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  1. BlackDude
    Fuck
  2. BlackDude
    Maybe he had a foot fetish?!?
  3. BlackDude
    For some reason, some of the post in this thread make me laugh
  4. BlackDude
    There is no such thing as “progressive” racism. Either there is or there isn’t. And their racism isn’t toward “non-Caucasian” it’s toward black people. Ukraine is openly enabling anti-black neo nazi’s from around the world to come and train. This has been reported for years. That is not a condition of the heart, that’s a national ideology. Black people should not have to suffer or be mistreated in silence for the betterment of everyone else. Telling us “we should just ignore the blatant white supremecy in the Ukraine for now, and we will get to you guys later” is not acceptable for most black people. Some would call that a form of slavery.
  5. BlackDude
    Given the history of the Ukraine harboring, even enabling, white supremacist groups, to the point it’s world renowned, my thoughts will be other places. They can figuratively “hold their own nuts.”
  6. BlackDude
    If you would let it go for a guy who was 20 and hot, I would let it go for this guy too. Unless your real problem was with the guys age. Guys will always be “grabby” at a bathhouse. You can’t prevent it. After two polite no’s, usually a solid shove, guys will get the message.
  7. BlackDude
    Exactly. We had one Queen at work who was asking around about me. Total drama, gossipy type. Like saving and showing online profiles types shit. I stayed away from him as much as possible. I’ll get my ass from somewhere else. Alot of these guys w live boring lives and think the drama is exciting. Also you have alot of straight men who enjoy the attention and/or benefits a gay man can provide at work. They know they’re not fucking, but they’ll keep that carrot dangling out there for ego gratification, extra customer service (or whatever) or to clown you for your obvious desperation behind you’re back. Or worse he could really be gay, and give you the “sorry I’m straight” or some other “I’m not fucking you specifically” line to let you down easy. That would be smears.
  8. BlackDude
    I found most attractive to be pretty cool actually. If we are using a scale, I’m talking about guys 8-10 (good looks, stable financially, socially, etc.) I’ve had good luck with those guys. They are totally secure. For example, we have a guy in my town who’s been in some major label gay porn. When he’s online, no hassle, I can go over and breed him. Total stud and a sweetheart. We had a super hot guy show up in our cruising spot a few months ago in a $100k car. We fucked him six ways to Sunday behind the restrooms. He was hella cool It’s the average guys that have a chip. Their constant need for validation is exhausting. They always believe they are one step away, one job away, one friend/FB away from being THAT guy. Not so attractive or “less desirable” guys are usually know who they are and have accepted it. So called nerds, sketch guys, losers or they guy with a little bit of a gut often turns out to be the better fucks. They get right down to business, almost as if to hurry before you change your mind. Im speaking in generalities of course, but that’s just my observation!
  9. BlackDude
    I love about 100 miles or a 2 1/2 hour drive from San Francisco. You would think it would be a dream come true. But between age, work, parking, increasing traffic, and the decreasing gay pigginess of the city I find it not worth it most times. The worst part of it is that due to gentrification, and the loss of sexual, social and/or financial viability, a lot of the gays from San Francisco/LA are moving to other towns outside of the city. They are mad, bitter as hell and coming with attitudes as if the fact they once lived in San Francisco gives them extra points. Thats why I say go with the law of large numbers, or young, hornier freaks. But I digress. If You can find somewhere near a big city where you can hop on a train and be back home in the middle of the night without having to stress about driving home or staying overnight that would be great. I see guys have good luck in college towns as well. You only live once! Although I’m not “old” if I could do it all again I would’ve taken my chances, and moved to a bigger city. Money comes and goes, but youth just goes. The worst you can do is fail, get back up and try again.
  10. BlackDude
    Certainly not me. But I can sure find tons more of posts/profiles online looking for “straight” men than looking for the categories above.
  11. BlackDude
    Get as close to a big, gay friendly city as possible. Stay away from “medium” sized cities. These are the worst for hooking up, especially those dominated by “older” populations (Tampa, Sacramento, Phoenix, etc.) As opposed to those metropolises, these cities have just enough folks for guys to try to hold out for something better. A lot of guys in these medium cities have also moved from bigger cities, so they now think they are the big fish in a little pond. That does not work in cities like Los Angeles, San Francisco, Miami or New York. There is so many fish in the sea out there that if you play games people won’t wait around they will just go onto the next. Even if you’re 100 miles away from one of these gay meccas, you’ll find you never go as much as you want, especially after a week of hard work and obligations.
  12. BlackDude
    True. But all those guys are “beneath” straight men in the gay sexual pecking order.
  13. BlackDude
    If I suspect that, I always ask “what neighborhood you in?” The locals have names they use or areas they identify that can’t be determined based on Mapquest.
  14. BlackDude
    I wish gay men fetishized other gay men as much as they did straight men.
  15. BlackDude
    Well since you brought it up…. I agree 100%. Turns out the “gay rights movement” wasn’t all about liberation or free choice. To many, it was about being accepted by straight society (who will never really accept them). You’d think we’d be at an all time level of sex and piginess. Instead we got a lot of older people bitter about prep so they refuse to be educated fully, and a bunch of youngsters who all think that are 10s because of the Internet. I enjoy coming to this site because it reminds me there are places gay guys can still express my opinions about sex and your experiences freely.
  16. BlackDude
    As a black guy, I try to avoid any hotels with reception, especially in certain areas. Lol Also, beware of guys with locked doors where you have to knock and other various security barriers. They could be using those as extra “screening” criteria.
  17. BlackDude
    I can empathize. I had a hot Spanish hey who sat in front of me in college. Apparently being from another country, he didn’t know baggy clothes were in so when he sat down got a good view of his underwear and his ass. Whenever a guy kneels down, bends over or lifts their arms up, I’m always curious to check out their underwear band. We have a nerdy/ hipster/gamer guy that works in our local grocery store. Either he has 30 pair of the same two types of underwear, or his doesn’t change them often which I find kinda hot.
  18. BlackDude
    This is a message I got from a guy who had been messaging me on BBRT. Honestly, how should I respond to this? I so annoyed with these “I only give head” guys on this site, especially when I know they are BS.
  19. BlackDude
    No one is suggesting that. But if you’re banging/getting banged by dudes in the process, you’re “straight.”
  20. BlackDude
    This is not “diss” anyones look or preference. I like different types of men. But today I was out and I seen a gorgeous man in his late 40’s in a full suit, clean shave , styled hair. Very nice, subtle, masculine cologne. Dress shoes, nice watch. Very dapper. He sat right across (legs open?!) from me I was fascinated no lie. Pre a few Covid pounds, I might have had the nerve to go strike up some convo with this beautiful, well dressed man eating all alone. I was just kind of thinking how I missed that look and that niche is kind of missing. I love beards, but I’m getting to the point of beard/hipster fatigue. Can we get some variety? I mean I’d would have fuck him in a second I know the whole “ I’m not trying hard” think is in, but there was something sexy about this man who showed effort. I know I sound old school.
  21. BlackDude
    That’s called growing up. Which is a real thing and conversation. But a lot of these guys aren’t taking about that. They’re talking about turning “straight” men (who aren’t really straight) into gay men. I know, it’s confusing.
  22. BlackDude
    Although I don’t think your points are all encompassing, I think I agree with the sentiment you are trying to convey. It seems like there is just less sex gay happening. You would think it would be the opposite with Prep and the Internet. I meant at least two-thirds of the men who hit me up are looking for “head only.”
  23. BlackDude
    Having a wife or girlfriend doesn’t make you straight. These are the men who are not straight but may be classified as “straight:” 1. Fucking women once in a blue moon, but only if it involves you getting some dick in the process. 2. Deciding you’d rather be miserable with a woman if you can’t find you poster boy/ trophy boyfriend 3. Being married to a woman and not having sex with her, yet seeking out sex with men. 4. Abstaining from all sex because you can’t find “hot men” 5. Hating youself for being gay or refusing to acknowledge you’re gay 6. Only topping twinks or fem guys 7. Being disgusted at gay sex unless it involves you 8. Having gay sex without enjoying it 9. Having gay sex after dark or only on weekends 10. Only being attracted to “hot guys” 11. Fucking other “straight” men with wives or GFs 12. Sucking dick yet not asking for reciprocation. Now we know these guys above aren’t really straight, but I understand some of you get psychological benefits from telling yourselves they are. So I will just say they are straight with quotations.
  24. BlackDude
    Nothing will make me not cum more then a bottom harassing me about cumming. Let it build naturally.
  25. BlackDude
    I recently heard a rumor they turned one of our local cruising parks into a homeless camp/ RV park. I drove by to see if it was true. As I drove through I seen a few dudes register for the tents And I’m not gonna lie I started getting a little boned. They were not homeless but definitely the drifter type. I drove further in And there were two husky bear types setting up their RV with their shirts off. Damn they were hot. I don’t know why but I’ve usually had good luck with the Gypsy “passer bye” types. Especially when their pants never seem to fit. They seem to like me.

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