versmetropig
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Sluts & Relationships - Have you ever seen it succeed?
versmetropig replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
My partner and I have been together for 21 years - and we are not still together just because it's comfortable or it would be too difficult to divide community property or that sort of bull - we are still together because we both actively wish to be. He is a total top, and I mostly top - and from our second date we've had an open sexual relationship. He knew my libido was more active than his, and he also knew that my tastes in men were broader and my range of sexual activities far wider than his. We've enjoyed three-ways together, group sex and sex parties together and have each played alone many times when the other is not available (he works nights - including Fri & Sats, I work days...). We never play apart when the other is available and don't take away from our time with each other. Since he has almost always been busy working Friday and Saturday nights since we got together, I have played either one or both nights on a weekend most weekends for these past 21 years. He's actually happy I'm not sitting home bored, and knows that I'm not seeking any other emotional relationships. He's also a voyeur type (not my thing) and I an exhibitionist, so even when we go to sex parties together, he usually shoots in 15-20 minutes then watches while I play for another couple of hours (and he maybe reloads). It has worked for us, but you neither partner can have a jealousy issue! -
I'm totally into it, either as the top (which I am more often) or the bottom, so long as the bottom is clean - cum, lube and piss are okay, but scat's just not my thing, and tends to ruin the mood for me... rimming has always been a fave of mine since I first rimmed a guy when I was a teenager and shot without touching myself. And sucking a cock that's just shot in a hole is totally hot for me - whether the hole was mine, or someone else's. Also love sliding my cock into an already primed with cum hole.
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What factors got you to start barebacking?
versmetropig replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As a teenager when I started having sex (at 14 in 1977) I never wore condoms with guys and only did with a girl if she wasn't on the pill (Catholic School you know - can't get knocked up and have to deal with the getting married keep the baby thing). I had a good 6 or 7 years before the nasty latex sleeve went on, and as I was already well into the kink and leather scene by the time I was 20, but I dutifully put a sock on it for years - though I was about 65% top 35% bottom at that time, I almost gave up bottoming completely as I had severe reactions to the latex. I found out I was poz as soon as they had a reliable test - since at least 1985, possibly longer as I'm a New Yorker and this was one of the original areas of infection. Started barebacking again with a few poz buds around 1996, assuming that we already had it and couldn't bother anyone else. Finally got reminded that I enjoy bottoming once there's no latex, and started getting fucked again. Adding in some Party Favors has allowed me to really enjoy being fucked, and my ratio is more like 60% top 40% bottom now. Will not wear latex as a bottom. One or two negative buds are so hot I will put a sock on for them, but mostly play with pig buds and specify BB.
