FallenLad
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Definitely try to get a guy with smaller hands for your first time. But if you can manage 13" circumference toys it's certainly possible. The first time I managed it was a tiny Asian guy, who slid right in. Also if the top isn't an experienced fister make sure they're not in the "prayer" position. Having the hands slightly offset, one slightly ahead of the other, mens you're not taking both at the widest point. Good luck.
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What are people's experiences on cleaning out for fisting when travelling abroad? I usually use a silicone shower attachment and adjust the water pressure and temperature so that I can repeatedly wash out until I'm totally clean. This can take an hour or so depending on my diet. My concern is when travelling to countries where you're advised not to drink the tap water. Is it still safe to clean out your insides with water that you're not supposed to be drinking? I could use bottled water and an old fashioned enema but this would be slower and more of a hassle when doing a really deep clean.
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Always bareback, I can't remember the last time I was fucked with a condom. Most guys don't need much convincing to fuck raw, but it rarely even comes up in conversation.
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I've got a range of different size Oxball Pigholes and they're great fun. I've used smaller ones for getting fucked through, and it's hot for a guy to shoot his load over it and watch it drip into my guts. Or I've used larger ones with other toys to gape my hole open. They're not cheap but good quality toys never are.
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As someone who's hole opens up easily I've only ever had a couple of tops 'complain' about it. The vast majority have enjoyed being able to slide right in and pound me as hard as they want. It also means they tend to last longer.
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Absolutely, I don't care what they look like, I just want to get fucked and bred. Some of the best fucks I've had have been from guys I wouldn't call attractive. -
I started at midnight as I was instructed by my keyholder (unfortunately they weren't around to lock me in person). My Hera cage is perfectly comfortable and having slept 3 nights in it now I'm getting used to it and not waking up so much.
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Is bareback (and breeding) the new standard?
FallenLad replied to soki's topic in General Discussion
Honestly it's so rare that a guy even mentions condoms now. And most that do are easily convinced not to use one. -
I'm planning to stay locked aa long as possible this Locktober, with an amazing couple as keyholders. I did it last year and it was so enjoyable using a timer to keep track of how long I'd been locked. I had regular checks and inspections, but was also allowed to unlock for regular exercise and running. I hit my goal and got a delightfully slutty reward in early November.
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Might want to post the actual photos 😉
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I found chastity to be the most enjoyable solution to this "problem", especially as a bottom. It removes the temptation to cum, and makes it clear to the top(s) that you don't want to. With the right fitting cage, that's comfortable, I'll happily spend an entire evening getting fucked or playing with toys.
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Doggy is my favourite as I can take a hard pounding like that. But with the right guy then cowboy or missionary so I can can look in his eyes and touch his body.
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I nearly always wear a jock as it makes it clear I don't want my cock played with. Also frames my ass nicely.
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I like to keep it in for as long as I can. But I also love to watch it ooze out of my hole.
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Honestly, I think being able to self fist is less about how much your hole can take and move about how flexible you are. I've managed it a couple of times, but just found it uncomfortable for my wrist to bend that much. I'd rather use large toys, or even better get someone else to fist me.
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The only toys I use are medical grade silicon and I use x-lube and Slam Dunk grease. I've kept plugs in for hours and once slept with one in with no issues. I think the trick is not going super large and make sure you stay lubricated. Soreness seems to happen if things dry out.
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It's more phototoxicity, so like a bad sunburn - blisters, red skin, itching, etc. But from far less exposure than would normally cause those symptoms. A very small percentage of people are likely to have that. But it's a possible side effect with a number of antibiotics.
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It's worth mentioning that in a small percentage of people (about 3%) doxycycline can cause photosensitivity. So just be cautious if taking it consistently if on holiday in sunny climates. Or at least be sure to use sun screen if you do.
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For the bottoms: Do you enjoy geting fucked after you cum?
FallenLad replied to Whitebutt's topic in General Discussion
I prefer not to cum while being fucked (although I've had some amazing anal orgasms). It's one of the reasons I love being caged when hooking up, I get to focus purely on my hole and the sensations there. -
I'm almost a total bottom, and I'll always wear a jock (or something assless) when meeting. But day to day I'll wear hipsters as they're just more practical.
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I can't imagine a point where I'll ever stop wanting to get filled with cum. Whether that's from random hookups or a regular partner. But I also don't want that to be the only thing that defines me. While I'd love to be getting 20 loads a week I simply don't have the time required to get that (might be easier if I lived in a larger city). I can spend hours on a Friday night just trying to hookup a few times. Doing that every night would be exhausting and more often frustrating.
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While I'll usually start on all fours and prefer that, I've got no issues if the guy wants to turn me over. Obviously that's going to takeaway any anonymity from things but I don't really mind at that point. My 'role' as a cumdump is to get fucked and bred. If the guy wants me on my back to accomplish that then I'm not going to complain.
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Love verbal tops, but the caveat being they have to be good at it. Saying "you like that?" for the hundredth time just gets annoying. Also being 'clinical' in your dirty talk is a huge turn off. I once had a guy say "you like my penis in your rectum" and honestly it killed the moment for me.
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Just want to say that as someone who's been getting fisted for 10 years or so, EuRawBull's advice is perfect. His points about being sober are worth stressing. Plenty of people fist on chems, but fisting has such a potential for serious injury when not done properly that both parties need to be aware of what they're doing. I'll have a couple of drinks beforehand and use poppers. But I don't get drunk and I won't get fisted by someone who's clearly wasted or high. Getting experience with being fisted is a slow journey, and it's definitely best to take your time and learn gradually.
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For what to wear it helps to be a bit practical. While the idea of being encased in latex might be hot, you'll probably be a sweaty mess after 30mins. Just stick with a jockstrap and maybe a simple harness if that's your thing. If you're at bathhouse then they'll be showers so cleaning up isn't really going to be a challenge. And in regards to not picking up any other bugs.. well that's just goes with the territory of being a cumdump. You could look into DoxyPEP (see the sexual health forum here) which would reduce the risk of getting some STIs.
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