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In my experience, guys wearing chastity gear isn't something most men are into. The guys that are into it, are *really* into it, but they tend to be rare. I think the question of welcome for guys in chastity is as up in the air as any total bottom's based on this thread. Perhaps more so.
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That sounds like an answer to my question, but isn't. It's an observation that the men I described are present. It doesn't answer whether they are welcome. Are men like me whose dicks don't get hard welcome at orgies? That's not the vibe I'm getting right now. I mentioned playing with other bottoms because I'm not transactional and don't confine my play to men who have something I might want. I don't feel entitled to anyone's dick which is why I just said those dicks "presented to me" and "interested" men.
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I'm curious... At these hypothetical orgies, if I suck every cock presented to me, enthusiastically take every dick, lick every ass, and make out with every interested guy at an orgy, including other bottoms, but my dick doesn't get hard, am I still welcome?
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You'll note I said I pushed him off or went soft, I didn't say anything out loud for just that reason. I'd already said no non-verbally twice to this guy, but don't think for a moment that douchebags like him don't *rely* on that "preserving the vibe" pressure to silence guys like me and get away without consequences. This kind of thing has happened to me before and I've been told I'm the problem for not letting a rapey little goblin do whatever they like to me. It sounded not at all dissimilar to what you said above. I didn't realize it was implicit in an orgy that anyone can do anything to anyone else that they like, even if they say no several times. The meta problem here isn't orgy etiquette, it's that gay men collectively suck at understanding and honoring consent.
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Guys, your feelings about your dick are immaterial to bottoms. We love a man who needs hole. Apologies to the news industry, but when it coms to men's dick, if it breeds, it leads.
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There's a lot more of us who love all men's dicks and love getting fucked by them than you think. Dick size is a dumb filtering criteria. Some of the best fucks I've ever had were guys with average sized dicks but who had incredible fuck energy.
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As in quantum physics, the act of observing (and recording) sex changes what the experience is for the participants. In psychology, this is called the Hawthorne Effect. I abhor the performative in power dynamics and sex. So much so that I wonder if authenticity in sexual experience might be one of my kinks. I think filming for personal viewing versus as content to share via social media or only fans type platforms makes a big difference as well.
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Share your Twitter handle to connect with other barebackers
blackrobe replied to silverlining's topic in General Discussion
Connecting with other bare backers is great. I just hate what X/twitter is now so I don't ever go there. Bluesky is a better environment for me. -
You'd have ethically been within your rights to slap the phone out of his hand. Perhaps not legally though.
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I have a thing for guys with great asses. I don't want to fuck their ass, I want them to fuck mine and grab that hot ass as they pound into me. Full marks for giving your man the gift of ass. His strong ass, his strong thighs, makes me spread mine wide. 🥵
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Miscellaneous sites - individual video links here
blackrobe replied to ottawawhtverbttm's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Not being able to cast to another device is usually a protected content streaming format issue. What site is the problem? -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
blackrobe replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Happy birthday! -
For those considering an early read on substack, the posts comprising this story are all tagged as PAID, requiring a subscription to read them in their entirety.
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You're killing me, son.
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I'm so weary of the fiction that *all* men can *decide* to be versatile. It smacks of "can't you just decide to be straight" to me. There's a big difference between a guy who prefers to bottom vs. a guy who is wired as a bottom. The guy who prefers to bottom, but can top too, has other options and that's awesome (but he still gets to choose). That isn't me. I'm wired as a bottom so my dick isn't the center of my sexuality and penetrating someone doesn't turn me on very often. Trying to penetrate when I'm not into it... Does. Not. Work. The number of times I've been into penetrating someone in the last 30 years can be counted on one hand. The narratives that bottoms are "selfish" and "withholding their dicks" are fallacious and reek of ignorance and unhealthy entitlement. Those narratives ignore or seek to invalidate the bottom's autonomy over their body. What *really* bugs me are the guys that ignore me saying "I don't top", back up on my dick when I can't move away, then get pissed at me when my boner evaporates or I push them off. Firstly, not my choice, not my fault. Second, "forced to penetrate" is a category of rape. I get it, I have a nice dick and plenty of guys want to suck it and have it up their ass. I'd have a lot more sex if I topped, believe me, but I'm just not wired that way. If I could just *decide* to top and it would happen, I would have fucked a lot more ass over the years. I participate fully and play well in groups according to my nature. Asking me to do something I either can't do or don't enjoy because it you expect or want it is not cool with me.
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The great thing about FWBs is having the space to grow and explore like this, and a treat when a man tries new things.
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<Fx: The sound of hundreds of mature bottoms checking flights though BUR and LAX>
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Yup, whenever I see men with hard age limits I chuckle at how soon they will be unfuckable by their own standards. Honestly, I've had as much fun with a 19 year old as I did with a 74 year old. To answer your question, 35 years age gap with the guy who drugged and raped me at 12, 40 year age gap with the college age young man who fucked and bred me in the back seat of a car in a parking structure on his way to classes. Post-nut clarity = Improved learning.
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...or both abuse *and* religion.
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I have to challenge you here. A high sex drive isn't the same as a bad sex drive. In fact, top men with high sex drives are highly desirable. They are the definition of a great sex drive for me to connect with.
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It sounds like it might be some internalized homophobia that's showing up. Just remember that no one else's opinion on sex matters except the people who do it. You know everyone in the room is better off than before you fucked. That's the truth on the ground.
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Never Douche Again? Is this the future of anal prep?
blackrobe replied to BruxoCub's topic in General Discussion
I don't think this product is for me, but that doesn't stop me recognizing that it's real or entertaining the possibility that A-Ball style products could become a viable option for some once they finish development. -
There's a very hung slender black guy who I have seen at Steamworks in Seattle who always wears a one hole ski mask. The last time I saw him, he came by while a regular was fucking me in a public space. He put his dick near my mouth as I was getting pounded and I sucked him with that getting pounded enthusiasm. After when I was wandering around, I spotted him in the warm room with two guys climbing over each other to suck his ~9" dick. I sat down and watched for a minute then he encouraged me to touch and suck him too. After a few minutes, he stood me up, bent me over and played with my hole while he put on a magnum condom (it was a while ago) and then slid inside me moaning. He was ready to cum and I was guessing he had decided on me when he saw how I was taking dick earlier. He deep-dicked me getting very verbal and loving my moaning until he finally nutted. When he ditched the condom, I grabbed it and put his load in my hole. Not the same as breeding, but better than the alternative. He withholds his face and his seed when fucking, but he's fine to have loads sucked out of him. When I see him I wonder why he wears the mask.
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"Is Trump building concentration camps"
blackrobe replied to tallslenderguy's topic in LGBT Politics
I'm well aware, but posting isn't reading the content (not even of the post whose subject line I was discussing). I'm already having a separate conversation with a moderator to see if there's a way I can turn off notifications from this specific forum. -
Those boundaries aren't just philosophical. Plenty of people are either sober, or have medical reasons why they can't be exposed to chems. Meth users have residue of the drug in their bodies and fluids for two or more days after they last used. I'm not a fan of the bait-and-switch tactics I've had used on me.
