Hungryforbbc

Exactly. The excitement anxiety and fear add to the experience but there’s so many bottoms who bail or tap out that if you don’t, you will be receiving regular dick deliveries! Tops with huge pipes have problems finding bottoms who can actually satisfy them and take all that dick like a true whore - if you can, you will have many options even if you’re not the cutest or youngest option available. Nobody wants to be left hanging and boned up with blue balls lol the sure thing is always the popular choice.

I’ve been a bottom whore for brown and black men who are masculine confident aggressive dominant and either hung like a beast or with the confidence of a man who is hung like a beast - that confidence can go a long way to make up for having a less impressive package, too. I have never said no when offered the chance to service a king. They have varied in looks, age, weight, nationality etc but give me Method Man or JaRule ir anyone with thug energy and ill be in heaven.

Easily in the low to mid one thousands so somewhere between a thousand and two thousand would be my best guess

The deeper the stroke, the more pleasure you can experience. The fatter ones and those with wicked curves can be even more likely to give you an indescribable feeling of fullness - you know that’s “hole” that exists in all of us or at least seems to? The one everyone tries to fill with things and money and drugs? Monster dick - delivered by a talented, experienced top who understands the dynamics and physicalities involved- is the best drug to treat it. You will feel full and free and open and the nerve endings will be sending pleasure signals in waves that roll through your entire body but it all depends on your preparation, your enthusiasm about doing it, your ability to relax, and following the steps so perfectly outlined above. Remember to push OUT. Knowing that you’re totally clean should give you the confidence that makes it easier to do that and once you get a taste you’re gonna be hooked. Pre lube with Vaseline and use lots of silicon or water based lube before and during the session. Then LEAN INTO any discomfort or anxiety you have about it- it will actually make the experience even hotter.

Total co-sign. This is the wisdom of an expert.

So I’ve been married for almost ten years and together almost thirty years we stopped having sex after a few years and I always kept my decades long “straight “ Jamaican top fuck bud within reach for the more than occasional freak session. Over time he has gotten used to the idea of me getting mine somewhere else. I got pozzed last year and he was totally cool about it. So I get lots of big black dick as a cheating husband it all depends on what you decide the word “cheating “ means to you in your relationship. We get to make up the rules aa we go if we choose to. get your life honey but you might want to have a conversation about your needs and hopefully get clearance so you don’t have to lie about it that’s the way trust.

Over time you realize that the further the pendulum swings in any direction, the more momentum it has swinging back. Also a broken clock is right twice a day. So there’s hope for what comes next from either perspective. The people wanted something different from the usual corrupt political industrial complex and now they have it. It may be the exact thing that se need to get our shit together. If not then we can at least be comforted by the fact that in two years the tables will turn as they always do and we’ll have a political deadlock that will keep us from going over the brink of insanity.

I purchased the Safarree toy and didn’t know that using different lubes could damage it so I used silicone lube and it basically melted the toy I’m so pissed but I should have read the manual

Not anymore unless I’m totally lit up and in an extended group situation which is extremely rare

I had two gorgeous Puerto Rican twins as neighbors in the 90s they were both gay one was a top the other was vers and they had the biggest most beautiful dicks ever. About 10 inches the top was cut the verse was uncut and I played with them both separately at different points in time. I would have loved to get them both together but they didn’t do that. Of note the parents cut one so they could tell them apart but that ended up basically making it so that they defined themselves by their dicks which meant they saw a lot of action lol

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Also I should have mentioned that I use a douche with a long nozzle to get all up in the nooks and crannies

Preference is not the same as fetishization and there are important nuances in differentiating between the two. Imo it’s all about intent but I don’t ever use that word nor is that dynamic part of my fantasies or kinks. I’ve met some black men who were into that stuff but it generally turns me off outside of the literal color references of my white ass or their black dick, and that’s at their discretion and choice. I acknowledge that there are plenty of people who fetishize and sexually objectify black people, but there are also lots of us who are anti racists but may appear to be fetishists when assumptions are made about our intentions. If anything im probably racist against white people all things considered, but I legit support the bnwo not just from a sexual standpoint but across the board, especially financially. I grew up in a black community and my unique exposure, experience and understanding of the history, spirit and culture put me in the unique position to be more objective. I’ve studied the history… imo, the failed experiment in eugenics that the slave trade turned out to be brought about the exact opposite of what was intended- the multitude of virtually unimaginable personal and intergenerational traumatic experiences from slavery itself to the socially accepted institutional systems of oppression that criminalized, incarcerated, institutionalized and marginalized the descendants of those who survived would have broken most of us - but it led to the Darwinian evolution of superior physical, sexual, psychological, academic and intellectual capabilities that are only recently being scientifically acknowledged when comparing the aforementioned qualities to those of their average white equivalents, even more so in situations where the privileges are either removed or balanced by geography, economics, or other circumstances that have the effect of even temporarily taking the foot off of the necks of black kings and queens and ”giving” (lol) them be their best authentic selves. Maybe white folks just got lazy because they could- but that’s evolution for you! While you sleep, they build. That’s why the country is tanning from coast to coast, and it’s beautiful. Hopefully soon we will be a fully integrated country with future generations having the advantages of a mix of all the beneficial genetic qualities. That seems to already be happening and we’re seeing the results in every aspect of our culture. Every commercial features racially ambiguous characters. DEI initiatives broke some walls down and at least made some barriers slightly less oppressive - no matter what they try now, you really can’t undo progress on that level, so even if we see backlash against that progress, “the damage is done” and anyone under the illusion that we’re somehow going back to the way it used to be is seriously delusional despite the political and ideological propaganda that might indicate otherwise. the future of this democracy may be in jeopardy but if there’s one group of people who are prepared and capable of turning catastrophic circumstances into opportunity for success and flourish, it would be those who have suffered the longest, been given the least, and still found a way overcome and thrive. The white nationalism and racism we’re seeing now are just the last vestiges of our racist past trying to hold on to the few power structures that they control- they are weak and dying off and desperate… but they know they don’t have time on their side. Eventually the world will have to acknowledge that our black and brown brothers and sisters have been working with indefatigable spirit and positive, meaningful intention while the white masses were sleeping and enjoying the comforts of privilege. dont be mad now cause your wife wants to get down with the swirl lol

I’ve only ever had black and I never went back

Damn when I think back on all the times I’ve had to contend with a messy situation … I’ve had so much huge dick and honestly nobody ever discussed this with me when I was younger so I had to figure it out for myself after a messy situation happened and I was mortified. I usually fast or do liquids only the day of and sometimes the day before. It does require me to plan my adventures in advance but I pretty much have to do that anyway so it’s not a problem for me, although there have been times when I had to pass because I was unsure 🙂 I’m drinking more water now and I allow for more time to clean out so I can do one douche and then use a toy with Vaseline to stretch and prepare my hole for the pounding I live for. Then about 30 minutes later I douche again to make sure I’m good. I’ve developed UC which certainly doesn’t help (im sure that getting my hole destroyed regularly for the past 40 years has something to do with that lol) but honestly my biggest issue of late has been spotting more than anything. Usually not bad but there’ve been a few crime scenes as I’ve gotten older and nobody wants that. I’ve found it takes more time and effort to get completely cleaned out but for me, using Vaseline or boy butter and stretching before the session has done wonders for both issues. I think it helps that I don’t eat much meat or drink alcohol anymore too. There’s nothing like knowing that you’re totally spotless before you submit your hole for destruction, so that’s the route I’ve found works best for me. Been thinking about trying a high colonic as well but idk - anyone have experience with that?