ready to take it in the ass. It's like the "tops" on grindr who ask for ass pics, then immediately ghost when they receive said pics. They probably want to fuck bottoms, but are too nervous to actually do it.
  18. This is kinda where I'm at now. If it's an on the fly hookup, then sure, I'll blow a guy. But I haven't had that happen in a while, and back then I wasn't as stubborn about wanting my ass fucked.
  19. A lot of the profiles in my area have the same - guys that are looking for a cuddle buddy. I'm not emotionally connected to the people I hook up with, and while I don't mind cuddling for a little bit after we fuck, I'm not interested in only cuddling. I've never been to a bathhouse before - what's it like? I see posts about it all the time, but have no idea where to even find one in my area.
  20. When you hookup, do you ever insist on anal? I'm always in the mood to fuck, but in the past I've been just as excited to suck a guy off as I was to be bred. Lately I've been passing on grindr tops who only want their dicks sucked, especially when I'm being hit up by multiple tops at the same time who are down to fuck me. I'm just wondering how many bottoms insist on anal. Or is a load a load, and you'll take it anyway you can get it? Is it a deal breaker if the top won't fuck you?
  21. Have you talked to him about it? I'm partnered, but when I go into deep heat, I like to be passed around. I just tell my boyfriend what I need and he makes it happen. I don't know your relationship dynamic, but it's worth a conversation if it's something you're craving.
  22. It kinda makes me think of this moment ...
  23. Not only do I not want tops touching my penis, but I don't touch it either. Well, except to pee. Also, I've had ED since I was a teenager so erections aren't an issue for me, which encourages most guys to ignore my bits anyway.
  24. It wasn't as painful as I expected. I'd been playing in my hole for about 3 years and was using phallus-like toys (candles, drumsticks, handle to a plastic toilet plunger) so I was more than ready. But most of the discomfort was from me bracing myself for the pain and tensing up. Once I relaxed, everything went from stressful to magical.
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