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  1. Recycling some bits below: Originally coined by Dr Joe Kort, as discussed in this post, "side" was intended as a name for those that do everything but anal sex. The term "side" has been shifted from its pure and intended meaning as discussed here. It's perfectly valid for men to decide they don't do anal, just as it's perfectly valid for those for whom anal is the main event to avoid guys who identify as "sides". Fucking and getting bred is my main thing, so hooking up with side guys just doesn't get me what I need. That said, blaming, shaming, or pathologizing people who aren't into what you want to do isn't cool. It can be frustrating that guys aren't available to fuck, I know, but it's their right to decide what they do and don't do. Just as it's everyone else's right to not engage with them.
  2. Ah. Not so much a stiletto as a tall boy sized can! That's more like what I recall from Serbs and Slavs.
  3. 11" long x 4" circumference? That's a stiletto dick.
  4. Near the Central District in Seattle.
  5. I don't think the size of the cock signifies as much as other factors. There is a sweet young Afro-Mexican man who is definitely sexually dominant and likes things hard and his way. He's primarily attracted to older bottom daddies. We fucked a bunch of times in various venues, and I knew he was bigger than my most frequent 9.5" breeder, as I really felt him when he pounded me deep, but I discovered that he's 11" and he's always staggeringly hard so it feels even bigger in your ass. It's not his dick that makes him incredibly attractive, it's who he is and how he fucks. For me, that makes him special and I'd be all over him if his dick was a fraction of the size. Don't get me wrong, I love him as he is and feeling him filling me up completely is transporting, but it's the whole man that I'm really into, not just his dick.
  6. No, it's simply legally accurate. There is a lot of grey around sexual exploration for preteen and teen minors. There's a lot of power imbalance, differing cognitive development and abilities, etc. with minors exploring sexuality and it's impossible to make rules that both protect those who need it, and give freedom to explore to those who want it. Hence age of consent laws that try to strike the balance between those competing factors as best they can. It's great that you knew what you wanted sexually at 10, 11, and 12, but those laws protect the kids who *don't*.
  7. You did have to be there, it seems, then. Glad it worked for you so well and here's hoping for a longer session where he can't help but nut in you.
  8. It sounds hot but, honestly, outside an agreed scene his not breeding you feels very withholding to me. Maybe you had to be there.
  9. There are so many awful recollections of first times, so giving a very self-possessed young man the first time he wants is pretty damned special.
  10. For me, porn can be really distracting in a 1:1 fuck. It pulls me out of the moment and is pretty jarring. I've had guys spend more time queueing up the porn they want than on the play with me. I get that guys like it and I love that for them. I think porn is pretty inauthentic and I'm just not into that when I get fucked.
  11. I recommend AO3 above the other story locations mentioned here. It's easier to find good erotic writing that fits your mood here, and for me the general quality of writing on the other sites just aren't that good. I've tried looking on Nifty so many times but the quality of the writing always has me giving up. I find mcstories.com much more interesting (The Erotic Mind Control Story Archive), and there are occasional gems there to be found.
  12. Yup, when I'm well or intensely fucked my hole spasms around the breeders dick. Really intense assgasms bring my whole body along for the ride. I feel a kind of build up of energy in my hole from their fuck, it reaches a point where it's hard for me to take, but I do. It reaches different levels depending on the breeder, but the most intense has me running my fingers over my scalp hard so I can stay present. When I start to gasm on their dick some men ride through it to see how crazy they can make me feel. When it gets so intense I need to growl, the majority of breeders go hard and breed me as I spasm around their dick. Those assgasms are incredibly intense for me and they connect me to the breeder, his dick, and his seed. I don't need my dick to ejaculate, just stay horny for more dick, assgasms, and fresh nut.
  13. Nothing surprising about any of this. Talk to someone transitioning FTM who's just started testosterone shots. I'm guessing you'll adjust somewhat to the new dosing regimen, but there's an opportunity to use your twice weekly testosterone injections to connect with your need to rut. In your place I'd make the most of it.
  14. The simplicity of this is appealing and emotionally satisfying, but I think it leads to an outcome that we don't want. (I'm going to set aside the implication here that, while bottoming means you're not straight, topping means you still are.) A lot of the resistance nominally straight men have to same-sex play is about losing straight identity, privilege, and becoming something "other". If they can fuck around with men and still be straight, they are much more likely to. But if we insist that fucking another man means he isn't straight any more, I think horny, nominally straight guys will resist crossing that line much more strongly. That isn't what horny man-fucking men want, surely. We want the pool of men fucking our asses and being fucked by our dicks to be as large and enthusiastic as possible. If giving men ownership of how they identify is the way to achieve that, and it is their right anyway, then I'm all-in on letting them identify as a *cantaloupe* provided it means they are comfortable pumping their seed deep in my ass. Can I get an Amen up in here?
  15. The either/or framing doesn't make sense to me. Lots of cheating sex is also public sex. If I had to choose, I like how cheating makes the breeder feel. Alive, pent up, desperately horny, aggressive, etc. I'm here to catch and give back that eager fuck energy.
  16. Long-haul fuckers and multi-cummers are ideal. I've been surprised at the One-and-done bottom culture that breeders have to deal with. When they cum once the bottom is done, when the bottom cums he's done, etc. It's at the point where when they cum the first time and start to pull out they seem surprised I want them to keep going. In a 1 on 1 situation, I want them inside me and working towards another orgasm no matter how many they've already had in me. Long-haul fuckers and breeders seem to come in roughly 3 hour and 5+ hour flavors for me. A 1.5 hour fuck is what I want my shortest connected fuck to be, but I acknowledge in the "fast food fucking" economy of hookup apps, 1.5 hours is a long time.
  17. That's a power move, right there.
  18. Put a clip on bluesy.social and more guys here might watch it.
  19. Whitman had it cold, we "contain multitudes". I vibe with Dom and regular top guys, sub-ish top guys, versatile bottoms, there's no rule. I seem to have a habit of making younger bottom guys want to fuck me, so there is that. I've found a few brother bottoms who get that fucking isn't a zero sum game where we are all competing for a single load. A couple of piggy guys taking dick side by side can get more than a single load each because of the pig-fucking magnetism that switches onlookers on and draws them to mount and rut in ass. But to your point, I'm not wired for just the kind of side play that two dedicated bottoms would have to stick to. If no one is getting fucked and seeded, it doesn't feel like sex. I have guys who call me white faggot, sub daddy, boy, slut, whore, pig, daddy pussy, and cunt, and I'm happy to embody all of them, but I don't feel I'm *just* a faggot.
  20. Understandably. Grief and shock affect us to our cores.
  21. Blocking someone you live with sounds pretty normal to me. It's not that you don't like them, just that you already live in each other's space and it's nice to have a little distance. I routinely block or mark as not interested my friends on various apps and communities so we all get to have sexual freedom and some privacy.
  22. You dramatically underestimate how dark and twisty humans can be. A man with a martyr or victim complex can try to create conditions through timing and manipulation to satisfy their need to feel wronged or sexually victimized, or to put the top into a position where he's *technically* in the wrong and giving the bottom power over the top. It could also be a case of a survivor creating a situation to relive abuse, rape, or some kind of non-consensual encounter from their past (very common). In this case a breeding they didn't consent to.
  23. Fuck sluts have needs. 🤷🏻‍♂️
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