rochmixman

For me it is all about that sensation of skin on skin. Few things feel as good as my raw cock sliding into a warm hole. It just feels right. Also admit I get off on my seed being buried inside a man's ass after I cum.

For me I guess it is not really a question. I find sex with men hot because I just prefer men. I love their smell, their taste, the sound of their voices, the fur, the warmth inside their mouths and holes. The smell of freshly spent semen, the sound of their orgasms, the feel of sweaty skin. It is what it is for me, part of my makeup. It is natural. That being said I am sure that straight men can say the same thing about fucking women. It is their nature. It is what makes them hot, and thank goodness there are enough of them to help make more of us .

As far as asking a top to pull out, you can ask but understand that for some of us it is a bit difficult to do it. I for one will tell a bottom if he asks if I will pull out advise him I do not, simply because in my case instinct takes over, and that instinct is to bury the bone deep and unload. Besides, I do psychologically get off on seeing my seed run out. So you can ask, but do not expect that the guy fucking you will actually do it, even if he promises on his grandmother's grave. My suggestion to you is that the first time you go raw to do it with a regular fuckbud that you are comfortable with. You are more likely going to be able to trust his word than that of a complete stranger. Even that is not a total guarantee though. On a side note - pulling out does NOT guarantee that a poz top will not infect you. Micro lesions can occur during fucking on both your colon walls and on his cock.

Think it is different for all of us. I was pretty late in coming out and allowing myself to enjoy my sexuality, and when I first started I was a bottom. In my case it was the sense that I was learning and was not yet confident enough in myself. Then one evening when I was with this daddybear that I had played with multiple times I remember rimming him out and was getting rock hard I asked if I could fuck him and he let me even though he was primarily a top. It was not really planned, but it turned out to be one of the most intense orgasms I had ever had up to that point. It was not planned and there was no pressure to perform. We played a few more times but I think he realized that I wanted the top role more and more often and we ended up drifting apart. In a roundabout way I guess what I am saying is that if you are a bottom who is curious you may not be able to 'plan' your first successful attempt to top. You may find that it will just happen when you least expect it. Above all - do not worry about performance - you'd be surprised what your empathy and experience from being a bottom will teach you about topping.

For me it was a couple of years ago. Started chatting with this guy on bear411, after a while it turned in the usual direction. He said he wanted to suck on a cock and eventually let to giving him the address. About 45 minutes later he was at the house. Not the hottest guy ever, but a cute little cubby guy, about 4'7", 180 or so, red hair thinning a bit on top and pretty blue eyes. The connection was instant, we kissed and he had the softest lips. God I got lost in his taste and smell. Eventually we slipped off to the bedroom and stripped down. Without saying a word he slipped down on his knees and took my dick into his mouth. I thought I was going to come right there but settled down and began a slow fuck of his face. This man knew what he was doing, no choking, no gasping for air, just all the way down to the root and back. After a while I pulled him up and laid him down on the bed. The next thing I knew I was pushing his legs up and eating out his hole. For the first time he started to moan and groan a bit and at that moment I knew where his hot spot was and what I wanted. As I licked out his nearly hairless, fresh hole I began to finger him and his groans became louder. Not being able to take the anticipation any more I rolled him onto his stomach and brought my cock right up to his ass, rubbing and teasing it along his crack. Laying down and whispering in his ear if I could fuck him, he whispered back "yes". At that moment I put some spit on my cock and slid right in. I think his was the softest, silkiest hole I had ever been in. Somehow it fit around me like a glove and managed to grip me firmly and gently at the same time. After a brief pause I began stroking in and out, holding him close into me. Each stroke became a bit harder and faster and each time his ass just seemed to suck me in. After a while I just stopped paying attention to anything but how good the fuck was feeling, the musk of our sex and the mutual sounds of pleasure. Eventually I found I could not hold back longer, plunged down one more time and blew my load deep into him. After a couple of minutes I slid out, went down and licked out the cum I deposited in him. Finally we faced each other and kissed deeply again. my seed going from my mouth to his. We snuggled for a while, just relaxing and cooling off. Breaking the silence he reminded me that he originally came over to swallow a load from me. I was not so sure I could go again but his hot, skilled mouth went down om my cock, still covered with cum and ass juices, and he got me hard again a lot faster than I was expecting. Soon I was grabbing his head and facefucking him and after another 20 minutes of good work from him I shot a second load. All I know is that he became a great bud and a great fuck. All the other times with him have been hot and intense but the first was the best for me just because of how unexpected it was.

I have found almost exactly the same thing. I think I might have had the condom discussion with two or three guys. Usually the response is "sorry no condoms", but by the time I rimmed their asses out they just want to be fucked. Go figure.

Looks like it is doing its job well. I agree with the others - fuck with confidence, read your partner and be in the moment. As far as those that razz you, most of them have their own securities and are simply projecting them on you rather than dealing with their own.

I am surprised that Mack of http://www.macksf.com has yet to be mentioned. Always thought he was hot in a brutal, primal way and probably one of the few guys I would flip for.

For me it is that moment when the head of my cock slides in and I feel the silky, smooth walls squeeze me...at that moment I tune out the world and all that I am thinking about is fucking and getting off. Yeah, totally selfish but getting hard thinking about it right now

well for me I would rather have a bit looser, and for much of the same reasons as tin - it feels better sliding in, allows for a nice long, slow buildup before shooting and generally lets me go a long time. Tight holes can be OK if the bottom is comfortable, but I have had experiences where I was asked to stop because they hurt too much. And yeah I back off but it is frustrating as hell.

For me it is simple - I get off on the feel of my cock sliding in and out of a nice hole, shooting deep inside and then watching my load slowly leak out. That and the fact that sex feels more natural and spontaneous. But mostly it is dropping my load in *eg*

well my suggestions are a bit more pragmatic. 1) if it is the bareback fucking that makes you nervous, make a connection with a thoughtful but dominant top. He will both help you settle down and when it is time, he will load you up properly and most likely find a way of pimping your ass out in a nice, controlled manner . 2) if it is the "don't wanna be found out" thing - take a trip out of town. Maybe find a bb party or go to a bathhouse that you had never been to before. You most likely will not run into anyone you know and frankly, if you do they will not want to say anything anyway. 3) if it is the fear of getting HIV, the only thing I can say is that treatments are out there that do extend life. They are not perfect, but it is not the end of the world and there a lot of other men who would be in the same boat as you. Many of them are the sweetest, kindest, down to earth men you will meet. 4) if it is because you are in a relationship, have an honest discussion with your bf about your desires. Either he will support, or be even turned on, by the thought of turning your ass out and help you in your quest or he will be freaked out and think about leaving. If it is the latter you have to make a decision about what is more important to you - the relationship or the sex life, though truthfully if your pig side is strong the relationship will most likely dissolve at some point anyway, as you will at some point begin to stray behind his back and once the trust is broken it is so hard to repair. Yes, it will hurt but the pain will come regardless, so better to find out sooner than later. hope you do not think any of my advice is out of line and good luck in your quest!

I would also say that for me it is not the size of the nips, but how sensitive they are. They make wonderful toys to play with as I plow a bottom's ass. But then again I get off on watching a fuckhole respond to everything I do to him.