BlackDude
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I like this. Words have to have meanings. I think too often, gays use terms loosely intentionally, or we just flat out allow people to lie. We make exceptions the rule. It leads to confusion and ultimately sexual frustration.
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Most guys are holding out for something better. They’ve made a calculation that they’d rather save their nut for that perfect situation/guy.
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Possible incoming rant: What is going on with the seeming increase in guys who do “oral only?” Maybe TIM and the Internet has poisoned my view of sex, but with COVID and MP out the way, and with Prep, I anticipated and easier time fucking and breeding. But everywhere I go, there seems to be guys who “only want to suck.” I go cruising, 75% of the guys only want oral. Even on BBRT, there are only oral guys. Alot of these guys don’t even want to do mutual, and won’t take their dick out. Let me just add, I know most of these guys are full of it, especially middle age to older men. They aren’t really oral only, alot are eternally holding out for something hotter. But my premise stands there’s less fucking than there should be in the Prep era. Especially if you’re at an ABS, who cares if you take it up the ass? I’m not saying everyone has to put on a show, but damn loosen up.
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When I saw Elliot Stabler from Law and Order in a pair of bikini briefs, that was the final nail in the coffin.
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I’ve always kinda trusted my instincts and the energy. It’s more of feel and observation. If you got to a spot, and there’s a bunch of dudes with dour, holier than tho looks on their face, that non-sexual energy is gonna rub if on other guys. It only takes a few guys to throw the entire place off. If I go, and dudes are cool, even if they aren’t into me sexually, I feel eventually someone/somebodies gonna come my way cause guys don’t want to be left out of the fun.
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You lucky guy! Took a risk, but paid off! This hot younger blue collar guy made the mistake of dropping his boxer briefs in the floor. I jo with those for a week. Smelled intoxicating.
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Rejection... How Did You Get Over It?
BlackDude replied to CashSpreadem's topic in General Discussion
You spoke 100% truth. A lot of these dudes now were raised by angry single mothers, and they have that same, messy mentality. I also add if you’re in an interracial relationship, the games and the rabbit hole gets deeper when it comes to being open. -
Maybe minority here, but I always thought Messi was kinda hot. And I miss the Turkish team not being there.
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So there are two guys. Both equally attractive and take loads. I see them out and about. One has a good job, intelligent, kinda picky, very handsome. Great body. Says all the right things, feels good, kisses good. He invites me over. But for some reason my dick just won’t respond. I want to be into him but my mind won’t let me. My body feels good, but my hormones don’t respond. The other guy is an unashamed slut. Hot as well, but straight out the gutter and bad news. Takes loads in front of anyone. I’m almost sure he gave me an STD once. And when I see him, I feel like my dick is going to explode it’s so hard. I fuck him for a minute, I start cumming. Just typing this now has me horny. Why? There is nothing wrong with the first guy. Usually I’m very logical and rational. But when it come to sex, I guess the body wants what it wants.
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I agree. Soccer players are always the best looking athletes. I don’t think I’d survive in some of these other countries.
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Well honesty is always best. Especially if it’s going to be a long term relationship, even if it’s just sexual. Although, that could have been his way of breaking things off, and you gave him the out he was looking for. If he’s already married, best for both of you to not get too attached.
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Not bring politics into the answer …. Your not allowed!
BlackDude replied to M4mnow2's topic in General Discussion
People will do what they always do: fight for what they believe in or for what’s right. I’m the U.S. -
Econo lodge on 16th
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I’m not going to give all the blame to the white guys. Unfortunately many Latinos, and most Asians have the same energy toward black guys.
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Well I didn’t say all, just certain guys. Being black for a long time, I see people actions toward other black people. 60% of non black gays will not sleep with another black guy. And that’s okay. Black guys in general need to stop begging for interracial sexual access. We waste too much time and resources. As far as comparing “white only” to other preferences, all of those are usually negotiable, except race. For certain guys, the number one criteria is to be white. Weight, age, fem/masc is evaluated on a case by case basis. NO ONE in the gay community is turning down hoards of white guys. And the number of black guys who turn down white guys is negligible. They few that do, usually have a strong fetish for Latino men.
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That’s a battle not worth fighting. I understand certain people get psychological benefits from only having sex with white or white identifying men. That’s like asking a peacock not to show its feathers. It’s core to their identity. What they need to understand is that certain responses online may have legal or even physical consequences in the real world.
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Incoming non PC rant coming: This summer was one of the best summers ever. With the pandemic dying down, guys were out and horny. This large oasis in the middle of the city became cruising central. On any given night, 20-30 guys would be there, most fucking, sucking or on there way to doing so. Guys were giving in to there most carnal desires right there in the woods. After a few months, the homeless people stated creeping in. The cruisers and the homeless mostly stayed out of each other’s way. Neither was a public nuisance since the park was large enough and wooded so no one could see what was going on within. Then one day, the cops decided to do a sweep and arrest all the cruisers. They homeless, who were trashing the place, trafficking and doing every drug in the book, were left alone. Fortunately, I wasn’t there with this happened and I’m an extremely caution cruiser. I still don’t understand why cruisers are being targeted for “loitering” when they are allowing the homeless to run amuck. Well, it was fun while it lasted.
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While I’m more into masculine men, I appreciate a faggot. They know who they are, and there is no games. Kind of refreshing. I was recently out on the prowl, and this twinkish fag showed. All it took was some eye contact, and he had his pants off, and was blowing my dick in preparation for breeding him. No pulling out, no “asking for a break,” no pretending like he wasn’t there to fuck when he was, no “I can’t cum because I have to fuck my wife/GF/BF” later. None of the BS moralizing “clutching my pearls” at another gay guy approaching you. Just two guys getting what they want
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I don’t think that offends reasonable people. You do have some guys who may be offended because they rely on validation of white men, but normal guys with there self esteem in tact just keep it moving. What “offends” people is when you let your feeling in the bedroom determine how you treat people in the real world, especially in a professional or business environment.
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Location and hotel is important. If your too far out from city center or somewhere way off the freeway, I think that could make a difference. I also went over to this Cumdump party late night. When I got to this seedy motel, the front entrance had a lock so you couldn’t drive in without a guest pass.
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I just did this yesterday at a place I affectionately nicknamed “Animal Planet.” It a large preserve/park in town and guys go there and put on a show, especially in evenings and at night. There’s so much open raw fucking and sucking there, it’s like like a dream. This guy showed up shirtless with a jock strap And within 10 minutes, we were tag teaming him behind a tree in broad daylight. Weirdly, it felt so liberating. I know it’s too good to be true and one day it will all be over, but for now, I’m enjoying it!
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Very tactful way of putting it. I think sometimes gay men hold on to “hope” a little to long.
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Man I usually agree with you, but I just believe most guys are fucking someone. Even if they are holding out for their unicorn.
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Interesting I never even heard of that song. Guess I’m getting old!
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I love cuddling, but I depends on the guy. All that’s discussed before hand. But these “cuddle parties” are bs. They’re basically guys scouting for guys they will hit up later to fuck. As I say, after a certain age, never believe a guy who says he’s not fucking. He’s just not fucking you.
