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From what I’ve heard public health departments are having to go this route on notification for infectious diseases in a large part due to Covid. They don’t have the resources to have a person call and talk so they’re resorting to texting. Honestly that’s one of the most embarrassing things about going to the free clinic as they want names and numbers of your contacts and most of mine are anon and I don’t have names or numbers. I’d got a text like that from Dallas County some months back which kind of freaked me out but I was already aware I had something.

I started coming out to friends as bi at 15, which is kind of a laugh as I’d never been with girls but had been with plenty of guys. I guess it was to be somewhat honest about being gay. There’s a stigma to being openly gay in the Latino community…you can play with guys but it’s supposed to be more of a phase or a side thing you dabble in. The expectation is you marry and have kids. As a result I haven’t told my parents I’m gay let alone that I’m bi because they’d freak. I guess they give me and my brother the benefit of the doubt as he’s also gay and fucks around like crazy and we’ve never dated girls. I dunno what they think is going on. I want to tell them and be honest and open and live my life but I think it’d hurt them bad. I want to be living on my own before I can do that though. It’s tougher for my brother as he’s still in HS and I’m kind of envious of guys who came out to their parents while in HsS and their parents were cool. I came out as full one gay to friends when I was 16 as I was rucking around with a few guys in school and everyone seemed to know. It felt a lot easier to be open about it.

It’s all about your perception and observations, but yeah, I can usually tell when a guy’s got some as he has a certain glow about him. He’s a little flushed, seems a lot happier. Sex probably releases endorphins like when you run or do other things. Buds can usually tell when I’ve had sex too and I guess it’s one of those obvious things if you’re tuned in. It probably helps if you know a guy too. I have a bud who hooks up a lot and you can tell when he’s got some as he’s positively giddy. He’ll own up to having got some and loves to spill the tea.

Damn…now I have to get a job

It takes a certain mindset to be a cumdump and not everyone is down for it. I was young the first time I did it and it was with a group of neighbor boys around my age. I viewed it more as experimenting, finding out what it was like to get fucked by several guys. Problem is I liked it a lot but quickly found out it was hard to make things like that happen. It also confirmed that I am pretty slutty and soon I was willing to take more risks to hook up, hooking up with random guys in bathrooms, at the gym, in parks, anything to get a load. I sometimes wonder if that made me who I am or just revealed who I am. But that’s water under the bridge. I’m kind of jealous of guys who have a BF because I know I’m too slutty to be monogamous.

Wait…gay people are ageist?!? What? Don’t tell me they’re racist, sizeist, and discriminate on looks too!? Can gay guys be petty and shallow? Yes, but that’s NOT solely function of how old they are. Yeah, guys my age can be ageist, we don’t have a lock on that…there’s plenty of middle aged guys who like guys my age and won’t even consider an older guy. That’s not excusing it, but that is lying it bare. I’ve been called horrible racist names not just by older guys, but by middle aged guys, and guess what…guys my age too! Do I criticize only older gays for being racist? No. Only Anglos for being racist? No. I criticize racists for being racist. Just like I criticize fat shamers for being size-ist. Criticize the haters for their hate. Don’t criticize an age cohort for being ageist, criticize the conduct and behavior. Not all guys my age are ageist…some are into older guys. We’re not all needy mindless shallow guys too absorbed in TikTok wanting participation ribbons for everything we do. Because you know what you did? YOU were ageist…guilty of the very same thing you complained of. Shame on you.

I would totally be down to get it. While Prep works for most people it can cause liver and other problems and people can’t tolerate it. There’s the cost as well (although there’s some programs for some people). But for younger kids who aren’t out you can’t really go on Prep if you’re on your parents insurance as they’ll find out. This would be an alternative. I’m all for having another tool in the arsenal against HIV/AIDS. It would be great for folks in the medical field and first responders who are at risk for exposure as well. I get the disappointment from the bug chasing crowd, but hey…just look at Covid…there’s a lot of people who just refuse the concept of vaccines, Medicine, and science. There will always be some people around carrying the disease.

It sucks. I’m sure Chatturbate and others are next. All in the guise of stopping human trafficking but the reality is it will all move somewhere else. You can still drive Harry Hines and see the working girls (and boys) out doing their thing. Onlyfans by and large gave a platform for everyday folks to make a little extra money to chase their dreams or feed their habits and who was hurt? Are some of the people forced to do it? I’m sure. But again, they’ll now be forced out in the streets and bars to make that money and that’s WAY riskier to them. So who’s really getting hurt here?

Yes. You do want to check with your doctor to see how long you need to wait to bareback as Prep doesn't start working immediately…it takes time to build resistance. You need to make sure you adhere to taking your meds as directed too. I know guys who weren’t good about taking it regularly and wound up getting poz so don’t make that mistake.

Was out for dinner with buds in uptown and made eye contact with the hot fratty looking blonde white guy on the way back to my truck. He asked if I was looking and said I was. He asked if I knew a place where we could do it and I said I knew a few nearby if he didn’t mind doing outdoors. He said he was cool so we walked to this place near the exit ramp for Blackburn where cars and the nearby apartments can’t see you. We ducked into the spot and started kissing and stroking each other’s cocks. He had a really nice one and after stroking a bit he asked “you want it?” I said I did and turned to brace against the wall, pulling my shorts down so my ass was exposed. I could feel his spit hitting my ass and that thick cock forcing its way in me. He wanted me to tell how bad I wanted it and I told him just that as he pounded my ass, blasting a load in me after a couple minutes. He kept stroking inside me and asked I wanted to suck him off or get the next load in my ass. I told him in the ass and he picked up the pace telling me he wanted me to fuck him the same way and wanted my cum inside him. I was really worked up hearing this hot boy wanted my load as bad as I wanted his and before long he came inside me again. He’d barely finished before he pulled out and dropped his shorts taking his place against the wall saying how bad he wanted my dick. I wanted no time driving my cock in him balls deep and loved hearing him moan, telling me how much he loved my dick and how he wanted my cum. I was so worked up from getting fucked and by hi dirty talk that I came in no time, drawing a gasp from him as I came and him begging me not to pull out. I told him I never pull out to cum which got him laughing and joking he never does either. I teased him that he probably did that with a lot of guys and that he gets off on cumming inside guys. He admitted he did and that I must too and he was right back at begging me to cum inside him again. I was turned on knowing he’s slutty enough he’d duck down into a public spot like this to let a total stranger fuck him raw and cum inside him. I wanted to call him out for the slut he is but thought the better of it, working myself up to blowing another load in him. I slid out and pulled my shorts back up and was tempted to swap contact info with him but wasn’t sure if he’d be down. He pulled his shorts back on and asked if I was ready. I presumed he meant to walk back to our cars and he headed back out to McKinney and back to the garage. We said nothing until we got close to where the parking garage is, and I I said I was over to the right. He asked if he needed to join me to make sure I was safe and for a moment I wasn’t sure what else he might have in mind. I said I was cool and thanked him for the fun. He smiled a huge smile at me and agreed it was fun. I headed off to my truck not even knowing his name or anything about him. But I had a smile on my face knowing my loads were deep inside him as he went on with his evening. Maybe he’d go look for more loads. I know after that I was suddenly horny for more and off to the Katy Trail to see if anyone else is looking.

I don’t date, so not a cheater, but I’m SO into guys who are cheating on their GFs, BFs, whatever. One of the first guys I got with regular was a guy who was cheating on his GF and damn did he love fucking me and I loved taking it. He was a really good fuck, had a nice dick and knew how to love it. He loved that I was cool with him cheating and I guess it set a pattern for me. I don’t mind being a guy’s side piece and love getting something that should be going to someone else. I also love it when that cheater takes my cock and loads too…makes it even hotter.

About a month ago I went to Corpus Christi with a bud to get away for a weekend. He’s gay too and we both wanted to hook up with other guys. There was a group thing happening and I went to it. I did some pot beforehand just to loosen up and had a lot of fun, fucking and getting fucked. Some of the guys there were partying and I did a little with one of the guys and quickly realized it was a mistake as I felt like I was losing control. I was spent and started bottoming more and probably not realizing how sore my ass was getting. Some of the guys were fairly hung and one guy was massive…this big dude who looked like he played football and hung like a horse. He pulled me aside and drilled me with no mercy. He was covering my mouth and telling me not to scream all while telling me I was a dirty whore and a slut and wanted it. He wasn’t wrong and I could feel him pump a load in me and hoped he’d stop but he kept at it slamming his cock in me so roughly I was crying from the pain and begging him to stop. He came again and got off me saying nothing. My ass was killing me by then and I found my clothes and left. the next day I had the worst ass pain I’d probably ever had and the pain when I would poop was indescribable. I’d had gonnorea of the ass before and it felt a bit like that. It was Sunday and we had to drive home but We had to stop several times as I needed to poop and again it was indescribable pain. I had to level with my bud and say what happened. The pain persisted for days and finally I had to go to the clinic to get checked out. Thankfully no gonnorea or other STDs, it was just the result of too much rough anal sex. It took several days before I felt better and I’m probably going to be more careful with group stuff like that. the bottom line is you can’t reason with guys who want to take what they feel is theirs. Some tops are aggressive and know that some guys want it that way. There’s no “off” switch for them. The best thing to do if you want to have control is not to have sex when you’re altered. Don’t put yourself in unequal situations where guys outnumber you and can take control of the situation. I’ve been in group situations that spun out of control and wound up getting gang raped. Don’t think you can “know” a guy on outward appearances. Some guys seem nice but wind up getting rougher than you want. You don’t have to lie there and take it. I would gladly let the footballer boy fuck me as much as he wanted so long as he didn’t get so rough. I’ve taken cocks as big as his before and had a lot of fun taking them. I’ve also had my ass destroyed by less hung guys who felt they could use my ass as rough as they want. In the end I fucked up as I forgot my cardinal rule and did drugs without asking what they were and what they would do. I should have fought back more vigorously against footballer boy but instead I let him use me. If you have rules stick with them. If you don’t have rules you better make some!

You did all the right things with both PEP and PREP and you’re going to be OK. Something like this is terrifying and nerve wracking so it’s OK to have a freak out. Be glad we have these meds and that you can afford them. More importantly you had the presence of mind to tackle this head on. Too many guys wouldn’t have been so smart about it and would wind up poz instead.

Yeah…sadly pretty normal. Not every time is gonna be that “magic moment” where you feel it. Lots of guys aren’t big cummers…they just spurt or drizzle with no force. And yeah, there’s nothing worse than when you’re into a guy fucking you and you feel nothing. Been with a lot of hot studs where I feel nothing when they cum. That’s life. You move on.

About 30 minutes ago…was at the UTD campus and got message by this white guy looking. He was off campus snd couldn’t host but agreed to do it in a bathroom in his apartment complex by the pool. I was horny so agreed plus he had a super thick cock. We met at the pool and chatted a bit and it was clear he was into me and dtf. We went into the bathroom and started making out quite hot and heavy, quickly stripping naked and jerking each other’s cocks as we kissed. I told him I was ready to fuck him and he asked me if I had condoms. We hadn’t talked about wrapping and I assumed he wanted bare and told him I didn’t but was fine if he wanted to fuck me without one. He quickly agreed and soon I was taking his thick cock with just his spit. I made it clear I wanted him to cum in me and he was thrusting for all he was worth, building to a noisy orgasm I could feel inside me. I told him how good he felt and could feel him stroking my dick which was precumming like crazy. He hadn’t stopped stroking inside me and said how good it felt to cum inside me. I told him he could feel the same thing if he’d let me fuck him. He laughed and kept stroking inside me but clearly he was thinking it. I told him I was close and that if I trusted him enough to cum inside me he should too. He stopped stroking my cock and said nothing, turning his ass to me. I wasn’t about to wait for him to change his mind and quick spat on his ass and my dick and slid inside him. Clearly he was no virgin as I easily got in and he wasn’t whining but instead moaning. I was so worked up I knew it would take much for me to cum and soon blasted my load inside his ass. I didn’t stop as I knew I could pop another one in him and he wasn’t saying for me to stop. If anything he was now moaning and bucking his hips into me as I fucked him. The little bitch clearly wanted my seed more than he was letting on. I blasted my second load inside him and this time he was moaning and saying how much he wanted it. Funny how getting fucked raw turns you into a dirty whore. I stayed in him to make sure every drop was deep inside him before I slid out. He kissed me but then started frantically trying to clean himself up. Me? I didn’t give a shit. I got what I wanted. I thanked him and he quickly asked if he could message me again to hook up snd I said I was cool with that. He laughed nervously and said he didn’t usually let guys cum inside him but he was really into me. I said that was cool and anytime he wanted my load I’d give it to him. He leaned in and we kissed and he grabbed my cock again like he wanted me to fuck him again but I said I needed to go and headed out. I’ll gladly fuck him again but hope he’s not all clingy.

So long as you’re compliant with taking it, Prep is super effective no matter how many bareback loads you take. Other STDs are another matter if you bareback. Let’s be honest…guys go on Prep so they can bareback. They only guys I’ve known who ran into trouble are guys who weren’t good on taking their meds.

Oh yeah. Getting fuck gets me horny for more. No sooner do I get fucked but I’m right back on Grindr, KIk, you name it, looking for more. If I’m cruising a bathroom or park it’s just as bad. Once I get a load I’m not done, I’m looking for the next one.

Hah…I’ve noticed that too. I think part of it is they don’t want to break up another couple in the process, but I think it’s more availability. They probably prefer the guy they cheat with to be unencumbered by a GF or BF…it means they’re free to fuck whenever and can host. I can’t host but I’m down for fucking in cars, showers at the gym, outdoors, whatever. But I’ve go a few guys cheating on GFs and BFs who like that they can text me and I’m down to meet up whenever they want. You can’t do that if you’re living with someone and in a relationship.

I don’t date and never have but get with quite a few guys who are cheating on GFs, BFs, and fiancé’s and I get off on knowing they’re cheating and they seem to be enjoying it to. I think it’s the risk honestly. Maybe subconsciously they want to get caught and get out of a relationship they don’t want. With some of the straight/bi guys I think it’s also a fear of confronting the fact they’re gay. They love talking about how deep their relationship is, yet beg the loudest for me to cum inside them. Monogamy isn’t for me and I really don’t think it is for most guys but they feel the pressure to be in a relationship, but I do get the sense of stability, support, and togetherness it gives. I look at my parents and admit I’d like something like that but not right now. I wanna have fun and play around and I think most guys my age feel that too. Once they’re in a relationship they feel trapped and want to break free. Cheating becomes inevitable.

Dude…you absolutely nailed it! I’ve been with quite a few guys who wanted to use condoms the first time and then go raw after. And honestly, I never even tried to argue with their logic or reasoning, I just went with it. By and large all of them came back for more and wanted it raw. Most talk about “trust” which I get but it’s emotion not reason…but again…whatever. I figured they would flake out and never message me again, and some did just that but most hit me back wanting more and were all to eager to go raw that second time.

It’s an occupational hazard. I play with a mix of regular buds and anon and know that sooner or later I’ll get an STD. They key is being in touch with your body and knowing when you don’t feel quite right. It depends on what you’re doing too. I knew that at Spring Break chances were good I was going to get one as I was taking so many anon loads and yep, every time I’d get one..was the price you pay. It wasn’t going to stop me and it still isn’t. After not doing it last year due to Covid I was dying to go to spring break this year. After not getting it for a year guys we’re just going crazy and fucking and getting fu key like there was no tomorrow. I came down with what turned out to be gonno pretty quick but didn’t stop as I was getting bored so much and was fucking loving it.

Hey..uncut too. As far as bottoming I can feel a difference taking an uncut cock versus cut. Uncut seems to go easier, with a cut guy I need more lube and feel more friction. I would think it’ll feel better for you and like sleazebugga said, just go with the flow. There’s no “magic” because a guy’s uncut but it’s more of a preference. Some guys and girls find uncut disgusting and won’t get near one. Be adventurous. You may find you prefer uncut. I’m latino and I find a lot of guys want latino cock because we’re uncut and want that…which I cool cause I’m down to fuck.

It’s like anything…you do it and it builds over time. I’m on chatturbate and only fans and have a few followers but not like some guys on there. It’s tough if you just do solo stuff and jerk. Unless you’re hot and horse hung it gets kind of old pretty quick.the time of day you perform matters too. While there’s a lot more guys watching. Ishtar and weekends you’re competing with more performers. There’s fewer people watching during he day but less competition. I’ve had a few guys join me and that generated more tips and got more viewers. Guys want to see bareback too so that helps as that’s what I deliver. I’ll take the other guys load too and guys really seem to like that more than the guy pulling out to cum. In short, you have to give the people what they want.

You can’t change the mind of a condom Nazi. I’ve gotten with some and they are just hardcore in their beliefs. And I understand where they’re coming from. Some guys don’t want to go on Prep for a number of reasons. Some are on Prep and use condoms as they’re cheating on a partner or spouse and don’t want STDs. Most just aren't going to be upfront on their reasons as they’re complex. I’ve been doing it with this really cute Anglo boy for a while and he is a total condom Nazi, but the sex is super hot so I put up with that. It was only after we were doing it for a while I found out he not only has a GF but a couple other guys he plays with too. He explained the reasons why he does wrapped and a big one for him is consistency and he’s totally freaked out by the idea of having cum inside him or by me having another guys cum in my ass. We all have our hang ups.

Maybe define what you mean by ghosting as it has many different meanings. If you mean ghosting by going silent on an app after chatting a while there’s a few reasons why. When I’m on an app I’m dead serious about hooking up and want to get to it. If a guy keeps chatting and it seems like he’s playing me or not serious about hooking up I move on. Sometimes another guy beats him to the punch. Usually I’ll let the guy know I found someone else but not always. if by ghosting you mean not staying in touch with a guy after we’ve fucked there’s multiple reasons again. Maybe he wasn’t that good or we didn’t vibe. Some guys are assholes but I’ll take their load or load them, but it’s gonna be a “one and done” for me. Plus I don’t like guys who are too clingy or needy. I ghost them too.