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It depends upon the context. Unlike the "n word," which I always loathe, I can get into being called a faggot in the right sexual situation. As with both words, all words really, you are what you answer to. And you get to decide that each time.

How are our taste formed? I was shocked years ago when I saw a study that said after having three males, a wo man has a 90% chance of having a gay son if she has more sons. The exception is if the son is left-handed. I am the gay fourth son and my younger brother is straight and left-handed. The point I'm making is I think orientation can be a done deal before birth. But I wonder what forms our taste sexually. My taste run the gamut. I've been with guys from 40 different countries. My taste have gotten decidedly kinkier and complex. Are our taste nature, nurture or just complimentary pheromones at work? Are tastes decided before we're born as well?

How are our taste formed? I was shocked years ago when I saw a study that said after having three males, a woman has a 90% chance of having a gay son if she has more sons. The exception is if the son is left-handed. I am the gay fourth son and my younger brother is straight and left-handed. The point I'm making is I think orientation can be a done deal before birth. But I wonder what forms our taste sexually. My taste run the gamut. I've been with guys from 40 different countries. My taste have gotten decidedly kinkier and complex. Are our taste nature, nurture or just complimentary pheromones at work? Are tastes decided before we're born as well?

Hey, I remember her too. "Abner, Abner." Lmfao

I agree that this was a reflection on the load who said it. Some good looking people don't realize that the ugliness of their souls or lack thereof is quite visible. And a huge turn off.

My hole is at your service.

Hey Buddy,. Like my others, I'm with you. I've been feeling the same lately. I had three regular fuck buds, and I got rid of two of them. I cancelled on the last one, last minute though he's the one with stamina. I'm guaranteed five or six loads. He wanted to stay over and I thought, after two years, I don't know his name or anything about him. Just couldn't do it. I cleaned my apartment instead. I think sex has been a way to procrastinate for me. I've taken time off to work on creative projects, that have only gotten sporadic attention. I feel like my muse has been bombarding me and is quite pissed off. After an 18 year relationship, I decided that I was done with them for good. Now, I find myself fantasizing, if I fantasize at all, about sex with a connection. We're born helpless, needing human warmth and I don't know that that ever changes, even after half a century of living. This has even emerged as a theme of what I've been working on creatively. In a sense, I'm fortunate. I know what comes next. And though I whored myself relentlessly through the pandemics, I'm still healthy and able to handle the next phase. I know this malaise that nags me isn't going anywhere until I move on. If you're quiet enough, perhaps you'll hear what's next for you. Perhaps you already know. If we put the same energy we used for getting loaded up for something else, I think we'll be fine. Also, horny dicks aren't going anywhere. We can always visit if needed. Good luck Buddy. You're gonna be fine.

I like being on my knees, so I can look up. Eye contact while on my knees really gets me going. I love it when he grabs my nips too. It's an amazing feeling being on my knees, looking in his eyes when he shoots into my mouth. I like to keep his dick in my mouth after he comes to get every drop.

I agree that the bottom must be meticulous about hi is clean ass as I am. I'd like to add that we all need to make sure our asses are clean. Bottom and top. As a bottom, I am just as repulsed by sucking on a nice fat dick and catching the scent of an unwashed or poorly wiped ass. My hole smells good and so should yours. Being a top does not excuse anyone from basic hygiene and common courtesy.

I dunno. Gotta be degrees of faggotry.

C'mon fellas. Let's help this guy and others get to 100 at least. 😃

That's some heavy news. (For me it would be.) How do you feel about that?

I would start with 1.5 tops. I know a lot of veterans who still do 3.0 and are quite um festive at that level. Good Luck.

My prayers to you and your family because this happens to families as much as to person's. After thirty years, I know all too well the regret of what might have been. Please know that some things worthwhile can't be held back by a virus. And know also that with prayer and determination, some 'whys' will be revealed to you. I hope and pray that you and your nephew find the answers you seek and a host of things that you can do, can live and can love.

In NYC, Adam4Adam, and Jack's are more for relationships. For sex, BBRT died a slow and hideous death. Quick connect used to be good. NKP is popular--with sociopaths. Grindr is still popular, with sociopaths and transgender girls who get pissed off when they hit you up and you say you're not interested. They get confrontational and at times nasty. There were only a few several years ago, but they are very common now on Grindr. Sniffies is wildly popular here especially in Upper Manhattan, with very few trans girls. You can barely wade through the tons of Sniffies ads in Harlem. And tops are a little more plentiful in Harlem though you do have aggressive bottoms. Still, cumdump and pump n dump or one on one, the flake rate is high. In my experience though, I prefer the flakes who don't show up to the ones that do.

I went through my coffee enema phase years ago. It's a not so bad enema. Coffee has magnesium, which is a good cleanser. It left me ready for other activities.. Just beware that you feel the caffeine no matter which end the java goes down.

I like it when a top unloads quickly in my hole. It is a compliment that he's so horny and wants to use my ass as a dump. This past weekend, an old FB called out of the blue. He fucked me for about 10 minutes and blew a week's load in me. Without skipping a beat, he stayed in and pounded me furiously and quickly shot another one deep in me before collapsing onto me. He pulled out this time. Took ten minutes and did the same thing, two without stopping or pulling out. After he blasted a big load down my throat, he left. Overall, a pleasant surprise.

I'm obviously not the only one struggling with faith and flesh. Stay this course and show me it can be done.

NoWhat a hug great 24 hours and it's only Saturday afternoon. Last night, around midnight, a down low neighborhood hoodlum texted me. He wanted to stop by. He comes in and says cops were in his building so he slipped out. He gets undressed, I get undressed and we chat for a bit. After a while, I start sucking him off. He's about 9 inches long but skinny. Soon he stands up and bends me over the bed. After a few minutes of pounding, he floods my gut with his signature big load. After, we have a cigarette. Usually after he comes he tells me his woes. But he he's quiet. Then he starts jerking his dick asking if I want some milk so I sit underneath him until he shoved his dick in my mouth and blows another load down my throat. Soon, he gets dressed and leaves. This afternoon, I cleaned my apartment and my hole, installed a new air conditioner in my bedroom. A guy from NKP is finally able to slip away from his girlfriend. He's tall, fit with a long well trimmed beard. He isn't it " hot" or "cute.". He's handsome with beautifully proportioned features. I have A/C in living room and bedroom and I give him his choice. He goes into the bedroom gets undressed and climbs in bed--with his cell phone. I don't suck dick when somebody's on the phone usually. But he seemed shy. Doesn't really say much until I start to suck his 7in fatty and it comes alive. Then he drops phone and he starts with the occasional "suck it. Suck Daddy's dick." I do and after 10 minutes, he tells me to sit on it. That was awkward, so he stands us up and bends me over the bed. I can see the mirror at the foot of the bed and he can see the one on the other side. He starts plowing me slowly and slips out a few times. Then, he grips my hips so firmly I can't move and starts a furious buttfuck, making my cakes jiggle. For about half hour, he fucks and ducks and get quite verbal. "You Daddy to shoot in your ass?" I tell him I want it. I want his load. Flood my guts. But he edges himself. He gets close and slows down, seemingly savoring the moment. Finally he says he's going to explode and does so loudly. He keeps it in me to drain it. He washes up and takes his nearly folded shorts and tee and asks if he can come back later. My smile and my slightly dripping hole say yes. He smiles and is out the door before I can put on shorts to see him out. He is welcome in my home and hole anytime. And while I'm writing this, guy number two s load oozing out, a fuck buddy drops by unexpectedly. I let him come by unannounced because he doesn't mind sharing a piece of ass. Plays well with others. And he has a real fat dick.

I just tried to create an account, but I was informed that my email was already in use. Has anyone else had this experience? Any thoughts on how this could've happened?

I personally love the word 'hole.' There's something manly and lurid about it. Another favorite word is 'buttfuck,' so I like masculine words in general. That said, I agree that once I contextualize the words 'pussy' or 'cunt' I decide if I am being demeaned or not. Usually that kind of contempt is evident before the pants come off. And I rarely see in general. If it's not meant to demean, its usually, especially in the right moment, a huge turn on.

Back when I came out, (The Earth was still cooling.) We used the terms, French active and Greek passive. Then, it was just active and passive, then top and bottom. Now, it's Dom and Sub. Now, bottom and Sub are used pretty my much synonymously. While I am always a bottom, I'm not always a sub. When I'm higher than God, I'm very sub. Otherwise, I'm just me, obstinate, outspoken, bossy at times, especially professionally. A regular top deeply offended me recently and said he was done with me. Fine. Two weeks later he was back. I told him until I forgave him, he was the bitch. I made him beg. Things went back to normal eventually, but I made it clear that sub doesn't mean without respect or boundaries. Are you always sub even outside of sex? Do you set boundaries?

Back when I came out, (The Earth was still cooling.) We used the terms, French active and Greek passive. Then, it was just active and passive, then top and bottom. Now, it's Dom and Sub. Now, bottom and Sub are used pretty my much synonymously. While I am always a bottom, I'm not always a sub. When I'm higher than God, I'm very sub. Otherwise, I'm just me, obstinate, outspoken, bossy at times, especially professionally. A regular top deeply offended me recently and said he was done with me. Fine. Two weeks later he was back. I told him until I forgave him, he was the bitch. I made him beg. Things went back to normal eventually, but I made it clear that sub doesn't mean without respect or boundaries. Are you always sub even outside of sex? Do you set boundaries?

I like the full cock in my mouth or at least the head and some of the shaft. I love it when the squirts hit the back of my throat. I also like to keep the dick in my mouth after the guy stops cumming to drain the last drops.

Last week, I was so horny I was climbing the walls. So this guy I'm not fond of at all called and I invited him over. I think he's a fucking cad to be honest, and he thinks I'm a little stuck up. (I don't you can be too uppedy with dicks in your ass and mouth simultaneously. But that's just me.) Anyway, this guy has a gigantic dick, super long and fat, and incredible stamina, and shoots loads like a machine gun. I'd sit there while we rested and think I can't stand this guy and then I'd be on my knees gobbling his dick and bending over for more cum. Has anyone else had this experience?