slowfuck
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It seems that way - meds is the new safer sex! (apart from all the other bugs...)
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I think it is firstly, avoiding any of their friends seeing they do it bare and being judgemental, possibly a bit of denial and avoidance of responsibility for giving or taking it bare. Some find they get occasional hate mail when they are honest, especially if you say HIV+ too. It can also be a strategy for risk reduction: if you only fuck raw with other people who are into safe sex only, then it's safer... um, maybe... I lost count of the number of people who have done that with me. It's flawed the same as only having bareback sex with top only guys as the risk of the top being poz is perceived to be less than someone who takes loads as well as gives them. Essentially, all this depends on trusting someone who has no emotional investment in being honest with you but possibly plenty of emotional investment in deceiving you to get what they want. For many this is all part of the thrill - will he stick it in raw or not; will he pull out or not; is he poz or not; will I convert or not. You choose each time and live with the consequences. Life in the raw.
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Listen to young Maikol20. If it's all serious and he wants you as his private bitch boy exclusively, he will see the sense and agree. Sounds like you were asking permission to take the risk anyhow and the only person to give you permission for that is you. Choices and consequences. That's life in a nutshell. Good luck.
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Do you tend to get more attention in certain areas?
slowfuck replied to Bluepsyclone's topic in General Discussion
I tend to get more attention from some sites than others but it changes - some can be fine for a while then nothing, then others get me more responses. You're a good looking sexy guy so if it isn't working on one site, try others for a while. A4A seems like there will be tons of listings so less chance and more competition. Too much choice leads to indecision and no responses. Where there is less competition and choice you're more likely to get noticed, I expect. As to friendliness, I guess in the big city we're all protecting our precious space so we get less friendly and in an odd contradiction, feel more isolated. Enjoy all the attention in Atlanta! -
Better info in breedingzone's profiles
slowfuck replied to POZ-friendlybtm's topic in General Discussion
It would be nice to know a little more about the people posting than many offer sometimes, but then I guess quite a few are here exploring fantasies and would not be ready or willing to expose themselves more than they do already. It will not be sensible or desirable to impose a requirement on those who choose not to as I see it at the moment. -
Wow, that was a hot scenario rawsleazepuppy. There's bonding for you! Would have loved to have seen that too...
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BarebackRT.com profiles: Your Status and My Status
slowfuck replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Yes I see your point. I think it was that my status was to be discussed that i chose 'ask me' rather than 'not sure' but I didn't give it that much thought. I did find poz guys were coming on to me more than did so after testing and saying neg. It does say 'negative' now but I guess thinking on it 'not sure' would be correct since i still bareback. [goes to BBRTS to change profile] -
BarebackRT.com profiles: Your Status and My Status
slowfuck replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I had 'ask me' temporarily as I hadn't tested in a year and didn't know if I was still negative, but changed it to negative following the latest test. I agree that it tends to mean poz to most as I got quite a bit less interest from poz guys after changing it to neg. -
Absolutely, it's the site I come to most, many times a day recently. A vital site for all types of barebackers indeed. Exploring the issues and practices has proved invaluable to me. Thank you rawTOP, the moderators and all the contributors.
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Sometimes it is sweet, other times infuriating I am sure! You're obviously nice and clean, but he's been taught its dirty and he's going to find it difficult to overcome that. Good luck in retraining him! Welcome to breedingzone Robert btw, and welcome fuckhard too!
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If I'm bottoming I like to sit on his cock and ride, then when I dismount to change positions it's time to deep throat it and watch his face as he swaps deep ass for deep throat moistness. Gets him extra horny for the doggy section... I guess I'm just liking driving him wild with the pigginess. When topping I like rimming the bottoms hole when changing positions, like it nice and wide getting the tongue in deep, hear him moan as he looks to check what I am doing. So it seems it is all about driving my sex buddy wild.
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Awww, bless! I can imagine it did cause you to give it some thought. Hopefully she won't be out finding a nice man for you.... I think slutdom is like having loads of lovers, receiving 'love juice' from as many short term partners as satisfies your craving, rather than just 'the one'. Personally, I am quite sorted and happy with my own company, so happy with just a fuck buddy or two and the opportunity to enjoy the company of the occasional hottie who comes my way. If you are similarly happy with your own company then I see no reason to change your tactics.
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Who Do You Think Makes More Money? Bottoms or Tops?
slowfuck replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I doubt there is much of a correlation either. Regards assertiveness, I always remember being told by a sub bottom that the bottom is in charge even if he lets the top think he is! All types can make money if they know how to use their talents wisely. And all types can be happy to muddle along and just fuck their way through life... -
can a top fall in love with another top?
slowfuck replied to bigdick4you's topic in General Discussion
I'd say it is quite normal if you get on so well together. I feel the same with a fuck buddy. I miss him as we get on so well together too, but I just be thankful that I have a great buddy and friend and look forward to the next time we get together. I'd say be happy and thankful that you have a great buddy too and be happy you have someone good to enjoy fucking and breeding your cute bottom boys together. If you start getting jealous it may be a problem but otherwise just have fun. Hope that helps. -
Love how excited you are, like a kid with a new toy, hehe. I can't help smiling too. Hope you enjoy playing with and feeling it deep in you again very soon
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I use Cialis, but prefer Levitra as less of a headache. Have tried Viagra which is quicker acting with me but Levitra keeps me ready for a whole weekend after a couple of hours. The only problem then if finding someone to take advantage of that extended rigidity! I find if I have headache tabs as well or sinus spray to keep the nasal passages open I feel better otherwise I get quite blocked sinus feeling. I also use Viapro which does the same as Viagra for me.
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I can relate to the worry you feel. While it is not unknown for the first time to be the unlucky one, there is a lot of evidence which seems to indicate it is not as easy to catch as the hype would have you believe. I've topped known poz guys and bottomed for a poz guy too, and topped and bottomed for some I don't know the status of and am still neg. From what you say with plenty of lube and the amount of time then while there is statistically a small risk, I will be very surprised if you were not heaving a huge sigh of relieve after your test. I think your chances are good. Good luck fella.
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This very much triggered memories of my first time with an older man myself but with a far greater age difference, getting naked in bed and turning over to present my bubble butt upwards... as I had no experience how I knew what to do at that moment I have no idea but it seemed perfectly natural to me. Your writing is good. Keep it up so we can too!
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I like to slow down as I climax and then slow down as the cum spurts then slowing to an eventual stop gradually.
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This is an hilarious video animation. Enjoy. A random hookup between two gay robots who met online leads to a conversation on sexual activity and risk.
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To TOPS: what age bottoms do you like to fuck?
slowfuck replied to Belfast-Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Guys I like in porn are the smooth, slim, dirty minded piggy twinky-jock type. Guys I like to meet are a more realistic 30s and upwards depending on their personality rather than their age, as they are more likely to know what they want and appreciate the experience of the older guy. It seems that the natural order of things that the wider the age gap the fewer people will find you attractive. Mind you there are plenty of younger sub bois who love a Dom Daddy persona role play so all is not lost! It has always been the same. Look on it as saving you from a disasterous hook-up and move on. There are younger guys who do like an older guy. -
Barebacking - soon to become the norm?
slowfuck replied to Belfast-Bottom's topic in General Discussion
In my experience the majority of the guys saying safe sex only on their hook-up site profiles who I have met were happy to bareback as my profile says neg. People tend to be fixated on condoms for protection against HIV rather than avoiding other STIs such as gonorrhea and the rest I think. According to recent gay press coverage in the UK there are concerns about the spread of barebacking through the community now that it is now a manageable condition - if you are careful to look after your health after conversion. So your assertion that it will be more common could well happen. According to my clinic health adviser this is also leading to the faster spread of resistant forms of gonorrhea and chlamydia (LGV) and other things like Hep C. To my mind, there will always be peope with fear-fatigue who will prefer to take the risk, enjoy the sex and accept the consequences, lots who implement their own risk-reduction strategy including trusting what you write in your profile and what you tell them and be suitably angry about the fall-out from the failures in that strategy, and plenty who are too frightened of the possible consequences to take any risk. I do know plenty of versatile guys, me included, who are truly versatile and love to give and take, preferably in the same session. As such we are at more risk from barebacking but get the best of both worlds. Total tops are apparenty at less risk but a risk reduction strategy of neg bottoms selecting total tops only is only as good as the honesty of the profile writer and it is very easy to lie. Yes, gasp! Shocking but true! That said, I agree that a total top (or someone who say he is) is probably going to get best pickings of the guys who want bare cock up their tight moist boi holes. -
Lovely story, good writing if my stiff cock is anything to go by. Thanks
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