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I don't know how common it is among other bottoms, but I love eating ass and crave it when I'm horny. I've even hooked up with other bottoms just to be able to eat some ass.
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What do y'all do when horny but can't find cock?
backdoorjimmy replied to Junlee's topic in General Discussion
As someone else replied, it's a buttplug with a rotating neck. I've got a few, but my all time favorite is my BVibe2 - it's a little pricey, but 100% worth it for what it does. YMMV, but to me there's no better way to warm my hole up for a dildo ride or a later in the day hookup than sliding my plug in and watching some porn. Here's what it looks like -
What do y'all do when horny but can't find cock?
backdoorjimmy replied to Junlee's topic in General Discussion
That's what my dildo collection is for. If I feel like warming up, I pop in one of my rimming buttplugs first just to get my hole nice and hungry before I mount whichever dildo I've decided on. -
I'd say no, but there are times when people are justified in not following the moral code of never outing someone I'd definitely say these are about the only times when it's okay to out someone. Or maybe if someone isn't outspoken on the issue, but they're sexually assaulting men. Then it's okay to out them, too. Outside of the above scenarios, when I think about people being outed against their will it feels like a theft of sorts. They're being robbed of their right to remain private and their decision to come out at a time of their choosing, or not at all. I remember reading that Harvey Milk was one of the people who outed Oliver Sipple, the man who saved the President's life in the 1970's. It felt like a gut punch just reading about how he begged to not be outed, only to have it happen anyway because these people decided it was more important to showcase a gay hero than for the man to have the choice to remain closeted. It ruined his life in many ways. His family disowned him and he wasn't even allowed to attend his mother's funeral (that's on the family, but again, his choice to prevent this was taken away). I can't imagine his despair - he died alone in his apartment and was so isolated that they didn't find his body for 10 days.
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Did I pass gonorrhea?
backdoorjimmy replied to Bttml00king's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Agreed - the impetus behind my comment was that OP seemed concerned that this person suspected it might be him. I'd want to clear that up if I were in OP's shoes, even though the onus is always on the person to get tested and treated when necessary. -
Did I pass gonorrhea?
backdoorjimmy replied to Bttml00king's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
When was the last time you were tested? It sounds like he got it from someone else but it doesn't hurt to get tested again just to be sure. If the results come back negative, let him know so he doesn't think it was you. -
Great question. I think it's subjective based on the individual. I've heard people claim that more than two lovers in a year makes someone a slut, which is ridiculous and prudish in my opinion. I've also heard people say they're in a drought because they only got fucked by 4 different guys in a week. To me, it boils down to mindset. If someone considers themselves slutty because they sleep with one guy a week, or a different guy every month, who am I to tell them otherwise? If someone calls themselves chaste because they only take unlimited loads in their ass for 5 hours a day and not a minute more, who am I to tell them they're wrong? Different strokes for different folks.
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What's the weirdest fetish you formed over time?
backdoorjimmy replied to a topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
Same here. I've never been into ABDL but I've been into pissing in underwear my whole life. Also, I love the smell of drying urine in clothes or in my hair. As far as fetishes I've developed over time, it's eating ass. Especially chub ass. I've hooked up with guys just so I can eat their ass, then leave without a receipt. -
How unusual is it for a bottom not to use poppers?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
Can you explain how? I'm curious about the way they make people feel compared to not using them. My partner bought me this stuff called Screaming-O Climax cream that makes my ass feel incredible. I mix it with lube and use it all the time - even if all I'm doing is plugging my ass, I add a little bit of the cream and it feels like there are little bursting sensations against the walls of my rectum all day. When I use it before getting fucked, it's almost indescribable. I'm kinda wondering how if poppers have the same effect or if it's something completely different. -
Yes, anytime I can. I'm partnered so I don't get it everyday but I still find anonymous dicks a couple times a week.
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What would you do if you were an alchemist?
backdoorjimmy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
As someone who appreciates the male form with all of its nuances and flaws, I don't know if I'd want to improve anything appearance wise. I think guys are sexy even at their most vulnerable moment. If he just woke up and has morning breath, bedhead and crust in his eyes, it's still sexy because it's manly. If he's been working all day and smells like armpit stink or crotch stink, I'll be all over him. It's super arousing to me. The different dick sizes, from smaller to XXL are all sexy for what they bring to the table, too. If I had the chance to improve anything or make a man with a physical improvement, I'd probably give him a firm, hairy ass for me to admire and eat. And maybe have him be horny 24/7 so I could have sex on demand. But aside from that, I'd probably focus more on the EQ of a man so I could create a harem of lovers without any of the hangups or baggage that come with relationships or even casual hookups. -
Any other cumdumps slowed down during pandemic and …
backdoorjimmy replied to dadbodcumdump's topic in General Discussion
I spent most of the lockdown with the same three guys and became very attached to all of them. I ended up in a relationship with one of them, and he shared me with his roommates even after lockdown ended. We opened the relationship once things started to ease with restrictions and he started sharing me with his boys. The first time I hooked up with out him, I was a little bit sad. I know it sounds weird, but it reminded me of starting at a new school and feeling lost. It took me a little more time to find my stride but once I did, things felt like they went back to normal. -
Not sure if the original OP will see this, but I have one of these and it's been great - Just use it a couple times with mildly warm water. It won't take you too long to clean out at all. As for how deep, I'd say to listen to your body.
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Confidence is a turnon for me, and if a top tells me he's good in bed, I tend to want to see what he's got to offer. On the other hand, there's a difference between a guy who says he's good in bed, and one who actually is good in bed. So sometimes I want to ask why they think they're good at it. If they have a track record of satisfying bottoms that they can point to, great. If they say something like, "Because I'm packing 10 inches" I'll be curious but skeptical. I've had big dicked tops that completely underwhelmed me with their lack of skill. They thought their dick size automatically made them good at sex, but my completely unsatisfied ass said something else.
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What's the last sex toy you bought?
backdoorjimmy replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Nice - I'm with you on toys that end up being misfits. I have sooooooo many toys that I've used once or twice, then put them away never to use them again. I could probably open an Etsy store and that specializes in used butt toys and make some of my money back 🙂 -
What's the last sex toy you bought?
backdoorjimmy replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Has it arrived yet? I'm curious how it feels. I've got a couple Bad Dragon toys but they're so expensive. I'd love to have a more affordable option. -
I wouldn't soak in bleach, as others have said. It can't be good for the silicon, especially as a regular practice. I wash my plugs and other toys with warm water and Dawn. Then I let them air dry. If they still smell, I just give them another wash. Not too long ago one of my friends slept over and used my favorite plug. When he gave it back washed, it smelled like Tina and I had the worst time getting it out. So I used 91% rubbing alcohol on it and the stink went away.
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I enjoy it, but the degree to which I enjoy it depends on my mood. If I'm extra horned up, I'll happy straddle a dick and aggressively ride it for my own pleasure until the man I'm having sex with cums. But even when I'm not in that kind of a mood, there's something spiritual about having a man's dick inside me while I slowly work my ass on it. Feeling it touch me everywhere inside while I take my time to enjoy its stiffness and try to feel it stir inside me if I churn my hips.
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I know someone like this. A couple years ago he asked me to “teach” him how to bottom because he wanted to be a sub slut. To this day, he’s never had sex and can’t figure out why he always backs out when the opportunity is right in front of him.
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I run into this a lot, too. One guy I was trying to hook up with admitted that he jacked off while we were chatting and was no longer horny 🫤
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Were you born a bottom? Or made one?
backdoorjimmy replied to blackfeeder's topic in General Discussion
I'd say that I was born a bottom. I've been obsessed with my ass since I was about 7 or 8, letting my hips sash from side to side and wearing shorts that I'd grown out of because I loved feeling them ride into my crack and rub against my asshole. When I wasn't wearing those, I'd hide in my room or in the backyard so I could rub my asslips with my fingers. Back then, it always felt like there was energy back there that I couldn't put my finger on. It was vibration and warmth and goodness - I could feel it in the deepest parts of my butthole and in my hips. It was the energy that made me want to swing my hips when I walked and made me want to grind my ass against the corner of my nightstand before I even knew why I was doing it. There was an urge that I couldn't contain, long before I knew what being gay was and how my ass would play a part in it. When I realized that I could take it in the ass, I didn't waste time figuring out how to do it. Rubbing my asslips evolved into slipping my middle finger up my ass and twisting it back and forth while I stood on my tippy toes and ground my hips around. Then I discovered my drumstick and an old, light-up baton I had in my toy box. Then I discovered other things I could use, bigger and better things that felt so good to me. I finally got laid for the first time in middle school. And that sealed the deal for me. I realized what that energy was all about and why I wanted to sash my ass when I walked. So yeah, I'm pretty sure I was born a bottom. -
What's the last sex toy you bought?
backdoorjimmy replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
A few months ago I bought a fuck machine and it's incredible, but a little bit of a pain in the ass to setup (hehe) - But this morning I ordered a new booty thruster that looks like less of a hassle to use. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a quick dildo buttfuck where I can just drop my pants and take it without having to do all the work. I'm planning to mount this on my nightstand so I can spread my feet and get my ass worked out on my lunch break, then pull them up and go back to work. Or maybe just something to satisfy me when I wake up in the middle of the night and I need some service in my ass to get back to sleep. I also bought this rimming dildo today. I love the ones I have but I'm always in the mood to try something new. -
How much better does "Raw" feel to the bottom?
backdoorjimmy replied to Ilovetoswallowcum's topic in General Discussion
Congrats on losing your virginity and for enjoying it 🙂 I can definitely feel a difference, but for me it's not enough of a difference to refuse sex with a condom. I feel a more intimate connection with a top when he doesn't have a condom on because I think I can feel the heat of his dick inside me. I don't know if that's a mental perception or reality, but its my experience. That added warmth makes the sex even better for me and I feel a lot more passion from and for a man when the sex is really good. Having said that, the ass wants what the ass wants. And my ass wants cock, bare or not. -
I used to go a few times a week so I could use the treadmill to jog. Where I am it gets super humid in the summertime and I have a hard time running when the heat and humidity are high. A couple years ago I bought a treadmill for my house and it was one of the best investments I've ever made.
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