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Horny, pent-up cheaters like this that stretch and fill you are brilliant. I'd do your best to be his HOFR and HOLR (Hole of First Resort and Hole of Last Resort).

Somebody, please give that boy a sandwich with lots of protein.

I gravitate towards men like you who need ass to fuck, chase their nut, breed, and be fully satisfied.

Hell yeah. 23 yo black man close by desperately needed to get sucked fast and bust a nut. Checked in to see if I needed to prep my hole (which takes time) but he definitely just wanted head and only head. I always want dick and seed in my hole. Always. But I'm a sub bottom pleaser so if I can give a man what he needs and pleases him, I will. I get there, strip and start working his nipples and sucking his cock and eventually we are in 69 position and he's suddenly rubbing his fingers around my hole, dipping into it, eating it and telling me over and over that he wants to fuck and breed me. I tell him I'm not good to go and he says next time he'll fuck me. Sigh. This is the reason I try to be prepared regardless of what's on the table.

While your desire to do well by your brother bottoms is laudable, it's not necessary for a lot of bottoms for whom being bred is central to their nature. There's a thread on BZ about whether bottoms get fucked for the fucking or for the load, and I recommend you read that thread focusing on the guys who crave seed in their ass above all.

It's pretty common for plaintiff's sexual histories to be explored in civil legal cases around sexual harassment and sexual consent in the US because of a broad civil exemption to Rape Shield Laws: The law is more malleable than we might hope.

We gotta fuck. My hole after-spasms too.

Damn. There is nothing here that isn't hot. I'd be open to them all.

Setting aside this specific context, I'm confused by the above. Priests and other religious leaders have zero *right* to question anyone about their sexual behavior. In fact, the only place where there *is* any expectation of disclosing your sexual behavior is questioning under oath in a court of law, or some other form of affidavit.

This. It's the reason why when I prep I assume the breeder is over 9", thick enough to test me, and horny enough to make a guy in his 20's find his endurance limit. A guy pushing big, hard pipe and hitting past the inner gate can stimulate your system to move faster. Technique can sometimes do it too, regardless of size. For this reason I prepare carefully and deeply for every fuck. Final step is using an 11" long lubed silicone pipe to confirm I'm ready deep down and the inner gate is primed to surrender and then be stretched. It gives an additional margin of safety with the more heroically hung and/or powerfully driven breeders.

To be clear, the Hydrogen Peroxide in drug stores is a 3% solution. It still gets diluted from that mixture for some applications.

If a man's finished, he leaves. Besides, the bulk of human communication is non-verbal. When a top breeder swell, throbs, and seeds his bottom, that's clear communication. What else needs to be said?

If they didn't tell you what the current generation's word was, it was 100% trolling.

Dick and cock get used pretty interchangeably where I'm from. Dick probably more there, versus cock more here in the US. Cum, jizz, and splooge are common words for sperm where I'm from, in the US I use cum, seed, and nut pretty interchangeably. I tend to use the terms that men use themselves most of the time. I've heard "Take that nut" and "I'm gonna nut" a lot.

Cock was definitely being used to mean the breeding organ of men since at least the 1610s, although there's scholarship to support it being as early as the 1450s, and right through up until the present day. So with the tenure of the word established, I think it makes the idea that it's a "geezer word" (Whatever that means) look pretty silly.

If I happen to watch porn (I don't much), seeing a guy pull out of a mouth or ass to cum (even for one squirt) is an instant turnoff and I stop the video and move on. It's not authentic for a man to pull out when millennia of evolution built an instinct to cum deep inside, whether he's a feeder or a breeder. I'm not your target audience though, as seeing a man feeding and not breeding hole always feels like a lost opportunity to me.

Good man. We cumdumps exist for men like you who need to breed often. Especially men who need to fertilize multiple men and spread their DNA far and wide. Our holes are like flowers upturned to the sun and waiting for the parade of bees to stop by and pollenate us over and over and over.

We are already there. As an older guy, I'm the target of so many fake profiles and scams that I could spend my entire app time reporting them. Grindr, it it's infinite greed, has decided that interrupting me with an ad when I'm reporting a profile is a great idea. I close the app immediately and my report gets thrown away. I block the profile and don't invest any more time reporting. Net result being their platform stays polluted with scam and fake profiles. They are constantly trying to get me to subscribe, but the platform and experience is so compromised that is *never* going to happen.

There are so many good reasons not to host. This grown man has an agreement with his husband that neither of us hosting is the big rule of our open relationship. Lots of friends and acquaintances have stories about thefts while hosting. Preventing drugs coming into a sober household is another good one. Sure, I'd get much more dick and seed if I could host, but becoming a trusted bottom to a group of regulars who do host is no booby prize.

I'm sure guys might appreciate a bottom pinch-hitting, but that's not at all what the OP meant. There is no equivalence between your "volunteer" scenario and the OP's scenario. Assigned roles? I'm wired the way I'm wired. I don't experience being a bottom as a choice. When someone tells me I'm selfish or tries to shame or manipulate me because I won't "be more versatile" it baffles and irritates the fuck out of me. No one is entitled to someone else's dick.

I get the seduction on its own, although it's still "Baby-it's-cold-outside" ethically dubious, but outright deception and manipulation just isn't hot.

Your overall point is well taken. We are in the realm of evolutionary biology here, so it's not about feelings or a mind-set. I used the word instincts above deliberately as it's the closest I could come to asking about what impulse we might get from our most basic "reptile brain" where our deeply instinctive drives come from. It's no surprise that we are mostly not aware of them at all except when they drive risky behavior that we look back on and wonder why we did that. Fucking is the powerful drive - passing on our DNA is just something that happens when we do. I was wondering whether there was an instinct about evacuating previous breeders seed or whether our basic instinct to fuck hard and deep plus the natural selection of males with a more pronounced coronal ridge (better removing competing seed) resulted in their sperm being more competitive and successful. Less effective penis morphologies just didn't get passed on as much as the most effective ones with a larger coronal ridge.

A few things come to mind. Firstly, I hope you are getting some self care and talking to a professional about what is provoking your feelings and reactions to other men's experiences here. I'm not clear on what you mean by "sexualizing" the experience since it's already sex. The much older partners sexually assaulted these boys under the law in most jurisdictions. I'm guessing you mean either reliving and re-enacting the experience with similar male archetypes, or making an adaptation to their experience that allows them to cope and process what they experienced and how it has affected them. The former is concerning since it's an on-going cycle of retraumatization. The latter is where the survivor finds a way to integrate what happened to them into their lives in a way that is positive for them. That's how I'd characterize my experience after having been drugged and raped by a mid to late 40s man when I was a 12 year old. Being sexually, physically, or emotionally abused makes you many times more likely than the general population to have poor physical and mental health outcomes throughout your life. This kind of abuse is a problem for all of humanity, not just a gay community problem. I was raped by a straight identifying member of a religious order. Sadly, young gay and queer boys can be easy for predatory men to spot and take advantage of. Some of these young boys grow to become part of the gay community so that's where the aftermath of poor outcomes lands. I know many straight men who've had the same experience but who suffer in silence. Yes, it's a common tactic for abusers who are confronted with their abuse to attack the credibility of the survivor based on the terrible impact the abuse has had on them (addiction, homelessness, mental health challenges, etc.). All institutions where abuse happens end up in this pattern of attacking and discrediting them. There are lots of factors that give drinking and drug use the place it has in the gay community, the abuse we experience as children is just one of many.

I keep an eye on research topics of interest and I found one that is pretty fascinating. It discusses the penis as a semen displacement device, how penis length, shape, and ejaculation pressure may play a part in competition to impregnate females. After reading it, I started to wonder about the instincts of top breeders when fucking a recently bred bottom. I've noticed when I have multiple loads in my ass, and especially when men have watched other men fuck them inside me, subsequent men seem to fuck vigorously and I always end up with a pool of mixed seed on the sheets and floor under where they mounted and fucked me. I wonder if they are responding to an instinct to evacuate my hole of previous seed before they plant their own. So, top breeders, what are your instincts when you're fucking a recently bred hole? Does your fuck pull all the previous seed out before yours is bred inside? Do you just enjoy the cummy hole or is there some evolutionary sperm competition creeping in? Also, how do you think the size and shape of your dick and the coronal ridge contribute to whether the seed stays in or gets fucked out?

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