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I invited a younger top guy over to fuck me. Lots of kissing and stroking, sucked him and he rolls on a condom to fuck me. Plenty of lube so that's ok for a while. Fuck in different positions finally it's getting a bit dry so I squeeze him out and say to take a rest. We kiss some more and roll around a bit. I reach down and pull the condom off, then reach up to get the lube and start to squirt some out into my hand and smear it all over his cock. To make it feel better to stroke his cock. Honest! I stroke his cock some and after a while he gets up, lifts my legs and swivels me to where he's kneeling and starts to tease my hole. Looks at me. I act surprised (or maybe I got confused and gave him my best 'pleading' look, dunno!) and he pushes a little in. I start to moan in a good way. He pushes further in. Job done, he fucks me good, I tell him to keep edging. Make it last. He does. Finally he pulls out and squirts all over me. Mmmmm. I let him off.

Damn condoms bursting... tsk, what is there to do, eh?!

A video of the fuck bench surface, while being fucked doggy, is not that interesting, lol.... But seriously, I do like to see the tops face as he's cumming and luxuriating in the cum-filled hole's slick warmth, but it would be better from the bottom's point of view rather than the cutaway close-ups that are the standard setup. So yes, I agree, it would be good to get inventive with viewpoints and incorporate more bottom point-of-view shots.

As to the thread topic, big vs small, I think it's down to individual needs and preference. In terms of thickness, if the hole is tight thinner is better - a smaller cock tends to be stiffer; if the hole is loose extra thick is good! Length is less important to me when I bottom so long as he can get it in and pump.

When I am topping I am 'dominant' and do NOT want the bottom driving or 'controlling' the action. I want to get the bottom into positions where I get the best feelings to build up to blowing my load. The bottom I fucked last night allowed just that. If the bottom 'takes charge' it risks ruining the feeling and the fuck, maybe I just hit the right angle to get the juices flowing and the bottom moves. There are different types when topping as established in other threads. Yes, there are some 'submissive tops' as well as 'dom tops'. As a bottom you should find out which type you have before you present your hole. When I bottom, I am being submissive and prefer a dom top, and go with the flow. I get off on getting the top off. If I think I can't handle it I would let the top know beforehand. In a darkroom situation I would let the top know in the first few seconds though that's not happened yet

It means you're into fisting. More on Wikipedia at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handkerchief_code

... and then pouring all the mixed loads of the cum from the fleshlight into your gaping hole? Hot

This fleshlight clip is my new favourite - the visuals and sound do it for me big time right up to the withdrawal Gotta find myself a real hole now... http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=mMlTW-C561-

Not BB videos but this guy uses a modified fleshlight with a camera inside to capture him fucking and cumming. I watched two so far, and it is so hot imagining that you're watching a top guy unloading in you, or you unloading in a bottom boy. Including the beads of precum before the main cum shot... enjoy! Two reasonably short ones. There are longer ones too. http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=wV0CK-C662 and http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=ylUPq-C259-

It's a club session called "Stark Bollock Naked" where everyone is naked.

I don't see anything untoward that the 'management' would object to. Poor guy is going to wonder why the sudden surge of interest

The baths/saunas in London tend to show condom porn to be seen to be promoting the safer sex message or at least not be accused of encouraging bareback.

I suck and rock my head forward and back a little while pressing my tongue up against the cock to lightly grip to cock - it feels like my tongue makes a channel for it to I try to run in and i like to get his cock head rubbing the back of my tongue but have managed to get control of my gag reflex (try swallowing if you start to gag). I find guys like to hear me gag a bit! But as has been said, slow steady rhythm - maybe changing speed a little and listen to his moans as a guide - and making your mouth as close to a tight warm hole as you can imagine until you taste the hot cum flood your mouth seems to be it in a nutshell Lastly, follow his direction. Maybe he will enjoy coaching you

Hot, you obviously enjoy your work

Back to E15 sauna Sunday afternoon for another hot darkroom session. As I was getting stripped in the changing rooms a short smooth mixed-race younger man arrived, just my dream kind of guy. Exchanged nods in the showers, and followed him up to the video room upstairs. Another older man followed too. Mixed-race guy asks him if he wants to suck his cock. Other older guy goes over, touches mixed-race guys cock and walks off. I roll my eyes at mixed-race guy and go over. Small but perfectly formed dark cock is soon in my mouth and with little effort transforms into a lovely rigid cock reaching to the back of my mouth. He tells me to slow down, he'll cum too soon. I do, he asks me if I want to see his arse. Yes please! Kneels on the bench and I go in to work my tongue on and around his hole. I'm loving it and so is he. I try to probe it but he says no, he's not into being fucked. I say cool, and he asks to stand. I kneel and suck his tasty cock and he asks another guy to rim his hole. He does but not for long. Before too long his cock is swelling and he says he's cumming soon. I continue mastuerbating his cock with the back of my tongue while maintaining the suction and I am rewarded with the taste of his sperm flooding my mouth. Tasty. I continue sucking but ease off slowly, as he comes down from the orgasm and release his spent cock. Thank you he says. My pleasure I respond and pat his arse cheeks as he goes to the showers. I was horned up with this so went in search of more fun. Hovered around the darkroom, a couple going at it near the entrance but nothing going on inside. A man arrives and looks in, then starts to play with my nipples and cock, I gesture into the dark room, he says lets go in the cabin opposite. We do. We kiss deep, a favourite and rare phenomenon in here, and I suck him, he sucks me, standing. Then he lays down and I get down on top and present my cock to his mouth as bidden. He sucks some more and I ask what he wants - he wanted me to cum over him. I stroke as I rub my hole over his bare cock. He doesn't push in. I crouch down over him. Still nothing, but he's crimping my nipples like crazy. I go for it, getting close, stand up over him and squirt big streams of cum over him as he winces. He immediately grabs my towel and wipes it off him. Asking if he wants to cum now, he says no, not yet so we part. I clean up, grab a cup of tea, and regret it as the taste of my first guys' cum gets diluted. I rest a bit and wonder if I should leave now but decide to see if I can get some more loads. I follow the grunts and as my eyes adjust to the tiny amount of light in the drkroom I can just make out someone kneeling on the bench and someone fucking him. I watch. A hand reaches back and the top feels the my arse. I move closer and remove the towel. He starts to finger my hole. Gets some lube on his finger and goes further in while fucking the guy on the bench. My cock is stiff. He feels it, withdraws from his bottom guy, and steers my into his place and I start to pump. Top guy finds my hole and inserts. A daisy-chain. Awkward but I move gently and it kind of works. After while I pull out and allow top guy to continue. As I stand away, someone else feels my arse. I feel his cock. About 10 inches. I kneel on the bench and I feel it invade. He fucks for while, then several times withdraws to finger my arse while stroking and adds more lube and continues, feels great. Finally he withdraws and leaves. My legs ache, I go to the toilets as I feel like I have something waiting in there. I sit and push and hear liquid splash into the water. I grab some tissue and wipe. I look and there is blood. I look at the water, cum. A silent breeder obviously. Sneaky! I go back to the dark room, grabbed again, pushed down and fucked raw once more. Waiting for another load but he pulls out and another guy takes his place. I hear a condom being unwrapped and rolled on. First time I've known it in there. He fucks for a bit but asks to go to a cabin. I follow. I kneel, he fingers my arse and murmers approval, before crouching and fucking me rubbered up. It chafes but I allow it. Before long he is panting, pulls out, I hear the condom snapped off, and he strokes out a hot load all over my freshly fucked hole. Thank you he says in an eastern european accent. I pat his arm and say thanks as I walk to the showers fingering the cum into my arse! With that I left well satisfied.

A flake to me is someone who cancels an arranged meet or fails to turn up. A fake someone who is not who they present themselves as. Both are easy with online. People could also just be fantasizing to satiate their desire when they are unable to meet or maybe they just aren't that into you to find the energy, but "tired" could well be a simple way to explain the boring detail of their inability to meet as well as an attempt to excuse themselves without having to 'reject' you. I think a big part of the problem with online is the lack of the face to face body language cues we get at the bars or baths to judge interest and availability from the object of our desires. In a bath you can look and see who's looking at you - I guess the nearest online equivalent is the track or viewed feature. Online allows pretence, but also because we can't get the measure of a guy as we could in person, I guess in this age of instant internet gratification we have learned we just look at the profiles like an online catalog of guys, make assumptions, and get annoyed when it is not available to us immediately or at all.

Good points Thick and Belfast. The longer between orgasms the easier it comes as it were and I can certainly fuck for hours I thought it was the idea that "if you think you can't [cum] you will be right" as with some good porn I can come reasonably easily and twice in one hour too. Overcoming the inability belief is very difficult when you get dismissed for not being able to cream a hole in five minutes!

Great to read and good to see a clip of clip of the bottom cumming as well. Looking forward to seeing more of your sexy young bottoms getting fucked :2thumbs:

Personally, at 57 I watch a lot of porn and can get hard and cum watching holes being creamed on screen but need to pop a Viagra or wear a cock ring to keep hard when fucking. I also find it difficult to cum easily though I would love to, especially of the bottom is asking me when I am going to cum. I think it's down to age as well as I didn't have the problem when I was young, but then it could be psychological thinking too much about meeting your expectation of a cum load and not just enjoying it. We need more stimulation to get us simmering. I would agree you just enjoy what you get from your favourite daddy and get your cum desire met by others as you suggest. Maybe he'd like to see someone else fucking and loading you - it might take the pressure off and overcome his mental block and he may feed or impregnate you too! Good luck

Just back from the sauna. Very quiet, no one I wanted to top so sucked on a salt-n-pepper hairy man in his 50s, a gorgeous turkish man. Swalled him down all the way, all 7 thick inches, gagging and getting it all sticky wet from my saliva, before I was turned round and fucked, took a nice juicy load up my hole. Hot! Still have it in there four hours later. Only had one other cock up my hole after that, a big guy in the darkroom, crouched down and sucked his cock deep and long, after a while he felt my hole with his foot, like the first guy did, and I took that as the signal to spin round and kneel to take his cock. After while, he pulled out, turned me round and pushed me down to suck his cock some more. Tasty! Switched between sucking and him presenting his arse for rimming which I obediently did - and nearly came from doing but held off. After a while of being rimmed he turned round, pumped furiously with his hand, and slid his hard cock into my mouth as he fired off a nice hot load of cum down my throat. Yum. Sucked two others off - the last one another older bottom guy in the darkroom as there were no tops around. He seemed uneasy at first but in the end relaxed down on the bench and I brought him off with my mouth and tongue work. Few left so stroked off to a porno, five huge sprays of thick cum. Felt good. I think I enjoyed the evening

I found this very fascinating. I can certainly see myself described in there, and it is refreshing to see my reasoning acknowledged rather than demonised. I also see many of the different people we all encounter here too. Of course as he acknowledges even psychologists have to wrestle with their natural desire to intervene and judge, and he successfully avoids that. Everyone here is different so different parts will resonate but understanding potential motivations for others is a particularly valuable thing that helps increase ones own confidence and increases our sense of community. There is a lot in the article, both background and his interpretation and experience. I will pick out some parts that particularly resonated with me. On risk taking, I agree when he says it can be a desire to "connect sexually and socially with other gay men and feel uninhibited and free" as those who have read some of my other posts will recall. On rationality he says "for certain individuals, under certain circumstances, risky sexual behaviour may indeed be rational, in the sense that the perceived physical, emotional, and psychological benefits of sex outweigh the threat of acquiring HIV". That's certainly how I see it. On sensation(-seeking), yes it feels much better skin-on-skin but also I identified with the part that "men who know and accept the risks and are willing to factor them into the equation as one important cost to an otherwise important, pleasurable and valued behavior pattern". I suspect most will be working on their own cost/benefit equations. To each his own, each equally valid to the individual even if massed society doesn't agree. In the section examining semen exchange (my word play), describing semen as "a gift [of love] and symbolic joining of two souls" was poetic yet rang true as a deeply erotic and connecting event we chase whatever it is we are seeking. Fascinating, and I think true, that he says: all the media attention has normalised the barebacking term and led to community discussion leading to the perception that it is widespread and therefore encouraging pressure to conform. Never ban anything. It makes it more attractive. The description of the underlying question we have to grapple with as being "what risk-taking we consider acceptable, healthy and even laudable, and what risk-taking do we consider unhealthy and unacceptable" is an interesting one. I assume he was referring to the psychology and healthcare profession, but it's possibly a good question for ourselves. When anyone says "what we consider acceptable" it always frightens me as in who are the "we" who are imposing views on "them" [us]. It depends on viewpoint and vested interest as ever and will always be so I guess. As to the meanings of barebacking section - I am sure we can all find an element of our own reasons there but I was interested in the idea of it being seen as "a repudiation of the felt prohibition by the greater society". There's an element of that with me I think. I have often thought that some behaviours are anchored in the internalised homophobia we absorb as youngsters but was fascinated if not a little alarmed by the Crossley quote in the paper regarding the power of barebacking as a transgressive act - "It is exhilarating, it is the forbidden thing, it is like a drug, it is what you are not supposed to do, it is getting away with murder". In the 'risk-taking and the unconscious' section, I liked the ending quote "... we may lose perspective on how decisions of risk-taking are made. Risk of HIV infection is serious. But the risk of loss of pleasure and intimacy is also serious". Another resonance with me there. The conclusion paragraph is promising. Michael Shernoff's call to separate the known facts from the moral judgements is refreshing as is him using quotes around the term "right" - since right is itself subjective opinion. It is worth a good read if you have the time and interest. If only everyone shared that level of understanding and good sense. Thank you for sharing it.

No, but I will read the lengthy report over the next day or so. Looks very sensible and non-judgemental.

Thank you, that was hot! Sounds like you both really enjoyed making it too ;-)