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My advice is give yourself time. Try not to put too much emphasis on a connection with one guy. And weigh how important your new found love of being a cumdump is. Who knows, you might lay that card on the table and have him immediately say "bend over, whore." Or it might be a dealbreaker for him. But the only way to know is to let it play out and prioritize what's important to you. If that means being slutty then you shouldn't compromise on it. Look for partners in spaces where being a slut can be stated openly. Give yourself space and time. Breaking up after 16 years is a big deal. Be nice to yourself.
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Wet dreams. When was your first and do you still have them
Sfmike64 replied to ffabbian's topic in General Discussion
I've only ever had one once. I was probably about 20 and visiting a friend and sharing his bed. I ended up waking up with my underwear full of cum. I can't remember if I was dreaming about having sex with the friend I was visiting (we'd played before) or another friend I always had a crush on. Either way it was the only time in my nearly 50 years of getting hard and shooting loads. Maybe it's because I've obsessively jerked off for that entire time. Once I figured out how to masturbate there were very few days when I didn't come, mostly when I've been ill. -
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gym Who remembers the showers in gym class?
Sfmike64 replied to SweetPiss's topic in General Discussion
I loved using the showers at school after PE. I went to a school affiliated with a large university so we used one of the university's older gyms that was down the block from the school for PE. I used to beat off thinking about all my classmates' cocks. If I was lucky I'd get to see a college student using the shower, too. It was the start of me loving jocks and underwear too. I also got to see one of my gym teachers nude while showering. He was short, thick and hairy. Which is still a type I love today. -
Please take this nonsense elsewhere. No one here has time for it.
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Who likes to sniff sweaty jocks and athletes gear
Sfmike64 replied to SweetPiss's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I used to 're-home' jocks and underwear that had obviously been left behind in the gym when I was a student. And by rehome, I mean shove in my mouth while I jerked my cock. -
More likely explanation? He had something on his hands that was transferred to his dick and then to your mouth. I ran into this once myself when I was trying to make myself stop biting my fingernails. I had this incredibly bitter stuff on my fingers and it got transferred to someone's cock I was sucking. DOH!
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What do you remember about your first visit to a bathhouse?
Sfmike64 replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
It was the fall of 1981. I had just gone away to college in St. Paul. I took the bus to downtown Minneapolis and tried to go to the Club Baths. They wouldn't let me in because I wasn't 18 (I had just turned 17). So I went to the smaller (sleazier I later realized) baths. I remember fucking a guy who seemed a lot older than me, but was probably in his 30s. Bare, of course, as this was 1981. I didn't get fucked, as I didn't much enjoy it. Guys were happy to take my fat teenage cock. -
I was probably about 11 when it started. I loved it. I loved playing with my cock. My parents had this old flat pad vibrator and my brother showed me how to use it to 'whack off.' I developed full pubes and underarm hair by 14 or so, but my chest hair (I have a LOT of it, it's thick and wiry) didn't completely fill in until my 30s. I got back hair in my 40s. I have a big fat bear daddy ass but it's, ironically, the least hairy part of my body (other than my head, I'm bald).
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Pinch my tits. HARD. No. I said, HARD.
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no such thing as too much foreskin ..
Sfmike64 commented on pupHawaii's gallery image in User Galleries
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For me, the perfect man would be 5'4", thick, really furry, blonde head, body hair and beard, a fat uncut dick and a big fat ass. 🙂 Or some variation on that theme. Short, thick and furry.
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Day 2 at aex addiction anonymous group
Sfmike64 commented on ffabbian's blog entry in My time at a Sex Addiction Anonymous group
It could just be that what you want is shifting. For a long time I was really into bathhouses, parks, bookstores. But for the last few years I'm just not interested. Because of my history, I found anonymous sex far easier to negotiate than fuck buddies (I was well into my 40s before I had my first FB). But now I want a little more connection with people and a little more time. I have a FB now who's a sexy cub with a big furry ass who LOVES my hands up his cunt. We're working on two at once. I would also advise taking a step back. Re-evaluate what you want and maybe start going to the bars again (if that's remotely your scene). The anonymous scene will be there if you want it again.- 17 comments
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How do you get 'lips' on your asshole
Sfmike64 replied to spacecoastguy's topic in General Discussion
Then why did you use an ugly right wing trope about gay men playing with their asses being forced to use diapers, against another gay man? If you didn't KNOW that's a right wing trope about gay men then you are VERY sheltered. Have you ever met a gay man who liked to bottom during anal sex who was forced to wear a diaper? Of course not. Because it doesn't happen. It never has. Your ass is muscles. Exercising those muscles with toys and fists is a perfectly acceptable thing to do. Maybe you wouldn't do it, but other people (myself included) love it. Your sphincter muscles go back to where they started pretty quickly (in minutes). That's how they are built and how they work. Look, I'm not trying to be mean (or beat a dead horse, this is my last comment). Your question was so outlandish that it came across as snotty and snide. I'll take you at your word that wasn't your intent. This should be a safe place to talk about sex in all its infinite varieties not for making snide comments and judgements. We get way too much of that elsewhere in the world. -
That's what cock cages are for. 🙂 Boy.
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Just remember that lots of places are non-smoking. So blowing clouds is difficult. But you can always snort or do booty bumps.
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How do you get 'lips' on your asshole
Sfmike64 replied to spacecoastguy's topic in General Discussion
Just say… “I don’t understand the appeal of fisting, would someone please explain it to me.“ -
How do you get 'lips' on your asshole
Sfmike64 replied to spacecoastguy's topic in General Discussion
There's a saying in the BDSM community...."don't yuck someone's yum." Don't be ignorant and don't spout stupid myths that the right spouts about gay men all the time. They say this about anal sex even though more straight people have anal sex than gay people. There's a way to ask this question nicely, and then there's the way you did it. Pics or it didn't happen. Please? -
Wanting to get fisted, but need guidance
Sfmike64 replied to Hungryred87's topic in Fisting Discussion
My suggestion is ....TAKE IT SLOW. TAKE IT SLOW. TAKE IT SLOW. It's going to take some time (and many sessions) to get to the point where your hole is 'wrecked.' Just relax, take it easy, do this with someone(s) experienced at fisting and enjoy yourself. If you use chems, I would advise doing it a few times without being high FIRST. You want to know what it feels like before you are chemically altered so that you understand the feeling. Don't be afraid to tap out and take a break. Make sure that the person playing with your hole stops if there's more than a little blood. You don't want to have a tear when you're inexperienced.- 5 replies
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Sfmike64 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Puta=WHORE. Sounds about right. Very hot. -
Many years ago, I knew a couple in Boston who met in a cruisy t-room in Harvard Square, and were together for 25 years.
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I could eat.
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