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Hmmm. Climacturia affects ~25% of men and weak pelvic floor muscles is one of the possible causes.

Can you elaborate, please? I've had my sigmoid flexure opened several times and it doesn't exactly match what's described.

TL;DR: Finding sex is a numbers game, and most poor suckers are starving themselves of candidates. In-person cruising means you look at and consider *all* the men you can see. In-app cruising means you only consider the small number of men that get through your chosen filters. Where in-app cruising goes wrong is in the users head, not so much the app. In person, you can be surprised and affected by serendipity. With in-app cruising, you have to rely on what you think/guess will make you happy. It doesn't leave room for the unexpected, or for what *actually* works for you versus what you think might work for you. The "no profile" people avoid getting filtered out by not having anything in commonly filtered fields. They can't be eliminated if they don't populate the field. For me, I only filter for men who top and sometimes for those who like daddies and guys next door (as I'm most often described). Any adult man, any ethnicity, any build, etc. I know it's a numbers game and I want to keep the pipe full of options on my end.

One time a guy was asking me very detailed questions about my body musculature and specifically my abs. I'd sent him pics and he'd agree to hookup. I was younger and 165 lbs so in pretty decent shape, just not his ideal target of a dehydrated fitness model. This not very good looking, not very fit, not very hung guy was not even in the same country, let alone zip code, as the requirements he wanted of me. It was obsessive, unhealthy, and unfair. I told him we weren't hooking up and said his obsession with crazy body standards he didn't even meet himself was why. Fuck that guy, he was a walking body dysmorphia contagion.

A random guy's arbitrary standards are hardly useful inputs to your worth as a dick-taking, seed-absorbing cumdump. I hope you soon realized his erotic fixations aren't your problem.

His contact details? Asking for a friend...

I have many questions...

True, though men that precum a great deal have been known to get the satisfying feeling of deep surrender with just their juices. But for any long-haul deep fucking a small amount of quality lube is still the gold standard.

I get what you're saying, but I think there are some things to consider: Every bottom has a different microbiome with a different level of natural slipperiness. If a bottom is tight, lube is helpful to allow penetration. If a bottom is taking a lot of dick that day, some lube is helpful/required to minimize irritation and maximize dicks taken over time. If a bottom has taken many loads and lots of fucking, the cum can get into a state where it isn't making penetration easier. Tops that produce large quantities of precum can avoid the need for lubricants, but in my experience this is relatively rare. Cleaning out removes a lot of the natural slipperiness so using a little good water based lube that restores it but isn't that slippery for that long helps a lot. Then it only takes a little silicone lube on the hole to clear the way. This isn't needed if the breeder is a precummer like a couple of my regulars are. I carry my water-based prep lube and silicone lube just in case.

AFAIK, this term predates the 2010s by at least 20 years. I remember it being in broad use in Sydney in the late 1980s and early 1990s. It was used to describe a bottom who was pretty easy.

Having a man pump a lot of cum inside me is one of the best feelings in the world. What's not to enjoy?

Really dominant Brazilian guy who had me on my knees sucking his dick while he held my nose pinched shut and fucked my mouth. He was talking in really intense Portuguese as he used me. Then stood me up, pulled down my jeans and briefs in one fast movement and shoved his fat dick in me while he covered my mouth with one hand. He manhandled and pounded me while he kept speaking in filthy Portuguese as he turned me out on his fat dick. It was hot as fuck.

There's no way to know how big a man's load is until he cums, so I always try my hardest to turn him on and ramp up his need to breed. A man who's been turned on hard and desperately needs release is one who's going to produce a bigger load. Learning what might drive them over the edge hard is worthwhile too. Some men have a buried impregnation or other kink that can overwhelm then into cumming hard and fast.

I agree 100%, though a big muscular ass and thick thighs and legs on a breeder are a strong attractor to me. After all, they power the fuck more than the arms and chest.

Morgan Spector, known as Train Daddy from The Gilded Age, is on my list.

All *sex* should be that way.

Put me down as on Team "Not your problem/fault". He was having a lot of skin contact on your hole and bolted when you reached to have skin contact with his dick. That seems to violate the simple rules of good manners.

I'm pretty sure my first was "Patches", an historic and long-gone gay bar in Sydney, NSW, Australia. I was working in the young men's fashion department of a downtown department store and I was only just 18 (the legal drinking age) so it was 1981 and I was very much not clear I was gay and definitely not out. The manager of the department took all the staff out for drinks and I had no idea where we were going was a gay bar. I remember getting a bit drunk and feeling totally out of my depth. One of the guys I worked with was Greek, gay, and a very macho queer guy and he loved torturing me in my unsullied youth and innocence. I remember when he became one of the many handsome men who suddenly was gone. I wonder what he'd make of me taking dick and loads so enthusiastically today.

That's so sad and unnecessary. When I see someone I've helped cum I smile warmly but without giving too much away to any onlookers. People can be weird about their friends or acquaintances knowing who they've fucked.

I'm always looking to fuck. The Blowers is too much oral only energy for me. Gotta get that main event fucking and breeding thing happening. For those reasons, its Sniffies for me.

Well, that didn't take long. Connor Storrie and Hudson Williams were just announced as presenters for the 2026 Golden Globes this coming Sunday. It seems that Storrie is also announcing the Actors Awards Nominations today (Jan 7th, 2026) (Source: The Hollywood Reporter). Interestingly, they are the only presenters announced so far. I smell an attempt to get a bigger viewing audience and capitalize on Heated Rivalry's intense buzz. Hudson Williams will be on The Tonight Show this evening (Jan 7th, 2026) and Connor Storrie will be on Late Night with Seth Myers right after the Golden Globes on January 11th.

In any fuck, I'm a participant, not a prop. I'm a total bottom who loves to please and connect with a breeders vibe. I'm instinctively reading his body, thrusts, and movements to try and anticipate and give him what he needs. It's like dancing (the Baptists got that right at least) and everyone needs to be paying attention so you can flow from one moment to another. Someone leads and someone follows or you swap places multiple times during the fuck. You can tell if a breeder needs you to hold your ass still for them to pound you out, or if they're inviting you to slut out into a deep arch, or thrust your ass back onto their dick like you need to own every inch. You can feel how their movement changes when they feel you react to that thing they did and moan like a wild animal. It's about being present, paying close attention, and listening to your instincts. I'm not sure what a breeder is looking for in a bathhouse ass-up situation, but when I've been ass-up in my room I'm working on feeling the energy in the music in my body. It means I move a little, not much, but hopefully enough for breeders walking past to see I'm reacting to what's happening and might be a fun hole for them to spend some time in. There's lots of things a bottom can do to make doggie more interesting and fun and many of them come from reading the energy of the fuck. Sometimes when a guy is absolutely wailing on my ass with my shoulders on the bed, I feel he's clearly challenging me to match him. That's when I grab the sheets and push away to make firm handholds and walk my hands back to flex my body up onto all four limbs and back even harder onto his dick and hips. It gives me more ability to throw back into him, and lots of those guys seem to find another gear when they realize you're a lot stronger than they thought. Some of the best fucks I've had have been dominant guys who really love how submissive I am, but who get startled and then really turned on when they hit my button and see how I get much more primal. In doggie, there are moments to just take it like a helpless hole and moments to up the ante. Paying attention is how you don't miss them.

Provided you bred her I'm sure it's fine.

Don't be *too* sad about that. All the production's money coming from only Canadian sources meant there was no negative creative interference with the adaptation of Rachel Reid's book. Jacob Tierney, the show runner, writer, and director, didn't want that. If there had been US money in the production it would almost certainly have made the series less than it is. Remember, Boots was a huge streaming hit on Netflix, based on a memoir called The Pink Marine. It got cancelled and didn't get a second season because of a media company merger that the companies thought would be threatened if they renewed it. I don't want to engage in a political discussion at all. I'm just saying that in these fraught times it's not a bad thing that Heated Rivalry wasn't distorted by US money or creative influence. FWIW, the budget for HR was minuscule. In an interview I heard Tierney say a number so low I won't repeat it as it can't be true. Best estimates I saw were CAD $10-12 million in total which I find difficult to believe given the quality of the results. Tierney has said he thinks the budget for Season 2 when they adapt The Long Game will be about the same. The program was produced by Jacob Tierney and his producing partner's company for Crave and initially picked up by HBO in Australia (I love my people). The HBO exec for AU suggested to his US counterpart that they look into Heated Rivalry and a rights deal was inked very shortly afterwards for the US. Yes, it totally sucks that the HR team aren't eligible for the Emmy Awards. When I balance an almost certainly lesser adaptation in terms of authentic queer representation versus what we ended up seeing, I'm at peace with it. I would expect HR stars to be showing up at US Awards season events perhaps as presenters this year.

The power of hockey smut, and specifically Heated Rivalry, strikes again.